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Houseontherock1:
Go to school, get certifications, establish yourself...calm down and marry well...marry a man that'll be your companion because in the end, you need companionship. If you love money and fancy things, please marry a man that can provide them, even if you are comfortable with your personal income-you will likely get irritated if you have to provide most things for yourself. Enjoy life but don't overdo it...life really is so much fun if you are with the right partner! So much 😊

Capernum:
Learn the rudiments of womanhood and start to pattern your life around it.

Learn to be valuable and submissive at the same time.

Avoid feminists like a plague if you plan to have a good home later.

Don't keep company with loose girls changing boyfriends life undies.

Be a strong women as much as you can but understand your vulnerability as a woman is part of your strength.

Pray, plan, prepare to marry right. That's the most important thing for your life.

Be spiritual, be born again but don't be religiously foolish.

Your greatest investment is in your kind of spirit and character. Get the right spirit and let your character be noble.

saphiere:
see how men till take over this thread.

I am still in my 20s but I will advise.

1. Do not marry a man because he is ready. Marry a man you love. Better to laugh in a keke than cry in a Lambo.
2. Marry go into marriage if you are not financially independent. Love if sweet but money maintain a home/marriage. If your husband is the only one providing up to salt and maggi, my dear, that home can never be sweet.
3. Do know discuss your relationship with your friends. There are so many things your friends shouldn't know about your boyfriend/husband.
4. Respect your man.
5. Put your self development first before him. If you do not develop he will dump you for another woman.
6. Take care of your body.
7. By all means try and stay independent of your parents before 25.
8. never open your legs for any man. \most man lose interest the moment they nag you.
9. Be a listener than a talker.
10. Always carry money with you whenever you go to visit any man or going for a date.
11. Don't make your love for a man be more than your love for yourself.
12. Try and have at least a skill or a business even if you have a certificate.
13. By all means try and go to school and graduate.
14. Never take back a cheat.
15. Make your health a priority.
16. Do not bend your rules for any man.
17. By all means have at least a Love Machine. You can get the cheaper one from Jumia. I have vendors too.
18. Always have your money. Whatever he gives you should be a bonus.
19. Do not date a man you are older than unless he is from a wealthy home.
20. By all means never give birth if you don't have any source of income.

17. By all means have at least a Love Machine. You can get the cheaper one from Jumia. I have vendors too.
19. Do not date a man you are older than unless he is from a wealthy home.

DeGLORIOUS:
✓ It's not compulsory to come to terms with reality. Your thoughts about reality can't change it from being the reality. Keep it up using the big brain.,

Luckybelt:
Then you are wrong. Women are jewels. If I hate women I ll tell them just to go and marry a rich man not minding God fearing trait

Allthelight:
are you a woman?

ezra1990:
Lol...why you dey paint the truth...make their husbands run DNA test because women can't be trusted...wetin concern nurses for this matter now?

GravityDefier:
I saw the opposite of this topic on F.P today.

According to the drop, this your one cent here as well.

saphiere:
see how men till take over this thread.

I am still in my 20s but I will advise.

1. Do not marry a man because he is ready. Marry a man you love. Better to laugh in a keke than cry in a Lambo.
2. Marry go into marriage if you are not financially independent. Love if sweet but money maintain a home/marriage. If your husband is the only one providing up to salt and maggi, my dear, that home can never be sweet.
3. Do know discuss your relationship with your friends. There are so many things your friends shouldn't know about your boyfriend/husband.
4. Respect your man.
5. Put your self development first before him. If you do not develop he will dump you for another woman.
6. Take care of your body.
7. By all means try and stay independent of your parents before 25.
8. never open your legs for any man. \most man lose interest the moment they nag you.
9. Be a listener than a talker.
10. Always carry money with you whenever you go to visit any man or going for a date.
11. Don't make your love for a man be more than your love for yourself.
12. Try and have at least a skill or a business even if you have a certificate.
13. By all means try and go to school and graduate.
14. Never take back a cheat.
15. Make your health a priority.
16. Do not bend your rules for any man.
17. By all means have at least a Love Machine. You can get the cheaper one from Jumia. I have vendors too.
18. Always have your money. Whatever he gives you should be a bonus.
19. Do not date a man you are older than unless he is from a wealthy home.
20. By all means never give birth if you don't have any source of income.

