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This talk sha, Chike observing with keen interest.

Meanwhile, I'll not lick any woman's plate be it girlfriend or wife so help me God, if she want to go because of that I wish you the biggest best of luck.

Ire o!

Mamas wan dey nack young boys. So young boys will leave fresh girls and be looking for slippers chest, baby bumps, stretch mark, wrinkled skin to nack abi.

You can offer them money, but they will detest you and mock you behind.

But the case is different from men. Men age like wine. I look better at my 40s compared to when I was in my 20s. While I was hustling, you women were having free sex at the age of 12, 16 e.t.c.

at that age you women were calling me broke boy, broke nigga. Remember how many labour work I have to do for a girl to give me sex.

Young guys get sex maybe once in a month if they are lucky. But young girls get it everyday. Infact they draw calender for the next man to grant access.

But life has to be fair to both gender. While your body deteriorate, young boys get better when they are now making money.

I remember how many young girls flirt with me now when I am in my 40s, when I was in my teens, girls no dey look my side.

Do you think God/Nature is stupid? hell no.

These people seem to have forgotten that it is the man who pays the bride price. If you like follow what they teach. You will soon see yourself in your father's house. Then, your relatives will finish work on your head

giftson102:
[What exactly is your point here??
Every society frown when a woman cheats but same society considers it a norm when the man is the culprit.

Most men are basically dirty, untidy and unkept, yet these women endure all of these.
WHY CAN'T THE MEN DO OR ENDURE THE SAME..


.quote author=WatchYourSix post=139439126]Yall just like adultery and generally lack discipline…its the lifestyle yall been living throughout your single days …

That has always been the problem with modern marriages… the players are just bunch of morally bankrupt people…
Yall respond to everything going in your marriage with cheating yet blame ur spouse ….

Whether a man is unkempt or not is never a justification for cheating. Neglect in a marriage should be addressed, not repaid with betrayal.

The reason infidelity affects marriages differently for men and women is a mix of biology, culture, social expectations, and economics. In many societies, a man who cheats is often forgiven more easily because women sometimes weigh the stability he provides financial support, provision for the children, assistance to her family, and the overall structure of the home.

On the other hand, when a woman cheats, many men see it as a deeper violation of trust and loyalty, which is why marriages often collapse faster afterward. Society also tends to make post-divorce life easier for men. A divorced man can remarry more easily and rebuild quickly, while many divorced women face harsher judgment, fewer options, and uncertainty about finding another husband.

It may not always be fair, but reality is often shaped by both human nature and the society people live in.

After reading all through,I found out that the title is much different to the write-up,the title seems more of causes and advice but the write-up says otherwise

giftson102:
Ask men why they cheet, you will hear, my wife is unkempt, she don't bath twice a day, she don't make her hair and nails, she don't dress segzly, her bwest is flat, her tummy is big, she is unattractive......I need a young fresh bl00d.
She can't ride me, her knee and waist is always hurting her...

Biko who told men they are attractive to their wives? You think you are still handsome, some of you don't bath a whole day, you pee, do the ntanta kpajakpaja to remove the drop of urine and put it back in your boxers, then come back drunk with your mouth smelling alcohol and smoke, then ask your wife to suck and kiss you.

With Grey hair everywhere, stinky armpit, no strength at all, before 5 minutes you don cum con doze off. You think your wife don't need fresh handsome guys, very vibrant and active. Men who do skin care, use expensive perfume, do haircut every week, wear fine segzy clothes and are good in bed.

You people think it's women that gets old, you are forever young because you dey wear jeans and polo with canvas ndi HPE teachers. Na em make you think say you are young.
Your wife needs a young guy, someone her age or even younger. So if anyone is enduring anything, it's your wife enduring you. You weh no Sabi lick plate but you want your wife to ride you like your 20 years old side chick.

If you like don't be faithful to your wife and treat her well. Dey there and be doing Boiyoyo.

