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Alaafin Owoade : An Embodiment Of Humility

BY BODE DUROJAIYE, Director of Media and Publicity to the Alaafin, Paramount Ruler of Oyo Kingdom and the Superior Head of Yorubaland.

Whenever there are thoughts of traits, leaders typically exhibit what
come to minds of many people including strength, charisma, enthusiasm,
and vision.

One important component is often overlooked, which is humility.

There had been talks about the power of persuasion and this
over-the-top self-confidence in leaders, which is a very top-down
style oalaaf leadership.

People are increasingly competitive, attention-seeking, arrogance,
over-confidence, entitlement ,a perpetual focus on the self, and
narcissistic, obsessed with their appearance and entitled.

The essence of humility is recognizing your own limitations and place in the world without diminished self-worth, focusing outward, and valuing others; it's about thinking of yourself less, not thinking less of yourself, manifesting as openness, deep listening, acknowledging imperfection, and a willingness to learn and grow, contrasting with prideful self-importance.

It's a quiet strength that fosters connection and collaboration by seeing shared humanity and appreciating wisdom from all sources.

Recognising one’s limitations and interdependence fosters a humble approach to life.

All religions emphasise humility in both behaviour and belief, as they highlight the importance of responding with humility and kindness, even in the face of adversity.

They place high value on humility, as humility is seen as a necessary attribute for spiritual growth and ethical living.

What is more, kindness is sometimes perceived as weakness in a world that often rewards aggression and self-interest. However, true strength lies in the ability to be kind and compassionate despite the potential for exploitation.

In reflecting on these , it becomes clear that humility is a universal value, celebrated across various religious and philosophical traditions. It is about recognising our interconnectedness and the value of others, regardless of our own status or success.

To the Alaafin , Paramount Ruler of Oyo Kingdom and the Superior Head of Yorubaland, Oba Engineer Akeem Abimbola Owoade 1, humility is, ""the highest virtue, the mother of them all"".

Oba Owoade is humble to a fault, as he does not only respect and give courtesy to others, give himself that same courtesy and respect in return, assertive, not aggressive, self-confident but never at the expense of others, and give to others what they would essentially like to give to themselves.

Oba Owoade is open and receptive to alternate perspectives and ideas, and does not put on an act to try to live up to lofty standards and expectations.

As a result, Alaafin experiences less stress and anxiety, but always open to learning from every experience.

The Paramount Ruler puts others on a pedestal before himself, and this is not because they are inferior, weak-minded or lacking in self-esteem, but rather because he clearly understands that by raising others helps build their confidence.

These virtues of the Foremost King of Yoruba nation are still being appreciated during his thank you visits to virtually prominent Yoruba Obas who attended his colourful coronation ceremony , and also to extend hands of unity, mutual co existence and love to the royal fathers for the much needed peace and development which had long been eluding the Yoruba nation.

These steps clearly portrayed the Alaafin as an inspirational FATHER, who clearly understands how to play each role for the greater benefits of the traditional institutions in Yoruba land.

Alaafin not only have a zest and appreciation for life, appreciate the smallest of things that others typically take for granted, and Is intensely focused on serving the greater good of others, Oba Owoade is always keenly aware of people’s desire, wants and needs.

Oba Owoade is of the conviction that "" unity holds the essential vision that we are one living, interconnected ecosystem—a living Earth that supports and nourishes all of its inhabitants. If we acknowledge and honor this simple reality, we can begin to participate in the vital work of healing our fractured and divisive world and embrace a consciousness of oneness that is our human heritage. This is the opportunity that is being offered to us, even as its dark twin is constellating the dynamics of nationalism, tribalism, isolationism, and all the other regressive forces that express ‘me’ rather than ‘we.’"

As a result, he listens intently when others are talking, and seek first to understand before jumping to any wayward conclusions.

As we navigate the complexities of success and human interactions, embodying humility can lead to more meaningful and respectful relationships, fostering a world where power and kindness coexist harmoniously.

To the Alaafin , Paramount Ruler of Oyo Kingdom and the Superior Head of Yorubaland, Oba Engineer Akeem Abimbola Owoade 1, humility is, ""the highest virtue, the mother of them all"".

Oba Owoade is humble to a fault, as he does not only respect and give courtesy to others, give himself that same courtesy and respect in return, assertive, not aggressive, self-confident but never at the expense of others, and give to others what they would essentially like to give to themselves.

Humility is an action displayed by an actor and visually perceived by the audience, not a press released by the PR for the damage control.

Honour is bestowed and respect is earned. Alaafin Owoade had honour bestowed on him by the stool, the respect is left for him to be earned through his attitude.

When you look for inferiority complex, you see Alaafin Owoade. The charisma, exhibition, attitude and facial expressions depict someone zealous to prove that “emi na ko kere ninu aiye”.

Majority of these newly coronated Obas starting from Ooni, Olubadan, Soun, Owa et al all tried to rebuild, renovate the existing palaces or build a new one, showing that they were “atobatele” before becoming the kings. Unlike Owoade with no touch on the palace, seeking the Governor to do the renovation. As princes they were, they were far bigger than Prince Owoade in financial and social status. Alaafin Owoade is trying to puff up as a defence mechanism so that he can be seen the same way the other kings are seen.

He should have patiently waited for the position of Alaafin stool to elevate him rather than him trying to elevate himself when he doesn’t have all it takes to do that. He has now been relegated to the status of kinds like Oluwo and other second class kings

The public disgrace Oba Ladoja gave to this Alaafin dey sweet me die. That's how you deal with a weak dude who thinks he is a bully because Ooni of Ife is a calm guy.

To the Alaafin , Paramount Ruler of Oyo Kingdom and the Superior Head of Yorubaland, Oba Engineer Akeem Abimbola Owoade 1, humility is, ""the highest virtue, the mother of them all"".

If you want to live long and have a happy ending, never in your life refer to Alaafin of Aago ooja as superior head of Yorubaland orelse Ogun a pa e nii

festacman:
The public disgrace Oba Ladoja gave to this Alaafin dey sweet me die. That's how you deal with a weak dude who thinks he is a bully because Ooni of Ife is a calm guy.

It sweet every sensible Yoruba person

A king that has not met with all the oyo mesi and he wants to command respect like the late alaafin is amusing