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Poll: Do you think Christians can opt for divorce in case of domestic violence?

Yes, though unfounded biblically 50% (1 vote)
No, it is biblically forbidden 0% (0 votes)
Common law is biblical too 50% (1 vote)
The world is just too complicated than the Bible 0% (0 votes)
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Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 9:00am On May 10
How do Christian women get out of domestic violence?

1. Matthew 19:3-9 (Jesus on Divorce)
Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning.
Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.
And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
(Matthew 19:8-9, NIV)

2. Mark 10:2-12 (Jesus’ Teaching on Divorce)
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her; and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.”
(Mark 10:11-12, NIV)

3. 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 (Paul’s Instructions)
“To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.”
(1 Corinthians 7:10-11, NIV)

4. Malachi 2:16 (God’s View on Divorce)
“I hate divorce,” says the Lord God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of hosts.
“So take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.”
(Malachi 2:16, ESV)

5. Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Old Testament Law on Divorce)
“When a man takes a wife and marries her, if then she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some uncleanness in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house...”
(Deuteronomy 24:1, ESV)
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by WatchYourSix: 9:55am On May 10
AntiChristian:
How do Christian women get out of domestic violence?

1. Matthew 19:3-9 (Jesus on Divorce)
Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning.
Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.
And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
(Matthew 19:8-9, NIV)

2. Mark 10:2-12 (Jesus’ Teaching on Divorce)
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her; and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.”
(Mark 10:11-12, NIV)

3. 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 (Paul’s Instructions)
“To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.”
(1 Corinthians 7:10-11, NIV)

4. Malachi 2:16 (God’s View on Divorce)
“I hate divorce,” says the Lord God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of hosts.
“So take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.”
(Malachi 2:16, ESV)

5. Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Old Testament Law on Divorce)
“When a man takes a wife and marries her, if then she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some uncleanness in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house...”
(Deuteronomy 24:1, ESV)
Christians are not permitted to beat their wife like Islam… a home where there is continuous violence is not a Christian home so the woman is free to leave
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by MaxInDHouse(m): 10:00am On May 10
SEPARATION!
The man/woman needs to pick her things and stay away from the violent spouse until he/she realizes the value of their marriage so there shouldn't be any extramarital intimacy outside their marriage because the faithful mate will file for a divorce.
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Dtruthspeaker: 11:34am On May 10
AntiChristian:
How do Christian women get out of domestic violence?...
If they were truly Christian, they would not have even gotten in, in the first place, not to talk of getting out.
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 2:24pm On May 10
Dtruthspeaker:
If they were truly Christian, they would not have even gotten in, in the first place, not to talk of getting out.
So Christians no dey make mistakes? Them be angels?
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Dtruthspeaker: 2:30pm On May 10
AntiChristian:
So Christians no dey make mistakes? Them be angels?
Did you not hear that The Lord goeth before us to make crooked places straight and break in pieces the gates of brass, and cut in sunder the bars of iron?
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 2:30pm On May 10
WatchYourSix:
Christians are not permitted to beat their wife like Islam… a home where there is continuous violence is not a Christian home so the woman is free to leave
The popular ekweme singer died of domestic violence as alleged.

And I didn't say Christian are allowed to beat anyone! Domestic violence is not only beating! There's emotional trauma and other worse treatments! And it's not only from men!

And it does happen in every major religion whether Christian, Islam or Judaism.

So how do a Christian cope with domestic violence?
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 2:33pm On May 10
Dtruthspeaker:
Did you not hear that The Lord goeth before us to make crooked places straight and break in pieces the gates of brass, and cut in sunder the bars of iron?
Same Lord regretted he created man!
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by WatchYourSix: 3:18pm On May 10
AntiChristian:
The popular ekweme singer died of domestic violence as alleged.

And I didn't say Christian are allowed to beat anyone! Domestic violence is not only beating! There's emotional trauma and other worse treatments! And it's not only from men!

And it does happen in every major religion whether Christian, Islam or Judaism.

