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A Warning To Newly Married Men by RollinTNDA(op): 1:59pm On May 27
If you have a company or business you are running and you want a child that you can handover the business to.
Please do everything possible not to born female children only.

Girls are very useless to the family once they marry.

My cousin has a business passed down from his father. . His father is late
When he was trying to keep the business running. His sisters were far away in their husbands homes far far away.

He got visa to Finland
He was so distressed before he traveled out and whole of us were jubilating for him that he finally japa. He was so worried about his father's business

He said his 2 sisters never cared about the business and he fears if he japa the business will fold.
The 2 girls were busy with their families and couldn't come to help him to maintain the business.
It hit me whenever I think of it

God forbid if otedola dies
Who will run his company? Cuppy?? No
Imagine if he has a son like Mr Eazi
He will sleep very well knowing his legacy will be protected.

Unless you have no plan of handing over your business to your children.
Having girl children is a loss
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by rickpat(m): 2:21pm On May 27
Oga rest abeg...no child is a loss...brilafm,the first sport radio,the owner Dr.larry has three daughters..today the last daughter is the CEO of brila media..she even married last year,train and teach your children responsibility, gender is no issue....the last daughter was COO for years and went to harvard at some point....no come you dey talk wetin no make sense...so women dont work?..or a woman can't run family business like she is employed?..you funny sha
RollinTNDA:
If you have a company or business you are running and you want a child that you can handover the business to.
Please do everything possible not to born female children only.

Girls are very useless to the family once they marry.

My cousin has a business passed down from his father. . His father is late
When he was trying to keep the business running. His sisters were far away in their husbands homes far far away.

He got visa to Finland
He was so distressed before he traveled out and whole of us were jubilating for him that he finally japa. He was so worried about his father's business

He said his 2 sisters never cared about the business and he fears if he japa the business will fold.
The 2 girls were busy with their families and couldn't come to help him to maintain the business.
It hit me whenever I think of it

God forbid if otedola dies
Who will run his company? Cuppy?? No
Imagine if he has a son like Mr Eazi
He will sleep very well knowing his legacy will be protected.

Unless you have no plan of handing over your business to your children.
Having girl children is a loss
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by Proserpina: 3:25pm On May 27
I think moderators should start taking down this anti women / female threads. It's only on Nairaland I see people boldly preaching against having female children.

Seun
Mynd44
RoyalRoy please look into this.
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by Cum4me(m): 3:30pm On May 27
budaatum:
You cousin's experience makes you conclude that girls are useless?

Your entire post makes me conclude that the brain in your head is not used at all!
oga no matter how you try to justify this the OP is right deep down every Man know this. A male child has more advantages than the female. But no child is useless
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by keemsleek(m): 3:46pm On May 27
If the bizness was doing so good, why Japa and not keep the bizness booming and be going on holidays. There are lot of women better than men in handling bizness.
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by budaatum: 5:07pm On May 27
Cum4me:
oga no matter how you try to justify this the OP is right deep down every Man know this. A male child has more advantages than the female. But no child is useless
Ignorant men assume to know this.

And the greatest pity is that such ignorant men would not educate their own daughters to have the same advantages their male children have.

Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by Esthered: 5:34pm On May 27
Dangote's businesses are ran by the daughters except the refinery business.

You friend should have scaled the business and put systems in place for it to run in his absence. He could have also sold the business in such a way that shares are still retained by the family for legacy purposes but its easy to lump the blame on his sisters. What if they never existed?

Same you would say women are too dumb to handle power and to run a business and now you're heaping the blame on the ladies. Well done.

Why you no go run the business for your friend na?
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by RollinTNDA(op): 7:38pm On May 27
Esthered:
Dangote's businesses are ran by the daughters except the refinery business.

You friend should have scaled the business and put systems in place for it to run in his absence. He could have also sold the business in such a way that shares are still retained by the family for legacy purposes but its easy to lump the blame on his sisters. What if they never existed?

Same you would say women are too dumb to handle power and to run a business and now you're heaping the blame on the ladies. Well done.

Why you no go run the business for your friend na?
Do you know the terms and condition Dangote set for his daughters husband.

Some women husband will marry her and take her far away from the family.
I'm 100% sure that Dangote gave his daughters husband criteria to marry them and one of them is to make her available to run his business.
Some husbands will tell her to focus on raising family Instead of her father business.

Notice that all his daughter live in Nigeria
Because Dangote know some men will marry and relocate outside with the girl this separating her from her father business.
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by RollinTNDA(op): 7:41pm On May 27
budaatum:
Ignorant men assume to know this.

