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Fuckallmods:
Imagine!
My wife has staphylococcus but still denies me sex??

Oh I was good man! I admit today. But good men are foolish when it comes to being good to women.

We’ve been married for roughly 11 months now, you know the kind of Christian marriage where you don’t test your products’ output before purchase.
Before marriage, we did the important medical tests like hiv, genotype, blood group, etc.

One thing I observed about my wife is I always have to initiate sex; but 7 of 10 times she denies me sex, before and after marriage. We’ve been together for 3+ years now.

Recently I observed skin breaking in her vaginal area while we were bathing together, so I asked her to do an std/uti test. She did the test and result came out with staph positive.

I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs.

It turns out women don’t value men that are good to them, or who plays and offer them attention. This is so because I’m focusing on my friends and giving them more attention than her now, and I’m noticing changes.

Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.

Look at the way you came to Nairaland to display your ignorance.

Self control is our only hope.

Dzzzz:
Even if you no go school but you were living close to a school,You should know that staphylococcus is an infection transmitted from one person to another..It doesn’t say a toilet distributes the infection..If I chew an apple and give you to chew,Do we call it an APPLE INFECTION?

Is Steph a Std? That is the question. Simple direct question will be asked, you guys will stupidly twist it up and down to suit your narrative. No wonder you fail jamb many times.

Dzzzz:
Oga carry your matter go far..Gonorhea na toilet infection?..Be like you no wan get sense..

Nigeria think they are smart, smarter than others but in reality stupid, strange thing is that they are arrogant with the folly.

That time your wife dey denied you opueh , somebody dey knack am outside toilet disease ko bathroom disease ni , all you this weak men una go learn the hard way .

All marriages are fertile but empty land at the beginning. The more you and your partner plant what you want to see in the marriage, the more it grows and flourishes.
Sit your partner down, have a open and honest conversation about how you feel to her. Both of you have to unlearn and relearn a lot of things about marriage. Communication is key here and not assumptions. Also give her time to adjust after having the conversation with her. Finally, protect your family.

Dzzzz:
!!!BREAKING NEWS!!!..THERES NOTHING LIKE TOILET INFECTION..ITS STD or STI so no talk say I no tell you oo..

Staph is not an STD or STI. No say you no learn anything today.

SixSeven:
Former good man 😂 😂 😂 😂

Haha

staphylococcus is not an sti or std.

nedekid:
Nigeria think they are smart, smarter than others but in reality stupid, strange thing is that they are arrogant with the folly.

Yes your right..So do you accept there’s nothing like toilet infectio?

Must have been your first date

Dzzzz:
Yes your right..So do you accept there’s nothing like toilet infectio?

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Staphylococcus, that is what the topic is about.

nedekid:
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Staphylococcus, that is what the topic is about.

The wife said it’s toilet infection bro..Read from the start..

Helloworld123:
Staph is not an STD or STI. No say you no learn anything today.

Didnyou read the part where she said”it’s toilet infection”??

Dzzzz:
Didnyou read the part where she said”it’s toilet infection”??

Is a toilet infection an STI or STD?

ComeToJesus:
Your nostrils, skin and other mucous membranes such as the mouth and throat are laden with staphylococcus.

Staph only typically causes problems when it enters the body through a cut, wound, surgery, or other breach in the skin/mucosa.

thank you for the enlightenment

I appreciate.

Sorry for my late response.

tobey2canny:
Yeah,its called narmal flora

Lol.

I appreciate.

Insectkiller:
Don't mind dat bagggggarrr...

He is a liar.. Nah him type dey always accuse woman for NO reason..
A smoker like himmm..

I don't understand the bolded.

Sorry for my late response.

FBIBOT:
If the swab is taken properly or the urine is collected properly (midstream) and contamination is avoided and staphy still grows then it legit

I appreciate.

Sorry for my late response.

themanderon:
This assertion is true.

Love800:
I don't understand the bolded.

Sorry for my late response.

Staphylococcus spp are normal part of normal floral microbes so if the attending isn't careful they can contaminate the swab or urine with the normal flora microbes..... If all contamination is avoided during sample collection and staphy still grows... Then as med lab scientist we try to use a selective or differential media to check if there is something else that will grow aside staphy or we use other biochem test... After all these and staphy still grows then it legit.... Staphy(s) are opportunitics

I appreciate.

FBIBOT:
Staphylococcus spp are normal part of normal floral microbes so if the attending isn't careful they can contaminate the swab or urine with the normal flora microbes..... If all contamination is avoided during sample collection and staphy still grows... Then as med lab scientist we try to use a selective or differential media to check if there is something else that will grow aside staphy or we use other biochem test... After all these and staphy still grows then it legit.... Staphy(s) are opportunitics

spiceadole:
Lol.. Ignorance.
Innocent Staphylococcus aureus has suffered in Nigeria.
A very harmless normal flora in the vagina, mouth, and other parts of the body that helps to protect against the bad bugs.
It's not an STI

Really? I was stooling thick clotted blood and it'd not an infection. Smh

missyblissy:
Really? I was stooling thick clotted blood and it'd not an infection. Smh

Go to hospital and see a doctor. A lot of conditions can cause your symptoms.
Nothing concerns staphylococcus aureus