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Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Silentgroper(m): 7:13am On Dec 21, 2025
Onegai:
Abeg MODs, lock this thread or delete it.

Because there is no point to it.

You asked women to advise themselves and jobless men tied wrapper, put chewing stick in their mouths, left their OWN thread and came to poke their noses in women's business.

This is why it can be so hard to respect our men, because their Oyinbo and Asian counterparts would have avoided this thread or be silently reading. Their self-worth isn't tied to whom they can oppress, because they have created value globally.

Strong, capable men stay out of women's business unless they're invited to partake.

Brethren, please go to your thread and speak to your brothers. This is no place for you. Unless you're gender-fluid (and I will tag all the men who commented here to the Health threads on Pregnancy and Giving Birth, as una be woman nau cheesy)

Pocahontas, their behavior is pathetic.
Give your gaddem advice and move on .. Jesus Christ!!

😕😕😕
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:14am On Dec 21, 2025
ManknowThyself:
Yes I concur but my clarity and intuitions level are strong. People find it difficult to pretend around me cos I see beyond the mask.
All it takes is 1
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:15am On Dec 21, 2025
Silentgroper:
Give your gaddem advice and move on .. Jesus Christ!!

😕😕😕
But she is correct.
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Silentgroper(m): 7:17am On Dec 21, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
But she is correct.
There is something called ignore , isn't it??
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:23am On Dec 21, 2025
Silentgroper:
There is something called ignore , isn't it??
Yes, but... its wrong that it is men who have dominated it. Anyway, the women were not even talking at all as the thread has run for 3dsys
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Silentgroper(m): 7:25am On Dec 21, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Yes, but... its wrong that it is men who have dominated it. Anyway, the women were not even talking at all as the thread has run for 3dsys
Good observation...
.. they had enough time to get a grip on the thread...
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by ezra1990: 7:25am On Dec 21, 2025
Lol...why you dey paint the truth...make their husbands run DNA test because women can't be trusted...wetin concern nurses for this matter now?
FineUsername:
Omo, marry early (18-22) tongue


Make sure you learn a skill, bag a degree and remain intact. grin


Remember to remind your hubby to run a DNA test immediately after the birth of your offspring(s). Dem nurses dey change children for hospital. cheesy
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by RealNiggaDee(m): 7:27am On Dec 21, 2025
1. Make sure you keep like 12 boyfriends , assigning role to each one of them. If u collect like 5k each from all 12 , you'd never be broke

2. Make sure to have done at least 14 abortions before you turn 25 .

3. Never submit to any man , submissiveness isn't feminine , instead dominate any man that comes your way .

4. Dont learn any valuable skills , you've got a valuable asset between your thighs , simps will forever pay to have a taste .

5. When You're 35-38 ,fake repentance by giving your life to Christ and attending church , one or more SIMP will eventually marry you and treat you as a goddess

You can never lose this game . You were born to win
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by doncartel: 7:33am On Dec 21, 2025
All ladies should aim to achieve financial independence by age 30. Imagine having to depend on an incarnate for your daily necessities and weekly luxuries.
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:34am On Dec 21, 2025
Silentgroper:
Good observation...
.. they had enough time to get a grip on the thread...
grin grin grin
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by ManknowThyself(m): 7:43am On Dec 21, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
All it takes is 1
When you are authentic to who you are not what you are, real intuition exposes all.

When you role with what you are: that's pride and you need performance to keep the ego. It will drain and destroy your empire.

When you role with who you are: that's authentication of your soul, you easily read people and energies.
Most times I pretend to be a fool for people to think they are smart around me but when the clarity exposes them they call me dangerous.

Intelligence is when you understand something and pretend to be fool of it.

My silence is golden, that's why I'm calm , listen more and talkless around fake people.
I only talk when necessary except around people I know truly care about me.
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Dtruthspeaker: 7:46am On Dec 21, 2025
ManknowThyself:
When you are authentic to who you are not what you are, real intuition exposes all.

When you role with what you are: that's pride and it performance to keep the ego. It will drain and destroy your emi.

When you role with who you are: that's authentication of your soul, you easily read people and energies.
Most times I pretend to be a fool for people to think they are smart around me but when the clarity exposes them they call me dangerous.

