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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by ndukwejoe(m): 5:36pm On May 09

Where is that gbam meme?

Proserpina:
When you were handling a married woman while she's with her husband did you ask us. Handle it the way you handled her.

Smh

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Pootle: 5:36pm On May 09

how did she arrive at the conclusion that the child is yours, anyway DNA is the next step

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Firstcitizen: 5:38pm On May 09

ikeno:
Have told her to come to my place this weekend so we can .....

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by joefelin2345: 5:40pm On May 09

ikeno:
Really Don't Know How To Handle This Situation

Few weeks ago an ex of mine who I still keep contact with cause we stay in same state and sometimes she comes over to my place even though am not married but she was once married but due to domestic violence she left are husband and have been fending for her 3 children through her business, called me 2 weeks ago and said her seven old daughter who is the second born belongs to me and the reason she never told me was because I was not ready to settle down then.

She sent me a video of the girl and to be honest, facially she looks like me and few of my friends I showed the video to admitted she looks like me.
Since she sent me the video have been in shock and really don't know what to do in such a situation.

Have told her to come to my place this weekend so we can talk about it.

So guys how do I go about this situation any advice will be welcome

First of all, knacker am very hard as a punishment for telling you very late.
Then rum a DNA test as per other advise.
If confirm, take a bold step to claim the child.
Good luck!!!

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by gassbee: 5:40pm On May 09

ibechris:
If u don't have money for DNA test,do a simple blood test.

please can u explain how dis works in determining paternity

Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by jom28gy(m): 5:46pm On May 09

That is to say you're still meeting each others na

Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Toosure70: 5:47pm On May 09

Meaning you're still sleeping with after she married. Don't worry same thing will happen to you, somebody is coming to claim all your children. Nonsense post

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Reloadedisraelp: 5:49pm On May 09

The woman don see responsibility wey pass her power she wan con use style drop am to another person..... She must finish the Wahala she started

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Larrycool1234(m): 5:51pm On May 09

Come to your house dis weekend again huh

4th born loading , proud dad of 2

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Stephen0mozzy: 5:52pm On May 09

So nobody fit pour speeet on OP's head?

Is this not the thing we're saying that ohghun should kpai any man intentionally sleeping with a woman who is currently under another man's house (born and cohabiting with the husband).

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Aleem26(m): 5:52pm On May 09

@Thelma001 I'll like your say on this mata

Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Eraddray(m): 5:53pm On May 09

Whr u sleeping with a married woman?

Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by SeriouslySense(m): 5:54pm On May 09

They have advised you enough, do DNA test first before more talks.

If she is your child be prepared to be a Father. Both emotionally and financially, teach her to be a smart hardworking woman who can take care of herself, let her childhood be filled with good memories and knowledge abi skills, Children should play and know how to cook and bake, or support her natural talents, so she can stand on her feet even as a teenager and no one will be able to oppress her due to poverty.

If she wants to be a mechanic let her be a mechanic even as a child, if its farm let her be a farmer even as a child, so there you go, its a lot of work as a father.

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Oracleee: 5:59pm On May 09

Post the video here, thank you.

Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by yemmit90: 6:01pm On May 09

ikeno:
Actually it's not that she was married in real sense, just got pregnant for the guy and they began cohabitating

It doesn't matter, as long as she is still living under a man and have children for him, you were not suppose to go that route. How would you feel if you marry tomorrow and someone else somewhere is still sleeping with your wife? To make the matter worse, you don't care to use condom.

You might even be the one responsible for her marital problems. Infact you practically ruin her life without knowing. If I were in your shoes, I will never bring this to the public.

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by kabe1: 6:03pm On May 09

Namaster:
Tell her to bring the kid and BEFORE you say/do anything, go for a DNA test.

It DOESN'T matter how much the child LOOKS like you, STILL run a DNA test.

You are DEALING with a disloyal CHEATER.

If DNA confirms the child is yours, take STEPS to play a BIG ROLE in her life.

If POSSIBLE, tell the WoRHe that you're willing to take the chill OFF her hands so she can FOCUS on catering for the other two KIDS.

Your GOAL is to ensure that your DAUGHTER (as confirmed by DNA test) is NOT raised by a Single Mother.

If you LET your daughter be raised by a Single Mother, you may end up being the FATHER of a Nigerian Bonnie Blue.

ALSO, the claim that she DIDN'T tell you earlier because you were NOT "ready to settle down" is clearly a LIE.

After all, she was ALREADY firmly settled down with a WIFE-BEATER (allegedly) at the time she was FROLICKING with you.

She was ESSENTIALLY married.

And she did NOT want to LOSE her PROVIDER.

Now that that's done and she's STUCK raising THREE kids by herself in this Great Tinubulation, she's looking for another FINANCIAL CUSHION, aka YOU.

Anyway whatever you do, NEVER invite her to live with you.
Unless you want to be the BREADWINNER for another man's family.

If you LET her guilt-trip you into ANY kind of cohabitation, be ready to PROVIDE for 3 extra people.

And when she's SUCKED you dry, she'll tell the NEXT guy you were a "wife beater".

Have SENSE!

This is an excellent and well articulated comment.

Very brilliant sir!

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by BreakingNews21: 6:04pm On May 09

As the wise poster said above, do the "DNA test" and if the child yours then man up and take care of your responsibilities. Or be a saint and help your ex with all three kids. The universe or whatever your belief system is will bless you abundantly.

Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Harddiskng(m): 6:05pm On May 09

She is telling you know because you are now ready to settle down faa grin

Even if you if you wan settle na with the property of the streets you go settle with? grin

That child is not yours, women especially ones from less privileged would always let you know if you get them pregnant not waiting seven years

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Jlow2: 6:12pm On May 09

ao you where sleeping with a married woman and you re here talking about, you have brought a serious curse opon urself

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Rossty(f): 6:19pm On May 09

You say she left her marriage due to domestic violence while it was her infedlity and you not allowing her married a** stay in her husbands house. Now go collect s3ed you plant 🌱

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by tfelicityk(m): 6:19pm On May 09

Are you really reading for the game you want to play?

Do you think deeply about it before inviting her to come to your place for talks?

Remember to ask her;

What do she wants from you?
How she is going to handle the situation with her present husband?
She claimed her second born his your child? And she kept it from you all this while.

Do you both make love 7years ago? How many times did you guys meet?

Well, make sure you do the needful very well before accepting.

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Hezmatosky210: 6:22pm On May 09

Manup bro, take charge and next time don't be sarcastic when talking to us angry

Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by ZUBY77(m): 6:34pm On May 09

Apparently you were the reason for the domestic violence.
Keep deceiving yourself.
You have been trapped already, pray that you wriggle yourself out of it.

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Sammy0787: 6:35pm On May 09

Even if DNA shows she is your daughter does not mean automatical responsibility from Ur end. Try test her willingness to release the child for you if need be, because she might be using you to care for the child and still claim full monopoly over the child

Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by galantjoe(m): 6:43pm On May 09

You re on points
DNA paternity test will determine whether she is his or not. Thereafter based on the result you will know his next course of action. But after all don't allow her to cohabit with you

Namaster:
Tell her to bring the kid and BEFORE you say/do anything, go for a DNA test.

It DOESN'T matter how much the child LOOKS like you, STILL run a DNA test.

You are DEALING with a disloyal CHEATER.

If DNA confirms the child is yours, take STEPS to play a BIG ROLE in her life.

If POSSIBLE, tell the WoRHe that you're willing to take the chill OFF her hands so she can FOCUS on catering for the other two KIDS.

Your GOAL is to ensure that your DAUGHTER (as confirmed by DNA test) is NOT raised by a Single Mother.

If you LET your daughter be raised by a Single Mother, you may end up being the FATHER of a Nigerian Bonnie Blue.

ALSO, the claim that she DIDN'T tell you earlier because you were NOT "ready to settle down" is clearly a LIE.

After all, she was ALREADY firmly settled down with a WIFE-BEATER (allegedly) at the time she was FROLICKING with you.

She was ESSENTIALLY married.

And she did NOT want to LOSE her PROVIDER.

Now that that's done and she's STUCK raising THREE kids by herself in this Great Tinubulation, she's looking for another FINANCIAL CUSHION, aka YOU.

Anyway whatever you do, NEVER invite her to live with you.
Unless you want to be the BREADWINNER for another man's family.

If you LET her guilt-trip you into ANY kind of cohabitation, be ready to PROVIDE for 3 extra people.

And when she's SUCKED you dry, she'll tell the NEXT guy you were a "wife beater".

Have SENSE!

Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by duduade(m): 7:05pm On May 09

DNA is important

Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by lonelydora: 7:06pm On May 09

ikeno:
Really Don't Know How To Handle This Situation

Few weeks ago an ex of mine who I still keep contact with cause we stay in same state and sometimes she comes over to my place even though am not married but she was once married but due to domestic violence she left are husband and have been fending for her 3 children through her business, called me 2 weeks ago and said her seven old daughter who is the second born belongs to me and the reason she never told me was because I was not ready to settle down then.

She sent me a video of the girl and to be honest, facially she looks like me and few of my friends I showed the video to admitted she looks like me.
Since she sent me the video have been in shock and really don't know what to do in such a situation.

Have told her to come to my place this weekend so we can talk about it.

So guys how do I go about this situation any advice will be welcome

Go and carry your cross.

"Sleeping with a married woman is a loan repayable someday in whatever way Karma chooses"

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Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by bixton(m): 7:12pm On May 09

ikeno:
Really Don't Know How To Handle This Situation

Few weeks ago an ex of mine who I still keep contact with cause we stay in same state and sometimes she comes over to my place even though am not married but she was once married but due to domestic violence she left are husband and have been fending for her 3 children through her business, called me 2 weeks ago and said her seven old daughter who is the second born belongs to me and the reason she never told me was because I was not ready to settle down then.

She sent me a video of the girl and to be honest, facially she looks like me and few of my friends I showed the video to admitted she looks like me.
Since she sent me the video have been in shock and really don't know what to do in such a situation.

Have told her to come to my place this weekend so we can talk about it.

So guys how do I go about this situation any advice will be welcome

Discreetly get something from the child that can be used to know the DNA of the child and if it turns out rightly to be yours...
Then take responsibility for the welfare of the child and play a fatherly and daddy role.

Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by Starboytwo(m): 7:23pm On May 09

She is coming again, I hope you don’t give her the fourth child.

Re: My Ex Girlfriend Told Me That Her Second Child Is Mine by chuks212: 7:26pm On May 09

Proserpina:
When you were handling a married woman while she's with her husband did you ask us. Handle it the way you handled her.

Smh

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