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He’s right.
But if you think he’s wrong, you’re also right.
And if you think everyone arguing about it is missing the point, congratulations… you’re right too.

Welcome to modern arguments. Where confidence passes for truth and volume replaces thinking.

Today, everyone walks into debates already decided. Not to understand. Not to test ideas. But to defend an identity. Once an opinion becomes part of who someone is, facts stop mattering. Evidence feels like an attack. And listening becomes surrender.

So arguments turn into performances.
People talk past each other.
Nobody moves an inch.
Everyone leaves thinking they won.

The funny part? Most of these arguments are not about objective reality. They are about perspective, experience, values, ego, and emotion. Two people can look at the same situation, see different things, and both be internally consistent. That does not mean there is no truth. It means truth is often more complex than one angle.

But complexity does not trend well. Certainty does.

So here we are. A world where perception often replaces reality. Where being loud feels like being correct. Where people confuse “this makes sense to me” with “this is universally true.”

At some point, you realize something freeing.
Not every disagreement needs a verdict.
Not every argument needs your energy.
And not every opinion deserves a response.

You can carry your understanding without forcing it on others.
You can accept that someone else’s view works for them without making it yours.
You can step back from endless debates that produce heat but zero clarity.

Because most arguments are not about truth.
They are about feeling right.

And peace begins when you stop trying to win conversations that were never designed to be honest in the first place.

Carry your perspective.
Let others carry theirs.
No stress. No dragging. No emergency analysis.

Sometimes, the smartest move is simply opting out.

Cc nlfpmod seun Dominique

People feel they are always correct.

Dpsychologist:
People feel they are always correct.

Especially the religionists. Just visit Nairaland religion section and see all sorts parading the streets.

HeatSeeker:
Especially the religionists. Just visit Nairaland religion section and see all sorts parading the streets.

you have had serious altercation with them i guess.