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The person who shoulders the finances of the house has the say regardless of gender.

The very day you as a man fail in being able to carry your financial responsibilities and your wife starts carrying it, be ready for a whole lot of disrespect, harsh tone, in some cases she even decides when to mate with you and you dare not say you are not in the mood.

Pray you never get to see that nightmare of a day.

Considering just the heading without reading the body, that's the right thing to do.
Women should know that time is evolving. Gone are those days when men would do everything to make sure his wife and children remain happy even after his death.
If a woman thinks she's manipulative and can turn a grown up children against their dad and the children comply, then they did not deserve anything from the man.

no, its not right, but it depends on the gravity of the matter

I was almost moved to tears reading this life story. We men go through a lot both as fathers and husbands. The man just prolonged his lifespan. He is got my backing.

TEYA:
What is the big deal about AI generating a story?

How are you sure the story was AI generated because you spoke with a certain level of certainty?

Even if this story was fabricated every man should earn a lesson from it. You only live once and it's suicidal to live it with ungrateful people.

God bless him and give him long life to enjoy the rest of his days.

He made the right decision and his ungrateful children should go to their mom for help since she's the one that influenced them.

ariesbull:
How can AI generate the story...una go dey reason anyhow

AI can generate it anyways, but you see there are many young people here who haven't seen anything and this kind of life events look like story to them. I just smiled, he hasn't seen anything. May God keep us away from evil spouses. As for what the man did, NA CORRECT MAN HE BE

datola:
Na men dey suffer pass for marriage.

Marriage is only profitable to the woman and a loss to the man........i have a 62 year old friend who told me he wanted ti divorce his wife as he didn't feel loved anymore.....all the kids are grown and out if the house except his last and he has been ostracised from tbe family as if he is no longer in there.......he said he doesn't want a young lady but a lady between 45 and 55 and doesn't need kids from her,if she still has one or 2 in school he wouldn't mind helping with their upkeep.......he just needs a companion who would appreciate him and take care of him......preferably widow or single mum with no ties to her baby daddy.......I thought deeply as I could feel his pain......don't be surprised if the kids of his consort who never really had the joy of a father will appreciate him more than his own blood children.

They simply got what they deserved. I wonder why grown people should not be able to make informed decsions for themselves. How csn those adult children allow their mother decieve them so much to the level of treating their father this way? Even if their father didnt always do right its still not an excuse.
Well I thank God I am not from a dysfunctional home like this.
For the man to got to such extremes, it simply means he has seen hell and decided he wanted out. He married a wrong woman.

Great story whether it's fact or fiction.😆
I just watched and enjoyed a similar plot film. 😉

Please give that man a BELLS.

ariesbull:
Is What This Man Did Okay? Is It Right ?

This retired civil servant in Abuja sold his family house without telling his wife or children.

Months before anyone suspected anything, the original house documents had already been quietly moved out of the house for safekeeping.

So when strangers eventually showed up for inspection, it had already gone too far to reverse.

That house wasn’t inherited. It came from years of deductions, years of sacrifice, living inside one of those government quarters that were later sold to occupants.

But retirement changed the balance of power inside the house.

His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning.

Around that same period, his entire gratuity was taken to fund a family business. It was supposed to help everyone. It collapsed before one year.

That was when the quiet planning began. Not loudly, not emotionally but silently. He decided he would rather start life again alone than remain in a house where he felt unwanted.

Months later, the house was sold privately for 90 million.

A smaller house in a quiet suburb was purchased for 18 million, and the rest was secured quietly.

At home, nothing looked suspicious. No arguments, no sudden tension.

Weeks before leaving, clothes were gradually packed under the excuse of sending them to the dry cleaner.

Then one day, he travelled for what was described as a consultancy job. He never returned to that house again.

The truth surfaced the day the new owner sent people to inspect it.

Panic started immediately, his children that haven't checked on him since he travelled started calling nonstop, asking what was going on. That was when he confirmed it himself.

Yes, the house had been sold. By then, nothing could be undone.

Attempts were made to trace his new location, but he had already moved carefully and deliberately.
He said something that stayed with me since I heard the story:

“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

Credit:Oludare Ayeni

Do you think he acted right?


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Well it's pretty difficult for Father to abandon the entire family, but life happens..

A father usually have a confidant among this members, but in this case not even one show care, that's terrible, definitely the Wife as questions to answer.

He sold the house possibly he later find out that the woman he married already moved on emotionally.

TEYA:
AI generated story. Very good story, by the way!

