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Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by steadygo(op):
Many times, we argue and argue about Nigeria’s problems without talking about where many of those problems started. Yes—Nigeria has made plenty of bad decisions since Independence. But what laid the groundwork for so much of the dysfunction in the first place?

Two big forces: the transatlantic slave trade and British colonialism.

To understand the scale of the damage, you have to picture the numbers and picture how small Africa’s population was at the time. Nigeria is over 230 million people today. But as recently as 1900, all of Africa combined was estimated to be around 140 million. During the height of the slave trade, the region we now call Nigeria is estimated to have been about 12 million people spread across different societies and kingdoms.

Now imagine this: over 2 million people taken as slaves from what we call Nigeria today—and likely more when you account for those who never even made it to the coast to be sold. That’s around 20% of the population. And it wasn’t a random 20%—it was disproportionately young, able-bodied males as that is what the slave traders sought the most. Imagine, young men who are essential to any society's productivity and development. Indeed they kidnapped so many men, our societies became mostly women for periods of time.

Next, consider how societies across the region responded to Europe’s massive demand for slaves. Yes, there were wars before the transatlantic trade and forms of slavery already existed. But the Europeans scaled the demand to an entirely different level along with putting high prices on human beings. As selling people became one of the most profitable businesses, violence went from an occasional occurrence and became a part of the economy. Wars, raiding, kidnapping was frequent and insecurity became normal. For centuries, entire communities had to reorganize their priorities around defense or recovering from damages as opposed to investing in growth. Indeed, things were so bad there are reports of people being scared to go out and work due to fear of being kidnapped.

And then, after centuries of destabilization and we had finally become so weak from being driven to live in a war zone, it was time for colonialism.

British rule didn’t "create Nigeria” as a project for Nigerians to flourish; it created an administration for efficient control. It fused many distinct peoples into one political unit simply for convenience, concentrated power at the center, and organized the economy around extraction. Even the infrastructure priorities reflected it—routes that made it easier to move cash crops and minerals to ports mattered more than building deep internal industrial capacity.

The design has not disappeared after Independence, it has mutated. You can see it in how our economy still rewards exporting raw materials and buying back finished goods. We sell crude cheap, then import refined fuel at a premium price. The real profits stack up where processing, technology, shipping, finance, and insurance happen which is outside our borders— while we at home carry the instability, the unemployment, and the currency inflation at home. That is the colonial logic only without their flags: an extraction-based structure that keeps development dependent and value creation elsewhere.

So yes, Nigeria has made mistakes. But the playing field was damaged long before our Independence—first by centuries of population loss and insecurity that kept resetting development, followed by a colonial system of control and extraction and it's current form we face today. If we want real progress, we have to talk honestly about the origins, not just the symptoms.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by ebukal67x: 12:06pm On Dec 27, 2025
This is an interesting take on the subject. But I think the focus should be more on how we fix the present and not so much on the past.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by helinues:
Lies. All the Nigeria problems started just in 2023. That's what the confused opposition want us to believe
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by Salewa97: 12:25pm On Dec 27, 2025
Since you guys are always interested in blaming others for your predicament, kindly continue blaming the British for your failure to develop your region.

When would you start holding yourself responsible for your own actions or inactions?
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by PulaPower: 1:03pm On Dec 27, 2025
British rule didn’t "create Nigeria” as a project for Nigerians to flourish; it created an administration for efficient control.

But the British didn’t put us under federalism. They left us with a regionalism system of government and it was really working then for viable regions..

Blame the greediness of the likes of Agunyi Ironsi. He scrapped our regionalism out of greed for power. He wanted to control the whole of Nigeria but today, they rest don become history..

The British would have been wrong if they put us under federalism..
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by steadygo(op): 1:30pm On Dec 27, 2025
ebukal67x:
This is an interesting take on the subject. But I think the focus should be more on how we fix the present and not so much on the past.
I agree but without understanding how we got here, it is difficult to understand our particular problems and without understanding that, it is hard if not even impossible to find the best path forward.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by steadygo(op):
Salewa97:
Since you guys are always interested in blaming others for your predicament, kindly continue blaming the British for your failure to develop your region.

When would you start holding yourself responsible for your own actions or inactions?
I did not say Nigerians do not bear any responsibility. Go back and read my last paragraph. Of course, we are responsible for solving the problems we are left with today but it is very silly to pretend history didn't shape the system we are currently living in. And it is false to claim the British had nothing to do with the underdevelopment of our region when they played a major role. Even those of the British who are experts on the subject will acknowledge the massive disaster they caused in the region. Ironically, it is often Nigerians that rush to absolve the British of any accountability.

How does imagining the British were not involved in the underdevelopment of our region or that our history is different from what it is, help us? We should be taking a serious look at our history, understanding the root our problems and using that to draw REAL, precise, effective solutions that can help us in the present day. That is how we take accountability.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by trutharena: 1:55pm On Dec 27, 2025
Valid points.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by steadygo(op): 4:15pm On Dec 27, 2025
PulaPower:
British rule didn’t "create Nigeria” as a project for Nigerians to flourish; it created an administration for efficient control.

But the British didn’t put us under federalism. They left us with a regionalism system of government and it was really working then for viable regions..

