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Tales by moonlight.

Utter rubbish

Nteogwuija:
And you replace it with what? Baby mamas and deadbeat dads?

So because some students failed in a particular department, it means others aren't getting distinctions, hence the department should be scrapped?

It's the dead beat dad's that are responsible for the rate of which some of our girls are not just interested in being useful to themselves. They ha e not been around to look after their daughters.

Some of the girls now see relationship as a job opportunity

He won't be driving uber if he spent half of 300k usd investing in commercial projects in Nigeria, especially in Lagos. That's one thing I'm so proud I did after I japa. Nigerian women a brainwashed in US to challenge their husbands on everything they do. Most Nigerian women begin to forget their culture and values months after arriving in US or UK.

Please don't quote me. Just make your point.

As in how nah 🤷‍♂️

Marriage is overrated.
Know this and Know Peace.
Marriage is not for everyone.
Stop wasting millions on marriage, is not worth it.
Make it modest.

“Marriage, when my cousin spent more than 60 million last year, April don scatter.”

Why would he spend such hugemount of money on a marriage, your cousin is suspected.

I have two friends whose marriages crashed after three months...it's scary... but they had one thing in common, they married women they didn't really know

You no spend reach tiwa savage n till blizz

Jman06:
Anybody going into marriage must prepare his or her mind to forgive his or her partner over and over again! It is actually in marriage that the number of times we should forgive our offenders as written in the Bible comes into practice. This is why I'm marrying the girl I genuinely love because forgiving her shortcomings will be very easy for me because of how deeply I desire her.

Forgiving her short comings like sleeping with another guy while still with you abi

What a waste

Ahhh ... Na the 60 million shock me o nothing concern me concern marriage wey crash o

Kalulu44:
Forgiving her short comings like sleeping with another guy while still with you abi

That would be the red line and I'm sure she won't dare! But most other things that lead to marital issues can be overcome by constant forgiveness of your partner even after showing your displeasure

helinues:
The government should make a law, any marriage which there Aso Ebi cost above N20k, if it crashed in less than 2 years, they should refund the money for the Aso Ebi for those who bought it.

So I came to the country, spent some months with my friend before moving to my own place, another town.

After like 2 months, he came to visit, not only him but with his cousins. I got enough space

2 months after they left, he sent me a message he would be getting married, initially, I thought he was joking until he sent invitation letter, hahah, abeg who be the girl , no be somebody I sabi or heard of, a friend of almost a decade as at then.

It didn't take me less than one week before I Japa because I didn't want to be part of that marriage. You can't call me a friend and be getting married to someone I don't know, don't have idea about the plans until the Invitation letters was out.

The amount of money the guy spent for the marriage on someone he met less than 3 months but because of pregnancy, he must do lavish wedding just to impress/oppress/intimidate others.

The said wedding struggle to last for 3 years. Na just on one Sunday morning, my friend went to church, before he came back, the lady don pack all her things comot for house. That was the end.

They are getting married to people they don't really know, still make noise about the wedding and when it crashed, shame and disgrace go dey follow them

Both Burial sef

helinues:
The government should make a law, any marriage which there Aso Ebi cost above N20k, if it crashed in less than 2 years, they should refund the money for the Aso Ebi for those who bought it.

So I came to the country, spent some months with my friend before moving to my own place, another town.

After like 2 months, he came to visit, not only him but with his cousins. I got enough space

2 months after they left, he sent me a message he would be getting married, initially, I thought he was joking until he sent invitation letter, hahah, abeg who be the girl , no be somebody I sabi or heard of, a friend of almost a decade as at then.

It didn't take me less than one week before I Japa because I didn't want to be part of that marriage. You can't call me a friend and be getting married to someone I don't know, don't have idea about the plans until the Invitation letters was out.

The amount of money the guy spent for the marriage on someone he met less than 3 months but because of pregnancy, he must do lavish wedding just to impress/oppress/intimidate others.

The said wedding struggle to last for 3 years. Na just on one Sunday morning, my friend went to church, before he came back, the lady don pack all her things comot for house. That was the end.

They are getting married to people they don't really know, still make noise about the wedding and when it crashed, shame and disgrace go dey follow them

wow

Give girl belle then invite her to live with you to raise the child together. Marriage and wedding is outdated.

