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Ruth15:
1.
I told him I'd be coming with two of my other female friends

2.
Unfortunately my bank was having network problem.

immortalcrown:
We all know the category of women that use these two formats.

Ruth15:
. Only broke men will have problem with paying the bills of the woman they hanged out with . I know of men who personally splashed millions of naira on their first dates. So please stop making it look like it's all men that have a personal romantic relationship with poverty.

immortalcrown:
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Network or bank issues can never get rich women stranded.

Ruth15:
please stop taking sides with your gender because this is ungentlemanly and this is something every sane mind shouldn't condone.

Adexvivacity:
Someone chose to hangout with you in a public place and you proposed coming with 2 friends 😯 Are you afraid he was gonna kidnap you? You ordered those things before he came so those things are actually not his debt. What could make him to leave without paying may actually depend on how you people behave....You know their intentions already and you know that saying NO could be devastated.....Maybe you and your friends said NO to their proposal. Next time, go alone and dont order in his absence. Make sure you gonna be reasonable with his proposal and if you are skeptical, dont take what you wouldn't be able to pay for.Guys aint ATM and to imagine non of you coul pay is pathetic. Tell us how you later escape such humiliation 😂🤣🤣

immortalcrown:
I take sides with truth. The truth is that his refusal to pay your bills does not mean he is poor, and your friends depending on him shows how poor you are.

Ruth15:
. Honestly,the worst argument to ever have is the one with a poor man. So lemme just leave you alone because it's very obvious you're in a romantic relationship with brokeness .

immortalcrown:
No rich woman will get something on credit hoping that a man will pay for her, and when the man refuses to pay, she will be stranded.

Ruth15:
. Initially stranded!!! Because I later sorted it out and we walked out like nothing actually happened. But lessons learned.

immortalcrown:
Only poverty could be responsible for both your initial dependence on the guy and the delay you experienced with the payment.

Ruth15:
. Didn't you read the part where I said I wanted to make transfer but it was network that Fvcked me up? Guys,you guys should please stop this gender war start being like real men. I understand the current economy has been at loggerheads with your heads recently but you guys shouldn't be channelling your frustrations on us. For God sake,we are women and we ought to be pampered.

Ruth15:
. Ok,poor man

Ruth15:
. Initially stranded!!! Because I later sorted it out and we walked out like nothing actually happened. But lessons learned.

Ruth15:
. Only broke men will have problem with paying the bills of the woman they hang out with . I know of men who personally splashed millions of naira on their first dates. So please stop making it look like it's all men that have a personal romantic relationship with poverty.

Ruth15:
. Only broke men will have problem with paying the bills of the woman they hang out with . I know of men who personally splashed millions of naira on their first dates. So please stop making it look like it's all men that have a personal romantic relationship with poverty.

advanceDNA:
Its just 5k but u said everything became blurry…

U had expectation of him to be a gentle man….But u ddnt think he has any expectation of you…??

As in, you ordered for food before he arrived..?? And u ddnt think this looks weird like its the food u came for??

Well shaaa… you be woman…. Entitlement is your middle name

Ruth15:
v so many broke and toxic men on this forum.

Ruth15:
Good day everyone.

So there's this issue that has been bothering me since yesterday and it has left me in a state of bafflement.

I met a guy on Thursday and I gave him my number. On Friday,he asked me if we could hang out and of which I obliged to. Mind you, before I agreed to go out with him,I told him I'd be coming with two of my other female friends and of which he said no problem. He even jokingly asked me if my friends were single and I told him yes. He then jestfully promised to hook them up with two of his other male friends and we both laughed over it .

So ,on Saturday which happened to be yesterday,we finally got to our agreed destination. I ordered for three bottles of coca cola and three fish pies,while my friends and I were awaiting them. Eventually they showed up and we were vibing. When it was time to pay for what I initially ordered for,I was expecting this dude to be a gentleman and go and pay for all the stuffs we bought on his behalf. But unfortunately,he wasn't making any move. So I stood up and wanted to pay. Unfortunately my bank was having network problem. But guys,guess what happened next. This dude and his friends stood up and left us stranded. Like they actually left, without thinking about what we'd be subjected to. Had it been I didn't have the money or went unprepared,that would have been an entirety different case but for goodness sake,it was just an ordinary bank network problems. And it was just ordinary 5k,and not something too big for a girl like me to pay without a blink of an eye. Omo,everything became blurry and I was wondering about what guys are turning into nowadays. Could this be a sign of being an alpha male or should I call it stoopidity? Because I was really embarrassed and I don't think I'd ever blame ladies who tend to be brutal to men from henceforth because I don't just understand what young men of these days are turning into.

Please guys,did I do wrong at all?

Obembet Dominique mynd44 Seun nlfpmod.

Starboytwo:
3 rich woman couldn’t afford 5k.

immortalcrown:
1.
Network or bank issues can never get rich women stranded.

2.
How does his refusal to pay your bill mean he is poor?

3.
The fact that two of your friends had to depend on the guy shows how poor you are.