Blame the greediness of the likes of Agunyi Ironsi. He scrapped our regionalism out of greed for power. He wanted to control the whole of Nigeria but today, they rest don become history..

The British would have been wrong if they put us under federalism..
You’re right that Ironsi was major in taking us away from the former regional arrangement but that regional arrangement was still federalism, just with regions operating as federal units. So, it is not correct that the British did not put us under federalism as Nigeria was already a federation from 1954. The 1960 constitution continued that system of a federation of Nigeria made up of regions.

While the regional era had some achievements, there were also serious problems, some signs which we see in the form of the electoral violence and breakdown of 1964 and 1965. So, the problem with Nigeria cannot be traced back only to Ironsi but the deeper issue is the colonial state structure which was built for control and extraction of our resources, and how post-independence leaders have used that same sort of centralized power after 1966.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by Anither563: 4:33pm On Dec 27, 2025
Absolutely. We must understand our history to appreciate the present and build a better future for coming generations.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by okpouman: 5:06pm On Dec 27, 2025
One factor you haven't considered which many overlook is the Fulani Islamic jihad and take over of Hausa and nupe kingdoms from 1804.That event led to the main exponential increase in the scale of violence that spread almost to every part of Nigeria except the southeast and south south apart from EDO. In fact it was the Fulani effect that led to uncontrolled violence and destabilization and the increase in slave raiding for the European slave trade. It weakened and pauperized a lot of tribal states round Nigeria due to unending fratricidal wars caused by the Fulani expansion drive leading to easy colonization by the British.

The Fulani also running affairs of Nigeria under the military after the northern revenge coup, after the time of Gowon ,from Shagari things became messed up for Nigeria. Again people need to take the Fulani very very seriously in Nigeria, if we want progress, as long as people keep handing over Nigeria to Fulani control, progress will be very hard to come buy.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by odejimioflagos: 6:11pm On Dec 27, 2025
I agree with the analysis. Is it not ironic that the same people who lament about colonialism and slavery are the same folks pushing for the likes of Alex Otti and Atiku? Do they not see the contradiction?
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by steadygo(op): 10:30pm On Dec 27, 2025
steadygo:
I did not say Nigerians do not bear any responsibility. Go back and read my last paragraph. Of course, we are responsible for solving the problems we are left with today but it is very silly to pretend history didn't shape the system we are currently living in. And it is false to claim the British had nothing to do with the underdevelopment of our region when they played a major role. Even those of the British who are experts on the subject will acknowledge the massive disaster they caused in the region. Ironically, it is often Nigerians that rush to absolve the British of any accountability.

How does imagining the British were not involved in the underdevelopment of our region or that our history is different from what it is, help us? We should be taking a serious look at our history, understanding the root our problems and using that to draw REAL, precise, effective solutions that can help us in the present day. That is how we take accountability.
@all edited my response quoted above, in order for it to be more clear.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by HgAkpobomeEr: 10:56pm On Dec 27, 2025
If we want to talk about the origins of our problems, we can start by looking at the Fulani expansion and the slave trade. Those were the real foundations of the Nigeria we have today.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by Fenrir(m): 6:51am On Feb 03
steadygo:
Many times, we argue and argue about Nigeria’s problems without talking about where many of those problems started. Yes—Nigeria has made plenty of bad decisions since Independence. But what laid the groundwork for so much of the dysfunction in the first place?

Two big forces: the transatlantic slave trade and British colonialism.

To understand the scale of the damage, you have to picture the numbers and picture how small Africa’s population was at the time. Nigeria is over 230 million people today. But as recently as 1900, all of Africa combined was estimated to be around 140 million. During the height of the slave trade, the region we now call Nigeria is estimated to have been about 12 million people spread across different societies and kingdoms.

Now imagine this: over 2 million people taken as slaves from what we call Nigeria today—and likely more when you account for those who never even made it to the coast to be sold. That’s around 20% of the population. And it wasn’t a random 20%—it was disproportionately young, able-bodied males as that is what the slave traders sought the most. Imagine, young men who are essential to any society's productivity and development. Indeed they kidnapped so many men, our societies became mostly women for periods of time.

Next, consider how societies across the region responded to Europe’s massive demand for slaves. Yes, there were wars before the transatlantic trade and forms of slavery already existed. But the Europeans scaled the demand to an entirely different level along with putting high prices on human beings. As selling people became one of the most profitable businesses, violence went from an occasional occurrence and became a part of the economy. Wars, raiding, kidnapping was frequent and insecurity became normal. For centuries, entire communities had to reorganize their priorities around defense or recovering from damages as opposed to investing in growth. Indeed, things were so bad there are reports of people being scared to go out and work due to fear of being kidnapped.

And then, after centuries of destabilization and we had finally become so weak from being driven to live in a war zone, it was time for colonialism.

British rule didn’t "create Nigeria” as a project for Nigerians to flourish; it created an administration for efficient control. It fused many distinct peoples into one political unit simply for convenience, concentrated power at the center, and organized the economy around extraction. Even the infrastructure priorities reflected it—routes that made it easier to move cash crops and minerals to ports mattered more than building deep internal industrial capacity.

