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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by richiemcgold: 10:27am On Jan 29

No one is talking about the legal point if there might be any implications in the future. I think that's the info op needs most now.

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by duduade(m): 10:27am On Jan 29

Is OP a male or female

Let's first start from there

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by richiemcgold: 10:28am On Jan 29

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by popp(m): 10:28am On Jan 29

Kriely:
I sold mine to use the money to play sporty. I’m still paying debt.

Did you play Arsenal to win ManU and over two point five?

Re: I Sold My House, But.... by HOSTCOM(m): 10:29am On Jan 29

U f*ckup finish com dey ask for opinion. You better go and apologize to her before...

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Abizz(op): 10:32am On Jan 29

casdoruche:
She gifted you a land to build a house for your own comfort and not for business.

If she knew you were bent on doing business then she won’t have gifted you in the first place.

GRA wahala no be here. By the time they later inform you that GRA land is not for sale you will cough out the money.

Who said anything about business being the reason I sold the house?

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Abizz(op): 10:33am On Jan 29

richiemcgold:
No one is talking about the legal point if there might be any implications in the future. I think that's the info op needs most now.

Thank you.
Seems you're the only one who got my intents.

Legal standpoint is my ish considering it's a government reserved area.

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Flexyup: 10:35am On Jan 29

Had it been you were building another house you would have joyfully informed her. The truth is that you are not proud of your decision to sell that house and that's why u hid it. Meanwhile, it's already to late to inform her. I hope you the grace to achieve something bigger with the proceed of selling the house then you can tell her you had to sell the house to achieve this greater height.

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Tammy2705: 10:35am On Jan 29

thats was not right bro, you really needed to inform the lady, she ought to know

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Okechinwadike: 10:38am On Jan 29

Wish it is land APC data boys collect, rather 30k stipend chai

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Dzzzz: 10:39am On Jan 29

Don’t tell her or you may see the bad side of her..You didn’t carry her along when selling so why you want to carry her along now?..She may or may not drag you out.So it’s best you keep it to yourself..

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by BigCowHornn: 10:43am On Jan 29

Adexvivacity:
you actually should have informed her before selling the house and possibly she might have come to your aid if it was money you needed that made you sold it or you dont like the area but since you have sold the house without telling her, you have to keep living as if nothing happened, no need of telling her again. THE DEED HAS BEEN DONE.

Some people carry last in the class every year for a reason

Simple solutions simply never cross their mind.

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Dzzzz: 10:46am On Jan 29

BigCowHornn:
Some people carry last in the class every year for a reason

Simple solutions simply never cross their mind.

Wetin happen ?

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Dzzzz: 10:47am On Jan 29

Abizz:
Thank you.
Seems you're the only one who got my intents.

Legal standpoint is my ish considering it's a government reserved area.

Are you married?”

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Abizz(op): 11:02am On Jan 29

Dzzzz:
Are you married?”

Any connection to the discourse?

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by reservd(m): 11:03am On Jan 29

Abizz:
Good morning guys, I need clarification on something.
Some years ago, we were paid quite a sum at work, you know one of these unbelievable bonuses. One of my bosses who's always liked me called on me and advised I put the money to good use.
She specifically advised I should start working on building a house and she gifted me a parcel of land in a government reserved area to encourage me.

I have all necessary documents; The original Certificate of Occupancy and Deed of gifts with governor's consent.

The project took off and was completed the following year.
She was happy for me, congratulated me and that was the last time we talked about it. It's been over four years now.

I sold the house some weeks back and I'm wondering if I should have carried her along or engaged her dutifully from some legal standpoint.
Money is never her problem really, I'm just curious if normalcy demands I should have sought her permission before making the decision. One, as a boss who wants to see me do well in life. Two, as the gifter. Three, if there is any legal implications of not involving her or possible breach of intention.

You should have actually informed her of your intention before going ahead, not that she has a right to the property but out of respect and courtesy

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by casdoruche: 11:06am On Jan 29

Abizz:
Who said anything about business being the reason I sold the house?

Selling the house is business

You sold it for money

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by DeltaBachelor(m): 11:11am On Jan 29

Chai. One of a kind ‘kind of boss”. You are lucky o

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Dzzzz: 11:13am On Jan 29

Abizz:
Any connection to the discourse?

Why can’t you answer a simple question?

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by orikoku: 11:19am On Jan 29

Don't listen to those saying you should go and tell her after you have sold it. Never you try it, just move on and pretends nothing happened since you don't inform her before selling it. Ire ooo

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by HelenaWills(f): 11:24am On Jan 29

Sweetheart, first off, building is in a government reserved area that means anyone who bought would likely have a high-end lawyer that would vet and check every single comma in your documents. No one will make an offer if the documents aren't complete and legit. That alone strikes out any possiblity of legal erring since the house is sold already.

Abizz:
Thank you.
Seems you're the only one who got my intents.

Legal standpoint is my ish considering it's a government reserved area.

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Berankis: 11:26am On Jan 29*

Why would you even sell your house?
I don suffer for housing matter. If I finally get small change to complete the small one I abandoned for years now. Na to relocate be that... I now find it insulting living under Landlords.

