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Travails of choosing wrong

I no dey put mouth for two people that have seen each other's unclothedness. The last one I did, nah doggy style two of them use settle my matter

hpk:
Make the two of them go sidon inside bush abeg!!!

Na this kind thing dey make naija sweet, make God abi satan no carry this kind evil come our house.

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It’s all cap” — BBNaija star Tega reacts after Frank Edoho’s ex-wife, Sandra, named her as one of his side-chicks during their marriage.

Previous threads

https://www.nairaland.com/8670288/cutiejuls-accuses-chike-sleeping-frank

https://www.nairaland.com/8671687/leaked-audio-chike-sandra-edoho

On a straight line

fergie001:
You f#ck Chike Abi you no f#ck am whilst married?

I know say, nlfpmod dey look my comment..... Something is going on his mind.
Boo of the Booless 😂

She didnt deny it, she only gave excuses for doing it

Gerrard59:
The fact that she mentioned names and even tagged their handles means she is serious about her allegations. It is always good to hear from both sides. That narcissism she accuses Frank of, I fit believe that one. He does come across as a narcissist. Based on the number of women mentioned, it means he relied on her finances to fund those paroles. E be like say the guy no get steady and solid incomes.

People like Frank should undergo a vasectomy after their first divorce before thinking of remarrying.

She mentioned names so that those she accused will counter attack and in the midst of the gbas gbos, everyone will get distracted and forget say her pvnani no fit stay one place.

Ishilove:
I see how you conveniently ignored the man allegedly cheating on his wife and focused on the woman's alleged infidelity. It is very easy to believe the woman cheated, but when it comes to the man, you turn a blind eye.

Double standards much.

As for the bolded, I exhort the so called cheating wife to not stop at holding the manhood and dragging the man naked on the streets, she MUST turn that wandering community preek to bowtie and hang am for the man neck.

Let everyone be mad since we want to be mad.

I ignored her accusations because she no get receipt.
It is common with women of her nature to fly accusations around in such manner by pulling others in to distract everyone. I note she did not deny anything
However we don get receipts from the other party. No sentiments here

pocohantas:
I am not surprised. Community husbands would marry once. Marry twice. Then be back to the streets at 50+. 😂😂😂

The reason he married her in the first place was because she was an IJGB. He left his first wife to go dig gold. Instead of him to humble himself so that he can last in marriage, e carry nonsense pride enter. Now look at him? They done return am to his father's house.

Shebi e for dey with the first wife, but no...

"Men are polygamous in nature.
Men are the prize. A man's prime starts at 60yrs. He can marry an 18yo and knack her well. Men age like wine. Just have money amd women will rush you".

But na them done dey go podcast to wail.
Ngwanu, marry another one let's see.🤸‍♀️

LMAO. The NL boys are already here in droves, crying their eyes out. They can’t take what they dish out.

Phut:
LMAO. The NL boys are already here in droves, crying their eyes out. They can’t take what they dish out.

As in. To think I didn't say anything they haven't been saying o. 😂

kpankpangolo:
I’m older than getting excited over stories of who put what in who. Adults kpensh each other. Children here will follow this story bumper to bumper and see themselves as better than consumers of BBNaija. Na una own worse pass. Una reality show no get end date.

Hehehe

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It’s all cap” — BBNaija star Tega reacts after Frank Edoho’s ex-wife, Sandra, named her as one of his side-chicks during their marriage.

Previous threads

https://www.nairaland.com/8670288/cutiejuls-accuses-chike-sleeping-frank

https://www.nairaland.com/8671687/leaked-audio-chike-sandra-edoho

Typical women character! They rather shift blame for their infidelity than take responsibility. Fear women especially from that side. Marry them you marry gutter!☹️

Treadway:
guy, you dey take women play.

Tonto said more than this
Tiwa said more than this
Toke said more than this

All of them Las Las na 90% lies dem talk, then maybe 10% truth.

The only name wey interest me na the name of the ED of one company in VI wey dey among this hitlist. Omo this story go long. She got shalaye for her super rich husband taya.

Frank does not come across as someone who has enough money to cater for fees of five children in two different homes.

Wallade:
Just read what you wrote again and them think through it.

Someone like Frank, who likes to carry women up and down, especially after his first divorce, should undergo a vasectomy and stay off marriage entirely.

Gerrard59:
Someone like Frank, who likes to carry women up and down, especially after his first divorce, should undergo a vasectomy and stay off marriage entirely.

