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dominique:
No competent court to will grand full or joint custody to a type of parent like Davido and the tragedy of losing his son has little to do with it. He's hardly available and he surrounds himself with all sorts of shady characters no sane parent will be comfortable leaving a child with.



Sophia did not sue him, he was the one that sued her. She never stopped him from seeing Imade, she only requested that the visits must be supervised and the child cannot travel with him. Considering the type of lifestyle Davido is living, that's the best kind of access he can get with the child, let's leave sentiment out of this. It was through this lawsuit that we got to know that Davido did not pay child support on Imade for years, Sophia never made this public till she got sued and Davido never refuted this till date. Whoever advised Davido to embark on this custody battle did not do well at all

.lol .. davido did not do what ...


Who then is sorting the lil girls bill .. from sch fees , to clothing and welfare, the mum??


I'm pretty sure you do not believe that yourself..

If that's not child support then I don't know what is .

Sophia's lawyer is a damn good lawyer.
He filed a matter in court and he ran away from the court.

But he has access to the child naaw, at least we see him online with the girl here and there and she visits his family and the grandpa even mentioned in the last interview he did that his grandchildren have rooms in his house.

I wouldn't blame the girls mum for the decision, who will take care her with his billion geng crew guys here and there. The girl needs to be fully supervised sha.

Well, In as much it’s a sensitive matter, if the only last card for the lawyer is to refer to the dead son, it’s allowed. The lawyer is only trying to defend his client and get his job done🤷‍♀️..

I only believed that both parties did not have a distinct direction of their desire in the case they both filed leaving the lawyer in that situation of going to the lowest he could to get the job done.

Well all these are normal, you will always get hurt when you are in the witness box. Expect the worst or don’t get in the box at all.

He is even lucky that the lawyer did not go as low as referring to his Dubai brawl and the death of those around him.

The lawyer just asked him of his dealings and handling of situations that got his child killed which is worth considering in custody matters. Nothing personal just factual. I as a lawyer would do same in a case like this.

Let's not get sentimental about these things please. Davido is a man-child who refuses to be accountable to his loved ones.

Love800:
Those of you who always insist on having baby-mama, have you now seen the consequences!

Lol. Na una sabi.

It's still babymana or nothing..

onatisi:
the girl still visits him and he too can visit her, he has access to her . the love of a father is very deep and fathers love to be protectivs of their child. when a father cant do this to his satisfaction , some fathers feel pained and humiliated . that is what sophia wants to do , she wants to use imade to punish davido and make him miserable . she knows how deeply davido loves imade ,that is the game plan of many women , they like using the children to punish the man . all david needs to do now is to continue showing love to his child anytime he has the oppotunity to do so

But don't forget, Sophia is her mother and also loves her and wants full custody just like Davido. If your child you love is to be in full custody of Davido will you easily accept it? It's not Davido's fault and I'm sure it's just coincidence but sudden death...

Wotowotoman:
Ogbeni, you have no idea why men and women fight for custody. It has nothing to do with punishment. Women fight for custody because it means they will get full child support payments coming in until the child is 18. While men fight for custody to reduce the money they give to greedy women that use the kid to cash out.

Nothing to do with access to kids or ego stroking. It’s all about making sure the woman doesn’t achieve her gold digging dreams that she carefully planned when she (a much older adult) trapped the boy with that pregnancy.

Oga, if you knew me, you'd delete this. Me wey don help fight for custody?

Which golddigger? Maybe Sophie Momodu and Davido case is different.

I know man who accused his estranged wife that she was going to steal using the kids. The wife said nothing, paid what she could, will submit bills and ask him to pay directly to the school or hospital, he was mistrustful. He didn't pay schoolfees but one woman moved in with him, he paid all her bills no matter the lie she told him or her bad behaviour. Even his father was ashamed

Or my uncle who denied his flesh and blood for 2 years whilst bankrolling one Igbo girl? He now complains he and his child don't have a good relationship, 24 years later.

