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Good day Nairalanders, I need sincere advice.
I met a lady called Chinelo on TikTok around November 2024. We later moved to WhatsApp and became close. She is from Anambra State, I am from Delta State, and she stays in Asaba.

During the Christmas period, I suggested she visit me, but she insisted that I should come to Asaba instead. After some arguments, I agreed.

I travelled to Asaba on December 24. We met around the Coca-Cola area, stayed together in a hotel for about five days, and I later returned home.

About one week later, she told me she was pregnant for me. I was surprised but asked her to go for a pregnancy test and even offered to send money for it. She refused, which made me uncomfortable, so I decided to end the relationship.

About a week after the breakup, she sent me a message saying she would soon get married to another man and mocked the pregnancy issue. I congratulated her, after which she blocked me.
A few days later, she unblocked me and we chatted briefly. She later asked if I could come to Asaba so we could have s*x one more time. I refused, and she blocked me again.

On Sunday, February 1, someone messaged me saying they were looking for her and asked if I had seen her. I thought it was a prank but still shared the little information I had.

Out of concern, I later messaged her younger brother to ask if it was true that they were looking for her. He responded angrily and told me not to message him, so I blocked him.

This morning, I received a WhatsApp message from someone claiming to be her mother, accusing me of kidnapping her daughter. She threatened me with deities, said she has my picture, demanded that I return her daughter within one week, and said I would pay back everything collected from her daughter double.

No police has contacted me. I am only receiving threats via WhatsApp.

For clarity:
I have not seen her since December
I do not know her current location
I did not kidnap anyone
I am only being threatened online

Please, I need advice:

What is the best step to take immediately?

Should I report this at the police station now?

This is the message I received from her mother this morning.

She haven't responded to me yet

She's not taking my call again

This was her message after she entered another relationship

Most likely a scam to make you fear and pay then money.
You can also report to the police to be on the safe side.

WhiteIverson:
Most likely a scam to make you fear and pay then money.
You can also report to the police to be on the safe side.

Thank you, I was able to get the elder brother number today, he said he will go get court order to be able to track my number to see call history with me and her sister to see when I called her last

VenExchangee:
Thank you, I was able to get the elder brother number today, he said he will go get court order to be able to track my number to see call history with me and her sister to see when I called her last

Alright
I wish you all the best

But this OP you get bad mouth o

You camped a girl in a Ahaba for days, while we were busy celebrating Christmas. you were busy committing 'iko'

VenExchangee:
Good day Nairalanders, I need sincere advice.
I met a lady called Chinelo on TikTok around November 2024. We later moved to WhatsApp and became close. She is from Anambra State, I am from Delta State, and she stays in Asaba.

During the Christmas period, I suggested she visit me, but she insisted that I should come to Asaba instead. After some arguments, I agreed.

I travelled to Asaba on December 24. We met around the Coca-Cola area, stayed together in a hotel for about five days, and I later returned home.

About one week later, she told me she was pregnant for me. I was surprised but asked her to go for a pregnancy test and even offered to send money for it. She refused, which made me uncomfortable, so I decided to end the relationship.

About a week after the breakup, she sent me a message saying she would soon get married to another man and mocked the pregnancy issue. I congratulated her, after which she blocked me.
A few days later, she unblocked me and we chatted briefly. She later asked if I could come to Asaba so we could have s*x one more time. I refused, and she blocked me again.

On Sunday, February 1, someone messaged me saying they were looking for her and asked if I had seen her. I thought it was a prank but still shared the little information I had.

Out of concern, I later messaged her younger brother to ask if it was true that they were looking for her. He responded angrily and told me not to message him, so I blocked him.

This morning, I received a WhatsApp message from someone claiming to be her mother, accusing me of kidnapping her daughter. She threatened me with deities, said she has my picture, demanded that I return her daughter within one week, and said I would pay back everything collected from her daughter double.

No police has contacted me. I am only receiving threats via WhatsApp.

For clarity:
I have not seen her since December
I do not know her current location
I did not kidnap anyone
I am only being threatened online

Please, I need advice:

What is the best step to take immediately?

Should I report this at the police station now?

Oga, phone records are there and can be obtained via court order. Also, your location throughout that period can easily be provided to the law enforcement agencies by the telecom companies. You have nothing to fear.

Wahala wear bone-straight, trouble wear g-strings.

Honestly I don't know how you guys manage to see all these "Damaged ladies" with their families

Your daughter is missing
You are accusing someone directly, how ?

I wan ask oo, how did the family know you ?
How did they not think of any other person to kidnap their daughter but you

No police entry to log the issue of a missing person, but after WhatsApp chat , you go to bed 😂

Elder brother on the other hand is yawning dust too
No sense of urgency from their tone, they are behaving and saying things I can't comfortably say if I am looking for someone

The whole family is ...........

Then to you my brother
You have really seen this girl's character but you overlooked so you will have your own share of pie
Don't ever have anything doing with this girl again because if anything happens to you through her
She has no family as all of them get saw dust for head as brain

I sense they just want to scam you
Don't ever go anywhere

This kind of family would comfortably allow a boyfriend live in their house with their daughter in the name of " he will marry her"

I would have said that she is the one doing all these and arranging these to get to you
But you have heard a man's voice which is believed to be her brother

I will advise you get yourself protected by logging a complaint at the police to stay ahead of them in case of anything


This babe is bitter and can go any extent to frame you
You are lucky you didn't go for that last knack
This type can stab ooo 😂
This one stabbing na the order of the day

Finally
She stayed with you in a hotel for 5 days
What made you think that she can't stay with another guy for two weeks?