How old are you, every story has a moral lesson whether real or imagine. Do well to digest what's in any messages and not ignorantly attacking the messenger.

To be fair to women a lot of men assume they are the only ones growing up and growing old. Old women also get frail and unwell in old age and when couples communicate they can agree on what help is needed and get it.

Old men sitting around expecting to be looked after by frail old women is a recipe for disaster. The man could have sold the house and move away to enjoy retirement with the wife. The children would not like it but he can choose to pay rent for them for say 2 years.

Retirement and old age needs to be planned and not chaotic.

TEYA:
AI generated story. Very good story, by the way!

What do people like you want to believe?
Do you mean things don't happen around you? Even if you live alone in the middle of a forest, things are happening. We have seen properties sold by people who didn't work for them. So why can't the same property be sold by the people who originally own them? The more you look, the less you see. I don't know the number of glasses that will help you see now o.

No mind him...

Thomases still full

ariesbull:
How can AI generate the story...una go dey reason anyhow

“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

...... words on the mabble

gabbytabby:
To be fair to women a lot of men assume they are the only ones growing up and growing old. Old women also get frail and unwell in old age and when couples communicate they can agree on what help is needed and get it.

Old men sitting around expecting to be looked after by frail old women is a recipe for disaster. The man could have sold the house and move away to enjoy retirement with the wife. The children would not like it but he can choose to pay rent for them for say 2 years.

Retirement and old age needs to be planned and not chaotic.

did you read this part of the story?

' .... His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning......'

ariesbull:
Is What This Man Did Okay? Is It Right ?

This retired civil servant in Abuja sold his family house without telling his wife or children.

Months before anyone suspected anything, the original house documents had already been quietly moved out of the house for safekeeping.

So when strangers eventually showed up for inspection, it had already gone too far to reverse.

That house wasn’t inherited. It came from years of deductions, years of sacrifice, living inside one of those government quarters that were later sold to occupants.

But retirement changed the balance of power inside the house.

His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning.

Around that same period, his entire gratuity was taken to fund a family business. It was supposed to help everyone. It collapsed before one year.

That was when the quiet planning began. Not loudly, not emotionally but silently. He decided he would rather start life again alone than remain in a house where he felt unwanted.

Months later, the house was sold privately for 90 million.

A smaller house in a quiet suburb was purchased for 18 million, and the rest was secured quietly.

At home, nothing looked suspicious. No arguments, no sudden tension.

Weeks before leaving, clothes were gradually packed under the excuse of sending them to the dry cleaner.

Then one day, he travelled for what was described as a consultancy job. He never returned to that house again.

The truth surfaced the day the new owner sent people to inspect it.

Panic started immediately, his children that haven't checked on him since he travelled started calling nonstop, asking what was going on. That was when he confirmed it himself.

Yes, the house had been sold. By then, nothing could be undone.

Attempts were made to trace his new location, but he had already moved carefully and deliberately.
He said something that stayed with me since I heard the story:

“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

Credit:Oludare Ayeni

Do you think he acted right?


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good decision 💯 but I think d man na dodoyo hw can u let woman u marry u put under ur room and children treat u that way and u no send dem away d very first day they start that nonsense I trust myself sha

Not generated. My village man did same in USA, he left them there.

TEYA:
AI generated story. Very good story, by the way!

TEYA:
AI generated story. Very good story, by the way!

Yes we know. When it gets to your turn generate your own and title it: From Iragbiji to Eko - How Ajala made it.

That's what 99% of fathers pass through.
Serves them right.

TEYA:
AI generated story. Very good story, by the way!

Even if it's AI-generated, it takes effort to pull it off the AI to this place. Again, there's a lesson to learn. Men ought to be very careful with what they call wife. How can a man be staying with someone that doesn't care about him and still calls herself wife?

honour8:
Next up marry sweet 35 to 40year old start new life no time. Women should respect their husband, we don't need love just respect. Men love your wife. This is what the Bible admonished.

There's no sweet 35-40 yo woman anywhere.

ariesbull:
Is What This Man Did Okay? Is It Right ?

This retired civil servant in Abuja sold his family house without telling his wife or children.

Months before anyone suspected anything, the original house documents had already been quietly moved out of the house for safekeeping.

So when strangers eventually showed up for inspection, it had already gone too far to reverse.

That house wasn’t inherited. It came from years of deductions, years of sacrifice, living inside one of those government quarters that were later sold to occupants.

But retirement changed the balance of power inside the house.

