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My candid advice to the folks at their 20s is that, Honesty is NOT the best policy.

Advise them to japa

Martincorridon blackpantherxxx oya nahhh,you are in ya 40s, kindly give us young ones advice nah

Hamachi:
Men in their 30's and 40's what advice will yoi give to a 20 year old man today?

Are you a virgin?

Forget all these 2k/5k girls... Instead invest!

Take your 20sserious ,most importantly your association .it will definitely determine your future and make sure you achieve/acquire skill or whatever you want to get in your 20s.
Once you enter 40s,my dear it will only take the grace of God .

Dtruthspeaker:
If you are a virgin, Fear God and obey Him.See that thing called fornication, Run from am.

For virgin girls, know that non virgins are your worstest enemies. They must set you up to throw away your virginity including having you raped.

Now for virgin boys, if they can do this to virgin girls, why would they not throw themselves even freely to have you bleep them? Whether aunty, mama or married women, both too beautiful and ugly. All of them are coming for you. So don't think yourself lucky that women are pursuing. It is wolves that are pursuing you sheep.

So note this one in addition to the other ones people will tell you

..will konji allow them? 🙄

Countersam:
Forget all these 2k/5k girls... Instead invest!

..will konji allow them?

Owobulaw:
It your food like it's your medicine. Avoid drinking and smoking. Exercise daily. Maintain a good weight. Don't result to self medication. Always try to stay healthy

so na the only advice you get be this?
Just food and exercise?
No career goals?

israelmao:
My candid piece of advice to those in their 20's today is,to try and match their educational qualifications with marketable skills and focus more on the vitals of life rather than the trivials.

fredoooooo:
Face your education mak3 money and leave women alone

Now this is it

Chase the bag drastically before you chase love. If you not get it, forget about it . But honestly, don't play with your 20's whilst chasing the bag. Love is a distraction and will change your focus.

Hamachi:
Men in their 30's and 40's what advice will yoi give to a 20 year old man today?

No matter the advice you get here,you must make mistakes that you would learn from. Make those mistakes earlier so you have more time to learn from them. See the world as a battlefield where only the strongest survives.Everyone is putting themselves first so you also put yourself first. Do not waste money,make every money work for you. The best investment you can make is on yourself. Be selfish with your time and resources.Trust nobody. Be your own best friend,learn to enjoy your company. Embrace solitude,there are special lessons and wisdom only solitude can provide. In this phase,clarity is granted. You see people for what they truly are. Avoid religion,that shit will mess up your mind. Do not take women seriously cos they are unserious people. Keep your winnings and losses private.if people know you are winning they envy you,if they know you are losing,they mock you. Trust me, you would not want to be envied or mocked. Stay mysterious and dangerous.

MICHEALADEX:
Impregnate a woman and have a child or more, eget why

Very true.
I regret not doing this earlier

1.Focus on your studies and make sure you at least graduate with solid grades.

2.If you have other talents nurture and grow them.

3.Stay away from drugs,cigarettes and excess alcohol.

4.If you must womanise,do so in moderation and do it with a sense of responsibility.

5.Strive as much as possible to be independent before you hit 30.

6.Settle down with a woman whose love for you is greater than the love you have for her.Don’t make mistake in marriage, it will break you.

7.You should start having kids before you hit 35.


8.Be conscious of your spiritually and know that all good things comes from our creator.

Hamachi:
Men in their 30's and 40's what advice will yoi give to a 20 year old man today?

live your life to fullest, howbeit responsible. What will be will be

digitaliz:
Whatever we may tell you is what you just have heard before now.
At 20 you are now an adult and will make your own mistakes. It is on you to clean them up and continue in life.

At 40+ we are still leaning on life too and we don't believe we are qualified to model you after our instructions. We are all in a race to the end of time

If you ask me again.
Face life, embrace your challenges and over come them with the wisdom you have acquired in 20 years

this is very nice but you copied it from AI

Hamachi:
Men in their 30's and 40's what advice will yoi give to a 20 year old man today?

1. Take care of your health!
2. Be financially literate!
3. Specifically learn about Passive Income and how to earn multiple streams of it.
4. Above All secure your life and eternity in Christ Jesus!

Like buju Benson would say "wetin go make me shine my teeth go be money my haters no get work".
Success is the only thing you owe the universe it's your greatest revenge for everything. Never joke with what puts food on your table

Don't give your strength to women.....
Work from scratch to sky scrapper.
No short cut.

Please make enough money, leave women out of it till you make money..the heart breaks and disappointments won’t matters..the cheddars will cover the cost

i have a lot to say on this topic, but i will be brief

In your twenties always have intentions before embarking on anything

Learn a skill before you go to college.

Make sure in your teenage or early twenties you have started making little money.

That thing or activity that gave you that money, turn it into a passion and sell your hustle to people, because the earlier you start. the more grounded you become going into the future as people know you to that skill or hustle.

There is no bad hustle as long as you are breaking no law.

Nobody is coming to save you. No help is coming from anywhere. You are all that you have got.

Children are loved unconditionally, women are loved unconditionally but a man is loved by only what he can offer.

Take the risk of having child early.

Japaaaa oOoOO if you can. Don't sleep on this if you have stem course

walk out is very important

Never marry any girl that broke with you no matter the reconciliation unless the father becomes Dangote, governor or president.

The comments tho, some of those dishing out advice here are still figuring it out in life cos no amount of money one will have and be satisfied with it...

However, whatever you do in life, put God first (prayer is key) he's your creator, talk to him

Secondly, exercise, don't live a sedentary lifestyle, it helps no one

Thirdly, if you can avoid alcohol, smoking, betting: please do...

Fourthly, learn either soft or hard skill, it will help you.

Fifthly, do not force a relationship be it with women or men.

In addition; be open minded.

Focus and stop chasing women upandan.

Hamachi:
Men in their 30's and 40's what advice will yoi give to a 20 year old man today?

Just be yourself and develop yourself. Women will do the chase

Pray haaaaarddd. Don't think too much no matter what. Keep developing and investing in urself. And lastly ball hard! Club, drink no smoke, chop nkwobi, isi ewu and every. Once ur 35 quit alcohol. Leave opueh if u can. These girls there opueh na destiny diverter.

Life will test you, just be ready

Don't make the fatal mistake of comparing yourself with others.

When you are original and pursue your unique goals, you will be admired and loved by some and envied and hated by others.

This is normal in life.

Women run after successful men unsuccessful men run after women!.

Be successful!