Another, her baby daddy got married and he stopped paying schoolfees. She said nothing. He came back after 5 years when his wife never conceived and started paying again uptil university

There's this lady on X, Olivia, her baby daddy left her and his newborn to stay in unpainted uncompleted building (she posted the pix, they were using wrapper as curtain), whilst his family owned hotels all over the SE and Port Harcourt. He showed up 11 years later, looking for "his daughter", with iPad and gifts because his new wife never conceived

Go to Magistrate Court in Lagos, you'll be ashamed of your gender. Running around Lekki carrying babes and buying iPhones for women who will leave once they fall sick or get old, but screaming abuse if the mother of their kids begs them to settle hospital bills. Then the same men will start looking for their kids in old age

I have sworn it that if any of my sons act that way, I will use my hands to serve them justice

Thundafireseun:
Oga truth be told No judge will grant you joint Custody after the death of your 1st son … no mata the connections ,fame and money…

You can only have unlimited access to your daughter….

No matter the money? Lol, justice has a price, especially in Nigeria. Femi Fani Kayode still has custody of his kids.

Onegai:
Oga, if you knew me, you'd delete this. Me wey don help fight for custody?

Which golddigger? Maybe Sophie Momodu and Davido case is different.

I know man who accused his estranged wife that she was going to steal using the kids. The wife said nothing, paid what she could, will submit bills and ask him to pay directly to the school or hospital, he was mistrustful. He didn't pay schoolfees but one woman moved in with him, he paid all her bills no matter the lie she told him or her bad behaviour. Even his father was ashamed

Or my uncle who denied his flesh and blood for 2 years whilst bankrolling one Igbo girl? He now complains he and his child don't have a good relationship, 24 years later.

Another, her baby daddy got married and he stopped paying schoolfees. She said nothing. He came back after 5 years when his wife never conceived and started paying again uptil university

There's this lady on X, Olivia, her baby daddy left her and his newborn to stay in unpainted uncompleted building (she posted the pix, they were using wrapper as curtain), whilst his family owned hotels all over the SE and Port Harcourt. He showed up 11 years later, looking for "his daughter", with iPad and gifts because his new wife never conceived

Go to Magistrate Court in Lagos, you'll be ashamed of your gender. Running around Lekki carrying babes and buying iPhones for women who will leave once they fall sick or get old, but screaming abuse if the mother of their kids begs them to settle hospital bills. Then the same men will start looking for their kids in old age

I have sworn it that if any of my sons act that way, I will use my hands to serve them justice

Ogbeni, don’t compare custody battles of the poor to the rich. I repeat. Davido is not going through the embarrassing and PR damaging process of fighting for custody to punish the woman. It is about the money!!

onatisi:
that is the foolishness in fighting for child custody ,when the child grows up he or she will still go back looking for both parents , sophia may just want to use imade either as a tool to extort davido or as a means to be colecting money from him .
as long as the girl knows her father and he continues to show her love anytime he is with her , it is pointless fighting for her custody , she will soon be able to choose where she wants to go at anytime she wants to

It's not how you're seeing o.
Are you a parent?

While a kid is growing under your care and love, it gives great joy and fulfilment, bounding and connection. This is why parents fight for custody

Waiting till 18 is risky, it's enough time for the parent with custody to make the child hate and disdain the other parent.

Fight to ur last strength to have your kids grow under you, there's no greater joy

folake4u:
Well, In as much it’s a sensitive matter, if the only last card for the lawyer is to refer to the dead son, it’s allowed. The lawyer is only trying to defend his client and get his job done🤷‍♀️..

I only believed that both parties did not have a distinct direction of their desire in the case they both filed leaving the lawyer in that situation of going to the lowest he could to get the job done.

Well all these are normal, you will always get hurt when you are in the witness box. Expect the worst or don’t get in the box at all.

He is even lucky that the lawyer did not go as low as referring to his Dubai brawl and the death of those around him.

The lawyer just asked him of his dealings and handling of situations that got his child killed which is worth considering in custody matters. Nothing personal just factual. I as a lawyer would do same in a case like this.

Let's not get sentimental about these things please. Davido is a man-child who refuses to be accountable to his loved ones.

Davido who is in the news every month for irresponsible behavior?
the lawyer would have taken apart his character brick by brick

abi we did not see him cursing out the person who he thought was anu? how would he be talking in front of his child?

who knows what wide open OF t wat imade will see if she make mistake unlock his phone

meanwhile we need to see this scandaolous dress so we can pass judgment

cr7lomo:
But u women do that alot... men don't ever deny their child's mother from having access to that child...but women will always wanna use their children to punish the father

In my post, I acknowledged that both parents do it. I also know women that have deprived their children's father access. It's both ways.

