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Happy new year nairalanders,
This is my second account I want to hide my identity a little.
I have an issue bothering me recently, I got married early 2025 and my wife who happens to work with one of these para military unit can't give birth now till after a particular time, since then we ve been playing it safe. She usually uses water to wash off every time we have x ( I usually go raw n I realease inside)
My question here is for almost a year we ve been using same method but for not for once has she missed her period. Is it that yes she usually washes every drop of the semen that have made her not to miss her period or something is wrong somewhere.
Why am asking is have heard cases of people even with withdrawal method some ladies still gets pregnant or in some cases where they wore Condom the semen still finds its way into the lady's thing and gets her pregnant..
I hope you guys are getting the point am trying to make?
Note: she's fertile cos the first few months of our dating she actually missed her period once.
So please friends englighten me cos she called my attention to this particular issue last night because our resolve then was if pregnancy enters we will keep it anything Weh win happen for her working place should happen.
Pls mod move it to front page please or anyone should help me tag them

Nothing is wrong with you bro.. once you guys are ready trust me baby Will come by God's grace

Washing sperm of her vagina does not change anything because sperm enters the vaginal immediately after ejaculation within seconds.

Once sperm moves past the vaginal opening into the cervix, (which happens as soon as you ejaculate) if she likes let her use a full Gepee water tank to wash her vagina, it can not reach or remove it, sperm will respond with odeshi I mount here gidigba. Sperm cells can survive even more than 24 hours on a female reproductive tract.

I recommend the both of you taking notes of her ovulation period, and making sex around that period, because she is more fertile during that period, as such there is a high chance of pregnancy. And you too should check if your sperm count is low.

Take my advice with a pinch of salt because I'm not a medical doctor, just that anything reproduction in biology and agricultural science in secondary school always turned me on then. In reproduction teacher never ask question I don raise hand to answer lol!!.

Buratashi:
✓ Happy new year nairalanders,
This is my second account I want to hide my identity a little.
I have an issue bothering me recently, I got married early 2025 and my wife who happens to work with one of these para military unit can't give birth now till after a particular time, since then we ve been playing it safe. She usually uses water to wash off every time we have x ( I usually go raw n I realease inside)
My question here is for almost a year we ve been using same method but for not for once has she missed her period. Is it that yes she usually washes every drop of the semen that have made her not to miss her period or something is wrong somewhere.
Why am asking is have heard cases of people even with withdrawal method some ladies still gets pregnant or in some cases where they wore Condom the semen still finds its way into the lady's thing and gets her pregnant..

Water to wash? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dude, chances are high that you have simply been shooting blanks all of this time, Your wife probably knows this and does not seem to mind. 🥱🥱🥱

I do hope that woman is in fact as smart as I think and has been using birth control of at least some other contraception to keep herself from getting impregnated by a man who does not seem to dsee much about her career and reputation. 🥱🥱🥱

I see nothing wrong with she is doing, having a child merse a lot of thing especially for woman thinking of advancing in her career.


Can you really afford to have a child or are you just doing it out of societal pressure and selfish reasons.



Have you sat down with her and talked about this

Drsnives:
Nothing is wrong with you bro.. once you guys are ready trust me baby Will come by God's grace

Amen

Kaczynski:
I see nothing wrong with she is doing, having a child merse a lot of thing especially for woman thinking of advancing in her career.


Can you really afford to have a child or are you just doing it out of societal pressure and selfish reasons.



Have you sat down with her and talked about this

You don't seem to get my point..
Have seen couples who are into family planning atimes accidentally get pregnant.
I perfectly understand the situation am in cos of her work and am ready to wait till her time to have a child reaches, but my issue here is all these while we've been doing it (xx) with no proper protection except washing the semen after every act. At least along the line I was even hoping to here something like ha baby it's like I ve missed my period o.. we were not careful the last time or I didn't wash properly or the pre cum went in before I washed ( you understand me now) , But nothing. My concern now is it that have been shooting blank all these while or is it that she do washes every drop of the semen that enters.

Kobojunkie:
Water to wash? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dude, chances are high that you have simply been shooting blanks all of this time, Your wife probably knows this and does not seem to mind. 🥱🥱🥱

I do hope that woman is in fact as smart as I think and has been using birth control of at least some other contraception to keep herself from getting impregnated by a man who does not seem to dsee much about her career and reputation. 🥱🥱🥱

She's not into any birth control pills.. infact she hate pills

Buratashi:
She's not into any birth control pills.. infact she hate pills

I hope she is because she is clearly married to a man who cares nothing for her joy and happiness in life. Or else she is likely to regret ever marrying this man at some point in her future.... hopefully not after losing her career and hardwork 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
I hope she is because she is clearly married to a man who cares nothing for her joy and happiness in life. Or else she is likely to regret ever marrying this man at some point in her future.... hopefully not after losing her career and hardwork 🥱🥱🥱