So if he had a first divorce, he should not be with any woman or several women. Is he an Eunuch?

Your statement doesn't even make sense.

He has every right and reason to remarry if he so wishes.

The worry now is the plenty children from two failed marriages probably 6kids.

Dem get big nyash ? we do know that all these are just distractions right ?

Gerrard59:
But shebi I talk say today's women have changed, especially as they have their own incomes. Dem call me naive. Today's women won't tolerate some things their mothers did as they are economically well off than their mothers. As it is, they can decide to remain single and nothing go happen. After all, she has the money. Doesn't she?

So Uncle Frank no fit afford school fees of both current and previous children? When I say have few children and undergo vasectomy, e get why.

Na why research thinking good. Go to good schools o.

Unfortunately, your brothers are yet to wake up and smell the coffee.

They think we are still in the era where women will endure anything to be married.

Gradually, things are changing.

Interestingly, it is the mothers celebrated for their 'endurance' and ability to take shit that trained the daughters of today.

I am proud of Sandra.

Nothing irks me like a woman who is a perpetual victim.

If your husband is useless, there are options; pick the one that suits your morality.

Not to be crying from pillar to post over one efulefu.

Gerrard59:
Frank does not come across as someone who has enough money to cater for fees of five children in two different homes.

you know Freeze right? He hasn't done any major project in years, but he still has money. Frank still does a lot of gigs o. That guy, Segun Arinze and a distant third IK, are responsible for most of the voice overs you hear in this enlightened south. He is still on radio a bit, he is into production, also into real estate. He made bank on WWTBAM and would expectedly have made investments. As for her, nothing here suggests she was loaded when they met, nothing suggests her family is a big name. The business began in 2017, which is long after they got married, and prior to that she was only noted to have been in banking...how do we know he didnt even start this business with/for her.

No dey take woman dey play laidat o. You have to really look well. If you just follow wetin women dey talk, you go lost o.

Phut:
LMAO. The NL boys are already here in droves, crying their eyes out. They can’t take what they dish out.

keep your mouth shut

mosicola:
I no dey put mouth for two people that have seen each other's unclothedness. The last one I did, nah doggy style two of them use settle my matter

LMAO! 🤣🤣

Niggas run far from promiscuous women no shame at all.

Wallade:
So if he had a first divorce, he should not be with any woman or several women. Is he an Eunuch?

Your statement doesn't even make sense.

He has every right and reason to remarry if he so wishes.

Sure, but a man who is a serial divorcee is a red billboard. I don't know why you want to make him look innocent. Both did wrong, but na him sharp mouth pass.

People are being too hypocritical. Him fvck several women. She fvcked one man. Why the hullabaloo?

Treadway:
you know Freeze right? He hasn't done any major project in years, but he still has money. Frank still does a lot of gigs o. That guy, Segun Arinze and a distant third IK, are responsible for most of the voice overs you hear in this enlightened south. He is still on radio a bit, he is into production, also into real estate. He made bank on WWTBAM and would expectedly have made investments. As for her, nothing here suggests she was loaded when they met, nothing suggests her family is a big name. The business began in 2017, which is long after they got married, and prior to that she was only noted to have been in banking...how do we know he didnt even start this business with/for her.

No dey take woman dey play laidat o. You have to really look well. If you just follow wetin women dey talk, you go lost o.

Thanks for your perspective. I just think he got egged on by Twitter banger boys. Those boys are largely illiterates (just came from there). So, when I see educated, exposed, and enlightened men get support from those boys, I am surprised because on a normal day, these enlightened men and Twitter banger boys won't cross paths.

cho cho cho has led him to this. There has to be a limit when it comes to doing such on a platform as Twitter. Considering how he lampoons people online, good luck to him doing the same going forward.

My perspective is that couples should try to be faithful to each other, and when they cannot sustain it, they divorce amicably. Problem begins when one party does cho cho cho to appease online audience who are only interested in gist and clout.

bukatyne:
Unfortunately, your brothers are yet to wake up and smell the coffee.

They think we are still in the era where women will endure anything to be married.

Gradually, things are changing.

Interestingly, it is the mothers celebrated for their 'endurance' and ability to take shit that trained the daughters of today.