So how do a Christian cope with domestic violence?
Mayb u ddnt read my first comment …ur topic is about women…. so read again….A home where there is continuous violence is not a Christian home… the woman is free to leave….does that not answer u??
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Dtruthspeaker: 4:55pm On May 10
AntiChristian:
Same Lord regretted he created man!
Off Point!
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 6:40pm On May 10
Dtruthspeaker:
Off Point!
What's on point is that true Christians can't have need for divorce according to you!
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 6:48pm On May 10
WatchYourSix:
Mayb u ddnt read my first comment …ur topic is about women…. so read again….A home where there is continuous violence is not a Christian home… the woman is free to leave….does that not answer u??
Based on what Bible verse?
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by WatchYourSix: 7:19pm On May 10
AntiChristian:
Based on what Bible verse?
I should tell u bible verse?? What could u possibly need verse from a book u think is corrupted ??

There is no point putting gold ring on the snout of a pig….. na waste of time
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 8:40pm On May 10
AntiChristian:
The popular ekweme singer died of domestic violence as alleged.

And I didn't say Christian are allowed to beat anyone! Domestic violence is not only beating! There's emotional trauma and other worse treatments! And it's not only from men!

And it does happen in every major religion whether Christian, Islam or Judaism.

So how do a Christian cope with domestic violence?
Maybe you should first tell us how a Muslim lady is to cope with domestic violence before you start worrying about Christians
Last I checked, domestic violence and martial rape is allowed in Islam so I wonder what problem you have with domestic violence or are you now a woke Muslim?
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 8:43pm On May 10
AntiChristian:
Based on what Bible verse?
The Bible says as much as it depends on you, live peaceably with all men
The bible also tells us to shun all appearances of evil
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 10:27am On May 11
Kukutente23:
The Bible says as much as it depends on you, live peaceably with all men
The bible also tells us to shun all appearances of evil
The Bible has no mouth! Who said that, under what context and where?
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 10:28am On May 11
Kukutente23:
Maybe you should first tell us how a Muslim lady is to cope with domestic violence before you start worrying about Christians
Last I checked, domestic violence and martial rape is allowed in Islam so I wonder what problem you have with domestic violence or are you now a woke Muslim?
Chai! See person grey matter! Anyways the topics is about the Christian married women!

You can go create your thread!
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 10:34am On May 11
WatchYourSix:
I should tell u bible verse?? What could u possibly need verse from a book u think is corrupted ??

There is no point putting gold ring on the snout of a pig….. na waste of time
As if you had anything in the first place!
See excuse!
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 11:06am On May 11
AntiChristian:
Chai! See person grey matter! Anyways the topics is about the Christian married women!

You can go create your thread!
The topic is about domestic violence on married women
Or do you mean only Christian women get married?
Tell us how Muslim women are to cope with domestic violence.
Can they divorce their husband based on domestic violence?
Should they beat him back or report him to the authorities?
Tell us what Islam says about domestic violence against women in marriages!! Don't be ashamed
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 11:10am On May 11
AntiChristian:
The Bible has no mouth! Who said that, under what context and where?
And to add
How many married women will be in paradise in Islam? What is the odd of a Muslim woman ending up in heaven or hell on account of being married?
Does marriage lead to paradise or hell for married women in Islam?
If they face domestic violence on earth because the husband accused them of being ungrateful, can they look forward to a life in paradise as comfort for their pains in earth or they are condemned to hell on account of their ungratefulness?

DeepSight tenq Lukuluku69 Antiislam doffman expanse2020 honesttalk21 Gabrielshow24
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by DeepSight(m): 11:24am On May 11
Kukutente23:
And to add
How many married women will be in paradise in Islam? What is the odd of a Muslim woman ending up in heaven or hell on account of being married?
Does marriage lead to paradise or hell for married women in Islam?
If they face domestic violence on earth because the husband accused them of being ungrateful, can they look forward to a life in paradise as comfort for their pains in earth or they are condemned to hell on account of their ungratefulness?

