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GravityDefier:
I saw the opposite of this topic on F.P today.

According to the drop, this your one cent here as well.

they have nothing to advice younger women oo

women hate themselves

femi4:
Make your own wealth, stop seeing men has a gateway to wealth

Oga Femi even writes with "H Factor".

Izorite.

RevenuesBoost:
Get all the certificates you can get in your teens and early 20s because when you get married in your late 20s or early 30s, you can't subject yourself to too much school stress.

Do not get so relaxed after Marriage, still do that which you love doing, and follow up with your life plan.
Keep developing yourself, never rely totally on your husband for everything, build your own riches, a good man will love it when he isn't carrying all the financial burden of the family alone.

Cool chick here. God bless you richly.

As a man with no sister i will advice them to keep shaking their water water nyansh on all social media platform

To me as a woman, not all women are marriable. Husband is everywhere you go, they ain't scarce, they're only afraid to marry the wrong woman.

Therefore, my fellow women, groom yourself and have good character, be industrious. Leave hookup.....e no dey help. Also know that our time is like the morning flower, we fade with age.

creolehunt:
Oga Femi even writes with "H Factor".

Izorite.

Haba Kai nowwww!!!!😂😂

Melagros:
COMRADES, I hope kobojunkie has something to say on the subject matter, let's hear from him

Lol
That one no wise.
He go come waff Norma Norma.

Advise is do not allow konji to hold you

Capernum:
Learn the rudiments of womanhood and start to pattern your life around it.

Learn to be valuable and submissive at the same time.

Avoid feminists like a plague if you plan to have a good home later.

Don't keep company with loose girls changing boyfriends life undies.

Be a strong women as much as you can but understand your vulnerability as a woman is part of your strength.

Pray, plan, prepare to marry right. That's the most important thing for your life.

Be spiritual, be born again but don't be religiously foolish.

Your greatest investment is in your kind of spirit and character. Get the right spirit and let your character be noble.

But you aren't a woman.
You and your advice are disqualified

Embrace your femininity. Do not fight it. You score no points competing with men or other women, rather understand yourself and set your own standards that you should strive to attain.

Take care of yourself particularly your mental state. Learn to be content. Be mindful when choosing a life partner. Be happy. Be free. Be happy

Thread for men, men commented.
Thread for women and even a man had to change his gender to be FTC _more reason his advice sounds very mechanical rather than practical. The rest are still hovering around.

Something is definitely (mentally) wrong with you lots on here.

DrAda:
Embrace your femininity. Do not fight it. You score no points competing with men or other women, rather understand yourself and set your own standards that you should strive to attain.

Take care of yourself particularly your mental state. Learn to be content. Be mindful when choosing a life partner. Be happy. Be free. Be happy

Short but heavy words. 👏👏

Women left the group chat!
Single women in their newspaper 📰🗞️ stage are leaving in regrets and want to employ more female Pablo in their communities so that they wouldn't be alone in their quest of regrets

Why would they give their fellow female advice?

saphiere:
see how men till take over this thread.

I am still in my 20s but I will advise.

1. Do not marry a man because he is ready. Marry a man you love. Better to laugh in a keke than cry in a Lambo.
2. Marry go into marriage if you are not financially independent. Love if sweet but money maintain a home/marriage. If your husband is the only one providing up to salt and maggi, my dear, that home can never be sweet.
3. Do know discuss your relationship with your friends. There are so many things your friends shouldn't know about your boyfriend/husband.
4. Respect your man.
5. Put your self development first before him. If you do not develop he will dump you for another woman.
6. Take care of your body.
7. By all means try and stay independent of your parents before 25.
8. never open your legs for any man. \most man lose interest the moment they nag you.
9. Be a listener than a talker.
10. Always carry money with you whenever you go to visit any man or going for a date.
11. Don't make your love for a man be more than your love for yourself.
12. Try and have at least a skill or a business even if you have a certificate.
13. By all means try and go to school and graduate.
14. Never take back a cheat.
15. Make your health a priority.
16. Do not bend your rules for any man.
17. By all means have at least a Love Machine. You can get the cheaper one from Jumia. I have vendors too.
18. Always have your money. Whatever he gives you should be a bonus.
19. Do not date a man you are older than unless he is from a wealthy home.
20. By all means never give birth if you don't have any source of income.

Keep growing kiddie, only elders give advice.

Work on building a career or a viable trade. Unless your husband is as rich as Jim Ovia or Otedola, don't sit down in a provisions shop in the name of business. Get a corporate job. If you want to go the trade route, learn a trade and learn it well.

