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UkoAnnang:


I would have say something but at this time my heart is freeze

talk naa

Paul is on ground to grab u for a good shake down

Ask that other lady wetin her eyes see

QuinQQ:
Cc LordReed advanceDNA

What is there to see here?

Omo you get problem O

BettyBlac:
I want to save face.
I'm in need of a fave-saver
Me at 35, not into any serious relationship, never been and it's sickening, I'm not lame but still single, never had a girlfriend let alone fiance, wife or any tagged for inverse partner, never been in a romantic relationship even though it's what I phantom since I indirectly became boy.

Due to some societal or psychological factors I reason so much or what I anchored my mind on its now hard for me to bounce out or back as happy boy.

Finding it difficult to bounce back with old friends as I felt like they are now on a league of their own. I'm so broke but still having a spec but can't see any girl due to probably negligence or great fear or knowing who is who or methods, ignorance they say it's blis but it's still confusing. I don't have skills for generating constant money, this is why I need money to get a skill,

I see relationship as a very costly and can't afford it or get dominated by a kind of society fear. Let me say I'm failing my theory of general relativity with opposite sex, it's like I don't know what I need for myself want for myself as it feels like dragging an entire linage of clan, organisations etc to myself.

I'm so broke but not broken, as an adult, I now understand the psychological relationship between human and money and want to align in respect to everyone around, getting a girl simultaneously with money at same time going on.

I believe I have a potential as I have studied enough and can be funny, I have a kind of self control it's now looks like I'm selfish,

I was suffering from shyness while growing up as introvert, everything is like a name for cover-up now to me now.

Most things I consider insane are now sane.

I haven't experience through love.
This is insanity, I'm like am starved of sex but I can't blame anyone again.

Want a kind of girl that can talk calmness into my mind, a girl that can sing me to sleep.

I'm being over stubborn and it's not benefiting me in the society. I'm someone on alone lane and needs a call to order of the mind, vagus.
I study stuff instead of practicing it, play betting instead of birthing.


Afraid I can't keep a relationship because of intruders that will come as advicers or God sent as I don't take those ideas much serious.

Now I want gather courage and go find work to stand on my own and fend for myself instead of being a burden to someone.

Learning to manoeuvre difficulty of life.

I have understood the world in certain %.
I was going against top odds.

Lack of coherent communication.

I was saying I want to learn a skill until it started sounding like I want to give birth to that particular skill.
I used to watch porn but I have vehemently stopped it.

I can't open my mouth and say what I want as it will sound some how as I feel others want it too.

Two hundred thousand naira will put me through in having a skill like season, electronic is my field of expertise but I know everything is related to sex,

I haven't gone anywhere and told I can't father a child biologically, connection I want.
Just want to test true love but I think money is backups otherwise.

Paulo don go carry Aljenu

You have to be religious, if you're not religious, you cannot get to highest offices in the country.
Your mind self no go touch ground
You no fit happy like that and your connection to bigger people no fit come through
Just believe and be religious whether christian or Muslim.
Just be religious
Even Babalawo cannot become Nigeria president

LordReed:
What is there to see here?

Jesus.
Jesus saving people all over

QuinQQ:
Jesus.
Jesus saving people all over

Nope. It just someone saying so. If someone had wrote the same about Buddha or Vishnu would you believe?

LordReed:
Nope. It just someone saying so. If someone had wrote the same about Buddha or Vishnu would you believe?

But no one does, Muhammad either. It is always JESUS!

pocohantas:
I wish I am joking. It is something I have noticed for years. 😂😂😂

You are not wrong. Check it out. Once you marry, 5 years down the line you start looking like your mum's age mate.

They want a wife, housemaid, chef, side chic, mother, home manager and bed mate at the same time. Is that not slavery?
For his family, you are a bought slave.

When you show sign of fatigue and weakness, you become a scorned feminist.

Best bet is to lay your cards on the table from the beginning. Celebrities and the celebrity marriage isthe worst hit cos you should be smiling and suffering.

descarado:
You are not wrong. Check it out. Once you marry, 5 years down the line you start looking like your mum's age mate.

They want a wife, housemaid, chef, side chic, mother, home manager and bed mate at the same time. Is that not slavery?
For his family, you are a bought slave.

When you show sign of fatigue and weakness, you become a scorned feminist.

Best bet is to lay your cards on the table from the beginning. Celebrities and the celebrity marriage isthe worst hit cos you should be smiling and suffering.

There was a word a lady on IG used. I think she said religious schizophrenia. Way back I had a senior colleague that almost had high bp convincing me I would become religious once I marry. He said it will just happen as I need to be spiritually strong for the family. It makes me wonder where these supposed heads of the home come in. This small girl used to be bubbly o. 2 years in marriage and she done turn evangelist. 😂

pocohantas:
There was a word a lady on IG used. I think she said religious schizophrenia. Way back I had a senior colleague that almost had high bp convincing me I would become religious once I marry. He said it will just happen as I need to be spiritually strong for the family. It makes me wonder where these supposed heads of the home come in. This small girl used to be bubbly o. 2 years in marriage and she done turn evangelist. 😂

as a man, i think there may also be a self fulfilling prophecy aspect to it.
where women embrace the false virtue of suffering and struggle and reject efforts/choices to make things easier on them

GloriousGbola:
as a man, i think there may also be a self fulfilling prophecy aspect to it.
where women embrace the false virtue of suffering and struggle and reject efforts/choices to make things easier on them

True! I have seen this one too. I have seen some refuse to allow the man parent. Just to give an illusion they are the active and default parent.
Why do they do that? Is there an award for them?

pocohantas:
True! I have seen this one too. I have seen some refuse to allow the man parent. Just to give an illusion they are the active and default parent.
Why do they do that? Is there an award for them?

i think because women have been taught that children are their revenge for an unhappy marriage

so there is an active or passive plan on the part of the wife to reduce the fathers presence with the long term goal of being the preferred parent when the children are older

since the common story is about children neglecting the father in his old age.

QuinQQ:
But no one does, Muhammad either. It is always JESUS!

Wrong. Are you that sheltered? You don't know people of other faiths have miraculous claims as well?

Even 😈 go shout say Jesus,save am. This is nothing new.

Lolz, this world na cruise.

LordReed:
Wrong. Are you that sheltered? You don't know people of other faiths have miraculous claims as well?

Give an example where anyone said they gave their lives to Muhammad or Buddha entered them and it changed their Lives. Jesus IS alive and actually interacts with people and enters people's hearts!

GloriousGbola:
i think because women have been taught that children are their revenge for an unhappy marriage

so there is an active or passive plan on the part of the wife to reduce the fathers presence with the long term goal of being the preferred parent when the children are older.

since the common story is about children neglecting the father in his old age.

This! It is a long term plan.

QuinQQ:
Give an example where anyone said they gave their lives to Muhammad or Buddha entered them and it changed their Lives. Jesus IS alive and actually interacts with people and enters people's hearts!

https://roundglassliving.com/meditation/articles/buddhism-helped-me-heal-from-addiction

Islam helped a man overcome addiction and homelessness: https://www./419762761835766/posts/2317119478766742/

Therefore Buddhism and Islam are true, when will you believe and convert?

LordReed:
https://roundglassliving.com/meditation/articles/buddhism-helped-me-heal-from-addiction

Islam helped a man overcome addiction and homelessness: https://www./419762761835766/posts/2317119478766742/

Therefore Buddhism and Islam are true, when will you believe and convert?

Funny guy. Did I say Christianity? I specifically said A PERSON: JESUS!!
So give equivalent example about Mohammed or Buddha