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I am married with Children, my wife is a registered nurse with about 8yrs working experience.

Please which one would you strongly advice Between Sponsoring my wife's Nursing career to the UK or Enroll for Msc in Construction Project Management in the UK?

My aim for the Msc is as a means to jakpa and reside in the UK to continue working not that I really needed the Msc.

Please i need your candid advice. Thanks.

If your intention is to SUSTAIN your marriage, get yourself that MSC.

Your chances of remaining married are HIGHER if you are the one experiencing the Career Development FIRST.

Do the MSC and your wife can start her own process LATER.

Someone posted a thread yesterday LAMENTING about how his wife who's the MAIN Visa Holder and also WORKING has refused to fork him since 2023.
And how he feels she's already CHEATING on him.

That WILL happen to you too if you let your wife be the head even TEMPORARILY.

Women CANNOT handle being the breadwinner while seeing their husband become the homemaker and REMAIN happily married.

Another FEAR from the man who posted his thread yesterday was what would happen when his wife finally decides to DIVORCE him and KICK him out while he's on her Visa as a DEPENDENT.

That's something to think about.

If she's on your Visa, that'll be different.

But if you are the Main Holder and she later gets hers AFTER you are fully settled, it'll be BETTER for your family and marriage.

Namaster:
If your intention is to SUSTAIN your marriage, get yourself that MSC.

Your chances of remaining married are HIGHER if you are the one experiencing the Career Development FIRST.

Do the MSC and your wife can start her own process LATER.

Someone posted a thread yesterday LAMENTING about how his wife who's the MAIN Visa Holder and also WORKING has refused to fork him since 2023.
And how he feels she's already CHEATING on him.

That WILL happen to you too if you let your wife be the head even TEMPORARILY.

Women CANNOT handle being the breadwinner while seeing their husband become the homemaker and REMAIN happily married.

Another FEAR from the man who posted his thread yesterday was what would happen when his wife finally decides to DIVORCE him and KICK him out while he's on her Visa as a DEPENDENT.

That's something to think about.

If she's on your Visa, that'll be different.

But if you are the Main Holder and she later gets hers AFTER you are fully settled, it'll be BETTER for your family and marriage.

My brother, God bless you immensely for this advice. This is the undiluted TRUTH. I couldn't have said it any better. Take it from me that currently resides in the UK. @OP, listen to these words of reasoning. I have seen and heard barrage of similar stories, and trust me, it doesn't end well for the men. I have seen grown men cry like babies.
Nor go dey reason your 8years of marriage ooo. It means nothing here.

You know your wife better than any of us here

You also know your family better than any of us here.

Logic when aligned with feelings (positive) is key.
Good luck Sir.