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Solarcitty:
Yeah. I have come across this kind of situation also. And just like you said she also came from school buh her's was accompanied with pain. We rushed to the Government hospital to check her but the doctor confirmed that she wasn't molested. Her class mates later revealed that she fell down from the slide that same day that her parents noticed the blood

Oya o, all those people saying Nairaland isn't where he should have brought the matter. At least someone here has narrated his/her experience. Before tmrw he will go to that hospital, I believe he must have gotten some good answers.
Nairaland wey be say almost all profession represent, una go like to dey belittle am.

FineUsername:
They recommended you take her to LASUTH, but you want to hear from from NLUTH first.





Edited: Today's 5th. Any update?

You guys sucks honestly.
On Nairaland here, we have over 10m people and you think they're no experience and professional doctors here to profer solution to him.
Is there any profession in life that's not represented here on Nairaland. Even arm robbers, kidnappers, Yahoo guys e.t.c full here

@OP,

Today's 5th; what's the doctor's report?

cnonyechi:
You keep repeating jumping and playing. Why send less than 3yr old to school now she can't even talk to say wats up. First ask her if anyone out something into her wee wee then quickly take her to the hospital asap. Am scared cos of diseases. If it's a finger day was inserted she might not feel pain. God forbid

Where are you supposed to keep a 2+ year old child? Your office? Or everyone should become a remote worker? What worked for you may not work for everyone else.

Btw, majority of rape incidences against minors didn't happen in school, but home settings and neighbourhoods.

TheOldGods:
Kids don’t keep secrets so have you asked your daughter if anyone went down there? Or she can’t talk yet?

Did you read what he wrote? He already implicitly answered your question!

MaziObinnaokija:
😒 🤔 😒 🤔 😒. May God help if it is NOT one Uncle Uche,Tunji or Malam..

Visit LASUTH first

Why you mentioned my name first hahahaha

cnonyechi:
You keep repeating jumping and playing. Why send less than 3yr old to school now she can't even talk to say wats up. First ask her if anyone out something into her wee wee then quickly take her to the hospital asap. Am scared cos of diseases. If it's a finger day was inserted she might not feel pain. God forbid

He kept mentioning that because he is confused wuth the situation. She's active with no pain and only the presence of the blood stain is out of place and the first doctor couldn't place his hands on anything!

iluvdonjazzy:
It's molestation jor 100%

Chai school good o.
While molestation is possible stop jumping into conclusions educate yourself. There are so many causes.

YourGFsnatcher:
Go and do proper checkup. If there's case of molestation call me. Let me make life hell for the school and whoever Is involved, they will beg to kpai

Hell for the school as how , na school owner do am bad ni or what?
Una go just dey talk anyhow...

Pls Kindly update us , what is the outcome?

Godmind2022:
Ask the girl, if anyone fingered her in her vagina. These is one of the things doctors would ask on visiting a hospital.

Children can keep secret especially if the person that did it threaten them.

In 2019, I was teaching kindergarteners, I had an assistance 'madam Chioma'. There's this particular girl in my class she doesn't like (because she always throws up her food when rushed, I usually take my time to feed her myself)

One afternoon, I was in a meeting my HOD, Madam Chioma' fed the girl, as usual, she vomited, She pinched the little girl's ear (blood was dripping) and threatened her.

When I saw the wound, I called her privately and asked her, she didn't tell me, she said it mosquitoes.
I called her elder sis to do the same, she said the same thing.

I reported to the school authority and asked that madam Chioma' be removed from my class.

They did but didn't do anything to that assistant. I expected her parents to do something, the next day, they didn't.

I cried for that little child in my mind.

I went to a state and heard about a 5yr old boy sleeping with the little girls in their compound and even his sister. It was like a movie story to me but 3 adult can’t be lying about the same story. I told them if it was in Lagos, I wonder what could have happened to the boy or his parent and they told me the boy is even an adopted child. I just weak. Such evil boy could be in your daughter’s school or may be she hit her body on something when playing in school

I'm really sorry you're going through this—it's completely understandable to feel extremely worried and unsettled right now. Seeing blood in such a young child's private area is alarming for any parent, especially with the mention of clots and the doctor's initial concern about possible molestation.

