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Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by melechpilusof(op): 4:45am On Feb 01
By poverty I mean the absence of safety nets, high costs of living, low standards of living, crime, corruption, other negative economic conditions, etc.

The Answer is yes. Porn addiction is linked to Poverty.
Make no mistakes, I love my Nigeria, I love Nigerians.
However, you see the politicians with the exception of people like Sam Mbakwe, Musa Yar'Adua, etc
The rest, both dead and alive must be put on trial to Answer for their crimes.
Do you know the number of young lives lost simply because of corruption?
A governor looted funds meant for improving education or hospitals has led to the death of atleast 50 million Nigerians!
Go to Ghana and Ivory coast, there are atleast 10million Nigerian girls doing prostitution in West Africa Alone. Millions of boys doing yahoo and engaging in deadly ritualistic activities just to get money. Plus the Millions dead in the Sahara Desert trying to flee to Europe, how about those dead in Arab and North Africa? They died without a trace and their parents think they made it to Europe.

Shebi you see why people like Buhari, if he is truly dead must be exhumed and put on trial. Yes, I will personally take on the task of digging up corrupt politicians and putting them on trial, if the verdict is death, imprisonment, or whatever, the corpse must serve his punishment. Rubbish!

Because of Politicians like Uzor Kalu, Hope Uzodinma, Yahya Bello... many Nigerian youths are destroying their own lives, nobody that is gainfully employed or busy being productive with their lives and having the basic necessities of life such as food, shelter, security, education, internet, a voice, justice and a clear conscience will ever dabble in porngraphy. Look at the most visited websites by Nigerians, we watch alot of porn and gambling. Compare that with a working country like U.K or even neighbors Ghana, go and check the most visited websites in Ghana and compare to Nigeria. Why do we Nigerians Watch so much porn and gambling?
Poverty and Hopelessness caused by corruption. Buhari alone stole 250,000,000,000,000(two hundred and fifty trillion naira plus+).
It's only in Nigeria that you see a teacher earning 50,000 naira a month, that's $30 per month i.e $1 a day. In Ghana a tiny nation, the same teachers receive upwards of 2000ghc. Approximately 230,000 naira per month which is about $200 per month, it comes with standard affordable housing, security, etc and because they have a voice, the are clamoring for more increment.
This issue of Porn and its connection to Poverty is something I observed with my self, I started watching porn in 2008 on dvds. Yes, I was jobless at that time.
But as soon as I found purpose and meaning in life, I could effortlessly go months without thinking about sex, only seeking meaningful connections.
But when I fell back into depression, jobless and Hopeless I fell back to porn. As soon I got money again I abandoned porn.
You see, I am quite privileged and above average intelligence, what happens to the less privileged with no money or connections? They fall into porn and gambling. You can crosscheck my observations and you will see that I'm correct. Porn comes from darkness and it only bedevils people in dark places such as Hopelessness and depression.
Notice how you don't do degenerative things when you are happy and peaceful with bright future prospects.
In Nigeria, even those employed are being treated as slaves. I have a soldier friend, died on first deployment since 2017 and his family hasn't received his benefits due to him. Another served Nigeria for more than 2 decades and after retirement he go paid 1.2 million naira that is about $700. $700 for over 3 decades of service to nation?

I don't know how long it will take, but Corrupt politicians, dead or alive must be put on trial and publicly Punished.

Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by kingbee90: 4:54am On Feb 01
I don't think so.
Abi no be money dem dey use buy data to download/stream porn?
Porn addiction is just a habit like every other addiction which can be broken if you work on yourself.
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by obojememe: 5:15am On Feb 01
to some extent i agree with your assertion
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by VeeVeeMyLuv(f): 6:17am On Feb 01
When I try to expose this uselessness aspect of the country some wicked irredeemable fellow will become aggravated and start to call you obedient

$30 in one month salary that is what Helinues and his Boss are sooo proud of huh
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by kushme: 9:32am On Feb 01
VeeVeeMyLuv:
When I try to expose this uselessness aspect of the country some wicked irredeemable fellow will become aggravated and start to call you obedient

$30 in one month salary that is what Helinues and his Boss are sooo proud of huh
I may not know how proud they are, but i do know that, the $30 is exactly what i am currently earning in a month as a math teacher in a private school. Where i collect foodstuff, after paying the last month gbese, Food seller say make i bring small money before eh go give me foodstuff. No be small thing oh
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by kushme:
melechpilusof:
By poverty I mean the absence of safety nets, high costs of living, low standards of living, crime, corruption, other negative economic conditions, etc.

