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I can tell you from experience that Divorce both for a Man & Woman is one of the most draining event or occurrence that can happen to a mortal.

Nobody goes back complete.

If this dude doesn't re-marry a better person or chooses to stay single after this divorce, this picture will be the best picture of his entire life's journey.

Divorce takes it's toll on Men in their old age especially when they don't re-marry.

Normally, it get who you go marry, Satan go just wash hands comot from your matter, because e don give you premium settlement.

I know many people will castigate this man
But honestly this is d reality when u are out of toxic marriage dat doesn't give u any benefits

Shezy001:
So the wife told him to zag dressing like insane man. The wife might be correcting him on this like this and is finding it as an insult. Dress yen o normal rara. Am a married man myself

Responsibility never hook you for neck that the thought of buying that new shirt looks like luxury ? Or stress hold you so much that you talk to yourself while walking ? Baba if you have never experienced it , just thank God and move on . Don’t belittle what people go through

Samantha125:
If we were all to post pictures of ourselves from 10 years ago, we'd be looking like the before picture of him regardless of our marriage or financial status.

Even the Beyonce of 2015 looks different from the Beyonce of today.

The way sense as left people of this generation ehn no be small oooo. Thanks for your insight.

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If ain’t working out, walk out - Nigerian man says as he shares his before-and-after divorce photos


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Why e come resemble "imbe" before divorce na.

The woman don show am pepper like pesin wey pepper enter hin eye.

fyzaila:
How true is this? How are we sure it's not when he was broke vs when money enter

Nah... I have witnessed this severally.

Marriage is not the same for everyone... It elevates some (men or women) while dragging some into the cesspit of existence.

Just pray to marry well...!

...And it's not about money please. You Nigerians need to learn to move your thought process beyond MONEY. It truly isn't everything.

If money purchased everything, including Peace of mind, wealthy people won't be commiting suicide yearly.

Haaaa....which kin wahala be this?He must have seen shege

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If ain’t working out, walk out - Nigerian man says as he shares his before-and-after divorce photos


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baba it will be dificult to see that kind of woman

Pleaaaaaaaase

Nigerians are fond of letting themselves go when in a relationship/marriage. Now that he’s single, he can return to looking his best to attract mates. No magic here, just science.

Married



BLACK



Divorced


YELLOW



😆😅😂😁😄😃😀

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If ain’t working out, walk out - Nigerian man says as he shares his before-and-after divorce photos


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This is not a before and after divorce pic

This is a me ten years before picture

Anyone who is working in a good job has pictures like this.

Any university WhatsApp group or former training school WhatsApp group has pictures like this.

Don't know why a so called grown man is lying like a small pikin for clout.

saintopus:
Men are gradually getting more brutal in marriage. They are now realising how skewed the marriage business is.

At evening such men will meet their brutal reality, keep it up and be leaving in self denial.

A lot of men are dead bro! Remember the military guy that was burnt to death. Remember the Mo the PDP chairman son. THANK YOUR STARS!!!

Nobody Ugly — Psquare

Sonnobax15:

He definitely married a parasite that was feasting on his growth

The earlier people realize that not everyone is fit to be married,the better for the whole world.

I only pity people who think they can only find happiness in marriage

From the way some people write, you go know say women don show them pepper because them short, ugly and broke. Na only through soapy and p&$n, dem dey nack woman. And them go dey Nairaland dey vex for woman 247. This Ogbeni falls into that category. Oga, try find ashi house enter sharply before it’s too late o

how many people believe this crap? All i see is a picture of a struggling man and a picture of when he started making money.

This one na spiritual vampire e marry. Thank God for his life.

Sonnobax15:

He definitely married a parasite that was feasting on his growth

The earlier people realize that not everyone is fit to be married,the better for the whole world.

I only pity people who think they can only find happiness in marriage

Don't call yourself successful until you pass marriage stage because, you may fail, repeat, fail again and finally drop out.

But Bill gate na drop out sha so the end justifies the means

Bro need children so he must go again but if he already has children, na to just relax enjoy life

Marriage really no be for "better for worse"...

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If ain’t working out, walk out - Nigerian man says as he shares his before-and-after divorce photos


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They are not the same person.

Which kind lie be this ? Check the nose, check the lips .

snakova:
This one na spiritual vampire e marry. Thank God for his life.

Na serious ogbanjeee he marry

franchasng:
Nothing changed.


He only changed the camera and clothe to better ones and also stood straight in his recent photograph unlike his presumed married photograph where he intentionally bent and probably used AI to alter his outfit to look untidy

Glaucoma is that you?

floss:
That’s how Nigerians will realise how Apc has dealt with them once Tulumbu leaves office… the marriage Nigerians have with corrupt politicians will not end anytime soon

You dey mind Nigerians. Just the same way Obi dealt with Anambrians when he was governor. Even after his abysmal performance during his first tenure he still went ahead to campaign with late Ojukwu for second term and finally dealt with them patapata . Nigerians and corrupt politicians are like 5 & 6.

neonly:
I know many people will castigate this man
But honestly this is d reality when u are out of toxic marriage dat doesn't give u any benefits

Is anyone forced you to enter toxic marriage initially? When you see red flag, didn't you ignore and focused on yanch and boobs?

In as much partner in marriage refused to see themselves the way they see son and daughter, and start treating each other accordingly, marriage will continue toxic.

Marriage can never be problem but the two partners in marriage.

Learn how to blame urself and Ur partner and not marriage institution.

Titopeblog:
If ain’t working out, walk out - Nigerian man says as he shares his before-and-after divorce photos


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Credit: Henry Soma Anyaji

No more responsibility..I want to make my hair

Hell begins on right here on earth for a man that married a beast in the name of a wife.

blaise26abj:
When a man has no peace , it shows. Your head get filled with problems and stress. You lose weight and become a shadow of yourself . A man with a peaceful home/life( if single ) radiates confidence and energy to conquer the world

blaise26abj:
Responsibility never hook you for neck that the thought of buying that new shirt looks like luxury ? Or stress hold you so much that you talk to yourself while walking ? Baba if you have never experienced it , just thank God and move on . Don’t belittle what people go through

This man knows what he is talking about.
I know this because i have experienced thesame thing.
NEVER AGAIN!!!

franchasng:
Nothing changed.


He only changed the camera and clothe to better ones and also stood straight in his recent photograph unlike his presumed married photograph where he intentionally bent and probably used AI to alter his outfit to look untidy

You got it right.

Anything to trend these days

The truth is it's not easy to be a married and responsible husband.
I make over 500k monthly and I don't have 20k shoe or 15k jeans
I was asked to buy ready made native wear for 50k I just laughed
For God sake I have wife and 3 kids

Among my friends I am the only one married, we wer 4 of us and all have japa and done with M.Sc

If I am single or divorced with 3 kids maximum I will be sending to them monthly is 150k and remain 350k+ will be for me

I can buy nice clothes, smell nice, buy expensive bathing soap n skincares

I love my home ooo Wolahi...and I rather be managing than anything happen to any of us.

Who new clothes and shoes eppp