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One of the most painful realities in Nigeria today is not just bad leadership, it is how many citizens now defend, celebrate, and even worship the same systems and individuals responsible for their suffering.

This did not happen overnight, it is the result of decades of psychological conditioning, economic hardship, institutional failure, and survival-based thinking. Many Nigerians are no longer fighting for justice. They are simply trying to survive. And when survival becomes the priority, people begin to adapt to oppression instead of resisting it.

Poverty has been weaponized so effectively that basic necessities are now treated like favors from politicians rather than rights of citizens. A bag of rice, temporary cash gifts, or political appointments suddenly become enough to buy loyalty and silence criticism.

At the same time, education has been deliberately weakened. An enlightened population asks questions, demands accountability, and challenges corruption. But a struggling and poorly informed society is easier to manipulate emotionally, tribally, and religiously.
This is why tribal and religious sentiments are constantly used to justify incompetence and defend failure.

Instead of asking:
“Is this leader effective?”
People ask:
“Is he from my tribe?”
“Does he attend my church or mosque?”
“Can I benefit from him personally?”

Survival has replaced ideology.

Many people no longer support leaders because they believe in vision or competence. They support whoever can provide temporary protection, connection, or crumbs from power.

Meanwhile, meritocracy continues to die. Hard work, intelligence, and honesty are increasingly ignored, while corruption, manipulation, and political loyalty are rewarded. Justice itself is often manipulated to protect the powerful while intimidating the weak.

Public institutions that should defend the people are weakened and undermined. Security agencies that should protect citizens are sometimes used for personal intimidation and suppression of opposition.

Over time, people begin to normalize injustice. They start praising those who oppress them because they believe resistance is hopeless or dangerous. And slowly, society loses its moral direction.

Today:
Lies are accepted as truth.
Jealousy is seen as strength.
Praise is often given to those who cause pain.

Sadly, the fight is no longer for justice or freedom. It is often just a fight to replace those currently in power. And once many get there, they repeat the exact same oppression they once complained about. That is the cycle destroying Nigeria.

True change will only begin when Nigerians stop glorifying oppression, stop defending failure because of tribe or religion, and stop repeating the same destructive patterns. A nation cannot heal when victims become future oppressors.

The real revolution starts when truth matters more than loyalty, competence matters more than connections, and justice matters more than personal gain.

Only then can Nigeria truly move forward.

deesquarediddy:
One of the most painful realities in Nigeria today is not just bad leadership, it is how many citizens now defend, celebrate, and even worship the same systems and individuals responsible for their suffering.

This did not happen overnight, it is the result of decades of psychological conditioning, economic hardship, institutional failure, and survival-based thinking. Many Nigerians are no longer fighting for justice. They are simply trying to survive. And when survival becomes the priority, people begin to adapt to oppression instead of resisting it.

Poverty has been weaponized so effectively that basic necessities are now treated like favors from politicians rather than rights of citizens. A bag of rice, temporary cash gifts, or political appointments suddenly become enough to buy loyalty and silence criticism.

At the same time, education has been deliberately weakened. An enlightened population asks questions, demands accountability, and challenges corruption. But a struggling and poorly informed society is easier to manipulate emotionally, tribally, and religiously.
This is why tribal and religious sentiments are constantly used to justify incompetence and defend failure.

Instead of asking:
“Is this leader effective?”
People ask:
“Is he from my tribe?”
“Does he attend my church or mosque?”
“Can I benefit from him personally?”

Survival has replaced ideology.

Many people no longer support leaders because they believe in vision or competence. They support whoever can provide temporary protection, connection, or crumbs from power.

Meanwhile, meritocracy continues to die. Hard work, intelligence, and honesty are increasingly ignored, while corruption, manipulation, and political loyalty are rewarded. Justice itself is often manipulated to protect the powerful while intimidating the weak.

Public institutions that should defend the people are weakened and undermined. Security agencies that should protect citizens are sometimes used for personal intimidation and suppression of opposition.

Over time, people begin to normalize injustice. They start praising those who oppress them because they believe resistance is hopeless or dangerous. And slowly, society loses its moral direction.

Today:
Lies are accepted as truth.
Jealousy is seen as strength.
Praise is often given to those who cause pain.

Sadly, the fight is no longer for justice or freedom. It is often just a fight to replace those currently in power. And once many get there, they repeat the exact same oppression they once complained about. That is the cycle destroying Nigeria.

True change will only begin when Nigerians stop glorifying oppression, stop defending failure because of tribe or religion, and stop repeating the same destructive patterns. A nation cannot heal when victims become future oppressors.