The design has not disappeared after Independence, it has mutated. You can see it in how our economy still rewards exporting raw materials and buying back finished goods. We sell crude cheap, then import refined fuel at a premium price. The real profits stack up where processing, technology, shipping, finance, and insurance happen which is outside our borders— while we at home carry the instability, the unemployment, and the currency inflation at home. That is the colonial logic only without their flags: an extraction-based structure that keeps development dependent and value creation elsewhere.

So yes, Nigeria has made mistakes. But the playing field was damaged long before our Independence—first by centuries of population loss and insecurity that kept resetting development, followed by a colonial system of control and extraction and it's current form we face today. If we want real progress, we have to talk honestly about the origins, not just the symptoms.
No one is denying slavery or colonial damage. That’s not the argument.
What you’re doing is selective history leading to selective victimhood.
Violence, slavery, and exploitation did not begin with Europeans. West Africa already had wars, raids, internal slavery, and empire expansion long before any white man arrived. Nigerians were raping, killing, enslaving, and selling other Nigerians centuries before the transatlantic trade.
And let’s be honest about agency. Europeans did not march inland en masse kidnapping people. They bought people that African elites, kings, chiefs, and merchants supplied. That doesn’t absolve Europe, but it destroys the idea of Africans as passive props in their own history.
You also conveniently skip the Islamic slave trade, which: Predated the Atlantic trade by centuries
Ran for over a thousand years
Took millions across trans-Saharan and Indian Ocean routes Involved mass castration of male slaves, which is why there are fewer visible descendant populations
Yet somehow only one race gets eternal moral focus, while African and Arab participation is quietly sidelined.
That’s not historical honesty. That’s narrative selection.
Yes, colonialism damaged institutions and economies.
No, it does not explain why post independence Nigerian elites looted, entrenched corruption, defended ethnic patronage, and kept extraction models alive decades after Europeans left.
History explains constraints. It does not erase responsibility.
When you emphasise external harm while minimising internal violence, collaboration, and post independence choices, that’s not analysis. That’s outsourcing blame.
If the goal is progress, the conversation has to include: Internal African participation in slavery
The Islamic slave trade
Nigerian on Nigerian exploitation
Post 1960 elite failure
Anything less is not truth seeking. It’s victim branding.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by Dalohad: 5:18am On Feb 04
PulaPower:
British rule didn’t "create Nigeria” as a project for Nigerians to flourish; it created an administration for efficient control.

But the British didn’t put us under federalism. They left us with a regionalism system of government and it was really working then for viable regions..

Blame the greediness of the likes of Agunyi Ironsi. He scrapped our regionalism out of greed for power. He wanted to control the whole of Nigeria but today, they rest don become history..

The British would have been wrong if they put us under federalism..
Stop yelling, Aguiyi died in 50 years ago, since then you have been in power. Why haven't you changed it back to what you want?
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by steadygo(op): 5:34am On Feb 04
Fenrir:
No one is denying slavery or colonial damage. That’s not the argument.
What you’re doing is selective history leading to selective victimhood.
Violence, slavery, and exploitation did not begin with Europeans. West Africa already had wars, raids, internal slavery, and empire expansion long before any white man arrived. Nigerians were raping, killing, enslaving, and selling other Nigerians centuries before the transatlantic trade.
And let’s be honest about agency. Europeans did not march inland en masse kidnapping people. They bought people that African elites, kings, chiefs, and merchants supplied. That doesn’t absolve Europe, but it destroys the idea of Africans as passive props in their own history.
You also conveniently skip the Islamic slave trade, which: Predated the Atlantic trade by centuries
Ran for over a thousand years
Took millions across trans-Saharan and Indian Ocean routes Involved mass castration of male slaves, which is why there are fewer visible descendant populations
Yet somehow only one race gets eternal moral focus, while African and Arab participation is quietly sidelined.
That’s not historical honesty. That’s narrative selection.
Yes, colonialism damaged institutions and economies.
No, it does not explain why post independence Nigerian elites looted, entrenched corruption, defended ethnic patronage, and kept extraction models alive decades after Europeans left.
History explains constraints. It does not erase responsibility.
When you emphasise external harm while minimising internal violence, collaboration, and post independence choices, that’s not analysis. That’s outsourcing blame.
If the goal is progress, the conversation has to include: Internal African participation in slavery
The Islamic slave trade
Nigerian on Nigerian exploitation
Post 1960 elite failure
Anything less is not truth seeking. It’s victim branding.
I'm not even sure this deserves a response but here I go—
My post was to give light on some specific events that led to dysfunction before Nigerian independence. It is very obviously not meant to be taken as a complete history of precolonial Nigeria. My post also does not say West Africans were saints who did no wrong all through their history. Also, nowhere does the post say the Nigerian government is not corrupt or do not have blame in the current economic situation— I'm genuinely not sure how you came to this position.

