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This is seriously serious what kind of wicked ness is this?

iLoveYouToo:
Sometimes family will never help you except you’re dying. Why save me and return me to the situation I was in?

We need to learn to be our brothers’ keepers.

Now to the subject matter: I don’t know the dynamics in that family but this is wrong, totally wrong.

Honestly, I wouldn’t want anyone paying ransom for me.

Family can’t raise ₦7 million to help someone japa, but they will raise twice that amount in a week to free someone only to go back to a 9-to-5 (while the smelling kidnappers waste the money on women and drugs). 😢

iLoveYouToo:
Sometimes family will never help you except you’re dying. Why save me and return me to the situation I was in?

We need to learn to be our brothers’ keepers.

Now to the subject matter: I don’t know the dynamics in that family but this is wrong, totally wrong.

Nobody owes you anything.

If you yourself can’t help yourself, how do you expect someone else to be able to help.

Something you no get you expect that another person would have it to give you.

ode , its not a must they help oga , stop justifying rubbish there. you go and work hard to earn your own money and pray too , instead of your useless sense of entitlement . if you see any family favor and u get the help, Thank God , its your right but just privilege/grace

iLoveYouToo:
Sometimes family will never help you except you’re dying. Why save me and return me to the situation I was in?

We need to learn to be our brothers’ keepers.

Now to the subject matter: I don’t know the dynamics in that family but this is wrong, totally wrong.

iLoveYouToo:
Sometimes family will never help you except you’re dying. Why save me and return me to the situation I was in?

We need to learn to be our brothers’ keepers.

Now to the subject matter: I don’t know the dynamics in that family but this is wrong, totally wrong.

Stop this useless talk, it's this sort of entitlement mentality that killed our country.

Nigerian government hasn't created a social support to help anyone in Nigeria, no family members can replace that.

The family dynamics of this particular case doesn't matter, a crime is a crime.

No excuse for criminality, the man is a criminal, period.

Some people are mean. These may make some not to want to help in time of needs anymore. Imagine selling your property at distress price only to realize that your money is being used to flex by the same person you are doing it for

Lazy ediot m go work for your own money , it is not right family must help u. weyre

faceland:
Honestly, I wouldn’t want anyone paying ransom for me.

Family can’t raise ₦7 million to help someone japa, but they will raise twice that amount in a week to free someone only to go back to a 9-to-5 (while the smelling kidnappers waste the money on women and drugs). 😢

faceland:
Honestly, I wouldn’t want anyone paying ransom for me.

Family can’t raise ₦7 million to help someone japa, but they will raise twice that amount in a week to free someone only to go back to a 9-to-5 (while the smelling kidnappers waste the money on women and drugs). 😢

See entitlement mentality.

This people want to start lying about people staging their own kidnap just to downplay the height of insecurity in Ekpoma? Smh

It’s upsetting to hear this. We should talk about solutions, not just shock.

The heart of man is desperately wicked,who can know it and the love of money is the root of all evil.

Your brother love you so much that he sold his property to rescue you from fake kidnapping and you will have mind to spend that money.
God have mercy.

Ameboperoo:
Some people are mean. These may make some not to want to help in time of needs anymore. Imagine selling your property at distress price only to realize that your money is being used to flex by the same person you are doing it for

That is the depth of evil committed by this wicked soul, blocking the door of mercy to a genuine victim.

Caicedobets:
Why do they keep hiding these unfortunate people's picture

Send their picture so we can know them and shame them

How can you share someone's picture that hasn't been pronounced guilty by the court! He is still innocent until proven otherwise, How can you just conclude by a social media post? What if his angry relative is just being paranoid and bribed the police to extract such confession from him under duress? What if it's even something different that happened but the family member wants to teach him a lesson? I'm a lawyer and we see slot of things beyond human imagination in court. So just calm down and stop being emotional!

Let me even share this story with you!

In 2021 I was contacted by a family whose relative was held at Oko prison in Benin City, Edo State. When I got to the prison, the guy was called out from his cell, and I asked him what transpired in the presence of the prison warders, this young man startled telling me how him and some persons went to kill a man and his wife. I was shocked because that's not what I was told by his family members. Then I asked him again, and he said he committed murder, then when the prison warders saw that I was getting upset, they told the guy to tell me the truth. So he then told me the real story I was told about owing his pharmaceutical company for the drugs he was supplied as a rep of the company, but he sold them and didn't remit the money.
It was later on after his release that he told us that at the prison, the prison warders normally share crimes to them different from the one they committed, and any time the controller general of prison or any other senior official visits, and they are asked what crime brought them there, they'll tell them the crime those warders shared to them

babakb:
See entitlement mentality.