The Answer is yes. Porn addiction is linked to Poverty.
Make no mistakes, I love my Nigeria, I love Nigerians.
However, you see the politicians with the exception of people like Sam Mbakwe, Musa Yar'Adua, etc
The rest, both dead and alive must be put on trial to Answer for their crimes.
Do you know the number of young lives lost simply because of corruption?
A governor looted funds meant for improving education or hospitals has led to the death of atleast 50 million Nigerians!
Go to Ghana and Ivory coast, there are atleast 10million Nigerian girls doing prostitution in West Africa Alone. Millions of boys doing yahoo and engaging in deadly ritualistic activities just to get money. Plus the Millions dead in the Sahara Desert trying to flee to Europe, how about those dead in Arab and North Africa? They died without a trace and their parents think they made it to Europe.

Shebi you see why people like Buhari, if he is truly dead must be exhumed and put on trial. Yes, I will personally take on the task of digging up corrupt politicians and putting them on trial, if the verdict is death, imprisonment, or whatever, the corpse must serve his punishment. Rubbish!

Because of Politicians like Uzor Kalu, Hope Uzodinma, Yahya Bello... many Nigerian youths are destroying their own lives, nobody that is gainfully employed or busy being productive with their lives and having the basic necessities of life such as food, shelter, security, education, internet, a voice, justice and a clear conscience will ever dabble in porngraphy. Look at the most visited websites by Nigerians, we watch alot of porn and gambling. Compare that with a working country like U.K or even neighbors Ghana, go and check the most visited websites in Ghana and compare to Nigeria. Why do we Nigerians Watch so much porn and gambling?
Poverty and Hopelessness caused by corruption. Buhari alone stole 250,000,000,000,000(two hundred and fifty trillion naira plus+).
It's only in Nigeria that you see a teacher earning 50,000 naira a month, that's $30 per month i.e $1 a day. In Ghana a tiny nation, the same teachers receive upwards of 20800ghc. Approximately 230,000 naira per month which is about $200 per month, it comes with standard affordable housing, security, etc and because they have a voice, the are clamoring for more increment.
This issue of Porn and its connection to Poverty is something I observed with my self, I started watching porn in 2008 on dvds. Yes, I was jobless at that time.
But as soon as I found purpose and meaning in life, I could effortlessly go months without thinking about sex, only seeking meaningful connections.
But when I fell back into depression, jobless and Hopeless I fell back to porn. As soon I got money again I abandoned porn.
You see, I am quite privileged and above average intelligence, what happens to the less privileged with no money or connections? They fall into porn and gambling. You can crosscheck my observations and you will see that I'm correct. Porn comes from darkness and it only bedevils people in dark places such as Hopelessness and depression.
Notice how you don't do degenerative things when you are happy and peaceful with bright future prospects.
In Nigeria, even those employed are being treated as slaves. I have a soldier friend, died on first deployment since 2017 and his family hasn't received his benefits due to him. Another served Nigeria for more than 2 decades and after retirement he go paid 1.2 million naira that is about $700. $700 for over 3 decades of service to nation?

I don't know how long it will take, but Corrupt politicians, dead or alive must be put on trial and publicly Punished.
I agree with you wholeheartedly. You effortlessly talked(wrote) about realities i and many Nigerians are facing in our daily struggles. Sometimes, i feel that hopelessness. You even gave the exact figure of my monthly pay($30=NGN50K) as a slave math teacher in a private school, them dey over work me. You outrightly said somethings concerning me up there. See proof of Salary for January. The money has finished already. I would love to move to Ghana and be a math teacher there. How do i process it from Nigeria?