Honestly, your entire post is ridiculous. It's as if the only purpose of your posting is to "remind" people that the white man is "not so bad", and to "defend" him from a perceived attack on his moral reputation. You need to frame the discussion as "victim branding" unless it includes a disclaimer that assures you "no one is blaming white people too much". Just look at how you start your post, "No one is denying slavery or colonial damage. That’s not the argument.". You are saying "that is not the argument" to an original post that does not refer to any prior conversation lol. Only so you can imply some argument against your imagined narrative then proceed to talk your nonsense. In reality, as usual, you have nothing really to say. If you want to add to the conversation then: bring evidence, engage with the actual claims I made, and stop arguing with imaginary versions of my position. Personally, I advise you to get off Nairaland and seek professional help, your obsession with Nigerians and with derailing our spaces needs serious help.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by Fenrir(m):
steadygo:
I'm not even sure this deserves a response but here I go—
My post was to give light on some specific events that led to dysfunction before Nigerian independence. It is very obviously not meant to be taken as a complete history of precolonial Nigeria. My post also does not say West Africans were saints who did no wrong all through their history. Also, nowhere does the post say the Nigerian government is not corrupt or do not have blame in the current economic situation— I'm genuinely not sure how you came to this position.

Honestly, your entire post is ridiculous. It's as if the only purpose of your posting is to "remind" people that the white man is "not so bad", and to "defend" him from a perceived attack on his moral reputation. You need to frame the discussion as "victim branding" unless it includes a disclaimer that assures you "no one is blaming white people too much". Just look at how you start your post, "No one is denying slavery or colonial damage. That’s not the argument.". You are saying "that is not the argument" to an original post that does not refer to any prior conversation lol. Only so you can imply some argument against your imagined narrative then proceed to talk your nonsense. In reality, as usual, you have nothing really to say. If you want to add to the conversation then: bring evidence, engage with the actual claims I made, and stop arguing with imaginary versions of my position. Personally, I advise you to get off Nairaland and seek professional help, your obsession with Nigerians and with derailing our spaces needs serious help.
Hey steadygo, well "wobblystop" since you're unstable.....

Wobblystop = collapses under pressure
Sidewaysgo = evades through deflection
Selectivego = operates through omission
SteadyNo = fixed position masquerading as discussion
SteadyNarrative = loyalty to story over truth
All of these work 😘

And that last line is telling.
When the facts get uncomfortable, the tone shifts from “historical analysis” to gatekeeping and moral eviction. Suddenly it’s no longer about ideas, it’s about who is allowed to speak, who belongs, and who should “leave the space.”
That’s not humility. That’s entitlement wearing tradition as a costume.
If disagreement automatically becomes “obsession” and critique becomes a mental health issue, then what you’re defending isn’t history, it’s authority. The same reflex that says “don’t question elders,” “don’t interrogate power,” and “know your place.”
Ironically, that impulse is far closer to the dysfunction you described than anything I wrote.
You wanted a conversation about causes. I expanded it beyond a single, convenient storyline. If that feels like an attack, maybe the issue isn’t my argument. Maybe it’s how fragile the narrative is when it’s no longer protected by moral posturing.

1 = If you defend selective history, you admit it's not complete analysis

2 = If you admit it's complete, you must include African agency and Arab trade

3 = If you say "context matters," then post-independence choices also matter

4 = If you attack the messenger, you can't defend the logic

5 = If you ignore it, you prove the selectivity
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by Fenrir(m): 6:42am On Feb 04
steadygo:
I'm not even sure this deserves a response but here I go—
My post was to give light on some specific events that led to dysfunction before Nigerian independence. It is very obviously not meant to be taken as a complete history of precolonial Nigeria. My post also does not say West Africans were saints who did no wrong all through their history. Also, nowhere does the post say the Nigerian government is not corrupt or do not have blame in the current economic situation— I'm genuinely not sure how you came to this position.

Honestly, your entire post is ridiculous. It's as if the only purpose of your posting is to "remind" people that the white man is "not so bad", and to "defend" him from a perceived attack on his moral reputation. You need to frame the discussion as "victim branding" unless it includes a disclaimer that assures you "no one is blaming white people too much". Just look at how you start your post, "No one is denying slavery or colonial damage. That’s not the argument.". You are saying "that is not the argument" to an original post that does not refer to any prior conversation lol. Only so you can imply some argument against your imagined narrative then proceed to talk your nonsense. In reality, as usual, you have nothing really to say. If you want to add to the conversation then: bring evidence, engage with the actual claims I made, and stop arguing with imaginary versions of my position. Personally, I advise you to get off Nairaland and seek professional help, your obsession with Nigerians and with derailing our spaces needs serious help.
But look how much one particular people lie about history anyway wobblystop....

This also known as "collective delusion"

Let’s stop pretending.

When people shout “Our tradition! Prostrate! Do full Yoruba wedding! Respect our culture!”
they always list what the groom must do.

They almost never mention what the bride’s family was originally supposed to do to deserve all that respect, bride price, and full prostration package.

If we are talking real old school Yoruba custom (not 2026 selective memory), then “tradition” was a bundle:

If the groom’s side does X, Y, Z…
the bride’s family must also have done A, B, C.

You can’t demand one half and quietly delete the other.

Virginity = “lineage guarantee” (and the parents had duties here)

In old Yoruba custom, virginity wasn’t just a cute idea, it was family honour + lineage certainty.