Have been her backbone right from day one infact I sponsored her education, trade as well before marriage.her dad is late so the idea of she marrying who doesn't care about her or her career is not even an option.
My fear is when the time finally comes to have a child I won't be hearing all these firing blank

Buratashi:
✓ Have been her backbone right from day one infact I sponsored her education, trade as well before marriage.her dad is late so the idea of she marrying who doesn't care about her or her career is not even an option.
My fear is when the time finally comes to have a child I won't be hearing all these firing blank

Backbone trying to get her pregnant all while knowing she shouldn't for her career's sake. Sounds more like you hate that woman so much and are looking to bringing a complete list and to her career in the para military as soon as you can. 🥱🥱🥱

You remind me of the story posted not long ago of a pastor who revealed to his congregation how he used marriage and pregnancy to literally destroy his wife's dream at becoming a doctor in the abroad; this wicked man who presents himself as a pastor said he instead was he backbone because he allowed her get an online master's degree in microbiology instead, all while studying from their room somewhere in ogun state or so. 🥱🥱🥱

Just imagine being married to your literal worst enemy, abeg! 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Backbone trying to get her pregnant all while knowing she shouldn't for her career's sake. Sounds more like you hate that woman so much and are looking to bringing a complete list and to her career in the para military as soon as you can. 🥱🥱🥱

You remind me of the story posted not long ago of a pastor who revealed to his congregation how he used marriage and pregnancy to literally destroy his wife's dream at becoming a doctor in the abroad; this wicked man who presents himself as a pastor said he instead was he backbone because he allowed her get an online master's degree in microbiology instead, all while studying from their room somewhere in ogun state or so. 🥱🥱🥱

Just imagine being married to your literal worst enemy, abeg! 🥱🥱

Have heard you, am wicked n selfish thank you . Sorry to say it's like your brain works anticlockwise. See the way you just turn the narrative

Are you looking for a child or you’re just curious to see if you can impregnate her?

Buratashi:
Happy new year nairalanders,
This is my second account I want to hide my identity a little.
I have an issue bothering me recently, I got married early 2025 and my wife who happens to work with one of these para military unit can't give birth now till after a particular time, since then we ve been playing it safe. She usually uses water to wash off every time we have x ( I usually go raw n I realease inside)
My question here is for almost a year we ve been using same method but for not for once has she missed her period. Is it that yes she usually washes every drop of the semen that have made her not to miss her period or something is wrong somewhere.
Why am asking is have heard cases of people even with withdrawal method some ladies still gets pregnant or in some cases where they wore Condom the semen still finds its way into the lady's thing and gets her pregnant..
I hope you guys are getting the point am trying to make?
Note: she's fertile cos the first few months of our dating she actually missed her period once.
So please friends englighten me cos she called my attention to this particular issue last night because our resolve then was if pregnancy enters we will keep it anything Weh win happen for her working place should happen.
Pls mod move it to front page please or anyone should help me tag them

Buratashi:
✓ Have heard you, am wicked n selfish thank you . Sorry to say it's like your brain works anticlockwise. See the way you just turn the narrative

You literally knowing a baby will jeopardize your wife's career yet choosing to go raw with her while sure she is not on birth control is all my brain... Yeah, I get it! 🥱🥱

If it had been your career on the line here, this story would have been totally different, but since it is the woman's career...you see no problem in bringing an end to it as soon as possible. After all it matters for little to nothing to you, Mr. Backbone. 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
You literally knowing a baby will jeopardize your wife's career yet choosing to go raw with her while sure she is not on birth control is all my brain... Yeah, I get it! 🥱🥱

If it had been your career on the line here, this story would have been totally different, but since it is the woman's career...you see no problem in bringing an end to it as soon as possible. After all it matters for little to nothing to you, Mr. Backbone. 🥱🥱

She will definitely give birth one day . So what's the big deal, every problem has a solution

Buratashi:
✓ She will definitely give birth one day .
✓ So what's the big deal, every problem has a solution

I hope she learns to love herself before that day so she knows to put herself first, realizing that she and that baby(whenever she decides to have one) will ultimately not be happy if she loses her career and/or progress in the process. 🥱🥱🥱

2. You calling yourself her backbone while blatantly trying each time to get her pregnant to destroy her career is what is a big deal.

Are you and your wife children? You are bringing this matter to nairaland? If you are worried that your wife hasn't gotten pregnant why don't you both go for comprehensive checks in the hospital?
Do both of you know when she is ovulating? Do you have healthy motile sperm? That she missed her period before could be anything.
Go and check yourselves and keep trying.

Kobojunkie:
2. You calling yourself her backbone while blatantly trying each time to get her pregnant to destroy her career is what is a big deal.

What is wrong with you? How do you reason like this? How is a man wanting to get his wife pregnant an attempt to destroy her career?

Kobojunkie:
I hope she learns to love herself before that day so she knows to put herself first, realizing that she and that baby(whenever she decides to have one) will ultimately not be happy if she loses her career and/or progress in the process. 🥱🥱🥱

2. You calling yourself her backbone while blatantly trying each time to get her pregnant to destroy her career is what is a big deal.