DeepSight tenq Lukuluku69 Antiislam doffman expanse2020 honesttalk21 Gabrielshow24
The question I will ask is if a married woman does get to Al Jannah, what is in store for her.

1. To be part of a retinue of virgins for men?

2. Will she have a retinue of male virgins?

Who will the married woman be with? Because the Hadith says that she will be with the last of her husbands.

If that husband is to have a retinue of virgins as his reward, how will she be happy in Al Jannah Firdaws.
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by WatchYourSix: 11:40am On May 11
AntiChristian:
As if you had anything in the first place!
See excuse!
lol….most pple know u on this forum… U are full of hatred towards Christians… So why do u think any should be happy to talk to you about the bible ….

If u were close to being smart u would have noticed from my first comment when I indirectly mentioned Islam
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 1:47pm On May 11
DeepSight:
The question I will ask is if a married woman does get to Al Jannah, what is in store for her.

1. To be part of a retinue of virgins for men?

2. Will she have a retinue of male virgins?

Who will the married woman be with? Because the Hadith says that she will be with the last of her husbands.

If that husband is to have a retinue of virgins as his reward, how will she be happy in Al Jannah Firdaws.
That's a big IF

Muhammad said in one of the hadith that hell will be filled with married women

The Qur'an also approve husbands treating their wives with domestic violence

So you see that it's double jeopardy for the married Muslim woman now

Suffer suffer for earth, still suffer more for hell
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Expanse2020(m): 5:11pm On May 11
Kukutente23:
And to add
How many married women will be in paradise in Islam? What is the odd of a Muslim woman ending up in heaven or hell on account of being married?
Does marriage lead to paradise or hell for married women in Islam?
If they face domestic violence on earth because the husband accused them of being ungrateful, can they look forward to a life in paradise as comfort for their pains in earth or they are condemned to hell on account of their ungratefulness?

DeepSight tenq Lukuluku69 Antiislam doffman expanse2020 honesttalk21 Gabrielshow24
Kukute oooooo
Let hear what bible said about women in heaven before I give what Quran say .
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by DeepSight(m): 5:18pm On May 11
Kukutente23:
That's a big IF

Muhammad said in one of the hadith that hell will be filled with married women

The Qur'an also approve husbands treating their wives with domestic violence

So you see that it's double jeopardy for the married Muslim woman now

Suffer suffer for earth, still suffer more for hell
Lamentable!
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 5:34pm On May 11
Expanse2020:
Kukute oooooo
Let hear what bible said about women in heaven before I give what Quran say .
The Bible lets us know that heaven is not sexist
People are not classed according to gender and there is no gender bias in the judgement
And certainly no award of virgins or unlimited sex with an ever erect penis
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 9:02pm On May 11
DeepSight:
Lamentable!
It gets worse
According to another hadith, the married women sentenced to hell for disobeying their husbands will still be taken to heaven to serve as sex slaves to the men there
These married women will be shared out to men who desire them to do with them as they wish. Imagine how dastardly that your friend's wife whom you've always had lustful desires for, you get to fulfill the lust in heaven all because she's in hell for disobeying your friend
Twisted!!
Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by DeepSight(m): 9:20pm On May 11
Kukutente23:
It gets worse
According to another hadith, the married women sentenced to hell for disobeying their husbands will still be taken to heaven to serve as sex slaves to the men there
These married women will be shared out to men who desire them to do with them as they wish. Imagine how dastardly that your friend's wife whom you've always had lustful desires for, you get to fulfill the lust in heaven all because she's in hell for disobeying your friend
Twisted!!
Where did you get this from. . .

Is it from an authoritative collection (such as Sahih Bukhari or Sahih Muslim) because I am not sure any contain a narration stating that women will be transferred from Hell to Heaven to serve as "sex slaves."

Maybe you are referring to Hoor al-Ayn (celestial beings in Paradise) who are said to be servants of the saved.
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