There was asa ibile, the white cloth on the wedding night to prove virginity.
If she was a virgin, gifts and money went back to her parents in pride.
If not, symbolic shame (half-boiled yam, etc.) was sent instead.

Virginity was tied to good upbringing, proper monitoring, protection, and no secret boyfriends and baby daddies.

Meaning,
if you want to shout “our tradition!” about prostration & bride price, then the girl’s family were also obligated to.....

protect her from sexual abuse and exploitation
actually supervise her movements and relationships

insist on no sex before marriage if they want to use virginity as their cultural bragging right.

You cannot abandon all those parental duties, turn blind eye to “coded runs”, then still stand up on wedding day forming “we are traditional, prostrate for us.”

That’s not culture. That’s selective memory.

Proper upbringing & character, Ìwà, not just makeup.......

Traditional Yoruba marriage respected families that raised Omoluabi, good character.

The bride’s family was expected to,

raise her with discipline, honesty, respect, and home training

teach her how to live peacefully in another house, not how to weaponise drama
show that she is entering the man’s home as asset, not destabiliser

Old texts and studies emphasise that part of what groom’s family is “thanking” the bride’s family for (with owo orí, gifts, prostration) is the years of proper upbringing & moral training.

If you’ve never really raised the girl, grandparents did everything, or she basically raised herself on TikTok and church performances, then what exactly are we prostrating for?

Protection & supervision not throwing girls to wolves.....

Traditionally, there were clear systems......

alarina, go between and chaperones in courtship

structured visits
serious monitoring of who is courting the daughter and with what intention

If a grown man slept with an unbetrothed virgin, he was expected to pay and/or marry her there was some accountability......

Today?

many families don’t protect their daughters
don’t believe them when something happens

push them out early to “hustle”

then suddenly remember “tradition” when it’s time to collect list and bride price.

Again, you can’t throw away your side of the cultural duty, then resurrect it only when money and prostration enter the chat.

The bride’s “equipment” used to be their job, not the groom’s

Historically, the bride’s family were supposed to send her off properly equipped,

clothing
cooking tools
home essentials

things that show she’s ready to manage a home and contribute.

Now look at most modern lists:

“gas cooker, fridge, blender, full kitchen, generator, furniture…”

all dumped on the groom, while the bride’s family basically arrive with vibes, matching aso ebi and billing.

If we’re being honest,

Tradition = the bride’s family equip her to be an asset in that home.
Extortion = the groom fully equips their daughter and their own kitchen back home.

Pick one. Don’t call extortion “culture.”

Dowry (owo orí) was symbolic, not ransom.......

Old Yoruba custom:
dowry was often small and symbolic, and in many cases returned, to emphasise “we are not selling our daughter, this is just culture.”

Even where it wasn’t returned, it was still token-level, not “buy a mini-supermarket or no wife.”
Modern practice in many families?
Endless lists, extra bills on the day, “add something”, “Ibòmbo – we trained your daughter”, multiple unplanned levies.

Question,
If you truly trained her and truly spent on her, it will show in her character, skills, education, stability.
You won’t need to “over-compensate” on the list to prove it.

Ongoing support, not “collect and disappear”........

Traditionally, bride’s family didn’t just cash out and disappear,

they continued to support, advise, mediate, and guide the new couple

elders prayed, blessed, and sometimes corrected their own daughter when she was the problem,

Now?

Most families,

interfere when it benefits them
vanish when there is real problem
side their daughter blindly even when she’s wrong
still expect maximum respect + money flow + “in-law of the year” treatment.

Again, if we are using real tradition,
your role as bride’s family continues after the marriage. It’s not just “collect list & spray money.”

So what’s the actual point here?......

Not to insult Yoruba culture.
Not to say “women are bad” or “families are evil.”

The point is simple.....

You cannot demand full traditional obedience from a groom
when you did not fulfil your own traditional duties as the bride’s family.

If your daughter......

was not protected from abuse
was not supervised in courtship
was not raised with real Omoluabi character
was not properly equipped from your side

did not keep the “purity” you now weaponise
did not benefit from your ongoing moral support

…then be honest:

You are no longer operating full Yoruba tradition.
You are operating modern life + selective “tradition” for money and ego.
Fine. Life has changed. Nobody is perfect.
But then stop shouting:

“He must prostrate!”
“He must give us X, Y, Z because culture!”
“Registry alone is not marriage!”

If you want modern, do modern: registry + simple intro + mutual respect.
If you want tradition, then accept that tradition binds both families, not just the man.

Final questions for you.....

Can a family that didn’t uphold the traditional duties listed above still demand full prostration and heavy “list” with a straight face?

Shouldn’t we be honest that what many people call “tradition” today is edited tradition, mostly focused on what the man must pay and perform?
If submission is demanded from the woman, and prostration from the man, then where is the matching accountability from both families?

No insults, No tribal bashing
Just simple logic

This is a logical trap......

