How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? - Family (5)

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Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by Lawalemi(m): 12:04am On Apr 05

Baileyz101:
Bro. Please be sincere does she really respect you and does she allow you say your mind without her getting angry. Does she behave Asif you are in a competition rather than being a partner

Sometimes she say all sort when the weyrey enter her head but it never stopped her from preparing my meal.
Nowadays, I just leave the drama for our teenage children to watch which I know she's not comfortable with.
Generally, I love the fact that we are in the same age bracket and generation.

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by Allocsoluwatosi(m): 12:13am On Apr 05

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Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by Allocsoluwatosi(m): 12:14am On Apr 05

Me 22 wife 21. Happily married for fifteen years now.

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by Ever8090: 1:13am On Apr 05

I am 49 my wife to be is 16 waiting for her to clock 18 so we can get married asap...

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by QuinQQ: 3:10am On Apr 05

SixSeven:
Wait, it wasn't your pregnancy?

What do you mean? Of course it was my pregnancy and we "loved" each other and we only did it HALF of once

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by QuinQQ: 3:11am On Apr 05

Allocsoluwatosi:
Me 22 wife 21. Happily married for fifteen years now.

Wait a minute, yiu got married when she was 6.
Was it arranged marriage?

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by QuinQQ: 3:12am On Apr 05

Ever8090:
I am 49 my wife to be is 16 waiting for her to clock 18 so we can get married asap...

Why the wait?

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by QuinQQ: 3:19am On Apr 05

UnknownQueen:
If na by fear, then you no go marry at all..
Na fear go continue to hook you, you better marry, if e work fine, if e no work fond divorce go, no be by force...

U think say it easy like that. Not easy at all to end a bad marriage. Why do you think they kill the other person instead

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by UnknownQueen(f): 3:31am On Apr 05

QuinQQ:
U think say it easy like that. Not easy at all to end a bad marriage. Why do you think they kill the other person instead

Haba, but e no suppose reach like this na...
Life shouldn't be a do or die affair...
I thought you were just going to say its not easy to divorce one's partner, which one is to kill cos marriage no work....Na wa o.

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by CerebrumOptimus: 3:36am On Apr 05

DeltaBachelor:
I am o. In fact, I just finished watching Chelsea match and the enjoyment is to the fullest. No time !

I carry God beg you, all they have to offer now is sorrow and how to finish you patapata.

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by QuinQQ: 3:44am On Apr 05

UnknownQueen:
Haba, but e no suppose reach like this na...
Life shouldn't be a do or die affair...
I thought you were just going to say its not easy to divorce one's partner, which one is to kill cos marriage no work....Na wa o.

Why do you think all these people below killed their wives

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by capetownboyz(m): 3:51am On Apr 05

frankoben:
I had my first child at 27 out of wedlock. I'm 44 now with four kids from four different women, still single and never married.

how do you feel having four kids with different women and not still feel like you are married ? Cause I feel what makes a marriage is being responsible to yourself,your wife and kids and with this instance you got 4kids in picture .so in some kind way you are married but act single ..

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Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by spiceadole(f): 3:52am On Apr 05

mankan2k7:
What concern me with your opinion. You may be living in hell, that is your own cup of tea. The shame should be yours

Hahahaha.
People that say the best age for women to marry is 18-23 .. E reach your turn, you marry your senior and you are justifying it.

You go cry tire.

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by spiceadole(f): 3:53am On Apr 05

capetownboyz:
how do you feel having four kids with different women and not still feel like you are married ? Cause I feel what makes a marriage is being responsible to yourself,your wife and kids and with this instance you got 4kids in picture .so in some kind way if you are married but act single ..

He should be feeling good.. real G.
"Have baby mamas, don't get married", that's what is advised on social media especially this platform

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by Xtfield(m): 3:57am On Apr 05

Mariangeles:
Are you serious? 😳
You've been married for that long?

Was she aware that you were younger than her?

Yes, We shall celebrate or 42nd anniversary, God willing on May 14. Neither of us knew how old the other was then and I was bigger than my age then. I could have claimed 28 then and no one would have argued with me. I left University at 20 which was very rare in those days so I guess my educational attainment confused many at the time But in all I give glory to God who has preserved both of us and blessed me with a successful married life

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Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by UnknownQueen(f): 4:08am On Apr 05

QuinQQ:
Why do you think all these people below killed their wives

But these ones na foreign news, e no suppose hard for Nigeria.... cool

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by Olufemiolaolu(m): 5:03am On Apr 05

I was 33 plus she was 32 plus

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by FuckYeyeMods: 8:12am On Apr 05

Fekumzi123:
Me 34 , she 25.

