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chicfarmer:

You be OG

and him com shine him head lol as per hotty hotty

A friend in her early 60s is going through a similar situation and at times people see things from their own point of view. A 70 year old man that one has to still be reporting for refusing to take any responsibility in the home like pay for light, petrol dstv, food since there is no rent and he receives pension. Coincidentally they are based in Abuja.

When business was good for her financially, she took care of a lot in the home including school fees for the children. In competition with 2 other wife/baby mamas and she got to stay with the man.
Husband wife and 4 grown children (who have all left home now) in a 2 bed home. He became unwell said he does not have money but wants to be taken to hospital and my friend who is also unwell chose agbo. A friend invited her to lagos to rest for a while and she asked the children to look out for their dad.

Start of the relationship. My friend In her 20s she met a man who already had a child but did not tell her about it and when he was posted to America he told my pregnant friend she will follow when her passport was ready but went to his village to ask his mum to help find a wife whom he took with him.
It’s been a rollercoaster ever since.

This one also only paid for the roof and his car and nothing else. The wife controlled the decisions only because she financed them.

They might not ask if he has eaten because he refused to drop money for food while still receiving money for consultancy and pension.

Successlane:
did you read this part of the story?

' .... His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning......'

ariesbull:
How can AI generate the story...una go dey reason anyhow

Oga it's AI generated. A simple 50-words prompt can give you this story and even turn it to a full movie script within seconds.

Wake up bro. This is 2026.

Pootle:
is that the man on blue or white?

it should be the man on blue because he refuse to drop his phone, e no wan hear say the phone loss them enter him account. he leave the phone for him chest pocket

he also take star ragler so him no go high come lose guard. very sharp man

Lol!! All these from one picture.

Pootle:
is that the man on blue or white?

it should be the man on blue because he refuse to drop his phone, e no wan hear say the phone loss them enter him account. he leave the phone for him chest pocket

he also take star ragler so him no go high come lose guard. very sharp man

Aje!!!!
You be correct guy. You no go loose guard even while sleeping.

Wow...such a. Beautiful story...women and turning the children against their father...forgetting that where they live was bought by their father with his own sweat.

God bless the man....wish him long life and prosperity. Hip hip hip..hurray ..



And I kknw of a man that died out of neglect by his own children and wife....

I love this story

ariesbull:
Is What This Man Did Okay? Is It Right ?

This retired civil servant in Abuja sold his family house without telling his wife or children.

Months before anyone suspected anything, the original house documents had already been quietly moved out of the house for safekeeping.

So when strangers eventually showed up for inspection, it had already gone too far to reverse.

That house wasn’t inherited. It came from years of deductions, years of sacrifice, living inside one of those government quarters that were later sold to occupants.

But retirement changed the balance of power inside the house.

His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning.

Around that same period, his entire gratuity was taken to fund a family business. It was supposed to help everyone. It collapsed before one year.

That was when the quiet planning began. Not loudly, not emotionally but silently. He decided he would rather start life again alone than remain in a house where he felt unwanted.

Months later, the house was sold privately for 90 million.

A smaller house in a quiet suburb was purchased for 18 million, and the rest was secured quietly.

At home, nothing looked suspicious. No arguments, no sudden tension.

Weeks before leaving, clothes were gradually packed under the excuse of sending them to the dry cleaner.

Then one day, he travelled for what was described as a consultancy job. He never returned to that house again.

The truth surfaced the day the new owner sent people to inspect it.

Panic started immediately, his children that haven't checked on him since he travelled started calling nonstop, asking what was going on. That was when he confirmed it himself.

Yes, the house had been sold. By then, nothing could be undone.

Attempts were made to trace his new location, but he had already moved carefully and deliberately.
He said something that stayed with me since I heard the story:

“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

Credit:Oludare Ayeni

Do you think he acted right?


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I remember how he used to sit in front of his house every day staring at people while he was sick. I also heard the wife showed him shege before he passed, it is really sad. It is when a man is down with a terrible illness you know the kind of wife he has.

Macphenson:
I wish one man I and my uncle gave this advice took it. There was a popular man in my estate in Lagos, his house is on two plots of land.