GloriousGbola:
Davido who is in the news every month for irresponsible behavior?
the lawyer would have taken apart his character brick by brick

abi we did not see him cursing out the person who he thought was anu? how would he be talking in front of his child?

who knows what wide open OF t wat imade will see if she make mistake unlock his phone

meanwhile we need to see this scandaolous dress so we can pass judgment

Yes, he's always in the news for wrong reasons. He needs to really grow up.

The fact that he kept hurling insults at the Anu lady doesn't tell well about him, his father also coming to give a press statement in the matter was the height of it. It was really embarrassing to see.

Lmao that dress wasn't scandalous at all. The lady was just being an oversabi religious woman.

Wotowotoman:
Ogbeni, don’t compare custody battles of the poor to the rich. I repeat. Davido is not going through the embarrassing and PR damaging process of fighting for custody to punish the woman. It is about the money!!

None of these people I mentioned were poor

One's dad used to have his own page on Wikipedia sef, another one real Gs of Lagos know him (old Lagos money).

The thing is, in one of the cases, once the wife started begging the man, his behavior calmed down a bit. Even his family got involved to beg him (everyone knew he was wrong but there was a lot of grace and forgiveness given to him because we knew he wasn't a bad person, just someone who was deeply hurt his marriage had packed up and was listening to bad advice from outsiders).

Men and women are emotional, men are told to hide their emotions so it comes out in an unpleasant manner (plus their natural tendency for destruction).

When I saw Sophia's brief and the money ahe was asking for, I baulked. But if you look at the Adeleke family, if Imade was living with Davido, that money would be normal for her (just check Nicos and the rest of them lifestyle)

Magistrates award child support according to the lifestyle the child would have if the parents were together. They're not going to see a billionaire with a private jet and tell him to pay N100,000 monthly for CS when they know that's just his drinking water bill.

And most men refuse the legal judgement in Nigeria, most women move on and then in 20 years time, people are carrying an elderly man and chanting "forgive and forget" (which is biblically wrong).

My offer to go to Magistrate court still stands for you o

Wotowotoman:
So ‘immediately after the birth of their first child’ come mean say she has never had nannies? Which kind thing be this wey person dey see from people wey no pass ordinary WAEC English?

Only a dunce will believe that someone as rich as Rihanna will not have nannies. All the time she and her boyfriend are out in public without the kids, you think say the kids just dey home alone? Which kind reasoning be this?

It was reported that she doesn't have nannies and they prefer to take care of their child personally

Only a dunce will think it is impossible and rich people doesn't have preferences

Mirasteel:
They should allow Imade to enjoy his dad wealth, the little girl mom is just so greedy.

.Sofia momodu..the father is also wealthy a billionaire..so imade is also enjoying money and wealth from her mother family

Onegai:
None of these people I mentioned were poor

One's dad used to have his own page on Wikipedia sef, another one real Gs of Lagos know him (old Lagos money).

The thing is, in one of the cases, once the wife started begging the man, his behavior calmed down a bit. Even his family got involved to beg him (everyone knew he was wrong but there was a lot of grace and forgiveness given to him because we knew he wasn't a bad person, just someone who was deeply hurt his marriage had packed up and was listening to bad advice from outsiders).

Men and women are emotional, men are told to hide their emotions so it comes out in an unpleasant manner (plus their natural tendency for destruction).

When I saw Sophia's brief and the money ahe was asking for, I baulked. But if you look at the Adeleke family, if Imade was living with Davido, that money would be normal for her (just check Nicos and the rest of them lifestyle)

Magistrates award child support according to the lifestyle the child would have if the parents were together. They're not going to see a billionaire with a private jet and tell him to pay N100,000 monthly for CS when they know that's just his drinking water bill.

And most men refuse the legal judgement in Nigeria, most women move on and then in 20 years time, people are carrying an elderly man and chanting "forgive and forget" (which is biblically wrong).

My offer to go to Magistrate court still stands for you o

You are letting emotions get in the way here. Please stop for a moment. And also stop comparing Davido’s case to those old men that were married and divorced. Put yourself in David’s shoes.