Intelligence is when you understand something and pretend to be fool of it.

My silence is golden, that's why I'm calm , listen more and talkless around fake people.
I only talk when necessary except around people I know truly care about me.
I understand, but... Yourself can fail you ooo and it will fail you. Remember, you are not the first to do this
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by ManknowThyself(m): 7:54am On Dec 21, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
I understand, but... Yourself can fail you ooo and it will fail you. Remember, you are not the first to do this
When you guide the intuitions with divine direction, you never fail. Clarity forbids pride, ego and emotions. All needs is humility, realness, kindness, respect, discipline and fear of God.

Have never failed with my clarity from God, even in land of failures my clarity is always successful.

All it takes is God!!!!!!!
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Dtruthspeaker: 8:01am On Dec 21, 2025
ManknowThyself:
When you guide the intuitions with divine direction, you never fail. Clarity forbids pride, ego and emotions. All needs is humility, realness, kindness, respect, discipline and fear of God.

Have never failed with my clarity from God, even in land of failures my clarity is always successful.

All it takes is God!!!!!!!
Ok, then, have a great day
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by ManknowThyself(m): 8:02am On Dec 21, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Ok, then, have a great day
You too your day is blessed man
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Adebisi444: 8:14am On Dec 21, 2025
saphiere:
see how men till take over this thread.

I am still in my 20s but I will advise.

1. Do not marry a man because he is ready. Marry a man you love. Better to laugh in a keke than cry in a Lambo.
2. Marry go into marriage if you are not financially independent. Love if sweet but money maintain a home/marriage. If your husband is the only one providing up to salt and maggi, my dear, that home can never be sweet.
3. Do know discuss your relationship with your friends. There are so many things your friends shouldn't know about your boyfriend/husband.
4. Respect your man.
5. Put your self development first before him. If you do not develop he will dump you for another woman.
6. Take care of your body.
7. By all means try and stay independent of your parents before 25.
8. never open your legs for any man. \most man lose interest the moment they nag you.
9. Be a listener than a talker.
10. Always carry money with you whenever you go to visit any man or going for a date.
11. Don't make your love for a man be more than your love for yourself.
12. Try and have at least a skill or a business even if you have a certificate.
13. By all means try and go to school and graduate.
14. Never take back a cheat.
15. Make your health a priority.
16. Do not bend your rules for any man.
17. By all means have at least a Love Machine. You can get the cheaper one from Jumia. I have vendors too.
18. Always have your money. Whatever he gives you should be a bonus.
19. Do not date a man you are older than unless he is from a wealthy home.
20. By all means never give birth if you don't have any source of income.
These are junks. Absolutely thrash.
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Dtruthspeaker: 8:17am On Dec 21, 2025
ManknowThyself:
You too your day is blessed man
Thanks man
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by RevenuesBoost(f): 8:24am On Dec 21, 2025
bende7t:
Cool chick here. God bless you richly.
Thanks 🥰

Amen 🙏
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by RevenuesBoost(f): 8:24am On Dec 21, 2025
ManknowThyself:
Respect Queen of a true kingdom
Thanks 🥰
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Kalulu44: 8:46am On Dec 21, 2025
saphiere:
see how men till take over this thread.

I am still in my 20s but I will advise.

