₦airaland Forum

galantjoe:
Both men and women are envious and jealous by nature. But most husband are overtly jealous. If your partner whether man or woman knows how much you earn or income you received' he/she will want to spend it for him or her.

It happens to every marriage or relationship. So it is better to conceal your income from your overtly jealous and envious husband

My friend lost his marriage because of this. His wife earned more than him in govt agency. He wanted his wife to be giving him the excess.

That's why most men in Africa prefer to keep their wives at home so they can depend on them for everything because once a woman becomes financially independent, marriage becomes a nuisance to her. Her respect and loyalty to husband go just drop. Marriage go just begin shake up and down. Except you are super rich, keep the women broke and your marriage will last forever.

ednut1:
She agreed to 50/50 but the man still wan touch her savings. Why

Don't mind him and his supporters. He wants to financially wreck her. It was an intentional move.

She even tried to do 50:50.
I cannot do such with any man. Be him African or Asian. Biologically and culturally, women already carry the burden of procreation, caregiving and home management.

Kalashnikov49:
Even though backdated...

The 50/50 was already in place then , wasn't it?

Now with the way things are in the UK, he said bring an extra 1,000 and keep 1,000 for herself. Is that bad? Its OBVIOUS the man is FRUGAL with expenses, but she wants to explore the streets.

Let her enjoy..and see how unforgiving the streets are..

She is loose with her tongue and wants to trend based on shallow reasoning.

We have seen this script for so long..

They always regret
.

no, he was bargaining for 3k from the 4k.

The man had no issues with the cost of living until his wife started making more.

So after this 1 time backlog payment , she is now a millionaire? Let her enjoy..

Uk no dey forgive.

richmond500:
no, he was bargaining for 3k from the 4k.

The man had no issues with the cost of living until his wife started making more.

Remudiagan:
As a man, don’t do 50/50 with your woman if you want to maintain your respect

With this your advise, most men In the abroad will die very early. They need double income just to survive

bmd1010:
See them ones money don involve na wahala for them , u go take care of ur bills ur self noni.Nothing spoil

She is ready to pay 100% as single or become a side chick to a man whose wife is understanding.

Hookup don set …. She belongs to the streets

richmond500:
if you listen to the woman, u will know the man is selfish

Have you listened to the man?

What many couples get to learn when it's too late is that;

The same 50/50 you are running from in your marriage is what you'll eventually end up doing in your seperation because a court will never award the responsibility of her hair, rent, clothing and lifestyle on the man ... E nor pass school fees and upkeep which is way easier for the man compared to having to feed and funds a wife's lifestyle

Kalashnikov49:
So after this 1 time backlog payment , she is now a millionaire? Let her enjoy..

Uk no dey forgive.

no forget UK is not forgiven, she never said the 50:50 wasn't enough, he just wanted her to spend more.

She needs to run away from people like that.
It's a matter of time before he starts yelling her that he will handle her finances.

Imagine he even told her she won't be where she was if he didn't bring her from Naija.

The man must be ashamed of himself

Host78:
Most men bend and break their backs for women who will not do the same thing for them.

These women don't deserve shît. Whether they are in love with you or you're in love with them.

Learn as a man to do less. If she want to go let her go.

Understand that if you have to do a lot to make her stay, she's staying because you're doing a lot, not because of love.

If she loves you, she'll be doing a lot too.

No go break your back for anybody o

this was not reviewed to you by ordinary flesh and blood

Who knows whether she don carry bele for another man and decided to give another excuse. See her big stomach like a woman in labour. The story is not complete.

You see this 50/50 scam propagated mostly by feminists,they will definitely be the first to run away from it during trying times!

Ladies should cut cap for men that provide 100% for the family without requiring a single dime from the wife!

Congratulations

aestake:
She is ready to pay 100% as single or become side chick to a man whose wife is understanding.

lol

They yap about equality when all they want is privilege

givedemwotowoto:
What does she think is on the streets waiting for her?

Gbola alias Cucumber 🥒 😁

E come be like say na to pick woman for gotta come better pass street oooooo

Mariangeles:
It's her "yeah! I'm back to the streets!" for me.

Edo woman no send anybody.

Heffalump:
Who knows whether she don carry bele for another man and decided to give another excuse. See her big stomach like a woman in labour. The story is not complete.

