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Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by alphonsojidebab(op): 7:23am On Feb 18
Popular skit maker and singer Carter Efe has opened up about his reasons for no longer attending church, citing concerns about financial expectations from some religious leaders.

The entertainer, who is from Nigeria, shared his views in a viral video circulating on social media, where he explained that his experiences and observations have made him cautious about forming close relationships with certain pastors. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

According to him, some religious leaders may initially show care and friendship toward members but later begin requesting money for personal needs, a situation he said he finds uncomfortable.

He said:

“Pastor go dey show you love, dey call you for afternoon and evening. Before you know, pastor go dey tell you say ‘can you give me money for fuel?’ Before you know, pastor go tell you say ‘I want to cook beans, I need oil.’ Before you know, pastor go dey collect money for your hand. Na why I dey fear. Na why I no dey go church.”

The singer added that he prefers to avoid such situations entirely, noting that financial requests disguised within friendship make him uneasy.
Mixed Reactions Online

His remarks have triggered debate across social media platforms, with users expressing differing opinions.

Some agreed with his perspective, arguing that financial exploitation exists in certain religious spaces, while others criticized him for generalizing pastors and religious institutions.

Selected reactions include:

@sasmanic: “They will bill you till you get broke… just live abroad or have money, then this Naija pastor will open shop for your head.”

@BIG_DINERO37: “Abi na to open church, mosque and shrine dey collect money small small.”

@Johzbohz: “The worst thing is that the pastors will come out and lie that you gave them those gifts.”

@AbigailAidela: “Na church them send you go, no be to go do friendship with pastor.”

Ongoing Conversation

Carter Efe’s comments have contributed to ongoing public discussions about transparency, accountability, and financial practices within religious organizations, particularly in Nigeria where faith institutions play a major role in social life.

Observers note that while many religious leaders maintain integrity, controversies involving money often generate strong public reactions.
https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/02/18/carter-efe-why-i-dont-go-to-church/

Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Stephen0mozzy: 7:26am On Feb 18
To each one his own.

Generosity can still have boundaries. God loves a cheerful giver, be cheerful in giving. But set boundaries that dem no go even was gaslight you into giving.

My own was never about the "spending" - some beliefs just no longer made sense. I'm finding my way back now sha.

If I no wan sow shingbain, i no go sow shingbain.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by GanagiBitrus:
Imagine someone refusing to own a car because the Benz he bought previously, exhausted so much of his money on mechanics.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by KIDfurniture(m): 7:32am On Feb 18
The church is where u find the poorest people in this world. If u r engaged in life and living in a society where everything works. You dont need to seat in another man’s workshop.

Pastors re flourishing because there is poverty in the land. Politicians & pastors work together. One sucks the blood while the other try to inject the blood of Jesus as hope to remain chained forever
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by MUTE99: 7:33am On Feb 18
No matter what, one can't stop going to church
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by SmartPolician: 7:33am On Feb 18
You should be thankful to God that you have the means to give to others and have no obligation to give them.

This is the dumbest reason I have seen for why someone stopped going to church
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by vincenteger: 7:33am On Feb 18
For me this is no a reason

You can be going to church without making contact with anyone
It's your choice
Immediately after the final blessings, just hurry to your car and drive out
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by autoez: 7:34am On Feb 18
Na only you know wetin carry you go church. Focus on that most importantly
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by TheStoriesOfMan: 7:35am On Feb 18
I don't give to pastors because they are fraudulent, ALL OF THEM.

Reverend father, pastor, prophet, ALL ARE PULPIT SCAMMERS.

I help those who truly are needy, not those who can see food the next day.

This is one of the reasons I like Islam. Alfa no go fit dey bill me like kilo de.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by ChizzyBuna(m): 7:37am On Feb 18
Popular skit maker and singer Carter Efe has opened up about his reasons for no longer attending church, citing concerns about financial expectations from some religious leaders.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by papagiddy(m): 7:39am On Feb 18
Its not a correct reasons for not going to church.......just tell us the truth....u intentionally dont to want to go.....
U give what u have.... or tell u dont have......but it's better to give than to be receiver
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by AMI3(m): 7:41am On Feb 18
This one just want to trend. What is bad giving a pastor if ask.
Giving is a choice not by force besides there a so many churches that people will not even recognize who u are.

Somebody like me can even passed u along the road without knowing u are Efe.

Don't think that u can be noticed in other local churches where there are other prominent people in the same church.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by wizelink: 7:41am On Feb 18
Mr you are not yet prepared to serve the Almighty God in truth and spirit.

Do you attend church because of pastors or you want to know Him who made you and establish strong relationship?

In as much as I detest some pastors who preach one thing and do the opposite of what they have preached, that is not enough reason not to worship and serve your maker.

No body forces another to give to the church or pastors.

Pastors are humans so are you and are not above ill behaviours.