Davido does not mind spending millions on his daughter. He just doesn’t want that woman to benefit from the money. He’s older now and has realized how the lady trapped him for financial gains. We are not children. Let’s call it what it is. For every 1 million she demands from Davido, she will use 100k on the daughter and use the remaining 900k to floss and do pepper dem gang. No lie if na you be Davido or if na your son or brother, would this make you happy? 🤔

Thundafireseun:
Oga truth be told No judge will grant you joint Custody after the death of your 1st son … no mata the connections ,fame and money…

You can only have unlimited access to your daughter….

...so is that the reason they denied him

PureFace1:
It was reported that she doesn't have nannies and they prefer to take care of their child personally

Only a dunce will think it is impossible and rich people doesn't have preferences

It was reported by who? Na so Rihanna herself tell you for dream abi?

In any case, please see bolded. I recommend Brighter Grammar for you guy. Read am well before you respond to me again

Thundafireseun:
Oga truth be told No judge will grant you joint Custody after the death of your 1st son … no mata the connections ,fame and money…

You can only have unlimited access to your daughter….

And you know this because you are a judge or at least.... a lawyer?

ivandrag0n:
Stop lying on behalf of your friend Sophia the whole world knows the truth.

Abeg leave her gist me the truth.

Wotowotoman:
You are letting emotions get in the way here. Please stop for a moment. And also stop comparing Davido’s case to those old men that were married and divorced. Put yourself in David’s shoes.

Davido does not mind spending millions on his daughter. He just doesn’t want that woman to benefit from the money. He’s older now and has realized how the lady trapped him for financial gains. We are not children. Let’s call it what it is. For every 1 million she demands from Davido, she will use 100k on the daughter and use the remaining 900k to floss and do pepper dem gang. No lie if na you be Davido or if na your son or brother, would this make you happy? 🤔

My brother, I never argue with emotion

Abeg make go court, go see something

And I have children already and I tell them "I trained you to be intelligent and logical so you won't fall into cheap easy traps laid by people who want to take advantage of you".

I've been far too many men fall into cheap, easy traps and decades of pain and suffering, in our family we go gather beat anyone who wants to leave his wife for his "peace of mind" or anyone who impregnates a woman and then starts to tell us how he "never loved her".

How much is a condom? Should you be even committing fornication like a wild dog in the first place??

You go collect brain resetting to the point that you'll run into police station and beg olopa to charge you with any crime, just to save you from us

If any of my kids is that daft, you go refund me your school fees money. Abi N3.1mil na joke?? Money to use to flex in Maldives😡

Everyone knows what they're doing, they just believe that the Bible which tells us precisely how the Laws of the Universe work, will change because their case is different.

dominique:
No competent court to will grand full or joint custody to a type of parent like Davido and the tragedy of losing his son has little to do with it. He's hardly available and he surrounds himself with all sorts of shady characters no sane parent will be comfortable leaving a child with.



Sophia did not sue him, he was the one that sued her. She never stopped him from seeing Imade, she only requested that the visits must be supervised and the child cannot travel with him. Considering the type of lifestyle Davido is living, that's the best kind of access he can get with the child, let's leave sentiment out of this. It was through this lawsuit that we got to know that Davido did not pay child support on Imade for years, Sophia never made this public till she got sued and Davido never refuted this till date. Whoever advised Davido to embark on this custody battle did not do well at all

I wonder where they got the narrative of Davido being denied access to the child. Was Davido not with Imade in January? That child is a growing girl and no sane judge would give Davido joint custody of a minor with his kind of lifestyle and environment. When she is 18, of course she can defend herself to reasonable limit and I doubt she would even want to be with him and Chioma sef.

Rossychy:
In my post, I acknowledged that both parents do it. I also know women that have deprived their children's mother access. It's both ways.

It rarely happens when men have custody...and if the man denies the mother access...then its only because she's gonna be a real danger to the kids with proof and thats him being logical...but women will use emotions ...the man left them for another woman, the man cheated on them , the man stopped giving them attention , the man refused to marry them , the man refused to give them what they asked for .... very selfish reasons ...only a very few will deny the father due to real danger ... why is Sofia refusing joint custody if not because of she dint end up as his wife , just as she hoped ... the man never loved her or wanted her ...she just took advantage of him ... he was 20...she was 28 ...