Don't take this matter lightly, go to the police station and report the matter yourself.
See watin contious go do man eh.

Its a mere setup, there is no evidence that you kidnapped her, dont even say you people met at all , those accliamed family members are all part of the game

You lodged her in the hotel for 5 days an indication that you have money to play around ,

She want more money, she tried to use pregnancy without test or medical verification but you busted that, said she got new guy to make you jealous but that didn’t work too, invited you for sex to trap you but you sensed danger and opted out, hence this new kidnap method because there is no way her brother will block you if she’s truly kidnapped and they are looking for her because they will be looking for every help they can get,

Both of you are exhibiting youthful exuberance

But go to the police now, she will keep looking for more ways to scam if you don’t get the police to invite her now

It’s likely she belong to a dark gang , go to the police now , let them investigate her

Make complaints at the police station to be on the safe side, and since they are threatening you with deity, threaten them with police. Tell them that you have already submitted their details and phone number to the police.

If them call you no go anywhere, if not with this your bad mouth, Dem go give you serious beating wey go make you forget Ur surname oh!!

Hfjfiirieiissh which kind u face soo

You are lucky you weren't tempted to go for that last knack...


You would have been typing this from prison or somewhere worse.


It's obvious she is bluffing and wanted to set you up.


By the way people that have their relatives kidnapped don't threaten and approach that way!

VenExchangee:
Good day Nairalanders, I need sincere advice.
I met a lady called Chinelo on TikTok around November 2024. We later moved to WhatsApp and became close. She is from Anambra State, I am from Delta State, and she stays in Asaba.

During the Christmas period, I suggested she visit me, but she insisted that I should come to Asaba instead. After some arguments, I agreed.

I travelled to Asaba on December 24. We met around the Coca-Cola area, stayed together in a hotel for about five days, and I later returned home.

About one week later, she told me she was pregnant for me. I was surprised but asked her to go for a pregnancy test and even offered to send money for it. She refused, which made me uncomfortable, so I decided to end the relationship.

About a week after the breakup, she sent me a message saying she would soon get married to another man and mocked the pregnancy issue. I congratulated her, after which she blocked me.
A few days later, she unblocked me and we chatted briefly. She later asked if I could come to Asaba so we could have s*x one more time. I refused, and she blocked me again.

On Sunday, February 1, someone messaged me saying they were looking for her and asked if I had seen her. I thought it was a prank but still shared the little information I had.

Out of concern, I later messaged her younger brother to ask if it was true that they were looking for her. He responded angrily and told me not to message him, so I blocked him.

This morning, I received a WhatsApp message from someone claiming to be her mother, accusing me of kidnapping her daughter. She threatened me with deities, said she has my picture, demanded that I return her daughter within one week, and said I would pay back everything collected from her daughter double.

No police has contacted me. I am only receiving threats via WhatsApp.

For clarity:
I have not seen her since December
I do not know her current location
I did not kidnap anyone
I am only being threatened online

Please, I need advice:

What is the best step to take immediately?

Should I report this at the police station now?

Go to the nearest police station and lodge a complaint.

Explain everything to the police and also get a lawyer involved too.

Clearly a scam. She might even be using her mother’s phone or her mom is an accomplice. Or that’s how they do to all her exes.

Op don’t bulge, wait for her reaction then you strike and if you find out it was planned, sue them to court. If it doesn’t work, boys will take over.

Chinelo is playing a game on you..

Ignore those threat, tell them to call the police if their daughter is missing.....


Keep your WhatsApp chat tight......


No fear.. Chinelo Wan see u by force b4 she marry

Women Sha Dem go wyn person..

I see no need for you to be afraid. Evidence choke. And even if they were serious about the kidnap thing they would have reported to the police as you are there first suspect. I feel like they or she wan play you

Lawyer up ASAP. No take this issue play o. That girl seems like the reckless type. Get a lawyer before police gets involved.

This is scarcely
Please consult a lawyer at this point and stop replying them. Have your lawyer reply them

Kobojunkie don confuse. ROFLMAO. Not enough information for his AI to generate a victim-shaming argument. Nairaland na cruise.

You deserve whatever comes your way cos you don't seem like you're a sensible person

May God deliver you from FALSE ACCUSATION.

Get lawyer on standby and report to POLICE STATION for proper documentation.
Pay dem.
I'd like u to go to PANTHERS POLICE(INSPECTOR OF POLICE "IGP"/ COMMISSIONER OF POLICE "CP" MONITORING UNIT) and report these BANDITS FAMILY to them. U go pay sha..

Thank ur star say u nor go chop anoda s*X in Asaba after the first one ..


Sonnobax15 where are thou

VenExchangee:
She's not taking my call again

And U have the audacity to call someone whom you have slept with a daughter a "bastard"? Menh !!Who raised you

She and her mother dey collude to Fvvk you up and bill you. Mental games, tell them you are going to the police.

Go police sharp with receipts sha.

You sef na simp o...small hook up, you don loose guard....

Men dey fvvvk up o

Scam. Just report to police and go pick her up

The girl is ashawo. All the sisters and brothers she introduced you to are not the real people. They are syndicate of the scam.

Stop responding to them. And stop all further communication.

The next one she will claim you raped her.

That the last card when a woman is loosing a battle she will claim rape