Be financially independent before marriage and let it continue in marriage. If you smell any iota of insécurity in a man, run away from him. Any man that has a problem with your financial/career life would not bring you happiness in marriage.

If you must marry, just know that what man needs is Peace. Let him find peace around you. The country is already hard for a common man in Nigeria, he can only come back to a peaceful home after day to day Hussle/struggle

Houseontherock1:
Go to school, get certifications, establish yourself...calm down and marry well...marry a man that'll be your companion because in the end, you need companionship. If you love money and fancy things, please marry a man that can provide them, even if you are comfortable with your personal income-you will likely get irritated if you have to provide most things for yourself. Enjoy life but don't overdo it...life really is so much fun if you are with the right partner! So much 😊

get irritated for buying things for yourself? LADIES, IS IT TRUE? IF YOUR HUSBAND CAN GET THINGS YOU NEED FOR YOU AT A MOMENT, YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND HE HAS BEEN DOING IT BEFORE AND WITH TIME, HE WILL CATCH UP BUT WHY GET IRRITATED FOR GOD SAKE

aktolly54:
get irritated for buying things for yourself? LADIES, IS IT TRUE? IF YOUR HUSBAND CAN GET THINGS YOU NEED FOR YOU AT A MOMENT, YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND HE HAS BEEN DOING IT BEFORE AND WITH TIME, HE WILL CATCH UP BUT WHY GET IRRITATED FOR GOD SAKE

Nonsense! If a man cannot afford a woman, he should have no business with that woman at all. 🥱🥱🥱

For that woman to continue, she would need to have a legal contract drafted to ensure that the man not only pays her what is due her but also ensures that not a single dime is left unpaid after the grace period that is specified by her in the contract. 🥱

RevenuesBoost:
Get all the certificates you can get in your teens and early 20s because when you get married in your late 20s or early 30s, you can't subject yourself to too much school stress.

Do not get so relaxed after Marriage, still do that which you love doing, and follow up with your life plan.
Keep developing yourself, never rely totally on your husband for everything, build your own riches, a good man will love it when he isn't carrying all the financial burden of the family alone.

Marrying Kate 20s is wrong ..it's bad !

bende7t:
Hmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!! KoboJ, u again!!!
Ladies make una no listen to her ooO.
Na regret, toxidity, bitterness towards the male gender she dey always preach.
Tomorrow, her type will want her male child to marry a homely and submissive woman.
Karma is a bitch don't 4get koboj

I can't believe someone wrote this ... bitterness that I saw there is legendary

hatchy:
To me as a woman, not all women are marriable. Husband is everywhere you go, they ain't scarce, they're only afraid to marry the wrong woman.

Therefore, my fellow women, groom yourself and have good character, be industrious. Leave hookup.....e no dey help. Also know that our time is like the morning flower, we fade with age.

Respect queen of a true kingdom

DrAda:
Embrace your femininity. Do not fight it. You score no points competing with men or other women, rather understand yourself and set your own standards that you should strive to attain.

Take care of yourself particularly your mental state. Learn to be content. Be mindful when choosing a life partner. Be happy. Be free. Be happy

Respect queen of a true kingdom

Women supporting women squad nor see advice for young ones, that show all they care about is chaos.

As man never marry chaos into your life.

GravityDefier:
I saw the opposite of this topic on F.P today.

According to the drop, this your one cent here as well.

Women no go ever tell you truth

GravityDefier:
I saw the opposite of this topic on F.P today.

According to the drop, this your one cent here as well.

Make sure you're self sufficient cos money is very important. It's the only weapon men have over us so get your quids and be ready to be independent.
Don't depend on men.
Love may come early but it must be worth it before you go for it.
Beware of men. They have sweet mouth but when you have your money, they're powerless over you.

I opened the thread to confirm my bias: we would have more male commentators have a say. Interestingly, most of these male commentators did not comment on the previous thread.

bigdawg7:
Single mothers are a menace to the society

The useless men who made them single mother are a cancer to the society.Wonen must deal with men the way men deal with women.

Feminist theory. You can't seek for equal right with men and expect to be happily married. You won't enjoy your relationship with your man. If you got no respect, forget it. No man will want to marry his fellow man except gay.

Goodlady:
Make sure you're self sufficient cos money is very important. It's the only weapon men have over us so get your quids and be ready to be independent.
Don't depend on men.
Love may come early but it must be worth it before you go for it.
Beware of men. They have sweet mouth but when you have your money, they're powerless over you.