Shine your Eye Guys Marriage is not an Investment...op
Imagine Wasting 60M that Should have Invest even 20M in Agric Bizness like, Rice, Cashew or even Cocoa Farming..Bro wake up.

I want to believe that 60million was hyped. ....



Because meeeeeehn.

We told young men to stop spending too much in marriage, over spending in marriage never mean it will last infact its just show of arrogant and total waste of resources and its bond to fail.

Why will you spend N60m on wedding pls for what? Is wedding a Ltd or Plc or what for you to spend such on our present day babes that has no shame who can dump you any moment so why?

insidelife22:
Marriage will soon be outdated.

💯/💯

Marriage is a risk .... strange that people tend to celebrate the wedding ceremony more than the marriage itself.

Even this hard economy is not helping matters, as some women solely see marriage as an escape route out of poverty thus putting more pressure on men.

One thing is certain, we have more loveless marriages than before.

I am expecting refund from an ex couple. You invited me to your marriage, I spent both time and money not talk about risk of travelling. In less than a year, you are telling me story. My money most be fully returned

helinues:
The government should make a law, any marriage which there Aso Ebi cost above N20k, if it crashed in less than 2 years, they should refund the money for the Aso Ebi for those who bought it.

So I came to the country, spent some months with my friend before moving to my own place, another town.

After like 2 months, he came to visit, not only him but with his cousins. I got enough space

2 months after they left, he sent me a message he would be getting married, initially, I thought he was joking until he sent invitation letter, hahah, abeg who be the girl , no be somebody I sabi or heard of, a friend of almost a decade as at then.

It didn't take me less than one week before I Japa because I didn't want to be part of that marriage. You can't call me a friend and be getting married to someone I don't know, don't have idea about the plans until the Invitation letters was out.

The amount of money the guy spent for the marriage on someone he met less than 3 months but because of pregnancy, he must do lavish wedding just to impress/oppress/intimidate others.

The said wedding struggle to last for 3 years. Na just on one Sunday morning, my friend went to church, before he came back, the lady don pack all her things comot for house. That was the end.

They are getting married to people they don't really know, still make noise about the wedding and when it crashed, shame and disgrace go dey follow them

The Law is not really necessary where common sense should suffice...!

Before even getting emotionally attached to a lady, a smart guy should quickly count the cost of a marital future in the likelihood of it happening, and if her background signals exploitation, he should beat a hasty retreat.


Let our Nigerian people keep up with their atrocious cultures of greed, extortion and extravagance...!

No wonder weddings and marriages are becoming more and more unattractive to young men today.

I love this news. This is the kind of news I always like to hear. E sweet me for body well well.

To be frank with you many sure some red flag that it won't last yet he went ahead with extravagant wedding and now here is the result

We4all:
That is what happens when you use money to impress a girl. By the way, I didn't know nurse anaesthetist earn that much. I heard they are the highest paid among nursing professionals.

No wonder people are leaving their jobs and taking up nursing as a profession. But as for me, I can't do the job of a nurse even if they earn a million dollars.

Mind if I know why you can't do the nursing job?

I know of one that crashed within 2weeks but not that much was spent.

Let's put things in perspective. He spent N60 million on the wedding .. his salary is N37 million ...per month. The marriage crashed because they didn't know each other well enough ... found out when they started living together. Maybe she didn't know he was an abuser ....or maybe he didn't know she was a gold digger. If she is a gold digger guess she waited until there was enough time in the marriage to qualify for alimony.

A reminder that money can't buy love ....happiness.... nor peace if mind

E no reach 1 year. Your cousin got some deep pocket. So sorry....

if i was opportune to be among the aso-ebi, you will give me back my money

😂😂😂😂😂😂 Primitive ones, who are those primitive ones abeg? Did you mean local village babes?

Great9japikin:
After marrying with such amount, how much are you using to sustain it.

After showing someone who has not seen cool 1m such monetary level, later you will revert to 'please manage this'

Men, please learn to always live according to your level at all times so that anyone coming to you will easily understand and take you as you are.

Though some women understand.
It's worst with those primitive ones.