You missed my point.
I’m saying ransom is not caring & death is better than that kind of 'concern'.
Why wait until someone is kidnapped to show concern, when no one invested in them before?

Paying kidnappers is like taking responsibility for their victims... Why not tell the kidnappers to go to hell instead? People will suddenly send millions to free a “precious” family member (the same family member they have never even given ₦100k before for personal development). Something about that just isn’t right.

Until death sentence mode is activated,
The politicians destroyed this country,
Past and present president destroyed this country,
Politicians, Senators, governors , civil servants etc destroyed this country,
The citizens destroyed this country

Sermwell:
How can you share someone's picture that hasn't been pronounced guilty by the court! He is still innocent until proven otherwise, How can you just conclude by a social media post? What if his angry relative is just being paranoid and bribed the police to extract such confession from him under duress? What if it's even something different that happened but the family member wants to teach him a lesson? I'm a lawyer and we see slot of things beyond human imagination in court. So just calm down and stop being emotional!

hey

Read the post again then quote me afterwards

Read slowly

Thanks

Caicedobets:
hey

Read the post again then quote me afterwards

Read slowly

Thanks

You want me to read the post again because the police claimed the man confessed to the crime? Hahaha you funny

Meanwhile, this will also be put on fulani heardmen head when it first happened..... it is well

Cant ypu put bloodon the vapids teeth ?
I love the concept though
How dyu do it ?

Justicemelvin:
Time to cash out. Annini look alike

Wait 0
Are you staying that the man was self incriminating himself because of the prison warders??
As In , can someone intentionally / willingly place his neck on the guillotine because of a warder ??
Was he hypnotized??
What kind of hold can they have over someone ro push them that far ??

Sermwell:
How can you share someone's picture that hasn't been pronounced guilty by the court! He is still innocent until proven otherwise, How can you just conclude by a social media post? What if his angry relative is just being paranoid and bribed the police to extract such confession from him under duress? What if it's even something different that happened but the family member wants to teach him a lesson? I'm a lawyer and we see slot of things beyond human imagination in court. So just calm down and stop being emotional!

Let me even share this story with you!

In 2021 I was contacted by a family whose relative was held at Oko prison in Benin City, Edo State. When I got to the prison, the guy was called out from his cell, and I asked him what transpired in the presence of the prison warders, this young man startled telling me how him and some persons went to kill a man and his wife. I was shocked because that's not what I was told by his family members. Then I asked him again, and he said he committed murder, then when the prison warders saw that I was getting upset, they told the guy to tell me the truth. So he then told me the real story I was told about owing his pharmaceutical company for the drugs he was supplied as a rep of the company, but he sold them and didn't remit the money.
It was later on after his release that he told us that at the prison, the prison warders normally share crimes to them different from the one they committed, and any time the controller general of prison or any other senior official visits, and they are asked what crime brought them there, they'll tell them the crime those warders shared to them

Axis313:
You mean The Grissom Gang, another name for it is No Orchid For Miss Blandish.
But the storyline differ slightly from this one.A small time criminal gang plan to kidnap a daughter of a billionaire for little amount,but when they eventually kidnap her,the plan leaked to the hands of a more cruel and sophisticated gang.
Before the father knows what is happening,the gang started by sending one of the ears of the girl to the father just to tell him they mean business.
I have read over 80 James Hadley Chase novels ,and I always wonder where the man got his inspiration from.

Honestly that man is a real time fiction.. how can someone be so creative with events... As far back as 1970-80s..


Have u read Malory? That one shocked me.

But , this story u said is not the one I seek, the one I meant is the daughter of the richest man in a town in France got an arranged kidnap by her step mom through a guy who just returned from. Prison and needing to please his wife financially...

The plan went well and sh simply walked to the kidnapper venue for hostage and when call started to the Dad, the step mom was supposed to stop the man from calling in police and simply pay the ransome.. ......but no, sh encourage police , reason being that sh sent someone else to go kill the kidnaped girl and even switched the suitcase containing the ransome and stopped picking the kidnappers calls...

That novel was so so interesting that u will leave your food on the fire and it will burn out

Helinues people.

bigpicture001:
Honestly that man is a real time fiction.. how can someone be so creative with events... As far back as 1970-80s..


Have u read Malory? That one shocked me.

But , this story u said is not the one I seek, the one I meant is the daughter of the richest man in a town in France got an arranged kidnap by her step mom through a guy who just returned from. Prison and needing to please his wife financially...

The plan went well and sh simply walked to the kidnapper venue for hostage and when call started to the Dad, the step mom was supposed to stop the man from calling in police and simply pay the ransome.. ......but no, sh encourage police , reason being that sh sent someone else to go kill the kidnaped girl and even switched the suitcase containing the ransome and stopped picking the kidnappers calls...