What is wrong with grey hair? Don't women have grey hair? You think you will have black hair for ever? Why must you lick plate? Too much of porn is not good, must you lick plate before you can enjoy intimacy with ur wife? Yes it's good to look good ad be faithful to each other.

Teymanhenry:
On the other hand, when a woman cheats, many men see it as a deeper violation of trust and loyalty, which is why marriages often collapse faster afterward. Society also tends to make post-divorce life easier for men. A divorced man can remarry more easily and rebuild quickly, while many divorced women face harsher judgment, fewer options, and uncertainty about finding another husband.

It may not always be fair, but reality is often shaped by both human nature and the society people live in.

Women also see a man cheating as betrayal of trust, but y'all do not care until the table turns. Indeed post-divorce is easier for men. That is why Frank Edoho married his sidechick 10yrs ago and today it has packed up. He should marry the 3rd one at 53.

You don't push anyone to cheat

dibunotion:
The concept of marriage needs to be reviewed

Baba nothing is wrong with marriage…. It’s a system of companionship, pleasuring, and most importantly helping/supporting each other

…. it’s the players that have problem….those tgat are going into the system are bunch of morally bankrupt with no discipline, with horrible selfish mentality..

Una don start nonsense topics
A cheat is a cheat
Na blood he dey
Nobody dey push anybody to cheat
If marriage don tire you
Waka comot na, dem use super glue tire you down..... .?

WatchYourSix:
ur spouse is not to blame for pushing you…. U just lack sexual discipline

If u marriage is not working make it work or get out..:: but Yall just want to eat your cake and still have it

Hahahahahahaha!!
See sliding back tackle…

What did I just read here? Men are dirty but women are clean
I laugh in swahili

Pocohantas come see thread wey be like fully charged d!1do for u

The topic is filled with filthy language, and should be deleted.

Adultery did not start today neither is it ever going into extinction but the adulterous ladies/women out there seems to believe that they have finally found a voice in Chike and Role Model in ex-Mrs Edogho. In attempt to always copy and replicate the 'white' man's lifestyle, we unwittingly destroy the things that makes us special.

For the men: Stay off another man's wife. You have everything to lose and nothing much to gain. If you must run rampage, there are millions of single ladies
For the ladies: Its your body, keep it clean but if you chose to mess it up, that's you cup of idiocy
For me: I may forgive anything, but never infidelity.

giftson102:
Ask men why they cheet, you will hear, my wife is unkempt, she don't bath twice a day, she don't make her hair and nails, she don't dress segzly, her bwest is flat, her tummy is big, she is unattractive......I need a young fresh bl00d.
She can't ride me, her knee and waist is always hurting her...

Biko who told men they are attractive to their wives? You think you are still handsome, some of you don't bath a whole day, you pee, do the ntanta kpajakpaja to remove the drop of urine and put it back in your boxers, then come back drunk with your mouth smelling alcohol and smoke, then ask your wife to suck and kiss you.

With Grey hair everywhere, stinky armpit, no strength at all, before 5 minutes you don cum con doze off. You think your wife don't need fresh handsome guys, very vibrant and active. Men who do skin care, use expensive perfume, do haircut every week, wear fine segzy clothes and are good in bed.

You people think it's women that gets old, you are forever young because you dey wear jeans and polo with canvas ndi HPE teachers. Na em make you think say you are young.
Your wife needs a young guy, someone her age or even younger. So if anyone is enduring anything, it's your wife enduring you. You weh no Sabi lick plate but you want your wife to ride you like your 20 years old side chick.

If you like don't be faithful to your wife and treat her well. Dey there and be doing Boiyoyo.

I opened this to see a very meaningful trend unfortunately this is thrash, emptily drafted with no reasonable sense but from someone that has eyes for oloshoism

Intentional couples sit themselves down to talk about issues instead of shying away from them. A wife can't even tell her hubby things that turn her ON sexually.