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! If a man cannot afford a woman, he should have no business with that woman at all. 🥱🥱🥱

For that woman to continue, she would need to have a legal contract drafted to ensure that the man not only pays her what is due her but also ensures that not a single dime is left unpaid after the grace period that is specified by her in the contract. 🥱

Silentgroper:
Your female cousins nko?

aktolly54:
so if a man rich enough to marry five wives and buy house for each one of them and marry all of them then man can do that? Since we are talking about "AFFORD" this moment

pocohantas:
Hahaha! Problem is, ladies ain't that interested in their own matter.

Kobojunkie:
how much is a house that you would think it should be all a woman's time, body and energy should be Worth? If a man gave you a house so you will .marry him and live at home for him, will you be satisfied with that to want to dedicate your life to living for him and his dreams? 🥱🥱🥱

aktolly54:
✓ "afford " is the keyword here. If Regina Daniels no want, she won't marry Ned. It's not by force, if one woman no want stay for polygamy rich lifestyle she can leave.

Kobojunkie:
You forgot to reason that the price is determined by the one to be afforded and not the one doing the paying.

Part of the reason why Ned married Regina while she was still a child has to do with her not really knowing or understanding her worth at that time. He too advantage of her naivete to take her only to dump her after she began to come to the realization that she was worth more than life as a handbag for an old man at that . 🥱🥱🥱

aktolly54:
J it doesn't matter, if you no gree million of lady go gree once a man can afford it. Thousand of ladies want pa ned to see them, maybe he never ready to see them. Once a man can afford 10 wives, he should go for available and READY LADIES

CandidNotes:
1. There is a consequence for EVERY ACTION, good or bad. Immediately or in the future.

2. Wife not cook, wife, not maid is a ridiculous ideology; it’s a woman’s responsibility to NURTURE HER FAMILY and she should do it WITH PRIDE.

3. Don’t waste your time fighting men over who is the head of THE HOME. Your husband is THE HEAD OF YOUR HOME. Every other man around you is the head of HIS OWN HOME…

4. Sex is spiritual; life is spiritual. The Netflix and chill you are doing with that guy today, will complicate your life in the future…

5. Virginity is not old fashioned; REAL MEN will be over the moon, with a virgin wife. They’ll respect and treasure you for the rest of your life. By the way, they’ll boast to friends and family about your virginity and those people too would respect you for it…

6. MAKE YOUR OWN MONEY; if you want your husband’s respect, if you want to prevent side chicks, if you want to secure your children and your future, if you want your man to be IN AWE OF YOU, MAKE YOUR OWN MONEY…

7. Finally, but most importantly, know God, walk with Him, trust in Him. E get why…

Merry100:
Can you name ten politicians or billionaires, anywhere in the world, who married virgin?

If "real men" to you are just the average Nigerian men you meet on the street hyping virginity, then I hope you are not being delusional.

Virginity is simply a Biblical value, but it is not a relationship advantage. Quit assuming it guarantees a good husband. If not handled wisely, it can even become a disadvantage.

Real men value women who are confident, intelligent, and accomplished.

Cooking is not wrong, and it may be necessary in some homes, but it should not be treated as the ultimate measure of a woman. Not cooking does not send anyone to hell, nor does it destroy a woman's happiness or her home.

As the saying goes, another man's food is another man's poison.

Some men do not even want wives who cook. A friend once joked, "If I marry you, I wouldn't let you bring this your fine skin into the kitchen." When another man intruded and tried to impose his baseless standards, my friend replied, "When you marry, you can build a bedroom for your wife in the kitchen; but don't tell me how to run my own home."

Families need room to breathe. Many relationship problems are fueled by outsiders and their expectations.

I have even seen men complain that, despite hiring chefs and maids to help their wives, their wives still stress themselves too much.

CandidNotes:
if this makes you sleep well at night, knock yourself out!