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oldguyman:
✓ To raise the child that later the woman will still come and manipulate the children against him?

ope2711:
When my family called her this afternoon, she said she's leaving me forever that she's traveling abroad by next week. I've called her family and explained everything to them, but til now I've not seen any reply.

ayomilore:
How old is she and has she been acting like having extra marital affairs lately?

ope2711:
She's 37 and she's not been acting like having extra marital affairs before. But I noticed recently she changed emotionally and whenever I asked her what happened she used to say nothing.

Kobojunkie:
That usually means she has been having problems in the relationship with you but you both never came around to resolving it, and she eventually decided it best to check out of. It completely. I will tell you this ...your primary focus at this point should not be the woman who seems to have planned her exit for a long time and according to you, checked out emotionally long before this. Your focus should be those children ---:their mental and emotional health. 🥱🥱

Again, they are your children and it is also your job to care for them and ensure to greatly minimize the blow of what happened on them 🥱🥱🥱

ope2711:
Please house I need your help, the wife that I've married for over 14 years now just left me today with 4 children. We didn't have any issue before until 31st of December, 2025 when I discovered a photocopy of Nigeria passport in her bag and fighting started when I asked her what was going on. We've been dragging this since that day but today she confessed that she's already done with me and I should not worry about her anymore. She left my house this morning o. Today is the most saddest day of my life. Pls pray for me and my children.

muyico:
Congratulations 👏🎉 to you
Free from bondages

Kobojunkie:
Freedom with 4 kids? You mean Oo should abandon the children with family members like many you do so they --- the children -- can then raise themselves? 🥱🥱🥱

manuelkel:
✓ Ain't leaving my kids for anyone to raise.
Except am dead or I'm in jail.

We4all:
Your wife only left the house and you are already crying. What will you do if she decides to leave you forever?

When I keep preaching to people not to give birth to a football or basketball team, they won't listen.

Imagine if you had just a kid, or at most two....you won't even bother if your partner leaves you because one or two kid can easily be taken care of.

ope2711:
They've eaten this morning. though they are not happy this afternoon, they refused to eat.
Their ages
4
7
11
14
They're resuming school tomorrow 5-01-2026 by God's grace. But I'm very sure they won't go tomorrow.

oldguyman:
Take the kids to her family and act like you don't care. Your greatest mistake is allowing her to leave without the children. You should have just tell her to go with her kids. How sure are you that you are the real father of the 4 children?

A4alpha:
Move on already as the only reason why this woman will come back to you is if she fails in her attempt to relocate or being rejected by her lover but the truth is she had since emotionally checked out of the marriage long before now so don't even blame it on the fight because it is in line with her plan to create problem as an escape route and you fell for it.

Don't not allow yourself to be used as an option and don't rush into another marriage for now and the next 2 years atleast.

Good luck to you mister.

ope2711:
Please house I need your help, the wife that I've married for over 14 years now just left me today with 4 children. We didn't have any issue before until 31st of December, 2025 when I discovered a photocopy of Nigeria passport in her bag and fighting started when I asked her what was going on. We've been dragging this since that day but today she confessed that she's already done with me and I should not worry about her anymore. She left my house this morning o. Today is the most saddest day of my life. Pls pray for me and my children.

dominique:
I wish we can hear her side of the story. No woman will ever leave where she's having peace of mind, I hope it will take long for you men to realise this. You think you're the only ones deserving of peace abi? Una eyes go soon clear.

ope2711:
Yes! I'm so tired and confused Sir, pls pray for me

Gotocourt:
Hope all your assets documents are intact , you will be glad she left later📌💯.

APOPTOSIS:
✓ My sister, u don't have to marry since you are already having peace as a spinster. Do you want to gamble with your peace? Remain in your Fathers house, it's not a crime.
If men come around seeking for your hand in marriage, please make it known to them that you are married to your Father.
As a lady, you don't have to be married in order to find peace ?🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

ope2711:
That's problem I have for now, I don't even know what to do. Nobody is here except her children.

dawnomike:
Where do you reside?

Saybal:
✓ Sorry bro for what you are passing ,don't take decisions in a hurry ,and don't let anyone guilt trip you that you are at fault . They are like dat. you have not done anything to warrant dat ,there is no love , is just a business transaction ,she has moved with the highest bidder.

ope2711:
When my family called her this afternoon, she said she's leaving me forever that she's traveling abroad by next week. I've called her family and explained everything to them, but til now I've not seen any reply.

Kobojunkie:
You mean he should abandon his kids with his mother like you did yours too? Because last I checked children at the major burden in marriage to men, not necessarily the wife whom many have no problem emotionally and mentally cheating on. 🥱🥱🥱