Vaginal bleeding (or spotting with clots) in girls under 3–4 years old (prepubertal, before any signs of puberty) is **uncommon but not extremely rare**, and it has several possible causes. Importantly, many of these are **benign** (non-serious) and do **not** involve pain, fever, distress, bruises, or other obvious symptoms—exactly as you're describing with your daughter being active, playful, and non-tender even during exam.

### Common/Possible Causes (from pediatric medical sources)
Here are the main ones doctors typically consider in this age group:

- **Foreign body** in the vagina (e.g., small piece of toilet paper, tissue, or tiny object from play/exploration) — This is one of the most frequent causes in toddlers. It can cause irritation leading to bloody discharge or spotting (sometimes with clots or streaks), often without much pain if it's not sharp or deeply lodged. No external bruises needed.

- **Vulvovaginitis** (inflammation of the vulva/vagina from irritants like soap, bubble bath, poor wiping/hygiene, or bacteria like strep) — Can cause spotting or light bleeding, sometimes painless if mild. Redness might be subtle.

- **Urethral prolapse** (the urethral tissue protrudes slightly) — Can look like bleeding from the vaginal area, often painless, more common in young girls, and sometimes linked to straining (e.g., constipation).

- **Hemangioma** or vascular lesion (a benign blood vessel growth inside the vagina or on the vulva) — These can bleed intermittently without pain or trauma.

- **Other less common but possible** — Precocious puberty (very early hormonal changes, though usually with other signs like breast budding), polyps/cysts (rare), or even a small trauma that's not obvious.

- **Sexual abuse/trauma** — This is always something doctors must rule out (which is why the initial doctor mentioned it and referred you), but it's **not** the only or even the most common explanation. Many cases turn out to be one of the benign causes above. The lack of pain, no crying during touch/exam, no bruises/swelling, and normal playful behavior make significant penetrating trauma less likely (though not impossible—specialists will check carefully).

Pain is **not** always present, even in cases that need attention. Some irritations or lesions bleed without hurting much, especially if superficial or chronic/low-grade.

### What you're doing is exactly right
Going to LASUTH (a major teaching hospital with pediatric specialists, likely including pediatric gynecology or child protection/forensic teams) tomorrow is the best next step. They can do a more detailed exam (possibly under sedation if needed for comfort/accuracy), vaginoscopy if indicated, ultrasound, or other tests to look inside safely and rule things out properly.

Try to stay calm in front of her—she's picking up on your energy, and since she's acting normal, that's a reassuring sign. Document anything new (photos of underwear if more bleeding, note any changes), but avoid repeated checking that could irritate.

This is very stressful, but most cases like this in toddlers turn out to be treatable/benign once properly evaluated. Many parents have gone through similar scares and gotten clear answers/reassurance from specialists.

Wishing you strength tonight and clear, good news tomorrow. Please update if you feel like it, or reach out anytime. You're doing the right thing by seeking expert help quickly. 🙏

Olatara:
Children can keep secret especially if the person that did it threaten them.

In 2019, I was teaching kindergarteners, I had an assistance 'madam Chioma'. There's this particular girl in my class she doesn't like (because she always throws up her food when rushed, I usually take my time to feed her myself)

One afternoon, I was in a meeting my HOD, Madam Chioma' fed the girl, as usual, she vomited, She pinched the little girl's ear (blood was dripping) and threatened her.

When I saw the wound, I called her privately and asked her, she didn't tell me, she said it mosquitoes.
I called her elder sis to do the same, she said the same thing.

I reported to the school authority and asked that madam Chioma' be removed from my class.

They did but didn't do anything to that assistant. I expected her parents to do something, the next day, they didn't.