Your se second point is not valid, cos if I had wanted her to have a baby soonest is for Me to bribe her superiors in her office but wanted due process.. my fear hence this tread to know if it's natural or something wrong with me hence I can go n seek medical help so that once the proper time reaches I won't be firing blank. That's my point, I never intended ending her career

Buratashi:
✓ Your se second point is not valid, cos if I had wanted her to have a baby soonest is for Me to bribe her superiors in her office but wanted due process..
✓ my fear hence this tread to know if it's natural or something wrong with me hence I can go n seek medical help so that once the proper time reaches I won't be firing blank. That's my point, I never intended ending her career

Bribe her superiors..something that will require you pay money, abi? 🥱🥱🥱

2. Wanted due process my arse. You going raw on a woman whom you said isn't infertile and also made clear could have her career ruined if she were to get pregnant at this time is this due process, right? .🤨🤨

I didn't create this thread. You did! And you did so to let us know well of your intents against your wife. So? 🥱🥱🥱

Buratashi:
Your se second point is not valid, cos if I had wanted her to have a baby soonest is for Me to bribe her superiors in her office but wanted due process.. my fear hence this tread to know if it's natural or something wrong with me hence I can go n seek medical help so that once the proper time reaches I won't be firing blank. That's my point, I never intended ending her career

You are wasting your time trying validate yourself from that guy. He made himself minister of women affairs and is blindly biased on it exactly how he is on all subjects

To your case, the truth you know is that there is a pregnancy problem between you and your wife. Either 1 or both of you have a problem.

It is not normal that you you dump your boys into her and yet no pregnancy at all

StillDtruth:
You are wasting your time trying validate yourself from that guy. He made himself minister of women affairs and is blindly biased on it exactly how he is on all subjects

To your case, the truth you know is that there is a pregnancy problem between you and your wife. Either 1 or both of you have a problem.

It is not normal that you you dump your boys into her and yet no pregnancy at all

I pray God takes absolute control

Buratashi:
I pray God takes absolute control

Also, go for check up for something is wrong

Where did you see washing sperm listed as a contraceptive method. She's probably smarter and more experienced by doing the reasonable thing, going on contraceptives if you aren't ready for conception.

Kobojunkie:
I hope she learns to love herself before that day so she knows to put herself first, realizing that she and that baby(whenever she decides to have one) will ultimately not be happy if she loses her career and/or progress in the process. 🥱🥱🥱

2. You calling yourself her backbone while blatantly trying each time to get her pregnant to destroy her career is what is a big deal.

This woman eh. He hates his wife and sponsored her through school??

Buratashi:
Amen

Oh boy, if you said she was pregnant for you while dating and you are sure you and her are fertile.

And you have been lashing very often while you pour inside, then that woman is on contraceptives.

I have heard of many stories when women go to clinic to insert contraceptives into their womb without husband knowledge.

Oga stop stressing yourself,that woman is using pregnancy prevention pills.if you like argue with yourself.

Buratashi:
You don't seem to get my point..
Have seen couples who are into family planning atimes accidentally get pregnant.
I perfectly understand the situation am in cos of her work and am ready to wait till her time to have a child reaches, but my issue here is all these while we've been doing it (xx) with no proper protection except washing the semen after every act. At least along the line I was even hoping to here something like ha baby it's like I ve missed my period o.. we were not careful the last time or I didn't wash properly or the pre cum went in before I washed ( you understand me now) , But nothing. My concern now is it that have been shooting blank all these while or is it that she do washes every drop of the semen that enters.

Something might not be right somewhere...

I thought of the birth control pills angle too. But you insist she isn't taking contraceptives and so might be ruled out since she is even the one that drew your attention to the matter and it's something of concern to her she isn't getting pregnant.


Washing with water is a waste of time and effort.

Op the truth and fact is that her getting pregnant previously isn't a guarantee that she is fertile as you put it. A lot of things might have happened within the space of time after.


She was pregnant before what methods were used to not be president anymore?


The best way to get answers to your question is a medical examination!

eepeepook:
Are you looking for a child or you’re just curious to see if you can impregnate her?

he is reflecting on the fact she didn't get pregnant once. Don't be dumb

Kobojunkie:
Bribe her superiors..something that will require you pay money, abi? 🥱🥱🥱

2. Wanted due process my arse. You going raw on a woman whom you said isn't infertile and also made clear could have her career ruined if she were to get pregnant at this time is this due process, right? .🤨🤨

I didn't create this thread. You did! And you did so to let us know well of your intents against your wife. So? 🥱🥱🥱

are u dumb or bored

Buratashi:
Have heard you, am wicked n selfish thank you . Sorry to say it's like your brain works anticlockwise. See the way you just turn the narrative

Seems you're a newbie...

Avoid this Monika for your sanity sake.