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Lovit:
97% of women are bitter souls and rarely forgives

Its only someone who is not married that will doubt this man, although I think the man should have made more efforts by using the courts

Fear women!

EmpressTitan:
What women tolerate and forgive men for, you men can't take a quarter of it. When women churn out your nonsense to y'all, then women are bitter souls? Look in the mirror, thou art the man! Husbandman what are you sowing ready to reap the harvest? If you sow joy, you'd reap joy. If you sow tears, what do you expect to reap? Men, y'all need to be intentional about your wives, marriages and family.

dominique:
Imagine if the mother had not died and one of these children become a famous celebrity and wants nothing to do with him. He will go and start granting interviews and crying to the cameras that his children are avoiding him. How can you be alive and chose not to be actively involved in your children's lives?

All this talk about their mother blocking him from seeing them are bloody lies and utter balderdash. Did she lock them up in a vacuum chamber and made them inaccessible? You're in the same country for goodness sakes, why not take her to court if truly she was preventing you from seeing them?

She's dead now, you know she can't defend herself, you now want to use the same lame excuse men have been using for decades for refusing to be in their children's lives. Kolewerk!

cr7lomo:
Crap... e no go pass say de man knack another woman ... which is natural...man no suppose de with one woman .. a man will never deny the mother of his children access to the kids , no matter what she did to him ... but women are naturally bitter souls

mightyhaze:
Dead beat dad...he should be flogged

HacheNoire:
Fear women!

They will format those kids to hate you.

Similar way Afeni Shakur poisoned Tupac to extent that she even said his father was dead while dude was still alive.

Lovit:
97% of women are bitter souls and rarely forgives

Its only someone who is not married that will doubt this man, although I think the man should have made more efforts by using the courts

Fear women!

EmperorIsaac:
I shall not judge until I hear from him. Stop holding unto things as if you own tomorrow.

ruggedtimi:
I don’t support the father’s actions. However, speaking from experience as a single father, whenever my daughter goes to stay with her mother, she rarely answers my calls and often lies about their location just to prevent me from accessing my child. Honestly, it’s not as easy as people think. Sometimes she makes it feel like we’re in a competition. Now imagine if your child doesn’t even live with you at all.

zenburster:
The woman has 2/3 children for the same man I believe?

And none of the children know him?

How does that happen?

Was he a sperm donor or what exactly happened?

A Christian musician.

God is great

postigar:
Shut your mouth. You dont know the kind of things your gender can cook up

GOFRONT:
Now this man here want to come and reap where he did not sow.


Ekwu eme crooner Incidence share similarity with this.

otipoju:
Even the ones wey we dey house will try poison the children against the father little by little.

If you are the kind of father that does not play with the children and has no bond with them, she will succeed in gradually turning them against you.

If you know you want a friendly relationship with your adult children., be involved in their lives as children
bathe them, feed them, buy what they need and directly give it to them, help them with their homework and be available for them to talk to you about their lives.

If not as they grow older you will become a stranger that is merely being tolerated in your own house.

After you do all this make sure you take care of your own physical and emotional needs as well and plan for living by yourself or with a caretaker as you age.

Women are something else entirely. But if you have enough money to thrive on, it won't be that bad.

EmpressTitan:
Cheating is natural abi? I guess it swings both ways. Anyways this generation of men una go hear am and get am hot hot from this generation of gen z baddies. In those days we used to hear how men bring their girlfriends and sidechicks to their matrimonial home which makes some women like this deny the father's access to their children... now nah nah una wives as una dey cheat say it is normal go run you your day one inside your bedroom livestream am. We all are getting there nah. Women are bitter souls abi? I laugh sipping my champagne, a toast to your bitter tears...

Prestar:

“I’m your daddy and have been looking for you. If you remember, I called your school years back when you were at Front Liner.

I spoke to you through the school line and told you not to tell your mummy because she wouldn’t allow me talk to you. I don’t know how she found out, but… https://t.co/KjPV3lxVRz pic.twitter.com/POeJaM1LY8

— Star Potter (@Starpotternews) January 29, 2026

GOFRONT:
Now this man here want to come and reap where he did not sow.