As for the porn and poverty. Like they use to say,"sex sells". It breaks me the more when i saw your 10million rough calculation of our females trading sex in Ghana and other west african countries. Don't want to repeat all you've said.

Let me deviate a little, i went for an interview last month(dec,2025). I possess the necessary skills on the job. Now, according to 2 guys working there, they both told me i came tops in the interview, but a guy i knew who is in charge don't want me there, rather,he called a female we once worked together who's out of state to come for the position. She called me and told me. The idea is that the guy has a mission to complete on the lady, so, if she works close to him he may achieve that.

A friend of mine working in the organization said, the guy would sometimes talk and laugh about how a particular guy who would call him, begging for money. Just like the politicians some men don't want us to get good jobs, pay our bills and feed our families. They want to see us beg all the time. These are the kind of guys copying our politicians, they don't want to see you live a decent life. They hate you, if you are not like them. They want to see the pressure and panick in you all the time. Helping another man, means a threat to the amount of women they want to have around them. Mostly, that's their motivation.

I was awake thinking with tear drops in my eyes, asking myself why the financial stress with all the efforts one puts to work and try to do the right thing. Why do i have to go through disrespect(i don't take it to heart that much) from folks i think they got me. I quietly teach kids why i battle housing and stress. Can't even raise a reasonable amount to move out of my current situation.., my current rent expires in April but the new house owner wants us out of his house, he wants people who will abide to sharia law(no drinking of alcohol,no female visitors, single women should leave)while living in his house. In fact, he later said we all should leave. We are going to court tomorrow. In all of this, can't even think straight, lack of concentration at work.
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by melechpilusof(op): 11:45am On Feb 01
kushme:
I agree with you wholeheartedly. You effortlessly talked(wrote) about realities i and many Nigerians are facing in our daily struggles. Sometimes, i feel that hopelessness. You even gave the exact figure of my monthly pay($30=NGN50K) as a slave math teacher in a private school, them dey over work me. You outrightly said somethings concerning me up there. See proof of Salary for January. The money has finished already. I would love to move to Ghana and be a math teacher there. How do i process it from Nigeria?

As for the porn and poverty. Like they use to say,"sex sells". It breaks me the more when i saw your 10million rough calculation of our females trading sex in Ghana and other west african countries. Don't want to repeat all you've said.

Let me deviate a little, i went for an interview last month(dec,2025). I possess the necessary skills on the job. Now, according to 2 guys working there, they both told me i came tops in the interview, but a guy i knew who is in charge don't want me there, rather,he called a female we once worked together who's out of state to come for the position. She called me and told me. The idea is that the guy has a mission to complete on the lady, so, if she works close to him he may achieve that.

A friend of mine working in the organization said, the guy would sometimes talk and laugh about how a particular guy who would call him, begging for money. Just like the politicians some men don't want us to get good jobs, pay our bills and feed our families. They want to see us beg all the time. These are the kind of guys copying our politicians, they don't want to see you live a decent life. They hate you, if you are not like them. They want to see the pressure and panick in you all the time. Helping another man, means a threat to the amount of women they want to have around them. Mostly, that's their motivation.

I was awake thinking with tear drops in my eyes, asking myself why the financial stress with all the efforts one puts to work and try to do the right thing. Why do i have to go through disrespect(i don't take it to heart that much) from folks i think they got me. I quietly teach kids why i battle housing and stress. Can't even raise a reasonable amount to move out of my current situation.., my current rent expires in April but the new house owner wants us out of his house, he wants people who will abide to sharia law(no drinking of alcohol,no female visitors, single women should leave)while living in his house. In fact, he later said we all should leave. We are going to court tomorrow. In all of this, can't even think straight, lack of concentration at work.
Don't worry, it's people like you that I want to help. I will help you for free.
While I was in Nigeria, I owned 2 businesses a guest house and car rental, that's how I know the average salary of the average Nigerian and also 50k is a bench mark sum, when a business owner says "I Pay him 50k" it sounds like a decent amount of money because 10yrs ago it was actually a decent sum of money so business owners are still running with it.
I will ask you a simple question about the early Christians.
When the Romans were killing them in horrific way, why weren't they scared of death?
Infact it is said that while they were being devoured by lions in the arenas, they were singing and praising God, can you try to find out why?
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by VeeVeeMyLuv(f): 11:50am On Feb 01
Bros, as a scientist biologist I can authoritatively tell you there's nothing wrong in thinking about sex

That's what makes us living organism, it is the last stage in the living organism existence.