1. Do not marry a man because he is ready. Marry a man you love. Better to laugh in a keke than cry in a Lambo.
2. Marry go into marriage if you are not financially independent. Love if sweet but money maintain a home/marriage. If your husband is the only one providing up to salt and maggi, my dear, that home can never be sweet.
3. Do know discuss your relationship with your friends. There are so many things your friends shouldn't know about your boyfriend/husband.
4. Respect your man.
5. Put your self development first before him. If you do not develop he will dump you for another woman.
6. Take care of your body.
7. By all means try and stay independent of your parents before 25.
8. never open your legs for any man. \most man lose interest the moment they nag you.
9. Be a listener than a talker.
10. Always carry money with you whenever you go to visit any man or going for a date.
11. Don't make your love for a man be more than your love for yourself.
12. Try and have at least a skill or a business even if you have a certificate.
13. By all means try and go to school and graduate.
14. Never take back a cheat.
15. Make your health a priority.
16. Do not bend your rules for any man.
17. By all means have at least a Love Machine. You can get the cheaper one from Jumia. I have vendors too.
18. Always have your money. Whatever he gives you should be a bonus.
19. Do not date a man you are older than unless he is from a wealthy home.
20. By all means never give birth if you don't have any source of income.
Lolz! Shaking my heads to some of your numbers
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by CHIEFCHICKEN: 8:57am On Dec 21, 2025
Don't do Love, do hookup so that you can be able to buy iPhone and also decorate your room
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by CHIEFCHICKEN: 8:59am On Dec 21, 2025
Luckybelt:
Marry God fearing and hard working man, even if he doesn’t have much money. Support and pray for him to be prosperous.
Why can't she pray for her own self to be prosperous if the prayers work?
Imagine knowing a drug works if you use it, but you chose not to use it.
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Kalulu44: 8:59am On Dec 21, 2025
Onegai:
Abeg MODs, lock this thread or delete it.

Because there is no point to it.

You asked women to advise themselves and jobless men tied wrapper, put chewing stick in their mouths, left their OWN thread and came to poke their noses in women's business.

This is why it can be so hard to respect our men, because their Oyinbo and Asian counterparts would have avoided this thread or be silently reading. Their self-worth isn't tied to whom they can oppress, because they have created value globally.

Strong, capable men stay out of women's business unless they're invited to partake.

Brethren, please go to your thread and speak to your brothers. This is no place for you. Unless you're gender-fluid (and I will tag all the men who commented here to the Health threads on Pregnancy and Giving Birth, as una be woman nau cheesy)

Pocahontas, their behavior is pathetic.
So what advice did you give now?
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by Kalulu44: 9:02am On Dec 21, 2025
pocohantas:
Very pathetic. I don't know why they see the need to constantly speak on female issues. Their thread is 6pages long and they left it to rush frontpage here. They don't mind coming on the Pregnancy thread if you let them. They will come tell you how their mothers climbed mountain with twin pregnancy.
Give your own advice o and leave story for market women
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by bukatyne(f): 9:10am On Dec 21, 2025
Thank you ladies for the advise.

Keep it up and while at it, get a sex change smiley
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by DeGLORIOUS: 9:14am On Dec 21, 2025
It's not compulsory to come to terms with reality. Your thoughts about reality can't change it from being the reality. Keep it up using the big brain.
Kobojunkie:
That is a general misconception; many of the feminists you know are actually happily married. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Again, wrong! Not all men are tiny-brained. Some actually understand what a partnership means and how to effectively implement it in their relationships with their women. 🥱🥱🥱

Learn to speak for yourself alone in these things. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by pocohantas(f): 9:43am On Dec 21, 2025
bukatyne:
Thank you ladies for the advise.

Keep it up and while at it, get a sex change smiley
Hahaha! Problem is, ladies ain't that interested in their own matter.
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by pocohantas(f): 9:45am On Dec 21, 2025
Gerrard59:
I opened the thread to confirm my bias: we would have more male commentators have a say. Interestingly, most of these male commentators did not comment on the previous thread.
It doesn't provide them as much adrenaline rush or female comments to jump on in attack.
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by kullozone(m): 10:17am On Dec 21, 2025
Them say "women" some mumu honney guys still no gree allow them comment.

Naija men, we always disgrace ourselves because of women. Bunch of emotionally dependent fcks. I used to think women were emotionally dependent but now, I don see am say na we as men dey too needy.
I'll stop supporting my fellow guys in any matter because most guys no really get brain... Only preek
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by femi4: 10:43am On Dec 21, 2025
creolehunt:
Oga Femi even writes with "H Factor".

Izorite.
na typo grin
Re: Women In Your 30's & 40's, What Advice Will You Give To A 20 Year Old Wom Today? by ogawisdom(m): 12:09pm On Dec 21, 2025
GravityDefier:
I saw the opposite of this topic on F.P today.

According to the drop, this your one cent here as well.
Asha wo no be work, weather you can it hook up, runs, friends with benefit, sugar daddy. dont even start because it makes one lazy and hate legit hustle. Imagine making 100k in one night how can such a person agree to work legitly again angry
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