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You are 4 siblings, & you’re No. 3. You’re close to only your last the No. 4 but you see the oldest 2, they don’t give a fvck about you & last. They hardly care about you 2. They don’t speak to you both.

But there are your parents who communicate with you all. Your parents don’t really care about the relationship among the children as long as they’re calling you all individually & you’re picking & responding that you’re fine.

Your parents in fact cares more about the two older than the two younger. They send the eldest some money monthly to support her and go as far as selling some property to help the second oldest with his travel expenses but you see the last two, you only receive “how are you?”, “I’m just checking up on you to know you’re fine”.

You also noticed that your parents received information & update about you & shares it with these two older (it’s like sharing your info with people that don’t like you) and this always works against you most times (spiritually) when people that don’t even know already knows what’s going on in your life.

So you’ve decided to cut the parents off, you stopped sharing updates about yourself to them. You & the youngest are like the siblings that have each other’s back. In fact you’ve resolved that your younger sibling is the only family you have.

You even have first-hand info that if anything happens to your parents, there’s no inheritance for you. The two older will definitely take over everything & because they don’t even like their younger siblings, what do you expect? You as the 3rd, you’re already doing well for yourself, God is blessing & providing for you and you are not reliant or expectant on any inheritance, so what’s the point? Everyone can go their separate ways in life. You are even doing better & more successfully than the two oldest & the closeness was never there right from young.

In a nutshell, you have resolved that the only family you have is the youngest & you’re fine. No negativity & the spiritual battle has been reduced because the less your enemies know about you, the less spiritual battles.

Am I right? If you were in my position, what will you do?

Your orientation is very bad. You need to work on your mindset. Otherwise, your children will be as disunited as you and your older siblings. Let me point out three things.

1.
Who told you that those who want to spiritually work against you will rely on hearing things about you?

2.
You want to cut your parents off because you are not united with your older siblings. Tomorrow, some of your children will cut you off once they feel disliked by their siblings.

3.
How did you get the first-hand information that you will not inherit any part of your parents' property?

TooResilient:
You are 4 siblings, & you’re No. 3. You’re close to only your last the No. 4 but you see the oldest 2, they don’t give a fvck about you & last. They hardly care about you 2. They don’t speak to you both.

But there are your parents who communicate with you all. Your parents don’t really care about the relationship among the children as long as they’re calling you all individually & you’re picking & responding that you’re fine.

Your parents in fact cares more about the two older than the two younger. They send the eldest some money monthly to support her and go as far as selling some property to help the second oldest with his travel expenses but you see the last two, you only receive “how are you?”, “I’m just checking up on you to know you’re fine”.

You also noticed that your parents received information & update about you & shares it with these two older (it’s like sharing your info with people that don’t like you) and this always works against you most times (spiritually) when people that don’t even know already knows what’s going on in your life.

So you’ve decided to cut the parents off, you stopped sharing updates about yourself to them. You & the youngest are like the siblings that have each other’s back. In fact you’ve resolved that your younger sibling is the only family you have.

You even have first-hand info that if anything happens to your parents, there’s no inheritance for you. The two older will definitely take over everything & because they don’t even like their younger siblings, what do you expect? You as the 3rd, you’re already doing well for yourself, God is blessing & providing for you and you are not reliant or expectant on any inheritance, so what’s the point? Everyone can go their separate ways in life. You are even doing better & more successfully than the two oldest & the closeness was never there right from young.

In a nutshell, you have resolved that the only family you have is the youngest & you’re fine. No negativity & the spiritual battle has been reduced because the less your enemies know about you, the less spiritual battles.

Am I right? If you were in my position, what will you do?

This is deep

Imagine if the elder ones travel abroad and very successful they would turn u to slaves normally. Family are the worst in my opinion.
Family are the devil themselves as na only them fit build u or break u

Python25to30:
This is deep

Imagine if the elder ones travel abroad and very successful they would turn u to slaves normally. Family are the worst in my opinion.
Family are the devil themselves as na only them fit build u or break u

1.In this case, the older ones can’t even build you because they can’t even build themselves. That zeal & fire is not there. You even have the zeal more than them.

2. They can’t also destroy because communication has been cut from their information/update suppliers. Even where you are, whether it’s still in naija or you’ve japa, they don’t know.

You already know it's a lady.

Go and reconcile with your siblings madam !

Before you pass down this imaginary enemities to your kids.

jus 4 and ye all fight yourself spiritually, too bad

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Your family needs help

TooResilient:
1.In this case, the older ones can’t even build you because they can’t even build themselves. That zeal & fire is not there. You even have the zeal more than them.

2. They can’t also destroy because communication has been cut from their information/update suppliers. Even where you are, whether it’s still in naija or you’ve japa, they don’t know.

Una no dey call at all

TooResilient:
You are 4 siblings, & you’re No. 3. You’re close to only your last the No. 4 but you see the oldest 2, they don’t give a fvck about you & last. They hardly care about you 2. They don’t speak to you both.

But there are your parents who communicate with you all. Your parents don’t really care about the relationship among the children as long as they’re calling you all individually & you’re picking & responding that you’re fine.

Your parents in fact cares more about the two older than the two younger. They send the eldest some money monthly to support her and go as far as selling some property to help the second oldest with his travel expenses but you see the last two, you only receive “how are you?”, “I’m just checking up on you to know you’re fine”.

You also noticed that your parents received information & update about you & shares it with these two older (it’s like sharing your info with people that don’t like you) and this always works against you most times (spiritually) when people that don’t even know already knows what’s going on in your life.

So you’ve decided to cut the parents off, you stopped sharing updates about yourself to them. You & the youngest are like the siblings that have each other’s back. In fact you’ve resolved that your younger sibling is the only family you have.

You even have first-hand info that if anything happens to your parents, there’s no inheritance for you. The two older will definitely take over everything & because they don’t even like their younger siblings, what do you expect? You as the 3rd, you’re already doing well for yourself, God is blessing & providing for you and you are not reliant or expectant on any inheritance, so what’s the point? Everyone can go their separate ways in life. You are even doing better & more successfully than the two oldest & the closeness was never there right from young.

In a nutshell, you have resolved that the only family you have is the youngest & you’re fine. No negativity & the spiritual battle has been reduced because the less your enemies know about you, the less spiritual battles.

Am I right? If you were in my position, what will you do?

Wetin you and your younger one do everyone?