One day he came to borrow 20k from my uncle as he was sick and needed to go to hospital. My uncle gave him the money and told him not to bother returning as they were good friends. My uncle and I also advised him to sale a plot of land from that his property and use it to take good care of himself as he needed serious medical attention. The man refused saying he is leaving it for his wife and children. Some months later the man died.

Just last month, somebody told me that the wife and kids have sold a part of that land the man refused to sale and use to take care of himself

Sunnyvilla anywhere U are just know that they have sold the land you refused to sale for proper treatment against our advise

Successlane:
“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

...... words on the mabble

Gbamsulotey hahaha mucheche Hahaha 😂

My kind of man, weldone baba.

Smart moves....never stay where you re not appreciated/undervalued/maltreated.

TEYA:
AI generated story. Very good story, by the way!

That part where he said the family got to know when the new owner came to inspect the house after paying blew the lid on the story.
Who buys a house without first inspecting it. Lol truly AI generated story...

That’s what they call a man!

He did very well

The mistake most men did is by spending all they earned to care for the family not having savings for them selves incase of rainy days. As u r busy spending all ur income for the family, the wife will be saving all her income since u r providing everything for her needs. A time will come when she will be the one to have a control over the family cos she will be the one with money not u. And children can only say yes to who can provide for their needs. Dear men, always remain a personal savings for urself incase of times like this.

goslowgoslow:
That part where he said the family got to know when the new owner came to inspect the house after paying blew the lid on the story.
Who buys a house without first inspecting it. Lol truly AI generated story...

I'm glad you saw that, but see the number of people that called me out for exposing the story for what it is.

TEYA:
I'm glad you saw that, but see the number of people that called me out for exposing the story for what it is.

Most of them just read they don't think, ignore them.

TEYA:
What is the big deal about AI generating a story?

tell us how AI GENERATED this story , you just go there and say AI Oya generate for me this particular story and piam he’ll start generating anything he likes ?

You sounds like a proper Ete .

Jeezuzpick:
Sold a house in Abuja for N90m?

Standalone house? In a city where a single flat in a block of flats can go for N140m)?

Okay. Maybe na Kubwa. No wahala.

Where will he get a "smaller" house for N18m, tori olorun? Nwhere in Abuja, sha.....maybe in his village.

Maybe the thing happened years ago.

ariesbull:
How can AI generate the story...una go dey reason anyhow

AI has almost limitless potential. E shock u?

alobright17:
tell us how AI GENERATED this story , you just go there and say AI Oya generate for me this particular story and piam he’ll start generating anything he likes ?

You sounds like a proper Ete .

Try it. You would shocked. Some AI services are paid services though

ariesbull:
Is What This Man Did Okay? Is It Right ?

This retired civil servant in Abuja sold his family house without telling his wife or children.

Months before anyone suspected anything, the original house documents had already been quietly moved out of the house for safekeeping.

So when strangers eventually showed up for inspection, it had already gone too far to reverse.

That house wasn’t inherited. It came from years of deductions, years of sacrifice, living inside one of those government quarters that were later sold to occupants.

But retirement changed the balance of power inside the house.

His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning.

Around that same period, his entire gratuity was taken to fund a family business. It was supposed to help everyone. It collapsed before one year.

That was when the quiet planning began. Not loudly, not emotionally but silently. He decided he would rather start life again alone than remain in a house where he felt unwanted.

Months later, the house was sold privately for 90 million.

A smaller house in a quiet suburb was purchased for 18 million, and the rest was secured quietly.

At home, nothing looked suspicious. No arguments, no sudden tension.

Weeks before leaving, clothes were gradually packed under the excuse of sending them to the dry cleaner.

Then one day, he travelled for what was described as a consultancy job. He never returned to that house again.

The truth surfaced the day the new owner sent people to inspect it.

Panic started immediately, his children that haven't checked on him since he travelled started calling nonstop, asking what was going on. That was when he confirmed it himself.

Yes, the house had been sold. By then, nothing could be undone.

Attempts were made to trace his new location, but he had already moved carefully and deliberately.
He said something that stayed with me since I heard the story:

“I didn’t abandon my family… I simply inherited myself before they buried me alive."

