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Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Gagare1(op): 9:54pm On May 10
Ugochukwu was healthy as anyone can be when he took his annual leave. He was excited too, because he can finally visit his aged Mom in the East. He came to the office and bid us goodbye - we wished him the best experience as he visits home. Nothing seems out of the ordinary.

A month passed. We were anticipating Ugo's return, but we got a call instead - Ugo is hospitalized due to "malaria" which excalated so fast that he had blood in his brain. How? Why? Where? I don't understand!

This morning, we received news of his death. It makes no sense. Absolutely no sense.

Is it now a crime to visit your village and see your aged mother? Is it now a crime to go home with gifts for family members? Is it now a crime to succeed in your career? Do you have any idea the battles he had to face to make it that far?

Ugo, God will judge every person that has a guilty hand in your death. I refuse to accept it as natural. There is nothing natural about a vibrant young manager dying at the very point of his breakthrough, in the arms of his aged mother, simply because he visited home.

Ugo's case has brought it home for me. I don't trust no one hence forth. I don't want any id10t around me. And I certainly don't have to visit any 4king village.

Now I understand why people relocate after making it.

Evil m4kers!

RIP Ugo!

Avenge your death!

Kill them all!

Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Mercury12(m): 10:43pm On May 10
Such is life.
Welcome to trust nobody club mate.
Reality is different from fantasy. undecided
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Gagare1(op): 8:42am On May 11
Thanks mate. This is bleeped up!
Mercury12:
Such is life.
Welcome to trust nobody club mate.
Reality is different from fantasy. undecided
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Python25to30: 8:51am On May 11
Gagare1:
Ugochukwu was healthy as anyone can be when he took his annual leave. He was excited too, because he can finally visit his aged Mom in the East. He came to the office and bid us goodbye - we wished him the best experience as he visits home. Nothing seems out of the ordinary.

A month passed. We were anticipating Ugo's return, but we got a call instead - Ugo is hospitalized due to "malaria" which excalated so fast that he had blood in his brain. How? Why? Where? I don't understand!

This morning, we received news of his death. It makes no sense. Absolutely no sense.

Is it now a crime to visit your village and see your aged mother? Is it now a crime to go home with gifts for family members? Is it now a crime to succeed in your career? Do you have any idea the battles he had to face to make it that far?

Ugo, God will judge every person that has a guilty hand in your death. I refuse to accept it as natural. There is nothing natural about a vibrant young manager dying at the very point of his breakthrough, in the arms of his aged mother, simply because he visited home.

Ugo's case has brought it home for me. I don't trust no one hence forth. I don't want any id10t around me. And I certainly don't have to visit any 4king village.

Now I understand why people relocate after making it.

Evil m4kers!

RIP Ugo!

Avenge your death!

Kill them all!
Your story is too shallow nigg
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Gagare1(op): 10:10am On May 11
Python25to30:
Your story is too shallow nigg
I am not really trying to impress anyone, you know.

Just hurting!
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by DeltaBachelor(m): 5:04pm On May 11
Chai. So sorry. May his soul rest in peace. Amen
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Ganjafama(m): 8:19pm On May 11
Gagare1:
Ugochukwu was healthy as anyone can be when he took his annual leave. He was excited too, because he can finally visit his aged Mom in the East. He came to the office and bid us goodbye - we wished him the best experience as he visits home. Nothing seems out of the ordinary.

A month passed. We were anticipating Ugo's return, but we got a call instead - Ugo is hospitalized due to "malaria" which excalated so fast that he had blood in his brain. How? Why? Where? I don't understand!

This morning, we received news of his death. It makes no sense. Absolutely no sense.

Is it now a crime to visit your village and see your aged mother? Is it now a crime to go home with gifts for family members? Is it now a crime to succeed in your career? Do you have any idea the battles he had to face to make it that far?

Ugo, God will judge every person that has a guilty hand in your death. I refuse to accept it as natural. There is nothing natural about a vibrant young manager dying at the very point of his breakthrough, in the arms of his aged mother, simply because he visited home.

Ugo's case has brought it home for me. I don't trust no one hence forth. I don't want any id10t around me. And I certainly don't have to visit any 4king village.

Now I understand why people relocate after making it.

Evil m4kers!

RIP Ugo!

Avenge your death!

Kill them all!
I don't mean to offend you bro, but is this a true story?
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Gagare1(op):
Ganjafama:
I don't mean to offend you bro, but is this a true story?
Yes, it is a true story.

He was transferred to Kano from the East. So he decided to visit home and spend his annual leave there. Apparently, he is doing better than what some people wanted. So they killed him.

I remember when he came to Kano and in our discussion he told that he believed his transfer to Kano was a way of frustrating him out of the job. But he survived anyway and excelled.

He just got a promotion and his official car is already on the way, but he never returned to get it.

People are just wicked.

They sent him to Kano to be frustrated or killed by insecurity (as ignorant Southerners perceive about Kano), yet he survived. So they waited for him to come home so that they can do it themselves.

Now you understand my pain.

I grew very fond of him. He was teaching me how to speak Igbo, and I was teaching him Hausa.