And the greatest pity is that such ignorant men would not educate their own daughters to have the same advantages their male children have.
Trust me, a male child will always be in charge of his father business if the business is huge and profitable.
A woman once she marries all her attention is set on her new family her children. A new place a new family.
She is literally separated from her family in marriage.

While a man is not separated from his family once married.
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by RollinTNDA(op): 7:56pm On May 27
rickpat:
Oga rest abeg...no child is a loss...brilafm,the first sport radio,the owner Dr.larry has three daughters..today the last daughter is the CEO of brila media..she even married last year,train and teach your children responsibility, gender is no issue....the last daughter was COO for years and went to harvard at some point....no come you dey talk wetin no make sense...so women dont work?..or a woman can't run family business like she is employed?..you funny sha
It takes the special grace of God for a girl to have interest in her father's work.

Look at the daughter of Abc transport one if the multimillion dollar companies but now it has died off and his daughter is nothing to write home about
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by Ibechris2: 8:07pm On May 27
That guy that left his father's legacy is more useless than his two sisters.

There is nothing u can tell me.

Altogether ur cousins are useless and this has nothing to do with gender.
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by Samantha125(f): 8:09pm On May 27
I'm still waiting for the ban you requested from baba Seun... grin grin grin

Anyways, can I comment in the meantime while I'm still waiting for it? grin grin grin
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by Diamond098454(f): 8:35pm On May 27
Can you imagine what this guy is saying? Am a girl, the only child of my parents and I'm not useless.

Take down your post and apologize to all the female in this forum
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by GloriousGbola: 11:49pm On May 27
Proserpina:
I think moderators should start taking down this anti women / female threads. It's only on Nairaland I see people boldly preaching against having female children.

Seun
Mynd44
RoyalRoy please look into this.
Threads they are moving to FP for engagement?

Until nairaland is called out on a national ot international stage as a platform hostile to women, this nonsense will continue.
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by Jayboi(m): 3:30am On May 28
Messed up write up. So if God gives you female children, automatically they are useless. Una no dey think at all o. This mentality needs to be checked. It just shows lack of thinking.
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by Learner247(m): 6:06am On May 28
Proserpina:
I think moderators should start taking down this anti women / female threads. It's only on Nairaland I see people boldly preaching against having female children.

Seun
Mynd44
RoyalRoy please look into this.
Beyond anti-women or Female narratives being peddled by the post, the Op’s conclusion is too data bereaved and lacks depth.

As a male factor, I have seen females run their father’s businesses even before the man passes on. Where I come from, inheritances are shared equally amongst the children, even if the first child is a female, she can still preside over the administration of the assets of the deceased and it’s been working very well.

Moreover, as an employee and employer, I have seen females do better at what they do than many of their male counterparts.

In view of the above, I will say that the premise upon which the Op based his argument was an outlier, a one-in-several situations, so his assumption is faulty and conclusion a nullity in my view.
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by henrybomb(m): 8:30am On May 28
Proserpina:
I think moderators should start taking down this anti women / female threads. It's only on Nairaland I see people boldly preaching against having female children.

Seun
Mynd44
RoyalRoy please look into this.
Sincerely
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by henrybomb(m): 8:32am On May 28
RollinTNDA:
If you have a company or business you are running and you want a child that you can handover the business to.
Please do everything possible not to born female children only.

Girls are very useless to the family once they marry.

My cousin has a business passed down from his father. . His father is late
When he was trying to keep the business running. His sisters were far away in their husbands homes far far away.

He got visa to Finland
He was so distressed before he traveled out and whole of us were jubilating for him that he finally japa. He was so worried about his father's business

He said his 2 sisters never cared about the business and he fears if he japa the business will fold.
The 2 girls were busy with their families and couldn't come to help him to maintain the business.
It hit me whenever I think of it

God forbid if otedola dies
Who will run his company? Cuppy?? No
Imagine if he has a son like Mr Eazi
He will sleep very well knowing his legacy will be protected.

Unless you have no plan of handing over your business to your children.
Having girl children is a loss
Are you people even mad?
Are y’all not loved at home?

Moderators shouldn’t allow such post because it is hollow and unintelligent.
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by faithfull18(f): 7:13am On May 29
This OP isn't feeling fine. No child is useless, expose your children early, teach them your business.
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by kingthreat(m): 8:41am On May 29
If you have business acumen, you have it. Whether male or female.
I once watched a film, based on a true life story. Don't remember the name. The business magnate had to handover operations of his business to his daughter in-law because his son was an addict.
Re: A Warning To Newly Married Men by Ihebu4chelsea(m): 10:21am On May 29
GloriousGbola:
Threads they are moving to FP for engagement?

Until nairaland is called out on a national ot international stage as a platform hostile to women, this nonsense will continue.
it's looking likely, the hate against women on this platform is getting bigger.
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