After fulfilling this requirement, the persons assignment is completed the rest na jara. That's why they call the content adult stuff so and so.

Those oyibo people consume it alot too !
Come on, what are you talking about and they are still developed.

These problems afflicting Nigerians is self afflicted and also caused by their government and has nothing to do with this addiction.

A government that is ready to make Nigerians to grow up or behave nothing can stop them. I am telling you.

There is one country like that in those days that her citizens were very dirty, they usually used shiit as in excreta to plaster their faces, so you can imagine.

So their king said no more!
And that was it.
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by melechpilusof(op): 12:28pm On Feb 01
VeeVeeMyLuv:
Bros, as a scientist biologist I can authoritatively tell you there's nothing wrong in thinking about sex

That's what makes us living organism, it is the last stage in the living organism existence.

After fulfilling this requirement, the persons assignment is completed the rest na jara. That's why they call the content adult stuff so and so.

Those oyibo people consume it alot too !
Come on, what are you talking about and they are still developed.

These problems afflicting Nigerians is self afflicted and also caused by their government and has nothing to do with this addiction.

A government that is ready to make Nigerians to grow up or behave nothing can stop them. I am telling you.

There is one country like that in those days that her citizens were very dirty, they usually used shiit as in excreta to plaster their faces, so you can imagine.

So their king said no more!
And that was it.
I started exploring things from a very young age, I was 7 when I first had sex, coming from an moderately affluent home, I had access to alot of privilege. I feel ashamed to say somethings in public but trust me, porn is bad for the mental health of an individual, it disrupts your social life and relationships, you become extremely individualistic and you look unfresh and unfriendly and people will ignore you, you miss favors, etc. Go and check all serial killers in history, they all started from porn. Porn also makes you lazy, you stay in bed longer. I won't talk about the spiritual implications bcs these days spirituality is quickly discarded.
Nigeria is a peculiar case, Nigerians access porn even more frequently than countries like India and China, we watch more porn than the entire Europe combined and west africa combined.
I have walked that road several times so everything I say is from first hand experience. Porn addiction in Nigeria is a result of poor economic conditions, you go online in the Nigerian internet space, our contents are centered around tribal and religious extremism, sex, and other vices. Now imagine a poor hungry Nigerian with 1gb data increasingly and constantly being bombarded by naked girls and sex content, do you think they will have the will power to resist?