His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning.

Around that same period, his entire gratuity was taken to fund a family business. It was supposed to help everyone. It collapsed before one year.

That was when the quiet planning began. Not loudly, not emotionally but silently. He decided he would rather start life again alone than remain in a house where he felt unwanted.

Months later, the house was sold privately for 90 million.

A smaller house in a quiet suburb was purchased for 18 million, and the rest was secured quietly.

At home, nothing looked suspicious. No arguments, no sudden tension.

Weeks before leaving, clothes were gradually packed under the excuse of sending them to the dry cleaner.

Then one day, he travelled for what was described as a consultancy job. He never returned to that house again.

The truth surfaced the day the new owner sent people to inspect it.

Panic started immediately, his children that haven't checked on him since he travelled started calling nonstop, asking what was going on. That was when he confirmed it himself.

Yes, the house had been sold. By then, nothing could be undone.

Attempts were made to trace his new location, but he had already moved carefully and deliberately.
He said something that stayed with me since I heard the story:

“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

Credit:Oludare Ayeni

Do you think he acted right?


https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1Ci22zktGU/

Men are wising up, the gender that pressure us to marry them, the same gender that becomes Lion after marriage, a man has to put himself first, Men are no longer tolerating nagging and bullshits, they want peace

Hi

Jeezuzpick:
Sold a house in Abuja for N90m?

Standalone house? In a city where a single flat in a block of flats can go for N140m)?

Okay. Maybe na Kubwa. No wahala.

Where will he get a "smaller" house for N18m, tori olorun? Nwhere in Abuja, sha.....maybe in his village.

In a suburb, it's very possible

ariesbull:
Attempts were made to trace his new location, but he had already moved carefully and deliberately.
He said something that stayed with me since I heard the story:

“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

Credit:Oludare Ayeni

Do you think he acted right?


https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1Ci22zktGU/

Similar happened to an uncle, got to a stage where his own male children, were threatening him with violence in his own house he built, because his evil wife had turned them against him.

Men, especially una for abroad, all the rushing out to work and breaking your back to satisfy your family's needs is just part of fatherhood, a small part sef.

Make sure you pull your children close and let them know all the sacrifice your are making on their behalf.

Don't assume they can see it because by the time madam twists things and tells stories from her narrative unchallenged, ńa game over bí dat especially with any male children, some of the females have small sense.

By the way, before the feminists turn up, I give this advice to male partners of relatives too once they start having children.

Pootle:
is that the man on blue or white?

it should be the man on blue because he refuse to drop his phone, e no wan hear say the phone loss them enter him account. he leave the phone for him chest pocket

he also take star ragler so him no go high come lose guard. very sharp man

You be OG

samuelson06:
There's no sweet 35-40 yo woman anywhere.

to 60 something year old man there is. It has to do with age difference.

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ariesbull:
Is What This Man Did Okay? Is It Right ?

This retired civil servant in Abuja sold his family house without telling his wife or children.

Months before anyone suspected anything, the original house documents had already been quietly moved out of the house for safekeeping.

So when strangers eventually showed up for inspection, it had already gone too far to reverse.

That house wasn’t inherited. It came from years of deductions, years of sacrifice, living inside one of those government quarters that were later sold to occupants.

But retirement changed the balance of power inside the house.

His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning.

Around that same period, his entire gratuity was taken to fund a family business. It was supposed to help everyone. It collapsed before one year.

That was when the quiet planning began. Not loudly, not emotionally but silently. He decided he would rather start life again alone than remain in a house where he felt unwanted.

Months later, the house was sold privately for 90 million.

A smaller house in a quiet suburb was purchased for 18 million, and the rest was secured quietly.

At home, nothing looked suspicious. No arguments, no sudden tension.

Weeks before leaving, clothes were gradually packed under the excuse of sending them to the dry cleaner.

Then one day, he travelled for what was described as a consultancy job. He never returned to that house again.

The truth surfaced the day the new owner sent people to inspect it.

Panic started immediately, his children that haven't checked on him since he travelled started calling nonstop, asking what was going on. That was when he confirmed it himself.

Yes, the house had been sold. By then, nothing could be undone.

Attempts were made to trace his new location, but he had already moved carefully and deliberately.
He said something that stayed with me since I heard the story:

“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

Credit:Oludare Ayeni

Do you think he acted right?


https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1Ci22zktGU/

who ever supported this evil this man did to his family is wicked how can I sell a house that roof ur blood and wife? Chai