I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence - Family (5)

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Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by QuinQQ: 6:04pm On Jan 26

Diamond098454:
Kobo
What's your plans now in terms of marriage?

Are you in a relationship now? Are you planning to give marriage a chance again?

"Give marriage a chance". Like she has a line of people waiting to marry her/him! grin

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Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by QuinQQ: 6:05pm On Jan 26

Diamond098454:
You would have tried sorting thing out with her. Women are so soft and very understandable

Women soft and very understandable. Wicked sarcasm😅

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Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by QuinQQ: 6:08pm On Jan 26

jaxxy:
Sometimes People talk about marriage like they didn't know what they were doing when they were dating.

Nobody changes to a monster or stranger overnight, the signs are always they even when they pretend, if ure attentive u will see it at dome point but u ignore those red flags and don't even question them to gain clarity or address them to maybe correct them where possible cos once ure marriage its all water under the bridge.

If you're doing signs and clarity u go wait tire. Everybody has signs including you!😅

Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by QuinQQ: 6:13pm On Jan 26*

Kobojunkie:
a) Marriage is not an achievement.
b) Leaving a marriage is not the end of a life. You had life, dreams and desires -- longings-- while you were single. Those dreams ,desires and longings never disappear whether you are married or divorced
c) your dreams and desires are part of who you are. Never sacrifice or compromise them for the desires and dreams of another individual, not even someone you claim to be married to. That longing will always be there telling you of how much you should be doing with the time you have. . They should be part of your non-negotiable in life.
d) Center and love yourself first regardless of where you are in life. 🥱🥱🥱

Not bad, but...
Everybody keeps saying marriage is not an achievement. What then is an achievement? That you got some poor slob to swear to spend the rest of their lives with you (with all your ridiculous faults) is not an achievement?

Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by QuinQQ: 6:33pm On Jan 26

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Oh come! It is screaming AI! see what the description on the YouTube video says:

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Never knew AI has become this perfect

Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by Diamond098454(f): 6:35pm On Jan 26

QuinQQ:
Women soft and very understandable. Wicked sarcasm😅

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Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by Diamond098454(f): 6:36pm On Jan 26

She is a beautiful woman and men like beautiful ladies a lot

QuinQQ:
"Give marriage a chance". Like she has a line of people waiting to marry her/him!

Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by QuinQQ: 6:40pm On Jan 26

Diamond098454:
She is a beautiful woman and men like beautiful ladies a lot

She's a trans woman. It's a niche market

Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by QuinQQ: 6:48pm On Jan 26

Nahunger:
Okay

Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by Diamond098454(f): 7:12pm On Jan 26

Hmmmm hmmmm hmmmm please don't say that.
She gave up her career in the name of marriage

QuinQQ:
She's a trans woman. It's a niche market

Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by jaxxy(m): 9:45pm On Jan 26

QuinQQ:
If you're doing signs and clarity u go wait tire. Everybody has signs including you!😅

offcourse everybody has signs and that's how u know abd study people and if they are around u consistently u can tell what they are about even if they try to pretend.

Yr conclusion about them is based on what u see and interpret snd ur general interaction with them over time. I have seen enough nonesense or subtle concerns to end relationships in even a single date or day if u know what ure doing and some take a week or month. U don't continue if u see major concerns red flags and deal breakers.

Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by QuinQQ: 9:59pm On Jan 26

jaxxy:
offcourse everybody has signs and that's how u know abd study people and if they are around u consistently u can tell what they are about even if they try to pretend.

Yr conclusion about them is based on what u see and interpret snd ur general interaction with them over time. I have seen enough nonesense or subtle concerns to end relationships in even a single date or day if u know what ure doing.

You do realize people can, and do, change, sometimes radically. Sometimes for the worse, sometimes for the better. All these guys you see take their women abroad and they turn tigers over there, do you think they were tigers in Nigeria? Also, many women are very humble b4 marriage, then turn autocrats durring marriage!

Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by QuinQQ: 10:02pm On Jan 26

Diamond098454:
Hmmmm hmmmm hmmmm please don't say that.
She gave up her career in the name of marriage

I know Nigerian female "voice". She has male "voice" not female, despite the fact he/she is pro feminine

Besides, I've read her posts from long ago

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Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by jaxxy(m): 10:36am On Jan 27

QuinQQ:
You do realize people can, and do, change, sometimes radically. Sometimes for the worse, sometimes for the better. All these guys you see take their women abroad and they turn tigers over there, do you think they were tigers in Nigeria? Also, many women are very humble b4 marriage, then turn autocrats durring marriage!

People don't change overnight. There are always signs and tendencies. However ur ability to read this signs depends on ur experience in the game or with women or human associations and psychology.

its like when a mechanic can spot a problem in ur car b4 u who is just an average user of that car.

People don't change radically unless under external or other influences.

Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by Love800(m): 6:32pm On Jan 27

Lol.

I appreciate.

Pnutbota:
That's why u're not her

Re: I Left My Marriage At 69 After Forty Years Of Silence by nams77: 3:22pm On Jun 20

QuinQQ:
Well said... but I have this suspicion women have similar complaint about men

wrong! Men have very basic need.

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