The real revolution starts when truth matters more than loyalty, competence matters more than connections, and justice matters more than personal gain.

Only then can Nigeria truly move forward.

So whho's your Candidate?

It’s a sad reality.. Nigerian politicians have damaged Nigerian citizens psychologically, hence the reason most Nigerians reason anti clock wise..

In Uk for example, a pub owner blocked their prime mister from entering, and sent him out of his Pub because he doesn’t like his policies. But in Nigeria, a Pub owner will snap with ordinary local government chairman who’s part of his oppressor, then hang the portrait on the wall in order to use it to boast and elevate his status..

It’s a pity ..

Parachoko:
So whho's your Candidate?

This isn't about who is my candidate. I am highlighting the systemic failure in our society. And how we are experiencing an internal neocolonialism.

Our present situation is somehow preprogrammed. And it seems like we all have been defeated.

Talking about candidates, we need someone who isn't a comformist. Who will do things differently. Our systems, values have failed woefully. Obviously, we can't continue to do things the same way and expect different result.

deesquarediddy:
This isn't about who is my candidate. I am highlighting the systemic failure in our society. And how we are experiencing an internal neocolonialism.

Our present situation is somehow preprogrammed. And it seems like we all have been defeated.

Talking about candidates, we need someone who isn't a comformist. Who will do things differently. Our systems, values have failed woefully. Obviously, we can't continue to do things the same way and expect different result.

Tell us the way forward then. Suggest solutions for our major problems.

WizardOfNG:
Tell us the way forward then. Suggest solutions for our major problems.

Nigeria’s crisis is not just political, it’s a value problem. A society that glorifies money without questioning its source creates leaders who buy loyalty instead of earning trust. Poverty and survival have made people accept short-term gains over long-term accountability, while integrity and competence are sidelined.

Moral leadership must emphasize accountability over donations. We must teach that prosperity without integrity is failure, not success. We need a systemic change. Society rewards outcomes (money, status) more than process (honesty, effort)

As 2027 approaches, real change will not come from new faces alone, but from new values, where truth matters more than tribe, integrity more than wealth, and accountability more than personal benefit.
Until Nigerians stop worshipping money and start questioning it, the cycle of bad leadership will continue.

Survival doesn’t erase awareness, it distorts incentives. Many Nigerians know when leadership is failing. The issue isn’t always ignorance; it’s trade-offs. When someone is choosing between principle and feeding their family, short-term survival often wins. That’s not moral failure, it’s economic pressure shaping behavior.

We must put an end to a systems that don’t punish bad behavior. We need Stronger institutions: Laws, courts, electoral systems that function regardless of who is in power. Economic stability reduces manipulation. When people aren’t desperate, they’re harder to buy with rice or cash.

As individuals, we should strive to stop vote buying. Religious and traditional leaders must publicly reject inducements. We young Nigerians should join political parties early (not just during elections), Influence candidate selection at the primary level. Support credible local candidates, not just presidential figures.

As for 2027, here is the kind of president we need:

1.A system builder, not messair. Not someone who promises to fix everything but one who have policies that would strengthen institutions. It's weak systems that allow bad behavior to thrive.

2. Someone that is economically competent. A president who understands inflation, jobs, debts and productivity. Example, tough decisions like subsidy removal should come with clear plans and transparency.

3. A president that is free from Godfatherism and money politics. Can make decisions without paying back hidden debts. Many pas Presidents have ideas too but can't across path with power interests.

4. Someone that is courageous but accountable. Can take tough decisions and also accept scrutiny, criticism and transparency.

5. President that is unifying without exploiting tribe or religion. Personally deciplined. Lives by clear ethical standards and doesn't openly glorify corruption and excesses.

You are right about the dire state of Nigeria but the only issue with your submission is your belief that things will get better under "One Nigeria"..... The systemic rot, exacerbated by bad leadership can only truly be curtailed when Nigeria is totally decentralized under a new people backed constitution or dissolved to pave the way for regional smaller countries. You said it yourself, many people uphold their tribal and religious agendas when it comes to national issues. The northern fulani conquerors won't support any national leader who won't protect their bloody expansionist Islamic sharia agenda. The south west yoruba man won't support an igbo national leader who may want to liberalize Lagos state as a non-ethnic owned commercial state, same applies to the south east igbo man who doesn't want to stay in the same country with Fulanis and some other tribes. You can see that no genuine progress or unity can be made under an atmosphere of systemic betrayal, subjugation and injustice which is what Nigeria represents. For any progress to be made, Nigeria in it's current form has to end. It is only when the majority come to this realization and demand for their freedom through a referendum can Nigerians make genuine lasting progress....

deesquarediddy:
One of the most painful realities in Nigeria today is not just bad leadership, it is how many citizens now defend, celebrate, and even worship the same systems and individuals responsible for their suffering.

