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oyeomere:
Abraham and Sarah did it naw so it's not new that's why we have Islam and Christianity today

You can imagine what Christianity is suffering from the hands of jihadists till today,one sin would always leads to another and the chain continues.Na the boss Cross ❌ let him carry it.'Alaigbagbo ati onisekuse ' God has vindicated the innocent poor legitimate wife.

This looks like trying to over throw the madam of the house and it backfired.

This is what the unbelieving and unfaithful husband/wife always get.God told Abraham 'l have made you Father of many nations' he believed God,but the wife say let me help God by allowing my maid to get baby for my husband.Today,the world are under the torment of the descendants of the child Ishmael born out of wedlock to Abraham., When would men ever learned?God has mercy!

Diamond098454:
Hahaha you are very funny

Can I get to know all of you when I am married? 🤤😋

However, the situation reportedly took an unexpected turn when his wife became pregnant around the same time.

Why does this always happen? I have heard about it many times. Couples will be childless for years but as soon as the man decides to get child outside, the wife will become pregnant. Is God tempting people unnecessary or what?

Stephen0mozzy:
Make una try dey dey intelligent nao.
Instead of crying with your big head on camera... But then again, you were greedy enough because you thought you'll become Oga wife after the pregnancy 🤣

Carry your pregnancy to full term, carry the man go court, if DNA proves he's the father, the court go nack am better bill.

Breach of promise #50million
Child Support #3million annually

are you quoting a standard figure for breach of promise and also a standard figure for child support annually, I thought child support is determined by financial capacity of the man?

Women can be very stupid, if your boss ask you for such a favor you are supposed to alert one of your family members as confidant and witness in case any mishaps.

What of if the man dies before you even give birth.


Most women mumu sha.

Sew how she looks like snake.... Rubbish

youngrichnigga:
So na so you mumu, don't you have any records of you and the man, conversation etc that can be presented to the police or a lawyer

Don't mind her. It was most likely a consensus one night stand she narrating as an agreement.

You work for the family but your target is the oga of the house! You're wicked! What would have become of oga wife if not that God answered her prayers and she too got pregnant around the same time?

Wicked people everywhere! She even had the temerity to go announce to the wife that she's pregnant for her husband!

She should thank God that the wife is not the violent type that would break her head for frolicking and trying to snatch her husband.

Wife being pregnant doesn't mean she will deliver it

EmmyMaestro:
The man was just looking for where to be collecting free kn@cks. Now that the thing has cast, he wants to run

In the absence of any corroborating information from the boss, how do you know that she is not a clout chasing propagandist liar, like that JagaBandeet of Borgu in Aso Rock? The one who swapped PDP prosperity with APC extreme poverty shege 11 years ago.




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frankblinkz:
are you quoting a standard figure for breach of promise and also a standard figure for child support annually, I thought child support is determined by financial capacity of the man?

No my good Sir, there are no standard figures. But a case like this could attract payment of damages in high figures, especially if the lady is truly abandoned throughout pregnancy, delivery and the first few months post-delivery.

But for child support, yeah, financial capabilities determine.

The man is the bad person here. Why not settle the young lady instead of abandoning her.

She's doesn't have sense, tell the man you want a written aggrement sign by your lawyer and his lawyer, being ignorant put her in this mess.

Diamond098454:
Dating a married man is very risky

Agreeing to get pregnant for him is more dangerous than his marital status

Her skin doesn't look like someone that's dating a married man

Maybe a stingy rich man

Not all of them are big spenders o

buygala:
Na lie

Both the wife and side chick are playing games

Man's impotent

My thought as well.
Man is impotent, probably told the wife to get a guy to get her pregnant but she refused but seeing that her husband dey chop Smallie outside, and knowing how women can be so jealous, she decided to agree with what the husband told her by getting pregnant outside

If it true she doesn't need this.... But Nigerians nd unnecessary content and attention.... Just give birth and serve the man court paper to do DNA

You were hired to work, not to become involved with a married man. Knowing he had a wife didn't stop you. What kind of decision was that?

Fake story

Why didn't you sign a legal agreement as other ladies do?

Stephen0mozzy:
Make una try dey dey intelligent nao.
Instead of crying with your big head on camera... But then again, you were greedy enough because you thought you'll become Oga wife after the pregnancy 🤣

Carry your pregnancy to full term, carry the man go court, if DNA proves he's the father, the court go nack am better bill.

Breach of promise #50million
Child Support #3million annually

Absolutely you got it. You got the clear picture of the issue.

Greed was at the center of it all. Perhaps her boss is well to do. Having confided in her, she made the choice absolutely of her own volition. Perhaps she did not either have a man at all in her life or she did not have a man who would marry her. She took her chance.

Anyway, all is well that ends well, as they say. She must go ahead and carry the pregnancy to term. The man who denied her today, will certainly look for her in the future. Meanwhile, she does not know that the man has started looking out, just in case anything goes wrong with his wife. She does not need to bother with a DNA if she did not sleep with any other man. The man will someday in the future crawl back to appeal to her. She should jejely relocate with the child.

Eventually, I only read the first paragraph. The pregnant lady should bear the cost of her foolishness. Shikena!

Stephen0mozzy:
No my good Sir, there are no standard figures. But a case like this could attract payment of damages in high figures, especially if the lady is truly abandoned throughout pregnancy, delivery and the first few months post-delivery.