Come to think of it, if you are opportune to visit Aso Villa just to discuss your needs to presdo and on getting to the entrance some of his aids ask for financial inducement before letting you in. What would you do?


Oga prioritize your needs.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Decapo: 7:43am On Feb 18
SmartPolician:
You should be thankful to God that you have the means to give to others and have no obligation to give them.

This is the dumbest reason I have seen for why someone stopped going to church
So because he get to give make dem collect everything, others wey no get who Dey recognize them? Na so ur own church be ? You better disembark ASAP
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Decapo: 7:44am On Feb 18
vincenteger:
For me this is no a reason

You can be going to church without making contact with anyone
It's your choice
Immediately after the final blessings, just hurry to your car and drive out
Instead of going there, I go kukuma pray to my God inside my room. No be until I enter church before my prayer is answered
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Morenikeji090(m): 7:44am On Feb 18
God is everywhere if u don’t choose to go pray in the church pray at home man… humanity is over any religion don’t let them fool you… God is God and religion is religion. Religion is man made..
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Decapo: 7:45am On Feb 18
TheStoriesOfMan:
I don't give to pastors because they are fraudulent, ALL OF THEM.

Reverend father, pastor, prophet, ALL ARE PULPIT SCAMMERS.

I help those who truly are needy, not those who can see food the next day.

This is one of the reasons I like Islam. Alfa no go fit dey bill me like kilo de.
Pele, you never jam Alfa wey go use billing off you
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by MrJames007: 7:45am On Feb 18
Who's this one? Like anyone gives a damn whether you go or not. undecided
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by ruggedtimi(m): 7:47am On Feb 18
One reason I stopped going to church is that I noticed pastors often make it seem like God is only present in their particular congregation. It’s as if the whole world revolves around their church, and they imply that other churches aren’t serving God the right way.
Also there are about three churches around my family house, the pastors of the churches have had several scandals. The most prominent among them was involved in multiple sexual and fornication scandals. He was shot early one Sunday morning in December 2024 on his way to church( i heard the Gunshot and it sounded like knockout since it was during the festive period).
All of this gave me a different mindset toward today’s church. Still, I believe in Jesus and God Almighty 100%.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by boxypane: 7:48am On Feb 18
It should not stop him from going to church, he should just avoid those thieves amongst them disguising in cloaks.
I have an experience too. Pastor wey no get work wey don born 6 children. Who you wan whine?
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by kaywhy09(m): 7:49am On Feb 18
Na you dey attend hungry man's church
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by TheStoriesOfMan: 7:50am On Feb 18
Decapo:
Pele, you never jam Alfa wey go use billing off you
Me know say fraudulent Alfa dey, but can you compare them to the number of fake religious men in Nigeria?

For every 1 good Alfa, there are 10 fake pastors.
For every 1 good pastor, there are less than 0.00005 Alfas.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by Rootprof(m): 7:52am On Feb 18
Religion is a personal conviction. You stand alone without your pastor or imam. All MOG both Christian and Muslim are normal human beings like you. Stop expecting angelic behavior from them. Period
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by DeltaBachelor(m): 7:55am On Feb 18
Chai. Pastors. These god of men. Na wa o
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by muyico(m): 7:56am On Feb 18
Let the church be in your heart not building 🏫
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by SmartPolician: 7:57am On Feb 18
Decapo:
So because he get to give make dem collect everything, others wey no get who Dey recognize them? Na so ur own church be ? You better disembark ASAP
Tell your neighbour to explain to you that comment you quoted because it's clearly too difficult for you to grasp
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by ogascomax: 8:04am On Feb 18
You don't stop going to church because of any character in church. You will not say because some lecturers are terrible, some bosses or CEO are this or that I am not going to the university or going to work. The bottom line is that you stop going to church and God will judge your actions separately. Scripture says the church is the church of the living God. Jesus is the head of the church and he will judge you and pastors likewise. The pastor based on their works, you based on your refusal for attending services that God has established. Go and look for church that align to your value and leave the politics of the church alone and serve God for yourself. You think it's everything that happened in church that all of us that are still going to church will agree too. Even till today people question God so you think if people can question God then they won't questioned pastors too.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by yorosstores: 8:09am On Feb 18
Maybe you should denounce your family and friends because of billing.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by 2RightHands1Coc(m): 8:11am On Feb 18
Analyzer, Moonlight tales
TheStoriesOfMan:
Me know say fraudulent Alfa dey, but can you compare them to the number of fake religious men in Nigeria?

For every 1 good Alfa, there are 10 fake pastors.
For every 1 good pastor, there are less than 0.00005 Alfas.
Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church — Carter Efe Speaks On Distrust Of Some Pastors by TheStoriesOfMan: 8:15am On Feb 18
2RightHands1Coc:
Analyzer, Moonlight tales
You need bucket? I dey sell. Make I bring ten for you.
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