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FuckYeyeMods:
My own question is, what does it mean for a married woman who own a shop to be clean shaved always. It began sometimes later in the marriage and not that she does that often before.
The husband was confiding in me that that, he go without sex for 2 or 3 weeks sometimes. But maybe one morning one thing led to another and he want to have sex, she's already clean shaved.
It's not an allegations or case of suspicion but the gentle guy just want to be sure what that meant before things go bad.
It's actually a true scenario and a little insight to such situation will really go a long way.

ChybuzzDD:
He must be such a simple...t.o.n to thick she just threw that statement out like that as a joke and for you to interpret it as a joke/laughing matter.
If you think you maried an Angel, try the same joke with her when she posts about her own parent's death/anniversary.

Rexymania:
Insecurity

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Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to me about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year



If a refrigerator supercedes and usurps marriage on your scale of preference, then marriage isn't for you, trust me.

If not,by now,my water for no dey cold..

TONYE001:
This is about people's experiences post-divorce.

I'm hoping it won't be turned to another female-bashing episode.

completed:
a lady that cheats don't bother if the husband is cheating. That's why as a man, if you are cheating and your wife doesn't bother,accuse or fight you over it even when she knows, please check, she is cheating also 💯

shilz:
A lady who cheats will not care to know if her husband is cheating or not and that’s a woman one should be scared of..

ravensckar:
Let me add to the ongoing confusion...

A lady who constantly accuses her husband of cheating probably cares a lot about him or about what he's bringing to the table.

Her insecurity is borne out of a deep feeling of not wanting to share or lose him or whatever he's bringing to the table. E get as man go dey irresponsible reach, the wife won't even bother herself if he's cheating.

She will be like; "yeye man wey I dey feed na him dey knack you and you think sey you don jam sugar daddy..."

Meanwhile, all these people wey dey complain sey marriage hard, na where una take meet una own wives? My own wife is like the best thing that happened to me o. Hanty no get wahala, other than the occassional wires wey dey touch for her head, she's a good wife.

Somebody that I posted about my mum's death anniversary and how I missed her. She said shuo; "Haven't I been taking care of you enough?". I nearly choked with laughter.

ravensckar:
Easy fella!

It's I (an OG in the game) that you're talking to not some school kid who just fell in love! So, you think I wouldn't know if I married an "Angel" or a "devil?". Common man!

My wife has always been an angel to me. She can do anything for me, so long as it makes me happy. Yes, women are not perfect, but if you find a good one, appreciate her for being one.

All this una talk about a man being a "simpleton" because there's peace in his house, una no dey tire ni?

contentEngineer:
I wish you knew her past

ravensckar:
Easy fella!

It's I (an OG in the game) that you're talking to not some school kid who just fell in love! So, you think I wouldn't know if I married an "Angel" or a "devil?". Common man!

My wife has always been an angel to me. She can do anything for me, so long as it makes me happy. Yes, women are not perfect, but if you find a good one, appreciate her for being one.

All this una talk about a man being a "simpleton" because there's peace in his house, una no dey tire ni?

contentEngineer:
I wish you knew her past

You no get past Abi you be saint

Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to me about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year

If not,by now,my water for no dey cold..

Sirchiboy:
I have a friend that married in 2019 and got separated in 2024.
Just five years of marriage.
When I asked him what really happened.
He said she is tired of his wife's constant nagging.
Always accusing him of cheating without evidence.
He had to divorce her.

kingthreat:
Not my story but happened to someone I know.
Guy is a very handsome and a natural flirt, his wife made sure she pushed other girlfriends away and ensured they got married. But as a regular ladies man she couldn't stop him from being who he is. 5 years later, she intentionally hacked into his phone and got proof of him cheating, sent screenshot proofs to friends and famly as prood. Then left him, my man begged and tried to make it up to her, but she refused. Before you know it, she has japa'd and is living a new life with the kids. Man is single in Naija, wondering if he should still get married as he edges close to 50. Yeah he messed up but, if he knew he should have just been a single man and continued his flirty life.

Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to me about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year

If not,by now,my water for no dey cold..

Joshbaba1:
I beg to differ on this your assertion. I use to believe this your theory until I dated a girl who is super jealous and would get a angry if a lady do as much as smiled at me or my jokes. I thought she wasn't cheating too until when I found out she was sleeping with more than 15 guys and I'm not exaggerating. She makes me see ladies differently since then.

Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to me about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

[b]Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year [/b]to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year

If not,by now,my water for no dey cold..

christejames:
Even to date now dey scare me sef

danhans:
If you experience nagging woman,then you will understand how hell fire looks like,it is better to stay alone than to stay with a nagging woman

completed:
a lady that cheats don't bother if the husband is cheating. That's why as a man, if you are cheating and your wife doesn't bother,accuse or fight you over it even when she knows, please check, she is cheating also 💯

Sirchiboy:
I have a friend that married in 2019 and got separated in 2024.
Just five years of marriage.
When I asked him what really happened.
He said she is tired of his wife's constant nagging.
Always accusing him of cheating without evidence.
He had to divorce her.

contentEngineer:
I wish you knew her past

Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to me about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year

If not,by now,my water for no dey cold..

BarrElChapo:
I bet you that guy is in his twenties, with little or no experience about relationships or life in general. He can’t relate to what you’re saying no matter how you try to explain it.

ravensckar:
Mr. Sherlock Holmes, maybe you should tell me.

For about a decade of being married to me, somebody has been giving me joy. You're here saying you wish I knew her past. Of what relevance is her past? Abeg, let the past remain in the past jare. Or you think sey my own hand clean too?

Lawalemi:
I have three cases:

1. They met in University and after three kids, man became uninterested. He stayed back with federal job at Abuja while wife cope with kids in Lagos.
Amongst the conversations was that husband detected that wife is older.
In spite of family interventions, husband has not returned. They are both staunch Muslims.

2. They met at youth Service. Wife got a better job while husband hustled with Uber. Wife acted like husband is not serious with life. Wife packed out with only child [girl) till date. They are both Christians.

3. Husband and wife had no child. Husband claimed wife tampered with womb after medical tests. Husband sought divorce after four years of marriage