I call him the "Lion" and he calls me a "great man". God knows I am still mourning Ugochukwu. I tend to easily develop a friendship with Igbo guys, even though I am Hausa. I think it is because of how straight forward they are. I hate corner corner people.

I will miss him.
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Gagare1(op): 10:01pm On May 11
DeltaBachelor:
Chai. So sorry. May his soul rest in peace. Amen
Thanks bro.
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Starz825(m): 3:24am On May 12
Gagare1:
Yes, it is a true story.

He was transferred to Kano from the East. So he decided to visit home and spend his annual leave there. Apparently, he is doing better than what some people wanted. So they killed him.

I remember when he came to Kano and in our discussion he told that he believed his transfer to Kano was a way of frustrating him out of the job. But he survived anyway and excelled.

He just got a promotion and his official car is already on the way, but he never returned to get it.

People are just wicked.

They sent him to Kano to be frustrated or killed by insecurity (as ignorant Southerners perceive about Kano), yet he survived. So they waited for him to come home so that they can do it themselves.

Now you understand my pain.

I grew very fond of him. He was teaching me how to speak Igbo, and I was teaching him Hausa.

I call him the "Lion" and he calls me a "great man". God knows I am still mourning Ugochukwu. I tend to easily develop a friendship with Igbo guys, even though I am Hausa. I think it is because of how straight forward they are. I hate corner corner people.

I will miss him.
Take heart bro
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Gagare1(op): 6:18am On May 12
Starz825:
Take heart bro
Thanks bro.
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by israelmao(m): 8:41am On May 12
What most people preach on media today could sometimes be confusing and conflicting.
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by FalseProphet1(m): 8:43am On May 12
Ugochukwu isn't dead, bring him to my spiritual center and he'll come back to life after I successfully summon his soul back into his body, and he would tell his own side of the story.

This I have seen.
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by EnglishUsa: 8:43am On May 12
This thing has shown me shege, some people will think is just a ordinary talk.
Someone I called my friend duped me
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Gotocourt: 8:44am On May 12
Take care of yourself, no b everything b Village people.
Lack of small funds for treatment kills people.
Nagging/abusive partner kills people.
Try and do well for yourself.
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by GanagiBitrus: 8:44am On May 12
But there are still people who have trusted, and gone ahead to live a happy & fulfilled life.

One Man's Poison💀, is Another Man's Meat🍖.
Na so life just be.
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Firstcitizen: 8:45am On May 12
Sorry for your loss
He had malaria and blood in his brain
So how did evil people kill him?
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Inspirer1: 8:46am On May 12
Sincerely, do not trust anyone, not even family
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Akalia(m): 8:46am On May 12
Gagare1:
Ugochukwu was healthy as anyone can be when he took his annual leave. He was excited too, because he can finally visit his aged Mom in the East. He came to the office and bid us goodbye - we wished him the best experience as he visits home. Nothing seems out of the ordinary.

A month passed. We were anticipating Ugo's return, but we got a call instead - Ugo is hospitalized due to "malaria" which excalated so fast that he had blood in his brain. How? Why? Where? I don't understand!

This morning, we received news of his death. It makes no sense. Absolutely no sense.

Is it now a crime to visit your village and see your aged mother? Is it now a crime to go home with gifts for family members? Is it now a crime to succeed in your career? Do you have any idea the battles he had to face to make it that far?

Ugo, God will judge every person that has a guilty hand in your death. I refuse to accept it as natural. There is nothing natural about a vibrant young manager dying at the very point of his breakthrough, in the arms of his aged mother, simply because he visited home.

Ugo's case has brought it home for me. I don't trust no one hence forth. I don't want any id10t around me. And I certainly don't have to visit any 4king village.

Now I understand why people relocate after making it.

Evil m4kers!

RIP Ugo!

Avenge your death!

Kill them all!
you will always have those evil idiots around you, they are inevitable in life. Wisdom is finding a strategy to keep them at arms length without starting an obvious beef. Once beef escalates then hostility becomes full blown.
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by jericco1(m): 8:50am On May 12
Na why I no like to dey go home
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by bigdammyj: 8:50am On May 12
You have to learn how to first trust your self .
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Hhh4444: 8:50am On May 12
EnglishUsa:
This thing has shown me shege, some people will think is just a ordinary talk.
Someone I called my friend duped me
Una still dey get friendhuhThe earlier you realise you are on your own in this wicked world,the better for you.
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by pook(m): 8:52am On May 12
I feel your pain bro. May God grant you the fortitude to bear the loss. Things men go through to achieve their dreams.
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by edogu(m):
Lack of trust is the reason for car manual. grin When you trust, it means you have full faith in someone. Unfortunately, human beings are bound to disappoint or fail due to their vulnerability.
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Agent8706(m): 8:53am On May 12
Mercury12:
Such is life.
Welcome to trust nobody club mate.
Reality is different from fantasy. undecided
grin grin grin grin I don't know why I find this comment so funny but we are members of the same club!
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Bellgal: 8:55am On May 12
This is terrible, may his gentle soul rest in peace
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by contentEngineer: 8:55am On May 12
There's something fishy about this story , how can an Hausa man like an igbo man as a friend and even so heartbroken to mourn his death?