I cried for that little child in my mind.

Since she did not tell, how do u know it was chioma?

APman:
Please Doctors in the house, please I need your urgent help at the moment. My less than 3yrs old baby girl returned back from school yesterday with her pant stained with dried blood. My wife couldn't figure out anything inner her till today evening. When I returned back from work, she called my attention to it and behold there's blood clots in her vagina. We quickly rushed her to the hospital. The Doctor asked us if there's any pain. Since that yesterday till now my daughter has been playing and jumping. No single pain. Since my wife noticed that yesterday, my baby wasn't feeling any pains at all, she plays and jumps very well. Doctor said there could be possible molestation but it supposed to come with pain. He advised we take her to LASUTH tomorrow morning for professional to confirm if she was molested or another thing. So by tomorrow morning, me and my wife will be heading to LASUTH.

I just want to confirm if anyone has ever came across this kind of issue where a baby less than 3yrs will be having bleeding through her vagina without single pain or other symptoms like fever or headaches. Is not that the baby is quiet or dull, since that yesterday till now, she has been jumping and playing around, even when the doctor was touching her vagina sides, she didn't cry or feel any pains. This night when her mother was bathing her, no signs of pain around her private part, no bruises just the bleeding.

Please, help me to move to front page for more insights as I haven't been myself since I returned from work. 🙏

This is molestation 100%

Channel your energy in finding the culprit

ericmor:
Since she did not tell, how do u know it was chioma?

There is a mark of pincer grip on her ear (like someone pinched her).

Op sorry about your child's predicament, I hope you have been able to sort it out.
Now I want to say this to most people who always discouraged bringing such matter on here, saying or thinking Nairaland won't be of help.
Nairaland have over 10m register members, and you think they won't be just one professional doctor who can give the op answer to his question.
Even for example they're no doctors, we still have people who have experience or witness such scenarios and can be able to tell how they navigate their own. All this talk of Nairaland is not where you bring such annoys me badly.
On here, we have professional and experience doctors of different job description, engineers, tech gurus, teachers, lecturers, police, soldiers, architects, drivers, conductors, auto mechanics, Carpenters, okada riders, Uber riders, bricklayers, bar men, barbers, hairstylist, actors/actress, politicians, agberos, touts, cultist, Yahoo guys, armed robbers, kidnappers, pastors, imams, alfas, traditionalists, oloshos, and so many others.
So tell me why someone can't get solutions on here that concerns any of the professions listed above?
I'm not the owner of Nairaland, I don't even know the owner, neither am I trying to promote it. But the truth must be said, most of you mindset to what I said above sucks. Stop underating the forum and give respect to the professionals in it.
I have said my own.

Olatara:
There is a mark of pincer grip on her ear (like someone pinched her).

It could be anybody. You just don’t conclude like that. I am not saying chioma can not do it though but don’t let us say and conclude on what we did not see but we can just say we suspect chioma

Habbeyy:
Less than 3 years old returned from school? Wetin pikin wey suppose still dey suck he mama breast dey learn for school

If I talk say most schools na just business these days, some people go come for my head. What business does a child who doesn't know how to express him/herself has to do in school? Those days, we don know every-every before we enter school, but now if you talk 'pim'. Anyways......

APman:
Please Doctors in the house, please I need your urgent help at the moment. My less than 3yrs old baby girl returned back from school yesterday with her pant stained with dried blood. My wife couldn't figure out anything inner her till today evening. When I returned back from work, she called my attention to it and behold there's blood clots in her vagina. We quickly rushed her to the hospital. The Doctor asked us if there's any pain. Since that yesterday till now my daughter has been playing and jumping. No single pain. Since my wife noticed that yesterday, my baby wasn't feeling any pains at all, she plays and jumps very well. Doctor said there could be possible molestation but it supposed to come with pain. He advised we take her to LASUTH tomorrow morning for professional to confirm if she was molested or another thing. So by tomorrow morning, me and my wife will be heading to LASUTH.