RillJ:
Adultery did not start today neither is it ever going into extinction but the adulterous ladies/women out there seems to believe that they have finally found a voice in Chike and Role Model in ex-Mrs Edogho. In attempt to always copy and replicate the 'white' man's lifestyle, we unwittingly destroy the things that makes us special.

For the men: Stay off another man's wife. You have everything to lose and nothing much to gain. If you must run rampage, there are millions of single ladies
For the ladies: Its your body, keep it clean but if you chose to mess it up, that's you cup of idiocy
For me: I may forgive anything, but never infidelity.

One funny thing about men sleeping with other men's wife. When the real husband divorce and release the cheating wife to them to marry, they can't marry that woman. They will never trust that woman. they want their own wife to be fresh, not someone else wife.

They just want to sleep with somone else wife, they themselve can't take it.

I just wish the chike guy get hooked with LovePeddler forever..let him eat what he is nibbling..

The Nigeria where everyone wants to march to the altar but barely none wants to stay in marriage

Thank God for me and my spouse

Thank God again

giftson102:
Ask men why they cheet, you will hear, my wife is unkempt, she don't bath twice a day, she don't make her hair and nails, she don't dress segzly, her bwest is flat, her tummy is big, she is unattractive......I need a young fresh bl00d.
She can't ride me, her knee and waist is always hurting her...

Biko who told men they are attractive to their wives? You think you are still handsome, some of you don't bath a whole day, you pee, do the ntanta kpajakpaja to remove the drop of urine and put it back in your boxers, then come back drunk with your mouth smelling alcohol and smoke, then ask your wife to suck and kiss you.

With Grey hair everywhere, stinky armpit, no strength at all, before 5 minutes you don cum con doze off. You think your wife don't need fresh handsome guys, very vibrant and active. Men who do skin care, use expensive perfume, do haircut every week, wear fine segzy clothes and are good in bed.
You people think it's women that gets old, you are forever young because you dey wear jeans and polo with canvas ndi HPE teachers. Na em make you think say you are young.
Your wife needs a young guy, someone her age or even younger. So if anyone is enduring anything, it's your wife enduring you. You weh no Sabi lick plate but you want your wife to ride you like your 20 years old side chick.
If you like don't be faithful to your wife and treat her well. Dey there and be doing Boiyoyo.

This is obviously a garbage write up. The mod that pushed it to the front page lack home training.
You write as if you're not properly schooled in life. After all the trash I forced myself to read, just a simple question for you: Why did you ignore and intentionally bypassed man's responsibility in the home? A man will chase his wife, paid for bride price, arrange expensive wedding, build/ rent a house, feed the wife, cloth the wife and perhaps, train her in school, and train up the children including paying hospital bills, today you want to place both parties on the same platform of life. Are you ok? If the African culture permits polygamy, where a man is permitted to allot himself as many wives he wants and a woman is not permitted to do same, it means you're spitting nonsense and garbage. Until you begin to see that the ways and responsibilities of a man in the society are different from a woman, you will always fall into the pit of Western and modern civilization. Even in Christianity, a man and woman are never preached to have the same lifestyle and power. One is the head and determines his home.

What is expected is mutual respect and love, but the woman can never claim to have equal influence and power as a man. Any society that ignores the natural law ends up in disharmony and unsettled homes. Nigeria and Africa as a whole are already feeling the shock caused by undue harmonization of power between the male and female folks in the society.

giftson102:
Ask men why they cheet, you will hear, my wife is unkempt, she don't bath twice a day, she don't make her hair and nails, she don't dress segzly, her bwest is flat, her tummy is big, she is unattractive......I need a young fresh bl00d.
She can't ride me, her knee and waist is always hurting her...

Biko who told men they are attractive to their wives? You think you are still handsome, some of you don't bath a whole day, you pee, do the ntanta kpajakpaja to remove the drop of urine and put it back in your boxers, then come back drunk with your mouth smelling alcohol and smoke, then ask your wife to suck and kiss you.