1) if you defend the current practice then you are admitting its not tradition

2) if you admit it is tradition then you accept the obligations of the bride's family

3) if you say "times have changed" then you have to stop demaning/expecting prostration/bride price

4) if you attack then you cant defend your own logic

5) if you ignore it you prove hypocrisy and fraud
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by Fenrir(m): 9:48am On Feb 04
steadygo:
I'm not even sure this deserves a response but here I go—
My post was to give light on some specific events that led to dysfunction before Nigerian independence. It is very obviously not meant to be taken as a complete history of precolonial Nigeria. My post also does not say West Africans were saints who did no wrong all through their history. Also, nowhere does the post say the Nigerian government is not corrupt or do not have blame in the current economic situation— I'm genuinely not sure how you came to this position.

Honestly, your entire post is ridiculous. It's as if the only purpose of your posting is to "remind" people that the white man is "not so bad", and to "defend" him from a perceived attack on his moral reputation. You need to frame the discussion as "victim branding" unless it includes a disclaimer that assures you "no one is blaming white people too much". Just look at how you start your post, "No one is denying slavery or colonial damage. That’s not the argument.". You are saying "that is not the argument" to an original post that does not refer to any prior conversation lol. Only so you can imply some argument against your imagined narrative then proceed to talk your nonsense. In reality, as usual, you have nothing really to say. If you want to add to the conversation then: bring evidence, engage with the actual claims I made, and stop arguing with imaginary versions of my position. Personally, I advise you to get off Nairaland and seek professional help, your obsession with Nigerians and with derailing our spaces needs serious help.
Let’s accept everything wobblystop says first. No resistance, no minimising.
Yes, the transatlantic slave trade devastated West Africa.
Yes, British colonialism fused incompatible polities, centralised power, and designed extraction economies.
Yes, infrastructure was built for ports, not productivity.
Yes, those effects didn’t magically disappear in 1960.
All true.
Now comes the part people dodge.
Those facts explain initial conditions, not permanent outcomes.
History explains where you start.
It does not explain why you stay there once sovereignty exists.
That’s not moral judgment. That’s causal logic.
So how do we test whether colonial damage = destiny?
You don’t test it with emotion.
You test it with comparative cases.
Case 1: Japan
Japan didn’t just lose a war.
It lost cities, industry, infrastructure, millions of people, and had two nuclear weapons dropped on it.
Tokyo, Osaka, Hiroshima, Nagasaki, Yokohama flattened.
Supply chains annihilated.
State legitimacy shattered.
Occupied by a foreign power.
That is not “colonial inconvenience”.
That is total civilisational rupture.
Yet within years: public transport restored
bureaucracy rebuilt
education prioritised
industrial policy coordinated
corruption punished hard
Japan didn’t recover because it was “special”.
It recovered because post crisis elites made discipline non negotiable.
Case 2: Singapore
Colonised.
Resource poor.
Ethnically fragmented.
Kicked out of Malaysia.
No hinterland. No oil. No farmland.
Every excuse Nigeria uses, Singapore had worse.
What changed the trajectory? zero tolerance for corruption
ruthless civil service standards
export led manufacturing
education tied to productivity
elite accountability enforced
Colonialism didn’t disappear.
Excuses did.
Case 3: Norway
Colonised by Denmark for 400 years.
Then ruled by Sweden.
Poor, agrarian, peripheral.
No early industrial advantage.
Independence didn’t magically fix anything.
What did? institution building before welfare
rule of law before redistribution
oil revenue locked behind transparency
political culture that punishes elite theft
Norway didn’t become rich because it forgot history.
It became rich because it refused to outsource responsibility to history.
Now back to Nigeria.
Nigeria gained sovereignty in 1960.
From that moment on: budgets were Nigerian
laws were Nigerian
police were Nigerian
courts were Nigerian
oil revenue was Nigerian
What followed? elite looting
ethnic patronage
hollow institutions
military coups
oil rent capture
zero consequences
That is not colonialism continuing.
That is choice repeating.
Here’s the logical trap wobblystop can’t escape:
If slavery and colonialism fully explain Nigeria’s present state, then: elite accountability is immoral
reform is pointless
corruption is understandable
and progress is impossible
That position doesn’t defend Nigerians.
It infantilises them.
It says: “You were hurt once, therefore you can never be responsible again.”
That’s not historical honesty.
That’s permanent excuse architecture.