I just want to confirm if anyone has ever came across this kind of issue where a baby less than 3yrs will be having bleeding through her vagina without single pain or other symptoms like fever or headaches. Is not that the baby is quiet or dull, since that yesterday till now, she has been jumping and playing around, even when the doctor was touching her vagina sides, she didn't cry or feel any pains. This night when her mother was bathing her, no signs of pain around her private part, no bruises just the bleeding.

Please, help me to move to front page for more insights as I haven't been myself since I returned from work. 🙏

Oga ask her if anyone finger her vagina in school.

YourGFsnatcher:
Go and do proper checkup. If there's case of molestation call me. Let me make life hell for the school and whoever Is involved, they will beg to kpai

I have a case where some lecturers are bent on failing a final year medical student out of medicine. They believe he has money and should give them their share,but he refused to pay,so it became a problem. They brag that nothing can be done, that they own the government and the school.
They block everywhere and anybody that doesn't support their evil course, they block any form of justice.
They even went as far as reporting the guy to DSS (because the guy reported the case to the VC) claiming that the guy wants to kidnap them. The DSS did their investigation and found out that it was a lie.
THEY SAID HE FAILED A PROJECT, he repeated the class, made corrections in the project, they failed him again on the same project. This is a project that was done by 4 people, and this guy is the group leader, they passed others and failed the group leader twice, vowing to fail him out of medical school.
Let me stop here for now.

The name of the school is ENUGU STATE UNIVERSITY COLLEGE OF MEDICINE, PARKLANE.
THE DEPARTMENT DOING THIS IS COMMUNITY MEDICINE. IT IS THEIR HOD and some other person's that are involved in this... This is what they do to people for no reasons.... You can make your findings...

There's also a case of a Rev sister that they want to fail out, it's still current, they said the Rev sister failed,her papers were remarked outside Enugu, in another university,she passed but these guys refused to acknowledge her results,even against the VC's wish, they believe that they're the Cabal in charge... People need to know the truth about these group of lecturers.

Please try to make some findings.

APman:
Please Doctors in the house, please I need your urgent help at the moment. My less than 3yrs old baby girl returned back from school yesterday with her pant stained with dried blood. My wife couldn't figure out anything inner her till today evening. When I returned back from work, she called my attention to it and behold there's blood clots in her vagina. We quickly rushed her to the hospital. The Doctor asked us if there's any pain. Since that yesterday till now my daughter has been playing and jumping. No single pain. Since my wife noticed that yesterday, my baby wasn't feeling any pains at all, she plays and jumps very well. Doctor said there could be possible molestation but it supposed to come with pain. He advised we take her to LASUTH tomorrow morning for professional to confirm if she was molested or another thing. So by tomorrow morning, me and my wife will be heading to LASUTH.

I just want to confirm if anyone has ever came across this kind of issue where a baby less than 3yrs will be having bleeding through her vagina without single pain or other symptoms like fever or headaches. Is not that the baby is quiet or dull, since that yesterday till now, she has been jumping and playing around, even when the doctor was touching her vagina sides, she didn't cry or feel any pains. This night when her mother was bathing her, no signs of pain around her private part, no bruises just the bleeding.

Please, help me to move to front page for more insights as I haven't been myself since I returned from work. 🙏

Man, I feel your anxiety as parents, it is the worst feeling any parents could have. I hope the culprit is caught and your baby is okay

Johnn44:
Dont take these things for granted. someone penetrated my sister when she was not up to four years continued sleeping with her codedly. passed unnoticed until luck ran out of him one day before the minor fifth birthday.

Absurd!

The person an adult or young dude?

Fearyourcreator:
Hell for the school as how , na school owner do am bad ni or what?
Una go just dey talk anyhow...

Are you okay? Or you just want to talk? Be keeping quiet when you don't need to talk. No be everything you need to put mouth, sometimes be keeping quiet. What's wrong with some of you people? Try and do something like this and see what will happen to you and your institution if I get involved. You think everyone is your mate on this nairaland? Respect yourself!!!