An idle mind is the devils workshop.
Nigeria has the highest number of prostitutes and internet fraudsters and sex addicted people in Africa and possibly globally. Any country I visit, Nigerian prostitutes are in every country I have visited, not a few of them, we are talking millions. There are atleast 1-2 million Nigerian prostitutes in South Africa, more than double of that number are in Ghana and Ivory coast. Why is that so?
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by kushme: 12:58pm On Feb 01
melechpilusof:
Don't worry, it's people like you that I want to help. I will help you for free.
While I was in Nigeria, I owned 2 businesses a guest house and car rental, that's how I know the average salary of the average Nigerian and also 50k is a bench mark sum, when a business owner says "I Pay him 50k" it sounds like a decent amount of money because 10yrs ago it was actually a decent sum of money so business owners are still running with it.
I will ask you a simple question about the early Christians.
When the Romans were killing them in horrific way, why weren't they scared of death?
Infact it is said that while they were being devoured by lions in the arenas, they were singing and praising God, can you try to find out why?
The early Christians had hope of resurrection in Christ Jesus, because they believed that death has been defeated by Christ Jesus, i believe is one of the reasons they weren't scared of death.
Ha, You are right on the "I pay him 50k", cos the 50k is our new salary, then it was 35k. Whenever there is a briefing, the management staff don't forget to use the increment as a threat or reminder on teachers. "We have increased your salary,so focus on your primary assignment or resign. We don't want to see you gathering in 2s gossiping"....
All i can feel here after seeing your reply, is a level of care i have never had. You are giving me a reason to be hopeful for today. Again, all i have to say is thank you Sir. 🙏 . Stay blessed.
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by Glistinin(m): 1:04pm On Feb 01
You know nothing! Don't go and vote out your evil leaders that have made life difficult for everyone! Keep blaming porn. Fyi, no country watches and acts porn like the US, yet it's the greatest country on earth.
melechpilusof:
I started exploring things from a very young age, I was 7 when I first had sex, coming from an moderately affluent home, I had access to alot of privilege. I feel ashamed to say somethings in public but trust me, porn is bad for the mental health of an individual, it disrupts your social life and relationships, you become extremely individualistic and you look unfresh and unfriendly and people will ignore you, you miss favors, etc. Go and check all serial killers in history, they all started from porn. Porn also makes you lazy, you stay in bed longer. I won't talk about the spiritual implications bcs these days spirituality is quickly discarded.
Nigeria is a peculiar case, Nigerians access porn even more frequently than countries like India and China, we watch more porn than the entire Europe combined and west africa combined.
I have walked that road several times so everything I say is from first hand experience. Porn addiction in Nigeria is a result of poor economic conditions, you go online in the Nigerian internet space, our contents are centered around tribal and religious extremism, sex, and other vices. Now imagine a poor hungry Nigerian with 1gb data increasingly and constantly being bombarded by naked girls and sex content, do you think they will have the will power to resist?

An idle mind is the devils workshop.
Nigeria has the highest number of prostitutes and internet fraudsters and sex addicted people in Africa and possibly globally. Any country I visit, Nigerian prostitutes are in every country I have visited, not a few of them, we are talking millions. There are atleast 1-2 million Nigerian prostitutes in South Africa, more than double of that number are in Ghana and Ivory coast. Why is that so?
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by melechpilusof(op): 5:12pm On Feb 01
Glistinin:
You know nothing! Don't go and vote out your evil leaders that have made life difficult for everyone! Keep blaming porn. Fyi, no country watches and acts porn like the US, yet it's the greatest country on earth.
I have never and will never vote. If you want to fight for Nigeria, go ahead. I'm not fighting. When you guys are ready you will rise up and take back your country
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by melechpilusof(op): 5:38pm On Feb 01
kushme:
The early Christians had hope of resurrection in Christ Jesus, because they believed that death has been defeated by Christ Jesus, i believe is one of the reasons they weren't scared of death.
Ha, You are right on the "I pay him 50k", cos the 50k is our new salary, then it was 35k. Whenever there is a briefing, the management staff don't forget to use the increment as a threat or reminder on teachers. "We have increased your salary,so focus on your primary assignment or resign. We don't want to see you gathering in 2s gossiping"....
All i can feel here after seeing your reply, is a level of care i have never had. You are giving me a reason to be hopeful for today. Again, all i have to say is thank you Sir. 🙏 . Stay blessed.
Get over here bro!
Am not done with you. I'm going to completely change your life, but for now I'm going to give you the spirit of the early Christians to enable you smile, endure and persevere through this hard time you are passing through. Have you ever faced death and you were ready go without fear?
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by kushme:
melechpilusof:
Get over here bro!
Am not done with you. I'm going to completely change your life, but for now I'm going to give you the spirit of the early Christians to enable you smile, endure and persevere through this hard time you are passing through. Have you ever faced death and you were ready go without fear?
I will be glad and rejoice in thee, if you can give me the spirit of the early Christians in order to make me hopeful and keep some genuine smiles way often on my face. I have endured disappointments longer that i no longer feel disppointed that much, experience has drastically limited my expectations. I sometimes feel resentment for self for lack of funds to conveniently pay my bills, travel and then go back to school. I feel stagnant. Furthermore, it's been a long time like this and i will not give up.