I thought hausas hate igbos (kafir)? cool
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by BigSaint1914: 8:56am On May 12
Gagare1:
Ugochukwu was healthy as anyone can be when he took his annual leave. He was excited too, because he can finally visit his aged Mom in the East. He came to the office and bid us goodbye - we wished him the best experience as he visits home. Nothing seems out of the ordinary.

A month passed. We were anticipating Ugo's return, but we got a call instead - Ugo is hospitalized due to "malaria" which excalated so fast that he had blood in his brain. How? Why? Where? I don't understand!

This morning, we received news of his death. It makes no sense. Absolutely no sense.

Is it now a crime to visit your village and see your aged mother? Is it now a crime to go home with gifts for family members? Is it now a crime to succeed in your career? Do you have any idea the battles he had to face to make it that far?

Ugo, God will judge every person that has a guilty hand in your death. I refuse to accept it as natural. There is nothing natural about a vibrant young manager dying at the very point of his breakthrough, in the arms of his aged mother, simply because he visited home.

Ugo's case has brought it home for me. I don't trust no one hence forth. I don't want any id10t around me. And I certainly don't have to visit any 4king village.

Now I understand why people relocate after making it.

Evil m4kers!

RIP Ugo!

Avenge your death!

Kill them all!
Talking from experience
The day I shared money to relatives from the village and city on my sisters wedding bad things started happening to me till I got spiritual help
Na family gaan gaan you suppose Dey careful of
Family can do you anything
I no trust myself not to talk of anybody again
Shishi them no see till today
Only my father Dey chop my money cos my mom is late
The rest I run from them including siblings
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by HappyAI: 9:01am On May 12
This is not a good advice to me
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by SIGMATRON: 9:01am On May 12
Gagare1:
Yes, it is a true story.

He was transferred to Kano from the East. So he decided to visit home and spend his annual leave there. Apparently, he is doing better than what some people wanted. So they killed him.

I remember when he came to Kano and in our discussion he told that he believed his transfer to Kano was a way of frustrating him out of the job. But he survived anyway and excelled.

He just got a promotion and his official car is already on the way, but he never returned to get it.

People are just wicked.

They sent him to Kano to be frustrated or killed by insecurity (as ignorant Southerners perceive about Kano), yet he survived. So they waited for him to come home so that they can do it themselves.

Now you understand my pain.

I grew very fond of him. He was teaching me how to speak Igbo, and I was teaching him Hausa.

I call him the "Lion" and he calls me a "great man". God knows I am still mourning Ugochukwu. I tend to easily develop a friendship with Igbo guys, even though I am Hausa. I think it is because of how straight forward they are. I hate corner corner people.

I will miss him.
But you explained that he died of malaria.
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Spreadlove8888(m): 9:05am On May 12
This is what we called unforseen circumstances.

It might be a natural cause too


Gagare1:
Ugochukwu was healthy as anyone can be when he took his annual leave. He was excited too, because he can finally visit his aged Mom in the East. He came to the office and bid us goodbye - we wished him the best experience as he visits home. Nothing seems out of the ordinary.

A month passed. We were anticipating Ugo's return, but we got a call instead - Ugo is hospitalized due to "malaria" which excalated so fast that he had blood in his brain. How? Why? Where? I don't understand!

This morning, we received news of his death. It makes no sense. Absolutely no sense.

Is it now a crime to visit your village and see your aged mother? Is it now a crime to go home with gifts for family members? Is it now a crime to succeed in your career? Do you have any idea the battles he had to face to make it that far?

Ugo, God will judge every person that has a guilty hand in your death. I refuse to accept it as natural. There is nothing natural about a vibrant young manager dying at the very point of his breakthrough, in the arms of his aged mother, simply because he visited home.

Ugo's case has brought it home for me. I don't trust no one hence forth. I don't want any id10t around me. And I certainly don't have to visit any 4king village.

Now I understand why people relocate after making it.

Evil m4kers!

RIP Ugo!

Avenge your death!

Kill them all!
Re: Do Not Trust Anyone, Not Even Family by Onegai(f): 9:06am On May 12
Ugochukwu was not hale and hearty

I'm sorry for your loss, but a lot of people are walking around really sick and not knowing.

Nigeria has very, very poor diagnostic medicine services, which is why everything is "malaria and typhoid".

BP 212/120
SPO² levels 89
A heart murmur
DVT
Fatty blood clot moving from your leg to your heart
A heart attack (even kids can have one)

Most of these things will give you little to no warning and the warning will come less than 24 hours after death.

By the time you're rushed to the hospital, there's nothing anyone can do.

It's not your village people, it's not because anyone is out to get you (be for real, why would I go to a babalawo, sacrifice my soul just to spoil your life instead of bettering my own life? How important are we in the general scheme of things sef?) it's just Life punching your checkout card and poor medical services.

Again, I'm sorry for your loss
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