With Grey hair everywhere, stinky armpit, no strength at all, before 5 minutes you don cum con doze off. You think your wife don't need fresh handsome guys, very vibrant and active. Men who do skin care, use expensive perfume, do haircut every week, wear fine segzy clothes and are good in bed.

You people think it's women that gets old, you are forever young because you dey wear jeans and polo with canvas ndi HPE teachers. Na em make you think say you are young.
Your wife needs a young guy, someone her age or even younger. So if anyone is enduring anything, it's your wife enduring you. You weh no Sabi lick plate but you want your wife to ride you like your 20 years old side chick.

If you like don't be faithful to your wife and treat her well. Dey there and be doing Boiyoyo.

If you are having this kind of problem with your husband,why not let him know,so that he can make adjustments,try also to find out if there is anything you are doing that his making him behave this way, cheating would only make matters worse for you,both of you should try and make things work by making adjustments.Do these for your kids and each other.If possible see a therapist.Why is this our society so obsessed with sex.

Lol... It's okay oo... Same human, same stains, same sins, different judgment.
Double standard!!
May every cheater meet a cheater.
May Kind persons meet kindness.
Good people for good people

pocohantas:
Women also see a man cheating as betrayal of trust, but y'all do not care until the table turns. Indeed post-divorce is easier for men. That is why Frank Edoho married his sidechick 10yrs ago and today it has packed up. He should marry the 3rd one at 53.

I never said women don't see cheating as betrayal of trust. I agree with you that most see it as betrayal of trust. But Frank Idoho marrying his side chick proves my point that a man can get another partner easier than the woman.

We always do traditional wedding but we always want to think our marriages are bound by oyinbo culture.
Any woman who thinks she's got equal rights as her man should ensure he doesn't pay her bride price, dowry and ensure they do a 50/50 in their wedding and household support

Teymanhenry:
I never said women don't see cheating as betrayal of trust. I agree with you that most see it as betrayal of trust. But Frank Idoho marrying his side chick proves my point that a man can get another partner easier than the woman.

Now that she has left, he should marry another easily. Since life is about getting another partner, even if it a cheating one.

pocohantas:
Now that she has left, he should marry another easily. Since life is about getting another partner, even if it a cheating one.

His life choices. Why are you so emotional about this thing. Are you a woman?

Teymanhenry:
His life choices. Why are you so emotional about this thing. Are you a woman?

Which one is his life choices.
Shebi it is easier for men to rebuild. Make e prove am for the third time. That is the kinda logic I want to see from him, maybe you too.

giftson102:
Ask men why they cheet, you will hear, my wife is unkempt, she don't bath twice a day, she don't make her hair and nails, she don't dress segzly, her bwest is flat, her tummy is big, she is unattractive......I need a young fresh bl00d.
She can't ride me, her knee and waist is always hurting her...

Biko who told men they are attractive to their wives? You think you are still handsome, some of you don't bath a whole day, you pee, do the ntanta kpajakpaja to remove the drop of urine and put it back in your boxers, then come back drunk with your mouth smelling alcohol and smoke, then ask your wife to suck and kiss you.

With Grey hair everywhere, stinky armpit, no strength at all, before 5 minutes you don cum con doze off. You think your wife don't need fresh handsome guys, very vibrant and active. Men who do skin care, use expensive perfume, do haircut every week, wear fine segzy clothes and are good in bed.

You people think it's women that gets old, you are forever young because you dey wear jeans and polo with canvas ndi HPE teachers. Na em make you think say you are young.
Your wife needs a young guy, someone her age or even younger. So if anyone is enduring anything, it's your wife enduring you. You weh no Sabi lick plate but you want your wife to ride you like your 20 years old side chick.

If you like don't be faithful to your wife and treat her well. Dey there and be doing Boiyoyo.

Fallacy of the first waters

A cheat is a cheat no matter what you do she will still cheat.

A LovePeddler always a LovePeddler .

When a decent woman gets tired of her relationship, she breaks it and starts another when she wants and not whoring while still in a relationship.

A LovePeddler is a LovePeddler