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If your wife is heavily pregnant, can you Watch her clothes and do house chores? Pending the time of her delivery?

What's wrong with doing it? I washed my children clothes in fact almost every weekend including my wife own

If you don't care for her, who will? After all, you'd have been the one who impregnated her.

You can't impregnate someone else's daughter and then abandon your responsibilities as the impregnator... You must wash her clothes, do house chores, help bathe her, clip her toenails, massage her feet, and shave her down there since the belly would be too big for her to shave herself.

Why do I wait for her to be heavy before washing for her, this is what I personally do for her and the kids just to keep the family moving and to help her, even now we have washing machine I still do the washing sometimes myself with the machine.

Coly2012:
Why do I wait for her to be heavy before washing for her, this is what I personally do for her and the kids just to keep the family moving and to help her, even now we have washing machine I still do the washing sometimes myself with the machine.

See correct person!
Indeed you a head leading with example.
OP, at this age and time you still ask this question to seek valiadtion?
There are things you do as a father that help shape your family and inculcate core values into your kids provided the priorities are set right

Fiscus105:
If your wife is heavily pregnant, can you Watch her clothes and do house chores, pending the time of her delivery?

Smart men support their wives at home in everything.
That is what beings stability and peace at home.
You won't have to force love and submission from your wife as it will flow naturally.

Forget all the hot false takes you see online. This is a normal thing for many stable and lovely homes.

Your wife does not need to be pregnant or heavily pregnant before you wash pant for her. Being a man is not a license to be a spare tool. But you must be wise enough to know when you are the tool, you are the fool or you are being cool. I remember the video of this woman who was still asking if he was the one despite all he did for her when she was sick

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7600608211183455519

Now if you stop being a man because she is not reciprocating, that's too bad. Raise your standards as a man, you are a leader. A leader knows who should be his deputy. It's good to have homely wives but she's not your slave. Learn to do things yourself. Don't take over the kitchen please but one of the ways to totori her is keep her company when she's doing things in the kitchen. I often tell women that men choose to be functionally lazy in chores not because they can't but because you're there. Because this same man could wash his bum, could eat food, could drink, could survive before he came into your life. He just chooses to get your free help and that may help the relationship eventually. As a man, make sure no woman holds you down because of food or simple things of survival.

These same people will wash plate but can't wash pant. 🤡 They will claim alpha male and D'tigress after washing plate in the other room but to wash the pant is now topic of discussion. Make it make sense please 🤡 😂


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7476487203363786015

Women, you have also been warned. Go for the man who is kind. Kind is not gentle or being a sissy. A kind person is emotionally intelligent enough to analyse situations and take HUMAN decisions. Or else, you go cry. Ajekun iya

amoco:
Smart men support their wives at home in everything.
That is what beings stability and peace at home.
You won't have to force love and submission from your wife as it will flow naturally.

Forget all the hot false takes you see online. This is a normal thing for many stable and lovely homes.

Can you do it? Simple question needs direct answer.

Can you wash wife undies.

Coly2012:
Why do I wait for her to be heavy before washing for her, this is what I personally do for her and the kids just to keep the family moving and to help her, even now we have washing machine I still do the washing sometimes myself with the machine.

....but hope your wife is not given you the same treatment Simi given Gold ooo? because people say Adekunle is Sisi Gold just because he too, doing good to wife.

Fiscus105:
If your wife is heavily pregnant, can you Watch her clothes and do house chores, pending the time of her delivery?

If a man thinks it beneath him to wash the clothes of a woman he expects to be seen as his other half -- whether pregnant or not--- , then such a man does not deserve a woman who cares for him any more than he cares for her, let alone one who does not equally consider it beneath her to wash his cloths. 🥱🥱🥱

amoco:
✓ Smart men support their wives at home in everything.
That is what beings stability and peace at home.
You won't have to force love and submission from your wife as it will flow naturally.
Forget all the hot false takes you see online. This is a normal thing for many stable and lovely homes.

