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Nairaland is no longer worth my while.

Ilekokonit:
➜Today, my 30 something year old UK raised son said he will attack me physically because I corrected his sister in a phone call. His so called sister that I corrected for not telling me in a phone call that they were all going to Nigeria last week is my own 20 something year old daughter
➜To bring woman and young pikin from Naija to the UK may kill a man that does not drink. At the moment I've bought 2 bottles of spirits, 2 bottles of Rose and an as we speak heading to 1 late night joint and then at later I'll then go to an all night bar in London to drink and merry with acquaintances and hopefully by the time I get back home tomorrow afternoon, I wouldn't brood over it so much.
Such is the lot of a lot of men in the UK. This na woman wey I bring come UK over 39 years ago with our her 7 month old son and gave them both UK papers on a platter of gold. And the sad thing is that they still find a way to wind me up from afar even though I have not lived with them since 2006.

1. People like you are better off remaining in Nigeria where your particular mentality can only work. 🥱🥱🥱

You disrespected his 20-something-year-old sister and felt that your 30-something-year-old, her brother, should have taken your side in this? I can only imagine how much you must have done for him to feel such a reaction was reasonable in this situation.

2. Always looking to blame every other person instead of maybe doing some self-reflecting and taking accountability for the part you played in fueling such animosity in your own children towards you. Na wa oo! 🥱🥱🥱

I hope that the boy does not debase himself to your level and instead considers going no contact instead if he is that angry with you at this point. 🥱🥱🥱

Bros,make yourself happy
They are adult and in UK, if police catch you, OYO is your case

Drinking,club etc will not solve this
Get busy with something else

Dem be adult but if na naija,na to run that son street

Relax boo

I can’t take this poster serious.

Some years back, you claimed you were Jamaican who used a name which was coincidentally Nigerian. Today, you have a 30 something and 20 something year old child. How old are you again, late 50 something?

I’ve known you to troll this forum repeatedly. This topic is you being yourself once again.

Ilekokonit:
Today, my 30 something year old UK raised son said he will attack me physically because I corrected his sister in a phone call.

His so called sister that I corrected for not telling me in a phone call that they were all going to Nigeria last week is my own 20 something year old daughter

To bring woman and young pikin from Naija to the UK may kill a man that does not drink.

At the moment I've bought 2 bottles of spirits, 2 bottles of Rose and as we speak, I am heading to 1 late night joint and then after midnight, I'll then go to a second all night bar in London to drink and merry with acquaintances and hopefully by the time I get back home tomorrow afternoon, I wouldn't brood over it so much.

Such is the lot of a lot of men in the UK.

This na woman wey I bring come UK over 30 years ago with our her 7 month old son and gave them both UK papers on a platter of gold.

And the sad thing is that they still find a way to wind me up from afar even though I have not lived with them since 2006

kpankpangolo:
I can’t take this poster serious.

Some years back, you claimed you were Jamaican who used a name which was coincidentally Nigerian. Today, you have a 30 something and 20 something year old child. How old are you again, late 50 something?

I’ve known you to troll this forum repeatedly. This topic is you being yourself once again.

Even my village people get chills dem no fit dey monitor person reach this extent.

Congrats in advance!

Na with 2 comments wey I don report now I take confirm that Nairaland has a high proportion of borderline lunatic people (men and women) who just because you want other people to learn from your experience they decide to either cook up stories about you doubting your story or your age or by being outrightly rude unnecessarily maybe because of their own personal frustrations as an ageing single frustrated woman in America or because they are not intellectual enough to know that not every one needs to hide behind lies or fabricate stories to feel relevant.

Talk of spreading your pearl before swine.


To avoid further stressing myself by coming back to talk with swine, I will delete my personal story 'cos it's not worth my while.

Sorry, perhaps it's not too late to set things right

Nairaland used to fun, with lots of interesting topics, even job opportunities. Tribalism has always been there but not with this much hatred

Are they in Nigeria now?

I hope that ur 20 year old daughter is not anywhere near kubwa abuja because u might have to give me her number

As for the brother, I can correct him for u as bonus

Ilekokonit:
Nairaland is no longer worth my while.

Bros, you are not new here na. Why will you allow some people insane comments get to you??

As par the issue you are going through, please take it easy on yourself. They are both adults now. You can only advise them, you cannot live their life for them

What I see very deep in this is that you are not in good relationship with your children. That's why they will travel to Nigeria without telling you. That is a big thing you should work on.

Start looking for ways to improve this relationship, irrespective of the situation between you and their mother. The children are your family, your blood and you must make sure you enjoy close and good relationships with them.

By the way, drinking and going to bar is not a solution to this. Look for your good friends to speak to, about it to lift up your spirit and work on your family relationship.

Today, my 30 something year old UK raised son said he will attack me physically because I corrected his sister in a phone call

I like it is your logical son showing you shege. Make una sort am out, man to man. 🙏

Kobojunkie:
2. Always looking to blame every other person instead of maybe doing some self-reflecting and taking accountability for the part you played in fueling such animosity in your own children towards you. Na wa oo! 🥱🥱🥱

He will blame the (ex)wife and feminism.

pocohantas:
I like it is your logical son showing you shege. Make una sort am out, man to man. 🙏




He will blame the (ex)wife and feminism.

Chai! You still dey here

Ilekokonit:
Nairaland is no longer worth my while.

You are getting older.

Ilekokonit:
Nairaland is no longer worth my while.

Because they told you the truth??

LOL