Well, as for facing death, i could only think of one situation, sometime in 2016, armed rubbers came to our compound in Kaduna, forcefully entered our flat, i was the only one at home that early morning, my friend(roommate) travelled to Zaria, they brought down the burglary proof, three entered, slapped and hit me on the leg with the heavy mental they used in bringing down the burglar proof for not opening the door. Although, they tried the door first but was hard for them to break in. After the slaps and mental hit on the leg, one of them asked to lie facing the floor, i did, was i scared? yes. However, truly speaking, i felt indifferent concerning dying that morning, i wouldn't say if i was ready to go(die) or not. And now, if i face death in the hands of bandits or boko haram, i will not be ready to die, and yes i will be scared.
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by melechpilusof(op): 3:13am On Feb 02
kushme:
I will be glad and rejoice in thee, if you can give me the spirit of the early Christians in order to make me hopeful and keep some genuine smiles way often on my face. I have endured disappointments longer that i no longer feel disppointed that much, experience has drastically limited my expectations. I sometimes feel resentment for self for lack of funds to conveniently pay my bills, travel and then go back to school. I feel stagnant. Furthermore, it's been a long time like this and i will not give up.

Well, as for facing death, i could only think of one situation, sometime in 2016, armed rubbers came to our compound in Kaduna, forcefully entered our flat, i was the only one at home that early morning, my friend(roommate) travelled to Zaria, they brought down the burglary proof, three entered, slapped and hit me on the leg with the heavy mental they used in bringing down the burglar proof for not opening the door. Although, they tried the door first but was hard from them to break in. After the slaps and mental hit on the leg, one of them asked to lie facing the floor, i did, was i scared? yes. However, truly speaking, i felt indifferent concerning dying that morning, i wouldn't say if i was ready to go(die) or not. And now, if i face death in the hands of bandits or boko haram, i will not be ready to die, and yes i will be scared.
The first step to gaining mental fortitude is to find out why you were sent here, I mean your purpose on earth. Sadly, I can't do that for you.
I found my purpose by digging deep into my soul to find out what truly gives me joy and happiness. Lo and Behold it's helping people in need. I am here to help people even when I myself am lacking I still have to help people because I'm stronger. In 2017 I was homeless for a brief period, despite the fact that I have accommodation back home I still prefer traveling to distant places to struggle on my own. I was homeless and some dude gave me a well furnished room lol I didn't pay any dime for 8 months, during that period I helped 2 homeless people squat with me in the free accommodation I was given until I persuaded them to return to their families. Sometimes I see myself in my dream in different countries helping sick people. Somehow people are empowered when I talk to them but they are not strong enough to take it a step further. Unfortunately, I am also blessed with vision. I can see things others cannot see. I'm on a journey and I can take you with me if only you like to go , I will not take anything from you. I will only advise you and put things before you to analyze and make your own decisions. Free will, never forget, anyone that tries to infringe on your freewill is from the adversary. Never trust such a person. Even the devil gave Adam and Eve a choice so you must be well informed and wise to use your free will to your benefit.
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by kushme:
melechpilusof:
The first step to gaining mental fortitude is to find out why you were sent here, I mean your purpose on earth. Sadly, I can't do that for you.
I found my purpose by digging deep into my soul to find out what truly gives me joy and happiness. Lo and Behold it's helping people in need. I am here to help people even when I myself am lacking I still have to help people because I'm stronger. In 2017 I was homeless for a brief period, despite the fact that I have accommodation back home I still prefer traveling to distant places to struggle on my own. I was homeless and some dude gave me a well furnished room lol I didn't pay any dime for 8 months, during that period I helped 2 homeless people squat with me in the free accommodation I was given until I persuaded them to return to their families. Sometimes I see myself in my dream in different countries helping sick people. Somehow people are empowered when I talk to them but they are not strong enough to take it a step further. Unfortunately, I am also blessed with vision. I can see things others cannot see. I'm on a journey and I can take you with me if only you like to go , I will not take anything from you. I will only advise you and put things before you to analyze and make your own decisions. Free will, never forget, anyone that tries to infringe on your freewill is from the adversary. Never trust such a person. Even the devil gave Adam and Eve a choice so you must be well informed and wise to use your free will to your benefit.
I like the mental fortitude direction, i have stayed steadfast, not to lose myself since 2015 when my elder relation(we were peaceful, living and doing things together) sent me out of his house in kd with 10k to go look for a life cos he got married. Funnily, the 10k was slashed to 7k by the wifey. I boarded a train that evening, headed straight to Abj with no destination.