Credit:Oludare Ayeni

Do you think he acted right?


https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1Ci22zktGU/

You use AI write story and you know polish am well to remove or replace generic words



Thank you for your attention to this matter

Dysfunctional Homes are those run as a democratic institution,
Neither Autocratic these two leaning lacks Spirituality, meaning God's view on family matters.
1: Husband love your wife
2: Wife have deep respect for your husband
3: Children be obident to your parents.
Jesus sums it up, in Luke 11: 28
Happy are those ( Husband , Wife and Children) hearing the word of God and keeping it"
They should be doers of God's commandments.
In view of the thread, Read the Bible always and keep on hand the Book The Man by Tom Wolf

ariesbull:
How can AI generate the story...una go dey reason anyhow

As you nor know you nor go know na. People wey know, know wetin dey sup.

Ordinary story is what you are asking how can AI generate? If you know the full potentials of AI that means you go feint be that o.




Thank you for your attention to this matter

Macphenson:
I wish one man I and my uncle gave this advice took it. There was a popular man in my estate in Lagos, his house is on two plots of land.

One day he came to borrow 20k from my uncle as he was sick and needed to go to hospital. My uncle gave him the money and told him not to bother returning as they were good friends. My uncle and I also advised him to sale a plot of land from that his property and use it to take good care of himself as he needed serious medical attention. The man refused saying he is leaving it for his wife and children. Some months later the man died.

Just last month, somebody told me that the wife and kids have sold a part of that land the man refused to sale and use to take care of himself

Sunnyvilla anywhere U are just know that they have sold the land you refused to sale for proper treatment against our advise

you don't need to pity weak men, whatever happens to them is what they deserve!!!

Correct man, he would have died and the family would have been enjoying everything he labored for. I'm a woman but I hate wickedness. Every one should look out for himself or herself

Jeezuzpick:
Sold a house in Abuja for N90m?

Standalone house? In a city where a single flat in a block of flats can go for N140m)?

Okay. Maybe na Kubwa. No wahala.

Where will he get a "smaller" house for N18m, tori olorun? Nwhere in Abuja, sha.....maybe in his village.

I come dey wonder too. Say may be na small 3bedroom bungalow house. 90m for a house in Abuja? May be E go dey outskirts.

Man of the year award goes to this man.... Brotherhood is super proud

If you are a good man and a good father, no woman will turn her children against you, unless your children are imbeciles.

Nwoke na ife... He will even marry a younger wife and start a cool family. And fresh love as well..

Wisest choice ever. Kudos to him and his new found peace of mind 👏

I called my friend and it’s not her.

Man is still doing helter scelter up and down went to the village to do his birthday with village wife. Village wife birthday is 2nd May, husband 5th May and my friend is today. How person no go sick.

Her mama build house for lagos, while she no build because of too much load from an unsupportive man.

Successlane:
did you read this part of the story?

' .... His wife controlled most decisions, and gradually the children adopted her tone until the man who paid for the roof over their heads became almost invisible inside it.

He said there was even a period he fell seriously sick and nobody asked if he had eaten before leaving the house each morning......'

I think that he should send his family 30 million naira from the sales to be on a safer side, then continue his asylum life

dgr8truth:
I support the man’s decision. A father who made countless sacrifices for his family, fought thousands of battles on their behalf, and dedicated his life to making things easier for them should never be neglected simply because retirement has reduced the flow of money.

If I were in his position, I would invest the remaining money in a mutual fund and live a modest lifestyle from the interest and appreciation of the investment.

We should always remain grateful to those who made life easier for us.

I still feel guilty that my own father, who sacrificed so much for me, did not live long enough to enjoy the fruits of his labour, while some ungrateful wives and children toy with the very people who sacrificed everything for them.

You seem quite old in this forum, which is why I'd take your advice. Can you explain this mutual fund thing let me understand? Cuz I have interest to stake high money in it

GodCovenant:
The funny thing that money will still finish. 90m nor be money again oh

Even if he burns 500k every months on a lowkey. Within a years 6-8m done walker.

Business na 50/50. That God he invested in business before which collapsed.

So the chance for him to go brake in the next 6-10 years is very high.

He should at least buy another one very quickly like 30m for the family while he marry another single mother to manage life together.

Why do you advise him to buy another worth ₦30mvfor the same family that clearly neglected him when he needed them most?

Is not better that he invested in a business and fail than investing the family that doesn't care about his well-being?