Japan rebuilt.
Singapore disciplined itself.
Norway governed clean.
Shit happens.
What’s your excuse now?
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by FarahAideed: 10:03am On Feb 04
The average IQ in Nigeria is 67 , cry from morning till night with that kind of IQ Nigeria can never improve ...Just go to the coastal road and see what Okada men have turned it into ...A person with 67 IQ is no different than a reptile, they only think in the immediate , they don't have the ability to think beyond the immediate gains and therefore you find criminality , dishonesty , hedonism among them a lot
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by steadygo(op): 12:58pm On Feb 04
Fenrir:
Let’s accept everything wobblystop says first. No resistance, no minimising.
Yes, the transatlantic slave trade devastated West Africa.
Yes, British colonialism fused incompatible polities, centralised power, and designed extraction economies.
Yes, infrastructure was built for ports, not productivity.
Yes, those effects didn’t magically disappear in 1960.
All true.
Now comes the part people dodge.
Those facts explain initial conditions, not permanent outcomes.
History explains where you start.
It does not explain why you stay there once sovereignty exists.
That’s not moral judgment. That’s causal logic.
So how do we test whether colonial damage = destiny?
You don’t test it with emotion.
You test it with comparative cases.
Case 1: Japan
Japan didn’t just lose a war.
It lost cities, industry, infrastructure, millions of people, and had two nuclear weapons dropped on it.
Tokyo, Osaka, Hiroshima, Nagasaki, Yokohama flattened.
Supply chains annihilated.
State legitimacy shattered.
Occupied by a foreign power.
That is not “colonial inconvenience”.
That is total civilisational rupture.
Yet within years: public transport restored
bureaucracy rebuilt
education prioritised
industrial policy coordinated
corruption punished hard
Japan didn’t recover because it was “special”.
It recovered because post crisis elites made discipline non negotiable.
Case 2: Singapore
Colonised.
Resource poor.
Ethnically fragmented.
Kicked out of Malaysia.
No hinterland. No oil. No farmland.
Every excuse Nigeria uses, Singapore had worse.
What changed the trajectory? zero tolerance for corruption
ruthless civil service standards
export led manufacturing
education tied to productivity
elite accountability enforced
Colonialism didn’t disappear.
Excuses did.
Case 3: Norway
Colonised by Denmark for 400 years.
Then ruled by Sweden.
Poor, agrarian, peripheral.
No early industrial advantage.
Independence didn’t magically fix anything.
What did? institution building before welfare
rule of law before redistribution
oil revenue locked behind transparency
political culture that punishes elite theft
Norway didn’t become rich because it forgot history.
It became rich because it refused to outsource responsibility to history.
Now back to Nigeria.
Nigeria gained sovereignty in 1960.
From that moment on: budgets were Nigerian
laws were Nigerian
police were Nigerian
courts were Nigerian
oil revenue was Nigerian
What followed? elite looting
ethnic patronage
hollow institutions
military coups
oil rent capture
zero consequences
That is not colonialism continuing.
That is choice repeating.
Here’s the logical trap wobblystop can’t escape:
If slavery and colonialism fully explain Nigeria’s present state, then: elite accountability is immoral
reform is pointless
corruption is understandable
and progress is impossible
That position doesn’t defend Nigerians.
It infantilises them.
It says: “You were hurt once, therefore you can never be responsible again.”
That’s not historical honesty.
That’s permanent excuse architecture.


Japan rebuilt.
Singapore disciplined itself.
Norway governed clean.
Shit happens.
What’s your excuse now?
You made an off-topic, irrelevant, AI reeking post. You were called out and you returned to make several others. Blocked.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by Fenrir(m): 1:04pm On Feb 04
steadygo:
You made an off-topic, irrelevant, AI reeking post. You were called out and you returned to make several others. Blocked.
AI? Funny that

Ive got A PAID AI DETECTOR you use free.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by Fenrir(m): 1:09pm On Feb 04
steadygo:
Many times, we argue and argue about Nigeria’s problems without talking about where many of those problems started. Yes—Nigeria has made plenty of bad decisions since Independence. But what laid the groundwork for so much of the dysfunction in the first place?

Two big forces: the transatlantic slave trade and British colonialism.

To understand the scale of the damage, you have to picture the numbers and picture how small Africa’s population was at the time. Nigeria is over 230 million people today. But as recently as 1900, all of Africa combined was estimated to be around 140 million. During the height of the slave trade, the region we now call Nigeria is estimated to have been about 12 million people spread across different societies and kingdoms.

Now imagine this: over 2 million people taken as slaves from what we call Nigeria today—and likely more when you account for those who never even made it to the coast to be sold. That’s around 20% of the population. And it wasn’t a random 20%—it was disproportionately young, able-bodied males as that is what the slave traders sought the most. Imagine, young men who are essential to any society's productivity and development. Indeed they kidnapped so many men, our societies became mostly women for periods of time.

Next, consider how societies across the region responded to Europe’s massive demand for slaves. Yes, there were wars before the transatlantic trade and forms of slavery already existed. But the Europeans scaled the demand to an entirely different level along with putting high prices on human beings. As selling people became one of the most profitable businesses, violence went from an occasional occurrence and became a part of the economy. Wars, raiding, kidnapping was frequent and insecurity became normal. For centuries, entire communities had to reorganize their priorities around defense or recovering from damages as opposed to investing in growth. Indeed, things were so bad there are reports of people being scared to go out and work due to fear of being kidnapped.

And then, after centuries of destabilization and we had finally become so weak from being driven to live in a war zone, it was time for colonialism.

British rule didn’t "create Nigeria” as a project for Nigerians to flourish; it created an administration for efficient control. It fused many distinct peoples into one political unit simply for convenience, concentrated power at the center, and organized the economy around extraction. Even the infrastructure priorities reflected it—routes that made it easier to move cash crops and minerals to ports mattered more than building deep internal industrial capacity.

The design has not disappeared after Independence, it has mutated. You can see it in how our economy still rewards exporting raw materials and buying back finished goods. We sell crude cheap, then import refined fuel at a premium price. The real profits stack up where processing, technology, shipping, finance, and insurance happen which is outside our borders— while we at home carry the instability, the unemployment, and the currency inflation at home. That is the colonial logic only without their flags: an extraction-based structure that keeps development dependent and value creation elsewhere.