Called a friend who is a soldier and on sick leave receiving treatment at NAF medical center abj. I slept at the hospital for 2 days disguised to be a caregiver to my friend, some snitch discovered the trick, told the commander, they waited till midnight before they kicked me out of the base(barrack). I slept few days at a particular junction in nuwalege village close to the base. Never told any family member my situation, and can't return home cos my father remarried, reason i left the house to find a life after school. I only had pity for self with little anger for Dad then. Just to know, mama died long time ago.

I understand you can't help find my purpose, but this conversation we are having would provoke my thoughts in that direction. You know most of us basically won't find our purpose here on earth. All i seek right now is finance to solve my current situation. I have a trauma concerning housing in the past, i don't want to see that happen again. I am at work losing concentration as we speak, it is break time so i had to reply your message. And i am ready to go on the fruitful journey with you with no sense of desperation. Thank you.
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by melechpilusof(op): 2:26am On Feb 05
kushme:
I like the mental fortitude direction, i have stayed steadfast, not to lose myself since 2015 when my elder relation(we were peaceful, living and doing things together) sent me out of his house in kd with 10k to go look for a life cos he got married. Funnily, the 10k was slashed to 7k by the wifey. I boarded a train that evening, headed straight to Abj with no destination.

Called a friend who is soldier and on sick leave receiving treatment at NAF medical center abj. I slept at the hospital for 2 days disguised to be a caregiver to my friend, some snitch discovered the trick, told the commander, they waited till midnight before they kicked out of the base(barrack). I slept few days at a particular junction in nuwalege village close to the base. Never told any family member my situation, and can't return home cos my father remarried, reason i left the house to find a life after school. I only had pity for self with little anger for Dad then. Just to know, mama died long time ago.

I understand you can't help find my purpose, but this conversation we are having would provoke my thoughts in that direction. You know most of us basically won't find our purpose here on earth. All i seek right now is finance to solve my current situation. I have a trauma concerning housing in the past, i don't see that happen again. I am at work losing concentration as we speak, it is break time so i had to reply your message. And i am ready to go on the fruitful journey with you with no sense desperation. Thank you.
I think you are more focused on how to make an extra income, I can also teach you that.
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by helinues: 2:54am On Feb 05
The inspiration to write this epistle could have been inspired by poverty
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by kushme: 6:56am On Feb 05
melechpilusof:
I think you are more focused on how to make an extra income, I can also teach you that.
Yes, i am.
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by melechpilusof(op): 10:57am On Feb 06
kushme:
Yes, i am.
There are two things you must understand when it comes to learning something meaningful in this world.

You must know and trust your tutor

You must understand that important information is not free. Nothing meaningful I will teach you is free, you must spend one way or another. For me, I will play my own part and give you for free, but there is another part that is not understand my control and you can't get through without spending.
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by kushme: 11:29am On Feb 06
melechpilusof:
There are two things you must understand when it comes to learning something meaningful in this world.

You must know and trust your tutor

You must understand that important information is not free. Nothing meaningful I will teach you is free, you must spend one way or another. For me, I will play my own part and give you for free, but there is another part that is not understand my control and you can't get through without spending.
Okay, go ahead sir. I am listening.
Re: Is Pornographic Addiction Linked To Poverty? by melechpilusof(op):
kushme:
Okay, go ahead sir. I am listening.
However, there is an area in crypto that is completely free to start, it's called airdrop farming. Although from what I heard it could be quite stressful but the payout is good all you do is test crypto products from crypto companies and startups for 1 or 2 months, follow the instructions and community and eventually get paid. Does it sound like something you would be able to do?

If yes, send me a direct message and I'll give you the links and instructions on how to get started.
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