Habbeyy:
Less than 3 years old returned from school? Wetin pikin wey suppose still dey suck he mama breast dey learn for school

Today's world hardly afford couples such luxury.

gabmanuel:
I have a case where some lecturers are bent on failing a final year medical student out of medicine. They believe he has money and should give them their share,but he refused to pay,so it became a problem. They brag that nothing can be done, that they own the government and the school.
They block everywhere and anybody that doesn't support their evil course, they block any form of justice.
They even went as far as reporting the guy to DSS (because the guy reported the case to the VC) claiming that the guy wants to kidnap them. The DSS did their investigation and found out that it was a lie.
THEY SAID HE FAILED A PROJECT, he repeated the class, made corrections in the project, they failed him again on the same project. This is a project that was done by 4 people, and this guy is the group leader, they passed others and failed the group leader twice, vowing to fail him out of medical school.
Let me stop here for now.

The name of the school is ENUGU STATE UNIVERSITY COLLEGE OF MEDICINE, PARKLANE.
THE DEPARTMENT DOING THIS IS COMMUNITY MEDICINE. IT IS THEIR HOD and some other person's that are involved in this... This is what they do to people for no reasons.... You can make your findings...

There's also a case of a Rev sister that they want to fail out, it's still current, they said the Rev sister failed,her papers were remarked outside Enugu, in another university,she passed but these guys refused to acknowledge her results,even against the VC's wish, they believe that they're the Cabal in charge... People need to know the truth about these group of lecturers.

Please try to make some findings.

I will send you a mail.

Why is the OP not giving update na?

Abi it is confirmed molestation?

Anyway, I am sorry. I dont know how you feel cos I dont have girls.

Whichever, take care of that little lady.

Habbeyy:
Less than 3 years old returned from school? Wetin pikin wey suppose still dey suck he mama breast dey learn for school

I tell you. Once I discovered that school age for US na 5 years, I withdraw my two remaining kids for their $150 per child per week day care.

The last born can talk well well. By the time wey he go start school for August, he go do learn how to kick and punch for taekwandoe.

I no dey rush go anywhere. Under 3 year old suppose dey him mama house or day care wey get surveillance cameras

Solarcitty:
Yeah. I have come across this kind of situation also. And just like you said she also came from school buh her's was accompanied with pain. We rushed to the Government hospital to check her but the doctor confirmed that she wasn't molested. Her class mates later revealed that she fell down from the slide that same day that her parents noticed the blood

Broken hymen dont you think? I'm not sure btw
@op

APman:
Please Doctors in the house, please I need your urgent help at the moment. My less than 3yrs old baby girl returned back from school yesterday with her pant stained with dried blood. My wife couldn't figure out anything inner her till today evening. When I returned back from work, she called my attention to it and behold there's blood clots in her vagina. We quickly rushed her to the hospital. The Doctor asked us if there's any pain. Since that yesterday till now my daughter has been playing and jumping. No single pain. Since my wife noticed that yesterday, my baby wasn't feeling any pains at all, she plays and jumps very well. Doctor said there could be possible molestation but it supposed to come with pain. He advised we take her to LASUTH tomorrow morning for professional to confirm if she was molested or another thing. So by tomorrow morning, me and my wife will be heading to LASUTH.

I just want to confirm if anyone has ever came across this kind of issue where a baby less than 3yrs will be having bleeding through her vagina without single pain or other symptoms like fever or headaches. Is not that the baby is quiet or dull, since that yesterday till now, she has been jumping and playing around, even when the doctor was touching her vagina sides, she didn't cry or feel any pains. This night when her mother was bathing her, no signs of pain around her private part, no bruises just the bleeding.

Please, help me to move to front page for more insights as I haven't been myself since I returned from work. 🙏

I hope your daughter is okay... Any update on the blood issue?