But for child support, yeah, financial capabilities determine.

I'm asking because of my ex who left me last year, she took my daughter along and blocked me off, so I'm seeking legal means to get make me have access to my child and equally support her welfare.

NB: I'm not dragging custody of my child, she's 3 and needs to be with the mum.
But I feel blocking me isn't ideal, cus she opted out of the relationship since I can't meet her outrageous needs anymore.

So I will seek your advice before proceeding for legal agreement with her.
My business is slow at the moment, but I can still send the least 25-30k monthly for her upkeep, but I heard human rights will be the one to give me a figure for child support monthly.

Is that true?

frankblinkz:
I'm asking because of my ex who left me last year, she took my daughter along and blocked me off, so I'm seeking legal means to get make me have access to my child and equally support her welfare.

NB: I'm not dragging custody of my child, she's 3 and needs to be with the mum.
But I feel blocking me isn't ideal, cus she opted out of the relationship since I can't meet her outrageous needs anymore.

So I will seek your advice before proceeding for legal agreement with her.
My business is slow at the moment, but I can still send the least 25-30k monthly for her upkeep, but I heard human rights will be the one to give me a figure for child support monthly.

Is that true?

Note: I'm not a legal professional.

But with the case you've just shared, I'd advise that you find a means to rebuild a CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP with the lady and try to appeal to her conscience, so that you can be a part of your child's life. If you say you should pursue other "legal/forceful" means, you already have a lot of points against you, with which she can use to either completely cut you off from the child legally, or you be forced to pay certain amounts in child support (I don't know if human rights or ministry of women affairs do this tho, I think it will be based on your financial strength).

Points against you, since you said "ex" - I assume you guys were just dating, not legally married?:
1. She can say she left because you did not fulfill your promise of marrying her under which pretext she had agreed to bear a child for you.
2. She can say she left because she no longer felt herself and the child were safe around you
3. She can say you abandoned your responsibilities to herself and the child and she can justify that by the fact that you've not found any other means to reach out to her since the last year she left - her relatives, friends, etc.

So you have to play a smart, and maybe long game to be a part of the child's life. She blocked you on digital platforms, but I think you can still warm up to her with a new number, or through a friend, or through her friends, or through her parents, the list is endless. But you must go with patience and readiness to tolerate her initial gra gra of refusal - you are doing it for the child, not her.

Diamond098454:
Dating a married man is very risky

Agreeing to get pregnant for him is more dangerous than his marital status

Her skin doesn't look like someone that's dating a married man

How the skin suppose be lol... You nor go like take the risk make I dey sample you

You are funny

kiddaz:
How the skin suppose be lol... You nor go like take the risk make I dey sample you

Stephen0mozzy:
Note: I'm not a legal professional.

But with the case you've just shared, I'd advise that you find a means to rebuild a CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP with the lady and try to appeal to her conscience, so that you can be a part of your child's life. If you say you should pursue other "legal/forceful" means, you already have a lot of points against you, with which she can use to either completely cut you off from the child legally, or you be forced to pay certain amounts in child support (I don't know if human rights or ministry of women affairs do this tho, I think it will be based on your financial strength).

Points against you, since you said "ex" - I assume you guys were just dating, not legally married?:
1. She can say she left because you did not fulfill your promise of marrying her under which pretext she had agreed to bear a child for you.
2. She can say she left because she no longer felt herself and the child were safe around you
3. She can say you abandoned your responsibilities to herself and the child and she can justify that by the fact that you've not found any other means to reach out to her since the last year she left - her relatives, friends, etc.

So you have to play a smart, and maybe long game to be a part of the child's life. She blocked you on digital platforms, but I think you can still warm up to her with a new number, or through a friend, or through her friends, or through her parents, the list is endless. But you must go with patience and readiness to tolerate her initial gra gra of refusal - you are doing it for the child, not her.

thanks so much, your points are valid.
I spoke with her dad this evening and he's not happy about the whole situation and needs me to come see him face to face to talk.
But I will schedule a convenient time as I can get a relative that will go with me and be a witness.
Firstly I thank God Almighty that I'm recuperating financially.
More reason I want to ensure my child don't lack anything.
More over I need her to start school, but the one I got a private school at 50k ,my ex isn't comfortable with it, and talking about the one of 150k which her friends children attends.
So you see my angle of not meeting her demands.

Diamond098454:
If you are dating a married man your skin will be like butter to show you are eating money .
Dating a married man and nothing come out ,house you don't have, good car and at least a balance of 200M in your bank account nothing nothing
Why wasting your time and energy dating a married man when you can easily start life with an average single guy?

You think all married men are rich. na because you dunn tear eye to they follow alhaji bureau de change or emeka importer na. anyway be careful of ritualist sha, my only advice be that. even slay queens I see everyday here in ajah following pot belly ambassadors, how many get 10m in bank account. na fake lifestyle dem dey live.

I don't date married men

kedeojo:
You think all married men are rich. na because you dunn tear eye to they follow alhaji bureau de change or emeka importer na. anyway be careful of ritualist sha, my only advice be that. even slay queens I see everyday here in ajah following pot belly ambassadors, how many get 10m in bank account. na fake lifestyle dem dey live.