This did not happen overnight, it is the result of decades of psychological conditioning, economic hardship, institutional failure, and survival-based thinking. Many Nigerians are no longer fighting for justice. They are simply trying to survive. And when survival becomes the priority, people begin to adapt to oppression instead of resisting it.

Poverty has been weaponized so effectively that basic necessities are now treated like favors from politicians rather than rights of citizens. A bag of rice, temporary cash gifts, or political appointments suddenly become enough to buy loyalty and silence criticism.

At the same time, education has been deliberately weakened. An enlightened population asks questions, demands accountability, and challenges corruption. But a struggling and poorly informed society is easier to manipulate emotionally, tribally, and religiously.
This is why tribal and religious sentiments are constantly used to justify incompetence and defend failure.

Instead of asking:
“Is this leader effective?”
People ask:
“Is he from my tribe?”
“Does he attend my church or mosque?”
“Can I benefit from him personally?”

Survival has replaced ideology.

Many people no longer support leaders because they believe in vision or competence. They support whoever can provide temporary protection, connection, or crumbs from power.

Meanwhile, meritocracy continues to die. Hard work, intelligence, and honesty are increasingly ignored, while corruption, manipulation, and political loyalty are rewarded. Justice itself is often manipulated to protect the powerful while intimidating the weak.

Public institutions that should defend the people are weakened and undermined. Security agencies that should protect citizens are sometimes used for personal intimidation and suppression of opposition.

Over time, people begin to normalize injustice. They start praising those who oppress them because they believe resistance is hopeless or dangerous. And slowly, society loses its moral direction.

Today:
Lies are accepted as truth.
Jealousy is seen as strength.
Praise is often given to those who cause pain.

Sadly, the fight is no longer for justice or freedom. It is often just a fight to replace those currently in power. And once many get there, they repeat the exact same oppression they once complained about. That is the cycle destroying Nigeria.

True change will only begin when Nigerians stop glorifying oppression, stop defending failure because of tribe or religion, and stop repeating the same destructive patterns. A nation cannot heal when victims become future oppressors.

The real revolution starts when truth matters more than loyalty, competence matters more than connections, and justice matters more than personal gain.

Only then can Nigeria truly move forward.

truthera:
You are right about the dire state of Nigeria but the only issue with your submission is your belief that things will get better under "One Nigeria"..... The systemic rot, exacerbated by bad leadership can only truly be curtailed when Nigeria is totally decentralized under a new people backed constitution or dissolved to pave the way for regional smaller countries. You said it yourself, many people uphold their tribal and religious agendas when it comes to national issues. The northern fulani conquerors won't support any national leader who won't protect their bloody expansionist Islamic sharia agenda. The south west yoruba man won't support an igbo national leader who may want to liberalize Lagos state as a non-ethnic owned commercial state, same applies to the south east igbo man who doesn't want to stay in the same country with Fulanis and some other tribes. You can see that no genuine progress or unity can be made under an atmosphere of systemic betrayal, subjugation and injustice which is what Nigeria represents. For any progress to be made, Nigeria in it's current form has to end. It is only when the majority come to this realization and demand for their freedom through a referendum can Nigerians make genuine lasting progress....

Historically, countries facing deep internal divisions have usually moved in one of three directions:

Centralized control continues: The Center tries to preserve unity through stronger federal authority, which often lead to recurring instability if grievances remain unresolved.

Radical decentralization or restructuring: Regions gain far more autonomy over security, resources, taxation, and governance while remaining one country.

Peaceful separation: Splitting after prolonged political deadlock. However, successful separations usually require broad consensus, legal frameworks, economic planning, and nonviolent negotiation. Without those, fragmentation can trigger prolonged conflict, displacement, or economic collapse.

If we all agree that we need to put an end to "One Nigeria", which of these three path do you think will be easy to take? Do you think the political jobbers, our oppressors will let go without any radicalization?

Your emphasis on referendum and popular consent aligns with the principle that political legitimacy should come from the people rather than forced unity. The critical issue is ensuring that any push for restructuring or self-determination remains democratic, lawful, and nonviolent, because once violence overtakes political reform, ordinary citizens usually suffer the most.

deesquarediddy:
This isn't about who is my candidate. I am highlighting the systemic failure in our society. And how we are experiencing an internal neocolonialism.