A lot of Nigerian netizens are illierates! I even saw some stated that "dem go send am to her papa house". On average, most of these women are comfortable and rent and own properties. There are several studies (from around the world) to prove that today's women have changed significantly. Money changes people, and these women have a lot of it. So, what their mothers tolerated, they won't. That is the power of financial independence. One has the power to say no or yes at his/her will. They remain single for life (single women do better than single men in the long run). They have been sexually liberated. They can relocate elsewhere. So, this belief that financially independent women cannot choose to go against entrenched norms is baffling. Divorce rates have increased. More women are remaining single and childless.

Maybe it is the women they associate with, because what I read is something else.

The worst part is young men who are struggling mocking well off women online. Tinubu should do something about the Nigerian economy, biko.

Gerrard59:
Sure, but a man who is a serial divorcee is a red billboard. I don't know why you want to make him look innocent. Both did wrong, but na him sharp mouth pass.

People are being too hypocritical. Him fvck several women. She fvcked one man. Why the hullabaloo?

I don't intend to make him look good, I am not excusing his or her shortcomings. They are both not perfect however, having extramarital affairs is not excusable by me.

If he has filed for divorce and she is fine with the divorce, so be it. Even if she isn't fine with it, it doesn't influence his position on the divorce or separation. Upon divorce, both parties are free to remarry or date someone else.

Stop being judgemental towards Frank, he owes you nothing. He deserves happiness and fulfillment too.

Wallade:
I don't intend to make him look good, I am not excusing his or her shortcomings. They are both not perfect however, having extramarital affairs is not excusable by me.

If he has filed for divorce and she is fine with the divorce, so be it. Even if she isn't fine with it, it doesn't influence his position on the divorce or separation. Upon divorce, both parties are free to remarry or date someone else.
Stop being judgemental towards Frank, he owes you nothing.

Who said anything about owing me anything? Am I the one whose linings have been made public? Na me dem accuse of not paying school fees? Na me dem say evidence dey of carrying women into his matrimonial home? Did I say I am a two time divorcee with FIVE CHILDREN?

Gerrard59:
Thanks for your perspective. I just think he got egged on by Twitter banger boys. Those boys are largely illiterates (just came from there). So, when I see educated, exposed, and enlightened men get support from those boys, I am surprised because on a normal day, these enlightened men and Twitter banger boys won't cross paths.

cho cho cho has led him to this. There has to be a limit when it comes to doing such on a platform as Twitter. Considering how he lampoons people online, good luck to him doing the same going forward.

My perspective is that couples should try to be faithful to each other, and when they cannot sustain it, they divorce amicably. Problem begins when one party does cho cho cho to appease online audience who are only interested in gist and clout.

eggzactly!

Cutie Juls just released the second batch of recordings?🤣. The summary?
1. Frank didn't lie. He caught her initially, and of course the marriage was never the same. Prolly this was the time of the 'malice'. He continues with her, but he felt they were still running the parole, and he was right. She admitted it all herself.
2. HE left the union, eventually
3. He let people close to them know that he was out. And now I strongly believe he masterminded the whole expose, he shared all the juice and evidence with cutie juls, likely cos he is still hurting. Cos clearly the only way that recording was obtained was cos he likely bugged that car.

In my opinion, he should not have tried to form 'woke' man. The instant another dude had claimed his wife, he should have taken his L, and moved on quietly, cos this shi is embarrassing. He should have just left with his dignity. Not a good look that the whole world now knows that one small cursed boy doke your wife.

Gerrard59:
Sure, but a man who is a serial divorcee is a red billboard. I don't know why you want to make him look innocent. Both did wrong, but na him sharp mouth pass.

People are being too hypocritical. Him fvck several women. She fvcked one man. Why the hullabaloo?

Gerrard59 briningin the maths

Women can lie for Africa. Believe this at your own peril

bukatyne:
I am proud of Sandra.
Nothing irks me like a woman who is a perpetual victim. If your husband is useless, there are options; pick the one that suits your morality. Not to be crying from pillar to post over one efulefu.

Money makes it easier to take major decisions. I see no reason to be dragging the (ex)husband upandan, and I am glad she didn't do that initially until she was forced to react. The kids from his previous marriage are more with their mum, the ones from 2nd wife, I am sure she would abscond with them. At 53, I wonder what is his next line of action.

pocohantas:
Money makes it easier to take major decisions. I see no reason to be dragging the (ex)husband upandan, and I am glad she didn't do that initially until she was forced to react. The kids from his previous marriage are more with their mum, the ones from 2nd wife, I am sure she would abscond with them. At 53, I wonder what is his next line of action.

He will apply to Gheghe University as senior lecturer then create Nl account to join alfa mails.

That's it

His hands don full like that.