If you can understand a woman then you can understand the enigma called Nigeria and the spirit world! The more you look the less you see. One Bros somewhere is already promising her heaven and earth and writing poems for her.

"All animals are equal, but some are more equal than others"- Napoleon in Animal Farm.

I see the real problem here is a lack of real love (1 Corinthians 13:4-.

Money problems just exposed it.

pocohantas:
Don't mind him and his supporters. He wants to financially wreck her. It was an intentional move.

She even tried to do 50:50.
I cannot do such with any man. Be him African or Asian. Biologically and culturally, women already carry the burden of procreation, caregiving and home management.

Though the man went too far asking for money from the 4k pounds. But its possible the familly needed it to solve one or two..and the man probably didnt have. I mighht be wrong. So the man went too far.

But saying the man intentionally wanted to wreck her is a lie and careless statement women make to paint a man bad. A man that sweated and sponsored her abroad where her life will become better wanted to wreck her? Make it make sense. If that never wanted her to progress..he would have kept her back home like many Naija men, who have seen what our women changes to, the moment they touch abroad and smell power.

And talking about all tbose home jobs...in todays world where a lot of homes has maids? How many wives do house chores today. Make una no dey claim jobs which most of una husbands are paying some else to come do.

The UK has finally overtaken the USA 🇺🇸
Exporting Lawlessness to the UK
LONDON has Fallen.

I think I will fault the man on this. If the woman has already been doing 50/50 with you, that's enough. That goes a long way.

Whatever money she makes after giving her own share of the 50:50 shouldn't concern you as the man.

Some women won't even accept to do 50/50. Some will say 80/20. Others will say over their dead bodies will they do 50/50 with you.

Left for person like me, if a woman accepts to even assist with 70/30, especially when living abroad, I won't bother her over her money after providing her 30% share, cuz I am not even interested in a woman's money.

But leaving her marriage cuz of financial issues that can be resolved, is a great mistake on her part.

She should say she wants to explore with different men. I always tell ladies, the street is cruel o. Nothing is outside.

Go, test and see by yourself.

Emaprince:
Though the man went too far asking for money from the 4k pounds. But its possible the familly needed it to solve one or two..and the man probably didnt have. I mighht be wrong. So the man went too far.

But saying the man intentionally wanted to wreck her is a lie and careless statement women make to paint a man bad. A man that sweated and sponsored her abroad where her life will become better wanted to wreck her? Make it make sense. If that never wanted her to progress..he would have kept her back home like many Naija men, who have seen what our women changes to, the moment they touch abroad and smell power.

And talking about all tbose home jobs...in todays world where a lot of homes has maids? How many wives do house chores today. Make una no dey claim jobs which most of una husbands are paying some else to come do.

The family didn't need it for anything. Don't create scenarios that doesn't exist. If the family needs extra income, it should come from both savings or not by force.

If there is a domestic staff, someone manages them. I have had 2 and I know managing them to get the best is not easy. The mental labour, routine and scheduling that comes with it is not play. More reason some women do not even want it. You reduce physical work and gain mental and emotional labour because they would wake up some days to piss you off.

No woman should do 50:50 with a man. Let alone a Nigerian man. Only exception is if she is higher earning, in that case she should take more financial responsibilities and not 50:50. Anything else is TOTAL SCAM! You want to be the head, go out and work.

He should sweat and work, hopefully he can land a (white) Canadian woman this time. Then do 50:50 with her.

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139665380]“I’m back to the street” – Abroad-based Nigerian woman dumps husband over 50/50 marriage dispute

An abroad-based Nigerian woman has shared why she walked out of her four-year marriage, revealing that she left her husband and returned to single life after repeated disagreements over finances.

In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), she explained that they had been operating a 50/50 arrangement since relocating abroad, sharing bills and responsibilities equally.

In her words, she said:

“Since we are doing 50/50, yes we are doing it, but now you still want to collect part of my money. We have been sharing everything equally, so why is my own personal money now a problem?”

The situation reportedly escalated after the couple received a backdated company payment of about £4,000 for work previously carried out.

According to her, her husband insisted that she contribute part of the money despite their agreement to split responsibilities equally in the home, a demand she said led to a major conflict between them.