So yes, Nigeria has made mistakes. But the playing field was damaged long before our Independence—first by centuries of population loss and insecurity that kept resetting development, followed by a colonial system of control and extraction and it's current form we face today. If we want real progress, we have to talk honestly about the origins, not just the symptoms.
The "Hook-Body-Conclusion" Sandwich
​AI is trained on a standard essay structure that it rarely deviates from unless forced.
​The Hook: It starts with a relatable observation ("Many times, we argue..."wink to pull you in.
​The Transition: It uses a "Two big forces" thesis statement to set the roadmap.
​The Conclusion: It wraps up with a "So yes..." summary that mirrors the opening. This level of clean, circular closure is very typical of LLMs (Large Language Models).
​High Level Syntactic Predictability
​If you look at the transitions between paragraphs, they are "too smooth." Humans often jump between ideas or leave gaps in logic. AI uses clear, directional signposting:
​"Next, consider..."
​"And then..."
​"The design has not disappeared..."
​"So yes..."
​Balanced Information Pacing
​AI is designed to be "helpful" and "comprehensive." Notice how it perfectly balances the two themes it promised:
​Paragraphs 3 to 5: Dedicated to the Slave Trade (Population loss, economic shifts).
​Paragraphs 6 to 8: Dedicated to Colonialism/Post-Colonialism (Extraction, infrastructure).
The word count for each section is almost mathematically balanced, which is a hallmark of AI trying to cover all bases of a prompt equally.
​4. Use of "Imagine this" or "Picture this"
​AI models frequently use the "Imagine..." trope to explain complex statistics or historical scales. It is a common technique used by AI to simplify data (like the population percentages) into an emotional narrative. While humans do this too, AI relies on it as a primary tool for "empathy simulation."
​5. The "On the one hand/On the other" Nuance
​The text avoids taking a "radical" or "messy" stance. It acknowledges local agency ("Yes, there were wars before..."wink while maintaining the primary argument about external forces. This "balanced nuance" is a built-in safety and quality alignment in AI it is programmed to acknowledge multiple sides of a historical context to remain objective.

Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by Fenrir(m): 1:10pm On Feb 04
steadygo:
You made an off-topic, irrelevant, AI reeking post. You were called out and you returned to make several others. Blocked.
You are a jester wobblystop.
Attacking race constantly
Saying who can and who cant talk on a public site
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by Fenrir(m): 1:12pm On Feb 04
steadygo:
You made an off-topic, irrelevant, AI reeking post. You were called out and you returned to make several others. Blocked.
Block me and you prove everything about yourself.

And its only 3 weeks. So ill be back.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by steadygo(op): 1:17pm On Feb 04
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Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by steadygo(op): 1:32pm On Feb 04
Fenrir:
The "Hook-Body-Conclusion" Sandwich
​AI is trained on a standard essay structure that it rarely deviates from unless forced.
​The Hook: It starts with a relatable observation ("Many times, we argue..."wink to pull you in.
​The Transition: It uses a "Two big forces" thesis statement to set the roadmap.
​The Conclusion: It wraps up with a "So yes..." summary that mirrors the opening. This level of clean, circular closure is very typical of LLMs (Large Language Models).
​High Level Syntactic Predictability
​If you look at the transitions between paragraphs, they are "too smooth." Humans often jump between ideas or leave gaps in logic. AI uses clear, directional signposting:
​"Next, consider..."
​"And then..."
​"The design has not disappeared..."
​"So yes..."
​Balanced Information Pacing
​AI is designed to be "helpful" and "comprehensive." Notice how it perfectly balances the two themes it promised:
​Paragraphs 3 to 5: Dedicated to the Slave Trade (Population loss, economic shifts).
​Paragraphs 6 to 8: Dedicated to Colonialism/Post-Colonialism (Extraction, infrastructure).
The word count for each section is almost mathematically balanced, which is a hallmark of AI trying to cover all bases of a prompt equally.
​4. Use of "Imagine this" or "Picture this"
​AI models frequently use the "Imagine..." trope to explain complex statistics or historical scales. It is a common technique used by AI to simplify data (like the population percentages) into an emotional narrative. While humans do this too, AI relies on it as a primary tool for "empathy simulation."
​5. The "On the one hand/On the other" Nuance
​The text avoids taking a "radical" or "messy" stance. It acknowledges local agency ("Yes, there were wars before..."wink while maintaining the primary argument about external forces. This "balanced nuance" is a built-in safety and quality alignment in AI it is programmed to acknowledge multiple sides of a historical context to remain objective.
Lol we have seen enough of your "AI detector" on Nairaland to know how incompetent it is. Ironically, anyone can take one look at your posts and see sharp signs of AI. You are clearly on Nairaland to be a troll. And since you announced that you will continue to harass me with foolish, off-topic posts full of distorted facts then I will happily just block you again after the 3 weeks passes lol.
Re: Nigeria's Problems Did Not Start In 1960 by steadygo(op): 1:35pm On Feb 04
Fenrir:
Block me and you prove everything about yourself.

And its only 3 weeks. So ill be back.
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Yep, proving that I don't want to deal with a troll.
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