Ekwu eme crooner Incidence share similarity with this.

cr7lomo:
and who de suffer am today...no be women de cry up and down say men don abandon dem... una don de suffer am already sef... we don't care...we need make una sef de knack anyhow so we go de change una like shoe ... more varieties...no commitment.... we men as long as money de hand ... we go de knack de go ... even at 70yrs ....but uns..once una reach 35....una don expire...se Toke , see Tiwa ...Tonto don turn born again as man don scarce , men no de pay again.... Nancy is isime de beg for good man at 35 ... if una talk say una go compete with men for who knack pass...e better, make we de get free pvssis in a daily.... cheap... ... once una expire , we go continue to de go for the younger once ... no marriage commitment, no waste of money on weddings , buying car and all those benefits women de get over the centuries.... baby mama all the way ... once u expire at 35b, we go back to the 22yr old freshers ... till we retire at 80 for the men that wanna retire.... I'm 45 but I get 21yr old fresh side chic

Onegai:
It's always upsetting to hear stuff like this.

Please may I give you advice that was given to my sister and it worked wonders, 3 years ago, when she was in a similar situation?

Play the fool. Do the utmost to be there for your kids.

I've seen a good number of people claim that their co-parents are keeping the kids away from them, only for us to get both sides of the story and find out that wasn't true.

One man said that his ex was keeping his kids from him, he was so believable. However, his entire family is in contact with his ex, even his friend his ex gists with him. So what was the truth?

One here on NL claimed the same thing, then he used his mouth to tell us he wasn't paying school fees even.

Another said he was a very present father...as in he visits once every 3 weeks but he's in the same city with the kids o. Dem don beg am tire make he dey visit him kids. His parents are the ones who stepped up for the kids. That's his definition of "present".

So please Oga, are you paying full schoolfees every single time? Like, once any bill shows up, you settle it sharp sharp. Have you bought a phone to be in contact with your child, instead of calling her mum (explain to her mother that you don't want to be disturbing her so you got your child a phone). Are you in frequent contact and are a present father? Leave pride, be calm and polite when you're on the call with their mum.

You're doing all these for your kid, who will be seeing your behaviour and learning. Trust me, acting like this ensures that your kid will always love and cherish you, her father.

Basic123:
2pac said his dad passed away and he didnt cry because all along he was looking for a father he was gone.

davidtemi:
Who gave the phone number to reach and how on earth should such call be made at the cemetery, the mourning period, if he was physically present at the burial to pay his last respect I believe nobody will send him away.

To me, he is not human!

cr7lomo:
Crap... e no go pass say de man knack another woman ... which is natural...man no suppose de with one woman .. a man will never deny the mother of his children access to the kids , no matter what she did to him ... but women are naturally bitter souls

dominique:
Imagine if the mother had not died and one of these children become a famous celebrity and wants nothing to do with him. He will go and start granting interviews and crying to the cameras that his children are avoiding him. How can you be alive and chose not to be actively involved in your children's lives?

All this talk about their mother blocking him from seeing them are bloody lies and utter balderdash. Did she lock them up in a vacuum chamber and made them inaccessible? You're in the same country for goodness sakes, why not take her to court if truly she was preventing you from seeing them?

She's dead now, you know she can't defend herself, you now want to use the same lame excuse men have been using for decades for refusing to be in their children's lives. Kolewerk!

GOFRONT:
Now this man here want to come and reap where he did not sow.
Ekwu eme crooner Incidence share similarity with this.

EmpressTitan:
More warts to ya scro.tum When you get to 80yrs, dem no dey tell blind man say rain dey fall; even your 20something plaything go knack on top your bed with you se.nile by the side planning how dem go best kill you collect your property as spittle dey drip from your mouth no one around you who truly cares for you or loves you except they see you as just some necessary inconvenience till dem kpai you...laughing with you; jokes on you bozo Shall we all laugh together on you men and your foolishness? Cheers!

EmpressTitan:
More warts to ya scro.tum When you get to 80yrs, dem no dey tell blind man say rain dey fall; even your 20something plaything go knack on top your bed with you se.nile by the side planning how dem go best kill you collect your property as spittle dey drip from your mouth no one around you who truly cares for you or loves you except they see you as just some necessary inconvenience till dem kpai you...laughing with you; jokes on you bozo Shall we all laugh together on you men and your foolishness? Cheers!

davidtemi:
Who gave the phone number to reach and how on earth should such call be made at the cemetery, the mourning period, if he was physically present at the burial to pay his last respect I believe nobody will send him away.

To me, he is not human!