That novel was so so interesting that u will leave your food on the fire and it will burn out

James Hadley Chase was an alien when it comes to novel writing,up till now I am unable to find a writer that can measure up to his standard except a few like Sidney Sheldon, John Grisham, Danielle Steele etc.

Patriotic9ja:
The signs of entitlement mentality

You folks shouting entitlement this, entitlement that always end up needing help in the evening. Is it not abnormal that you will be up there while your blood relations are living in misery? There is a reason people come into this world through the family system. It is so that the system can aid in their development and establishment.

I detest mindsets like yours. I have cousins like you who today are the ones looking for help. Make proper research about people like you, e nor dey ever end well them. Last last, one sickness will wipe out all that you have. Boom! You are all over social media begging for rescue. Whenever I see aged people who are abandoned, I always ask, "Where are their family members? Where are the people they supported? Who did they raise?"

This is why I respect men like Tinubu, Oyedepo, and even Wike. These men have men that they singlehandedly raised. It is their insurance as they grow older, weaker and unable to compete as before.

Stop this nonsense entitlement shit! You will grow old and you will need men! You sow and you reap! Try dey help people nau because day go dark one day.

KingRabota:
Wait 0
Are you staying that the man was self incriminating himself because of the prison warders??
As In , can someone intentionally / willingly place his neck on the guillotine because of a warder ??
Was he hypnotized??
What kind of hold can they have over someone ro push them that far ??

Did you just say "because of a prison warder"? The life of a prisoner is in the hands of a prison warder!! The prisoners know the consequences of refusing to comply with any instructions given to them!! You as a free man would never understand!

Axis313:
You mean The Grissom Gang, another name for it is No Orchid For Miss Blandish.
But the storyline differ slightly from this one.A small time criminal gang plan to kidnap a daughter of a billionaire for little amount,but when they eventually kidnap her,the plan leaked to the hands of a more cruel and sophisticated gang.
Before the father knows what is happening,the gang started by sending one of the ears of the girl to the father just to tell him they mean business.
I have read over 80 James Hadley Chase novels ,and I always wonder where the man got his inspiration from.

Hmmmm 🤔 you are like me then! I read JHC and Pacesetters Mill and Boon. We are raising generation of twitter format now: Fast Buck in JHC plus Stop Press Murder in PS is bringing nostalgia of olden days. I salute you boss

Samsam141619:
Hmmmm 🤔 you are like me then! I read JHC and Pacesetters Mill and Boon. We are raising generation of twitter format now: Fast Buck in JHC plus Stop Press Murder in PS is bringing nostalgia of olden days. I salute you boss

All his novels are page turners,I have all his novels on my phone,I can't get tired of reading them even I still get other ones from other writers like Sidney Sheldon and John Grisham but JHC is the best.

Axis313:
James Hadley Chase was an alien when it comes to novel writing,up till now I am unable to find a writer that can measure up to his standard except a few like Sidney Sheldon, John Grisham, Danielle Steele etc.

John grisham is fictional law novel quite Interesting also. Sydney Sheldon didn't write much but take too long to arrange his plots only one Daniel steel novel.

Now I remember that title I seek. " Just another sucker"

Do u knw hardly chase wrote a book about himself.. a novelist who is eager to get into crime fiction stories ND didn't know how to go about it.. so he went to a private investigators and lied that he suspected his wife and want them to help him monitor her...

The they assigned him a private dick who was broke ND that will do the job.. the man corners the private detective and offered to pay him more if he can b briefing him twice a week on exactly how he does the job... He never told the man he is a writer and only interested in the details of his operations so he could copy and write it in his book.

The detective went about trailing his wife.. till he stumbled upon a more interesting secret of the wife.. which is not cheating, but the wife is not who husband thought she is..

The wife is a double and has an identical sister who has long switched places with the wife and then live with the man like his wife.. her main aim is to establish a drug cartel base in carlifornia for a very notorious cartel . This cartel finds it extremely difficult to penetrate the US, but sh did it..

Title: "A can if worms"

Idiot, now you don share your family money with strangers. Those ones don run, na you dem catch. Make una send am go eat watery beans jare

What an evil-minded brother. May God not allow us have this kind of wicked relation.

Men supporting men. We are seeing it life.
Hahahahahahahaha

iLoveYouToo:
Sometimes family will never help you except you’re dying. Why save me and return me to the situation I was in?

We need to learn to be our brothers’ keepers.

Now to the subject matter: I don’t know the dynamics in that family but this is wrong, totally wrong.

Why would you expect someone 'who needed to sell his property before he could pay your ransom' to help you? Does that person look like someone who could help you financially but intentionally refused?