Never separate a girl from her loving dad. It a disservice to the child.

ednut1:
Grant you joint custody when you’re rarely home and surrounded by agberos and thugs who smoke igbo 🤡

the irony is that for the rappers whose lifestyle davido is aping, this is all kayfabe
they have all moved out the hood and changed their circle of friends

but Davido wants to form trap house gangsta hanging with his crew rather than be a family man

folake4u:
Well all these are normal, you will always get hurt when you are in the witness box. Expect the worst or don’t get in the box at all.

He is even lucky that the lawyer did not go as low as referring to his Dubai brawl and the death of those around him.

The lawyer just asked him of his dealings and handling of situations that got his child killed which is worth considering in custody matters. Nothing personal just factual. I as a lawyer would do same in a case like this.

Let's not get sentimental about these things please. Davido is a man-child who refuses to be accountable to his loved ones.

Thank you! People in his inner circle were dying anyhow of suspected substance abuse and you're telling me a Judge will give him custody of a 10 year old girl...so that thunder from Heaven will fire the judge straight.

I admire Davido's work ethic but his personal life is a shambles.

dominique:
No competent court to will grand full or joint custody to a type of parent like Davido and the tragedy of losing his son has little to do with it. He's hardly available and he surrounds himself with all sorts of shady characters no sane parent will be comfortable leaving a child with.



Sophia did not sue him, he was the one that sued her. She never stopped him from seeing Imade, she only requested that the visits must be supervised and the child cannot travel with him. Considering the type of lifestyle Davido is living, that's the best kind of access he can get with the child, let's leave sentiment out of this. It was through this lawsuit that we got to know that Davido did not pay child support on Imade for years, Sophia never made this public till she got sued and Davido never refuted this till date. Whoever advised Davido to embark on this custody battle did not do well at all

Why should he pay child support for a child that u refused him access ... will u as a woman allow ur brother do such... or will u pay child support for ur own child thats now with ur baby daddy and he still denies u real access...all he does is request for expensive things in the name of the child and then u hear that he uses money to flex other chics and parties in clubs ...will u continue giving him money?? Imagine ur baby daddy requesting that u must buy a G wagon for ur child cos the Range u bought got damaged and that he wants u to get a house in ikoyi with 4 always available Nannies that cost over 3k dollars monthly salary, just because u are Tiwa savage ... will u agree to such demands ?? That criminal Sofia has been extorting her baby daddy ... she's using imade to set herself up ...what a selfish evil mother ... davido was 29 and she was 28 when she took advantage of David to get pregnant... they were never a couple...was just flings

Onegai:
Thank you! People in his inner circle were dying anyhow of suspected substance abuse and you're telling me a Judge will give him custody of a 10 year old girl...so that thunder from Heaven will fire the judge straight.

I admire[b] Davido's work ethic [/b]but his personal life is a shambles.

davido that could not complete three weeks in lagos nysc camp
davido that took pictures in gym saying he was working out and he never got ripped [this was in his 20s when doing 15 pushups every morning will get you on your way]
davido who fifty cent bounced from tour last year for being unprofessional and lazy

Davido is just a man child coasting on family name

a fking embarrassment refusing to start adulting
is he the only omo olowo wey waka come?
na social media wey cause am sha., without the adulation of strangers on the internet, he would have been forced to grow up a long time ago

Onegai:
Thank you! People in his inner circle were dying anyhow of suspected substance abuse and you're telling me a Judge will give him custody of a 10 year old girl...so that thunder from Heaven will fire the judge straight.

I admire Davido's work ethic but his personal life is a shambles.

I know right. He's very lucky the lawyer didn't dig dirty into that aspect. He probably thinks the Judge would be bought with money too to grant him custody of an innocent child.

As an aside, his lawyer didn't prepare him properly for cross examination because I think this is the reason he's crashing out badly, he was ridiculed in court. Even as a lawyer, I don't want to be a subject of cross examination. LMAO. 😆 🤣 😂

Oh yes, I enjoy Davido's music (even played some this morning) but his personal life is too messy.