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by BarrElChapo(m): 11:37am On Jan 29

While i agree that morally, he should have told her but really he is a man and even if he squanders the money from the house it his choice. The help was gifting him the land and documentation which isn't a small thing any metrics, she didn't build the house from him so i'm wondering what help you saying she'll render in the future.

Any gift that someone gifts you and feels you have to be reverting back to them becomes a shackle.

Thewrath:
It’s important he should have told her because she didn’t just gift him the land as a random gift,but as a boss who WANTS to see her employee or subject succeed in life,relished advised him to build a place of his own..

Secondly he might squander the money realized from selling the house or find himself in need again in future…..she might not be that willing anymore since he didn’t carry her along in the first place.

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by dequir: 11:38am On Jan 29*

Dzzzz:
Why can’t you answer a simple question?

Why are you asking a question that has nothing to do with his initial discourse?

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by BarrElChapo(m): 11:42am On Jan 29

You sold the property, it is the buyer that should worry about this not you. that is why there are prerequisites that must be undertaken before such as sale is made, if the buyer did not through their lawyer, then they have been negligent.

We cannot know what documents, your boss passed on to you prior because we cannot see them but you might want to seek the advise of a lawyer, who can peruse the documents handed to you.

Abizz:
Thank you.
Seems you're the only one who got my intents.

Legal standpoint is my ish considering it's a government reserved area.

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Bullhari: 11:49am On Jan 29

Abizz:
Good morning guys, I need clarification on something.
One of my bosses who's always liked me called on me and advised I put the money to good use.
She specifically advised I should start working on building a house and she gifted me a parcel of land in a government reserved area to encourage me.

I have all necessary documents; The original Certificate of Occupancy and Deed of gifts with governor's consent.

Someone's wife probably, gifted you a land with C of O in a GRA, just for liking you.
Anyway, it's not my business. I guess the likeness isn't as before, a lot has happened and you both are no longer liking each other as before.

my concern is where they pay such bonuses. Please no hide update

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by CorperKola: 11:58am On Jan 29

SultanOfPuna:
My uncle gifted me a Toyota Camry back in 2011 and i sold it 2013 without telling him.

Funny enough when I later told him I sold the Car.
He first look me for like 20 seconds just dey chew kolanut with dry gin.
Then said if he had know he would have sold the car himself and pocket the money

Na there Church scatter...
Thats someone you should keep in your life oedinarlily sef

That taught me how disrespectful it is to sell something gifted to you without informing the person that gifted it to you. My 2 cents

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by remele2(f): 12:03pm On Jan 29

you could have told her before selling, she might as well be interested in buying the property too.

but u for tell her.

I remember years back when my uncle had financial issue and resulted to selling his laptop , when he came to me, i asked him why he wanted to sell, he explained to me, I gave him the money and asked him not to sell his property.

he was happy and left, only for him to still sell the laptop.........that thing pan me ehhhhhh, I for kuku buy the laptop from am na .

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by merits(m): 12:23pm On Jan 29

Abizz:
Good morning guys, I need clarification on something.
Some years ago, we were paid quite a sum at work, you know one of these unbelievable bonuses. One of my bosses who's always liked me called on me and advised I put the money to good use.
She specifically advised I should start working on building a house and she gifted me a parcel of land in a government reserved area to encourage me.

I have all necessary documents; The original Certificate of Occupancy and Deed of gifts with governor's consent.

The project took off and was completed the following year.
She was happy for me, congratulated me and that was the last time we talked about it. It's been over four years now.

I sold the house some weeks back and I'm wondering if I should have carried her along or engaged her dutifully from some legal standpoint.
Money is never her problem really, I'm just curious if normalcy demands I should have sought her permission before making the decision. One, as a boss who wants to see me do well in life. Two, as the gifter. Three, if there is any legal implications of not involving her or possible breach of intention.

You don already sold the house without her consent just keep quiet and enjoy your money, must you tell her everything about yourself? You a man enough you can decide things for yourself.

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Dzzzz: 12:24pm On Jan 29

dequir:
Why are you asking a question that has nothing to do with his initial discourse?

it has everything to do with it..

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by Emdebby2: 12:37pm On Jan 29

To me two things are involved. First..I don't think gifts are supposed to be sold. Secondly...if there's need to raise emergency fund, and the only item at that moment was the gift, I think it should be sold. However, in your case, you should have carried her along before selling the house.

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Re: I Sold My House, But.... by deavicky(m): 12:38pm On Jan 29

Abizz:
Good morning guys, I need clarification on something.
Some years ago, we were paid quite a sum at work, you know one of these unbelievable bonuses. One of my bosses who's always liked me called on me and advised I put the money to good use.
She specifically advised I should start working on building a house and she gifted me a parcel of land in a government reserved area to encourage me.

I have all necessary documents; The original Certificate of Occupancy and Deed of gifts with governor's consent.

The project took off and was completed the following year.
She was happy for me, congratulated me and that was the last time we talked about it. It's been over four years now.

I sold the house some weeks back and I'm wondering if I should have carried her along or engaged her dutifully from some legal standpoint.
Money is never her problem really, I'm just curious if normalcy demands I should have sought her permission before making the decision. One, as a boss who wants to see me do well in life. Two, as the gifter. Three, if there is any legal implications of not involving her or possible breach of intention.

see how im feeling betrayed . Just wondering how the woman will feel.

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