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Those who are married. Tell those who are not yet married something they need to know before marriage?

Marry for inner satisfaction, not for public validation.

Avoid in courtship what you cannot tolerate in marriage.

Any character or behaviour exhibited by your spouse during the courting phase, you go see triple of am wen Una don tie the knot.

Enjoy your singlehood while it lasts because marriage is a full time job.

I've been seeing some people talking about how this is the worst week to be with someone from my province... ... I hope my husband doesn't come across one of the comments because as I type this, I'm also getting ready to go home for the Easter weekend...

The N1 road will be packed.

you will definitely get tired of each other but you must also know that deciding to marry him or her is a decision and a choice so when the roads get tough never forget its your choice

No be every time your penis go stand up for her.

If you marry beauty instead of peace, your house go dey like you be visitor... You no go want visit am Everytime

Nairalander248:
If you marry beauty instead of peace, your house go dey like you be visitor... You no go want visit am Everytime

We’ve seen this format before. It’s exactly what the typical Nigerian pastor tells his followers right before he goes off to marry a beauty queen. Sometimes beauty and brains can be found in one but the percentage is very low.

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Nigeria dey bleed Nigeria dey bleed Nigeria dey bleed

Just got served a quit notice to leave where I live: reason is due to inadequate maintenance of the surroundings. Surroundings here is because my wife hung baby clothes on the balcony railings. There has been a soft verbal reminder about two years ago though , and now – quit notice.

When you get married and to a working class or busy woman, and don't have money for domestic staff, this may likely happen to you as home housekeeping won't be the same again like when you are single

Don't ever marry her out of pity,you will eventually regret it big time

Marriage is for the patient, it's not for who's most intelligent but who is more circumspect. You can't be a hot potato, my friend Toyin Tomato 🍅

Marriage is indeed a school.

SpencerForbes:
We’ve seen this format before. It’s exactly what the typical Nigerian pastor tells his followers right before he goes off to marry a beauty queen. Sometimes beauty and brains can be found in one but the percentage is very low.

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E be like say you never read wetin our elders don know. E get why

Am not married but billing billing go finish, it gets worse with a lazy partner. Wives have run down several businesses opened by their husbands.

shola87:
you will definitely get tired of each other but you must also know that deciding to marry him or her is a decision and a choice so when the roads get tough never forget its your choice

How is it your choice? When society goaded you into it? How is it your choice when you knew nothing about marriage. Your SECOND marriage could be said to be your choice!

.. Sex will get tired over time .. wat really matters is hw u guys settle conflicts...and no allow any 3rd party plz

Best thread in Nairaland for ages....well done to those above.

Don't fight your wife so far it's not infidelity.
Don't fight your husband so far it's not infidelity.
Acknowledging his and her effort in all ramifications is very important

All the money you weren't making while you were single, you will suddenly start making them but you won't see them because they have all gone into family expenses 😁😁🤣🤣. You will only know you made big money by calculating your expenses within a particular period🤣🤣🤣. You will keep telling yourself that if you had made such money when you were still single, when your expenses weren't as they are now, maybe you would have even owned a private jet by now🤣🤣🤣. May God bless our marriages

Your freedom of movement, speech and other freedoms as single will be tempered with.

MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR THE WEAK

Never get married. Get a baby mama and baby daddy. Marriage is a scam

gift2xl:
No be every time your penis go stand up for her.

Nice observation

Td

By all means, don’t go broke in marriage. If you do, her true colours will show. Only then will you realise that the person you married doesn’t support you she reports everything to others.

Love is not enough
Marry someone who respects you .

Abstain from every form of premarital SEX, God hates it

Most married ones expecially those ones suffering silently in their marriage always want their single friends or family members to see the same shege they are seeing in their marriage.. so they will be like "when will u marry?" " It is because u are not married" "Go and marry"
Don't mind them o. Take your time and make sure you marry right if you chooses to marry as a single person

Sirchiboy:
Those who are married. Tell those who are not yet married something they need to know before marriage?

You always show hate to women.

Na man you go finally marry

MarketDispatch:
By all means, don’t go broke in marriage. If you do, her true colours will show. Only then will you realise that the person you married doesn’t support you she reports everything to others.

Where una dey go select this kain women from? God I thank you oh