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"I can't raise this child alone. I need help" Frustrated single father cries out for help from women after his girlfriend abandoned him with their weeks-old baby.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I86FDuZkXLc

A father is asking for help from single mothers or divorced women to raise his infant daughter.

The man, who now calls himself a "frustrated single father", said his girlfriend abandoned him with their child when the baby was just 2 weeks old.

He said he doesn't think he can raise the child alone because he has tried everything but the baby won't stop crying.

He said he is unable to work or do anything while caring for the child. As a result he took the baby to an orphanage.

"My girlfriend left me with a two-week-old baby. The child has been crying nonstop. I can’t work, I can’t do anything. Two days ago, I took her to an orphanage home so I could do what I want to do," he said.

However, he revealed that the decision broke him emotionally. He said the night he returned home without his baby, he couldn’t sleep and felt guilty.

The next day, he said he went back to the orphanage and took his baby home, admitting that he simply could not live with the thought of abandoning his own child.

"The day I took her there and got home, I couldn’t sleep. The next day, I went back and carried my baby. I no go fit oo. I carried my baby oo," he added.

He is now asking single women, single mothers, or divorced women who are interested to come and help him raise his child while he provides for the woman.

Some have sympathised with the man. However, others have called him out for seeking a woman just to turn her into a caregiver for his child.

One commentator wrote, "Parenting is not a joke, especially alone. I pray he gets real help."

Another said, “Single father in the making, you all will know how it feels.”

LAZY FOOL

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This wan don use weed spoil brain. Everybody wants to be a content creator.

Ekerụ ọrụ eke. Go find wife mr man

seanery:
LAZY FOOL

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If na this sense you take dey cross road ehhh... RIP in advance.. if you know wetin father be.. u go rearrange your words... dirty boy

Being a single father comes with real struggles: limited support systems, societal pressure to “be strong,” and the fear of failing a child who depends entirely on you. Asking for help is actually an act of responsibility. It shows he’s thinking first about the child’s wellbeing, not his ego.

I feel for this nigga

The baby just da look him

But him no get mama?

Give the baby please back to the ophanage.

Daycares exist for a reason but 2 weeks? What kind of mother will do that? This is one reason why it is important to choose who you sleep with as a man. If you can't have that woman as the mother of your child at any time, don't sleep with her without protection.

Em lips even b like sey na charcoal em rub for mouth sef.

Make him start to dey do Olosho work
Na so Single mothers dey take feed pikin

Lickinsidetoto3:
If na this sense you take dey cross road ehhh... RIP in advance.. if you know wetin father be.. u go rearrange your words... dirty boy

I am today old in noticing that the man in the picture is actually look right and upwards on separate eyes simultaneously.

I pray he gets genuine help....women can be heartless if they want to be.

He doesn't look responsible but the woman is heartless

Where the cry? Make eh employ nanny.

Same thing happened to I and my niece. I don't know what connected us together but I can't stay without her and she can't stay without me. I raised her from childbirth till now that she is 8yrs, funny enough she prefers living with me than with her mum

A father does not steal from his own home. Children give men purpose because you have a mouth to feed and that turns on your provider brain button.

EdonhappenTv:
➜"I can't raise this child alone. I need help" Frustrated single father cries out for help from women after his girlfriend abandoned him with their weeks-old baby.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I86FDuZkXLc

WOW... she left the child at an orphanage for him to go pick it up? WOW 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

RollinTNDA:
➜Make him start to dey do Olosho work Na so Single mothers dey take feed pikin

Exactly! Shey dem talk say "Heaven helps those who help themselves!"

E no get mother or family members wey fit help?

E no get older female family members??

Guy u go release inside...... when money no dey....why nau?

Didn’t he has a mother or sister who can help out?

Even with both parents, it’s not easy to raise a baby not to talk of just a single father. I pray he gets help quickly and he too needs to be more serious.

I feel your pain bro, I’m once in your shoes but I’m fine now. Be strong.

fyneboi79:
I pray he gets genuine help....women can be heartless if they want to be.

Anyone can be heartless, it is not gender specific.

Laple0541:
Didn’t he has a mother or sister who can help out?

Even with both parents, it’s not easy to raise a baby not to talk of just a single father. I pray he gets help quickly and he too needs to be more serious.

He better accept his fate and move on. He will learn responsibility by force. Na him seed enter the woman belle and give am pikin. He should be grateful for the gift of life. I don't want to abuse him because I know as the child is growing up, his brain and experience will be growing too.

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Come and see o! Guyman no get lactating breasts na, that babe na savage o.