Our present situation is somehow preprogrammed. And it seems like we all have been defeated.

Talking about candidates, we need someone who isn't a comformist. Who will do things differently. Our systems, values have failed woefully. Obviously, we can't continue to do things the same way and expect different result.

Pardon the person you replied.
That's the capacity of his/her understanding.

WizardOfNG:
Tell us the way forward then. Suggest solutions for our major problems.

APC supporters always asking for solutions. Why did APC seize power? What is the APC doing in government if all you guys can do is ask for solution.
You are there to solve these problems!!!!

Elusive001:
APC supporters always asking for solutions. Why did APC seize power? What is the APC doing in government if all you guys can do is ask for solution.
You are there to solve these problems!!!!

The APC government of Tinubu is delivering solutions even if you cannot or refuse to see that. I am asking the poster to suggest solutions if he believes Government is incompetent.

deesquarediddy:
Nigeria’s crisis is not just political, it’s a value problem. A society that glorifies money without questioning its source creates leaders who buy loyalty instead of earning trust. Poverty and survival have made people accept short-term gains over long-term accountability, while integrity and competence are sidelined.

Moral leadership must emphasize accountability over donations. We must teach that prosperity without integrity is failure, not success. We need a systemic change. Society rewards outcomes (money, status) more than process (honesty, effort)

As 2027 approaches, real change will not come from new faces alone, but from new values, where truth matters more than tribe, integrity more than wealth, and accountability more than personal benefit.
Until Nigerians stop worshipping money and start questioning it, the cycle of bad leadership will continue.

Survival doesn’t erase awareness, it distorts incentives. Many Nigerians know when leadership is failing. The issue isn’t always ignorance; it’s trade-offs. When someone is choosing between principle and feeding their family, short-term survival often wins. That’s not moral failure, it’s economic pressure shaping behavior.

We must put an end to a systems that don’t punish bad behavior. We need Stronger institutions: Laws, courts, electoral systems that function regardless of who is in power. Economic stability reduces manipulation. When people aren’t desperate, they’re harder to buy with rice or cash.

As individuals, we should strive to stop vote buying. Religious and traditional leaders must publicly reject inducements. We young Nigerians should join political parties early (not just during elections), Influence candidate selection at the primary level. Support credible local candidates, not just presidential figures.

As for 2027, here is the kind of president we need:

1.A system builder, not messair. Not someone who promises to fix everything but one who have policies that would strengthen institutions. It's weak systems that allow bad behavior to thrive.

2. Someone that is economically competent. A president who understands inflation, jobs, debts and productivity. Example, tough decisions like subsidy removal should come with clear plans and transparency.

3. A president that is free from Godfatherism and money politics. Can make decisions without paying back hidden debts. Many pas Presidents have ideas too but can't across path with power interests.

4. Someone that is courageous but accountable. Can take tough decisions and also accept scrutiny, criticism and transparency.

5. President that is unifying without exploiting tribe or religion. Personally deciplined. Lives by clear ethical standards and doesn't openly glorify corruption and excesses.

I love this piece...

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WizardOfNG:
The APC government of Tinubu is delivering solutions even if you cannot or refuse to see that. I am asking the poster to suggest solutions if he believes Government is incompetent.

Please, kindly give us examples of the solutions Tinubu’s government has delivered for any of the problems facing Nigerians.

Elusive001:
Please, kindly give us examples of the solutions Tinubu’s government has delivered for any of the problems facing Nigerians.

Lol. Some of you guys are amusing with how you believe others can't work out your rudimentary mischief.

Is that not you below conclusively showing prejudice against Tinubu? You now demand I show you examples of solutions Tinubu has delivered?

Try your luck with other posters.

All this debate over elections is unnecessary if the following information is true


https://www.facebook.com/reel/1024239206938265/?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v

For people with data watch and debunk this if you can.

WizardOfNG:
Lol. Some of you guys are amusing with how you believe others can't work out your rudimentary mischief.

Is that not you below conclusively showing prejudice against Tinubu? You now demand I show you examples of solutions Tinubu has delivered?

Try your luck with other posters.

Anything wrong in highlighting the solutions the Tinubu government has delivered since the assumption of office?

At least, let people who can't see be informed.

Has the present government shown any seriousness in solving the problems of this country?...at least in areas i highlighted when you asked me for the way forward.