There is nothing normalized about what op described. Hence the reason for the question. 🥱🥱

I wash and clean the house every weekend by myself to ease my wife some stress, I didn't marry a maid, I married a helper, a friend, and a good mother to my children. If I don't help her, who will?

I can, only with washing machine. Even to use had to wash my own clothes is war, not to talk of my wife.

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing normalized about what op described. Hence the reason for the question. 🥱🥱

Are you happily married?
If yes, then you would have known it's normal in happy normal homes.

[quote author=Fiscus105 post=138560886]Can you do it? Simple question needs direct answer.

Can you wash wife undies.[/quote
Happily married for 15 years.
We support ourselves. She helps out more than I do. I only support during weekends but she supports all the time. Nothing hard here unless you don't love your wife.

amoco:
✓ Are you happily married?
If yes, then you would have known it's normal in happy normal homes.

So, your logic is that happy marriages are the norm therefore every married individual out there knows of this? 🥱🥱

And here I thought there was some sort of intelligence to engage here. 🤔

Fiscus105:
If your wife is heavily pregnant, can you Watch her clothes and do house chores, pending the time of her delivery?

Mate what is wrong with you? Even if you're wife is not pregnant. You have 2 hands. You are a functional adult. Do your fare share and stop making excuses.

Nothing Wrong in help her, but what happened to giving it to laundry.

Kobojunkie:
So, your logic is that happy marriages are the norm therefore every married individual out there knows of this? 🥱🥱

And here I thought there was some sort of intelligence to engage here. 🤔

Happily married couples understand what I said.
That is just the simple fact.

By the way your question is off-point and your logic is at best straw man.

What is my business with Simi and Gold, everybody dey him house, my business is been satisfied and happy with my family and am happy for the past 14 years, so Simi and her husband should come and learn from my family because we are older than them in marriage.

Fiscus105:
....but hope your wife given you the size Simi given Gold ooo, because people say Adekunle is Sisi Gold just because he too doing good to wife

There's nothing wrong in that.
But I'm warning you, you must be private about it, without the knowledge of the outsiders especially your family, the day any member of your family knew you are doing house chores to help your pregnant wife,they will say she don use juju for you, therefore creating enemies for her.

One hypocritical thing i have noticed overtime on this faceless forum called NAIRALAND, is that most men tend to act appropriately subjugative online while in reality they have no iota that can qualify them of having attributes and characteristics traditionally associated with or expected of men.
Manliness virtues is just missing.

They say it to please people but their statement is just to stroke their egos; who cares!

Must we even talk about this, must we even discuss it, isn't it obviously obvious that somethings are just done just because it must be done; must men even discuss roles in the house, I thought the Bible says that man and woman shall become one flesh when they cling together (marry so to say).

A man becoming the head doesn't mean that a woman cannot twist the neck.

Men do well to take up your responsibilities, the matter op posted is something that does not always mean that a woman must be pregnant before helping her out in house chores and anything else similar.

Freestainworld:
I wash and clean the house every weekend by myself to ease my wife some stress, I didn't marry a maid, I married a helper, a friend, and a good mother to my children. If I don't help her, who will?

When it becomes regular occurrence, you have turned to something else, but if it's occasionally, that is a good husband vibes.

Fiscus105:
When it becomes regular occurrence, you have turned to something else, but if it's occasionally, that is a good husband vibes.

noit regularly, I do it mostly when she's pregnant, or when I know I. Have the chance to do it.

Not all family sha

Axis313:
There's nothing wrong in that.
But I'm warning you, you must be private about it, without the knowledge of the outsiders especially your family, the day any member of your family knew you are doing house chores to help your pregnant wife,they will say she don use juju for you, therefore creating enemies for her.

Angelacruz:
Not all family sha

Your mother come this week, she see you, washing plates, she didn't talk, she comes next week and meet you pounding yam, next two weeks, you are cleaning bathroom.

If she doesn't talk, she is not the one that born you ok.