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Poll: Do you think Christians can opt for divorce in case of domestic violence?
Yes, though unfounded biblically
50% (1 vote)
No, it is biblically forbidden
0% (0 votes)
Common law is biblical too
50% (1 vote)
The world is just too complicated than the Bible
0% (0 votes)
This poll has ended |
| Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 9:00am On May 10 |
How do Christian women get out of domestic violence? 1. Matthew 19:3-9 (Jesus on Divorce) Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate. And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.” (Matthew 19:8-9, NIV) 2. Mark 10:2-12 (Jesus’ Teaching on Divorce) “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her; and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.” (Mark 10:11-12, NIV) 3. 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 (Paul’s Instructions) “To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.” (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, NIV) 4. Malachi 2:16 (God’s View on Divorce) “I hate divorce,” says the Lord God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of hosts. “So take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.” (Malachi 2:16, ESV) 5. Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Old Testament Law on Divorce) “When a man takes a wife and marries her, if then she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some uncleanness in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house...” (Deuteronomy 24:1, ESV) |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by WatchYourSix: 9:55am On May 10 |
AntiChristian:Christians are not permitted to beat their wife like Islam… a home where there is continuous violence is not a Christian home so the woman is free to leave |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by MaxInDHouse(m): 10:00am On May 10 |
SEPARATION! The man/woman needs to pick her things and stay away from the violent spouse until he/she realizes the value of their marriage so there shouldn't be any extramarital intimacy outside their marriage because the faithful mate will file for a divorce. |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Dtruthspeaker: 11:34am On May 10 |
AntiChristian:If they were truly Christian, they would not have even gotten in, in the first place, not to talk of getting out. |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 2:24pm On May 10 |
Dtruthspeaker:So Christians no dey make mistakes? Them be angels? |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Dtruthspeaker: 2:30pm On May 10 |
AntiChristian:Did you not hear that The Lord goeth before us to make crooked places straight and break in pieces the gates of brass, and cut in sunder the bars of iron? |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 2:30pm On May 10 |
WatchYourSix:The popular ekweme singer died of domestic violence as alleged. And I didn't say Christian are allowed to beat anyone! Domestic violence is not only beating! There's emotional trauma and other worse treatments! And it's not only from men! And it does happen in every major religion whether Christian, Islam or Judaism. So how do a Christian cope with domestic violence? |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 2:33pm On May 10 |
Dtruthspeaker:Same Lord regretted he created man! |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by WatchYourSix: 3:18pm On May 10 |
AntiChristian:Mayb u ddnt read my first comment …ur topic is about women…. so read again….A home where there is continuous violence is not a Christian home… the woman is free to leave….does that not answer u?? |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Dtruthspeaker: 4:55pm On May 10 |
AntiChristian:Off Point! |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 6:40pm On May 10 |
Dtruthspeaker:What's on point is that true Christians can't have need for divorce according to you! |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 6:48pm On May 10 |
WatchYourSix:Based on what Bible verse? |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by WatchYourSix: 7:19pm On May 10 |
AntiChristian:I should tell u bible verse?? What could u possibly need verse from a book u think is corrupted ?? There is no point putting gold ring on the snout of a pig….. na waste of time |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 8:40pm On May 10 |
AntiChristian:Maybe you should first tell us how a Muslim lady is to cope with domestic violence before you start worrying about Christians Last I checked, domestic violence and martial rape is allowed in Islam so I wonder what problem you have with domestic violence or are you now a woke Muslim? |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 8:43pm On May 10 |
AntiChristian:The Bible says as much as it depends on you, live peaceably with all men The bible also tells us to shun all appearances of evil |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 10:27am On May 11 |
Kukutente23:The Bible has no mouth! Who said that, under what context and where? |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 10:28am On May 11 |
Kukutente23:Chai! See person grey matter! Anyways the topics is about the Christian married women! You can go create your thread! |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by AntiChristian(op): 10:34am On May 11 |
WatchYourSix:As if you had anything in the first place! See excuse! |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 11:06am On May 11 |
AntiChristian:The topic is about domestic violence on married women Or do you mean only Christian women get married? Tell us how Muslim women are to cope with domestic violence. Can they divorce their husband based on domestic violence? Should they beat him back or report him to the authorities? Tell us what Islam says about domestic violence against women in marriages!! Don't be ashamed |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 11:10am On May 11 |
AntiChristian:And to add How many married women will be in paradise in Islam? What is the odd of a Muslim woman ending up in heaven or hell on account of being married? Does marriage lead to paradise or hell for married women in Islam? If they face domestic violence on earth because the husband accused them of being ungrateful, can they look forward to a life in paradise as comfort for their pains in earth or they are condemned to hell on account of their ungratefulness? DeepSight tenq Lukuluku69 Antiislam doffman expanse2020 honesttalk21 Gabrielshow24 |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by DeepSight(m): 11:24am On May 11 |
Kukutente23:The question I will ask is if a married woman does get to Al Jannah, what is in store for her. 1. To be part of a retinue of virgins for men? 2. Will she have a retinue of male virgins? Who will the married woman be with? Because the Hadith says that she will be with the last of her husbands. If that husband is to have a retinue of virgins as his reward, how will she be happy in Al Jannah Firdaws. |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by WatchYourSix: 11:40am On May 11 |
AntiChristian:lol….most pple know u on this forum… U are full of hatred towards Christians… So why do u think any should be happy to talk to you about the bible …. If u were close to being smart u would have noticed from my first comment when I indirectly mentioned Islam |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 1:47pm On May 11 |
DeepSight:That's a big IF Muhammad said in one of the hadith that hell will be filled with married women The Qur'an also approve husbands treating their wives with domestic violence So you see that it's double jeopardy for the married Muslim woman now Suffer suffer for earth, still suffer more for hell |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Expanse2020(m): 5:11pm On May 11 |
Kukutente23:Kukute oooooo Let hear what bible said about women in heaven before I give what Quran say . |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by DeepSight(m): 5:18pm On May 11 |
Kukutente23:Lamentable! |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 5:34pm On May 11 |
Expanse2020:The Bible lets us know that heaven is not sexist People are not classed according to gender and there is no gender bias in the judgement And certainly no award of virgins or unlimited sex with an ever erect penis |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by Kukutente23: 9:02pm On May 11 |
DeepSight:It gets worse According to another hadith, the married women sentenced to hell for disobeying their husbands will still be taken to heaven to serve as sex slaves to the men there These married women will be shared out to men who desire them to do with them as they wish. Imagine how dastardly that your friend's wife whom you've always had lustful desires for, you get to fulfill the lust in heaven all because she's in hell for disobeying your friend Twisted!! |
| Re: Married Christian Women and Domestic Violence! No way out! by DeepSight(m): 9:20pm On May 11 |
Kukutente23:Where did you get this from. . . Is it from an authoritative collection (such as Sahih Bukhari or Sahih Muslim) because I am not sure any contain a narration stating that women will be transferred from Hell to Heaven to serve as "sex slaves." Maybe you are referring to Hoor al-Ayn (celestial beings in Paradise) who are said to be servants of the saved. |
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