Interesting journey filled with joy and anger.
Topping your heavily pregnant wife is one of the sweetest thing.

When people see a married man approaching a pregnant woman, people label him a ritualist but they forgot that topping your 6 month and above pregnant wife is one of the sweetest thing.
Sincerely, I never thought anyone else feels samething when topping their pregnant wife.
Thank you for being Saliu.

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Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by mankan2k7(m): 8:46am On Apr 05

spiceadole:
Hahahaha.
People that say the best age for women to marry is 18-23 .. E reach your turn, you marry your senior and you are justifying it.

You go cry tire.

I have been married for 15 years and still enjoying it. My wife is a senior Lecturer while I work with a reputable public hospital. I am really enjoying my relationship cause I have achieved alot? If u married wrong, it is not my fault deal with it.

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven: 8:59am On Apr 05

QuinQQ:
What do you mean? Of course it was my pregnancy and we "loved" each other and we only did it HALF of once

Why was it a problem that she was pregnant and trying to hide it if the unborn baby was yours? Or was she sharing it with another man and you didn't know?

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by 18wheeler: 9:05am On Apr 05

I was 31, and she was 23. Sweet moments then.

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by Nefort: 10:21am On Apr 05

Olachase:
I am 30 already and I don't even have a girlfriend talk less of wife

The ladies of this generation fear me

Husband day outside day find wetin family go eat
Wife day on social media day do 360 for the camera to get 1k view

🫠🫠🫠

You talking nonsense. The Yahoo boy, ritualists and kidnapping generation of men doesn't fear you? You guys will always blame women for everything.

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by QuinQQ: 10:28am On Apr 05

SixSeven:
Why was it a problem that she was pregnant and trying to hide it if the unborn baby was yours? Or was she sharing it with another man and you didn't know?

Oh her parents are holier-than-thou pillars of the church whose children will all stay virgins till marriage. Meanwhile their very first daughter got pregnant at 16!

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by QuinQQ: 10:35am On Apr 05

UnknownQueen:
But these ones na foreign news, e no suppose hard for Nigeria....

Divorce is even harder here because of the expensiveness of marriage and the fact that it is two extended families joining together - it is much more than just the two of you. Then throw in children and all sorts of interconnections

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by QuinQQ: 10:38am On Apr 05

Olufemiolaolu:
I was 33 plus she was 32 plus

Haba! Nobody's age is exactly 33 or 32, we know that!

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by Love800(m): 10:40am On Apr 05

Wont she go to uni?
Will she stop furthering her education after secondary school?

Ever8090:
I am 49 my wife to be is 16 waiting for her to clock 18 so we can get married asap...

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by Verbtips(m): 10:54am On Apr 05

greatermax77:
I married at the age of 67
And my wife at 57
All my children are above 70 years now

sir,are you from the linage of tulumbu

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Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by Elxandre(m): 11:11am On Apr 05

DeltaBachelor:
Hmmmm. Still a bachelor sha. I am over 45 BTW !

Go and marry boss. Tho I sure say you fit don born like 3 already 😂

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven: 11:20am On Apr 05

QuinQQ:
Oh her parents are holier-than-thou pillars of the church whose children will all stay virgins till marriage. Meanwhile their very first daughter got pregnant at 16!

I've been so nosy about your affairs. Sorry about that. Last question, is my assumption correct that if it were not for the parents, you would have married that girl? (in MAGIC!'s voice wink

) I sense the parents affected your relationship, otherwise it would have been something you didn't mind.

Edit: I will still ask questions but not about your relationship anymore. I like people sharing experiences and I don't judge, I just want to read or learn from their experiences.

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by Elxandre(m): 11:23am On Apr 05

pappilo:
28 and 25

Divorced at 43 and 40

Sorry about that sir.

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by Elxandre(m): 11:40am On Apr 05

QuinQQ:
Oh it was a big semi-open secret of a scandal. Her very respectable parents covered up she was already pregnant durring the wedding. Something that shouldn't be a big deal. They were trying to pass off she married as a virgin!

Who would believe a 16 year old girl got married out of love😂

Re: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by goodson(m): 12:35pm On Apr 05

I was 29years and she was 25years. Been married for like 16years now. Good has been good.

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