“We are doing 50/50, but you still want to control my money. You even calculated how much I should bring from my personal earnings. That was my breaking point,” she added.

Her revelation has since sparked mixed reactions online, with social media users debating whether 50/50 arrangements truly work in marriages, especially among couples living abroad.

The situation has also reignited conversations about money, control, and financial boundaries in modern relationships.

“I left my husband that I have been with for four years now. I am back to the street. We have two children together. I left him last week and the reason is since we came to the UK, he’s been wanting 50/50.”

— Nigerian Lady says. pic.twitter.com/iIC1ug3us8

— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) June 9, 2026

where you have always belonged because it's where you came from after all

"I'm back to the streets."
do you even hear how that sound?
you are back to the streets where you belong I guess

HacheNoire:
Some dudes already dusting their penis waiting for her on same street.

Lol. No mind her. Body go tell her. She will regret that decision trust me. The worst is that many of the men that will pipe her won't even give her anything.

Person wey don born two children, it kor be say na abroad no guy go take her serious say serious relationship; a mother of two who abandoned her marriage. She go hear whim.

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139665380]“I’m back to the street” – Abroad-based Nigerian woman dumps husband over 50/50 marriage dispute

An abroad-based Nigerian woman has shared why she walked out of her four-year marriage, revealing that she left her husband and returned to single life after repeated disagreements over finances.

In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), she explained that they had been operating a 50/50 arrangement since relocating abroad, sharing bills and responsibilities equally.

In her words, she said:

“Since we are doing 50/50, yes we are doing it, but now you still want to collect part of my money. We have been sharing everything equally, so why is my own personal money now a problem?”

The situation reportedly escalated after the couple received a backdated company payment of about £4,000 for work previously carried out.

According to her, her husband insisted that she contribute part of the money despite their agreement to split responsibilities equally in the home, a demand she said led to a major conflict between them.

“We are doing 50/50, but you still want to control my money. You even calculated how much I should bring from my personal earnings. That was my breaking point,” she added.

Her revelation has since sparked mixed reactions online, with social media users debating whether 50/50 arrangements truly work in marriages, especially among couples living abroad.

The situation has also reignited conversations about money, control, and financial boundaries in modern relationships.

“I left my husband that I have been with for four years now. I am back to the street. We have two children together. I left him last week and the reason is since we came to the UK, he’s been wanting 50/50.”

— Nigerian Lady says. pic.twitter.com/iIC1ug3us8

— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) June 9, 2026

gone show her what's what.

You not meet any messiah on the street
The street will ruined you
That street in your eye will end up damage you
You will not know now until old age
This gender are left side creator of God . Never satisfied , never obey , never submissive, never listen . They must find excuses !!!

She's fully open to mining now.....drillers and loaders are waiting....

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139665380]“I’m back to the street” – Abroad-based Nigerian woman dumps husband over 50/50 marriage dispute

An abroad-based Nigerian woman has shared why she walked out of her four-year marriage, revealing that she left her husband and returned to single life after repeated disagreements over finances.

In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), she explained that they had been operating a 50/50 arrangement since relocating abroad, sharing bills and responsibilities equally.

In her words, she said:

“Since we are doing 50/50, yes we are doing it, but now you still want to collect part of my money. We have been sharing everything equally, so why is my own personal money now a problem?”

The situation reportedly escalated after the couple received a backdated company payment of about £4,000 for work previously carried out.

According to her, her husband insisted that she contribute part of the money despite their agreement to split responsibilities equally in the home, a demand she said led to a major conflict between them.

“We are doing 50/50, but you still want to control my money. You even calculated how much I should bring from my personal earnings. That was my breaking point,” she added.

Her revelation has since sparked mixed reactions online, with social media users debating whether 50/50 arrangements truly work in marriages, especially among couples living abroad.

The situation has also reignited conversations about money, control, and financial boundaries in modern relationships.

“I left my husband that I have been with for four years now. I am back to the street. We have two children together. I left him last week and the reason is since we came to the UK, he’s been wanting 50/50.”

— Nigerian Lady says. pic.twitter.com/iIC1ug3us8

— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) June 9, 2026

No easy at all

U ve 1m like 200l na him u get after tax