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All these men should go and find something else to do. Leave the women to fight for themselves... I believe they know what to do. Moreover, there are enough agencies to report domestic violence against women to.

shortgun:
Igbo Men? I am disappointed with this generalizing, it shows dense illiteracy. You people will just come online to show your vile, bitterness and frustration

You wouldn't have called it generalization if it read "Igbo men are the most handsome men in the world". You are also not triggered by me generalizing Igbo women in same post. I bet that one can fly and it tells more about you.

GloriousGbola:
hmm

you sure say no be jman06 be this

the wife be like - i never enter uni - i gats to manage this man

Ta hell with thee!

Typical Africans.
They can only talk with their fists.
They don't produce anything, just begging and commuting crimes all over the world.

Buy the Nigerian constitution and argue with it.

ddippset:
At least you are a Nigerian and an African.

Does an 18 year old Nigerian girl look like an adult to you mentally and physically?

You see female offspring? If them wan disgrace you, dem go carry the entire shame of the wall dump on any good name their family had remaining.

P.S Start training your female kids on skill, Street smart, self worth, justice and independence (no be feminism o) from age 9. They will not wait to grow up so don't wait either.

Her mum is late
She and her siblings were taken away from her dad when her mum died at the age of seven.. she started dating this dude from when she was 15. Her dad just got to know about her whereabouts yesterday because of this incident according to a phone in by a member of the dad's family to Harrison

ednut1:
Shame on her parents for allowing this man groom her from 15 years old. Poor people stop having kids you can’t train please

pocohantas:
You wouldn't have called it generalization if it read "Igbo men are the most handsome men in the world". You are also not triggered by me generalizing Igbo women in same post. I bet that one can fly and it tells more about you.

I expected you to substantiate your original claim, not to give me a lecture on what generalization means.

You made a claim about how millions of Igbo men beat their wives.
What study did you conduct? What data are you relying on? What methodology did you use to arrive at that conclusion?

If you can't provide an evidence then your statement an ethnic slur and bigotry dressed as an opinion

Just wait until this same girl enters/finds her way to Lagos— she'll begin to claim more polished even than the famous "Kiwi" polish!

Its like those lovers that you see the man brutally beating her, then the next day they are together loving...

Leepeak:
Saw it on TikTok today
Na she sabi
That's the effect of preeq on the human body

Nope! She is going through emotional and psychological trauma. The trauma has led her to low self-esteem.

shortgun:
I expected you to substantiate your original claim, not to give me a lecture on what generalization means.

You wouldn't ask me for this if it was a compliment. Stop being emotional.

ednut1:
Shame on her parents for allowing this man groom her from 15 years old. Poor people stop having kids you can’t train please

As in ! One old man has been pounding this girls sweet spot since she was 15 , I dont know how men find under 18 girls attractive? It still baffles me , you carry 15 year old girl who is still learning about herself and life put for house and expect her to be a perfect wife without grooming her .

There's the high level of Stockholm Syndrome between Nigerians and their politicians, you need not go far just hop on Nairaland and see most of them defending those destroying what's left of the country, same scenario is what is happening between this woman and so called husband.

For someone like, I offer no suggestion or advice in this kind of case.

Ire o.

nairalanda1:
Mother was dead. Father did not approve of the marriage. But she no hear.

Blame the village elders for letting this travesty stand

And also the sweetness of the deek. At 18, from 15, that may be the only deek she’s tasted and may not be aware that they’re even sweeter deeks. So the fear of losing her sweet deek may also suffice

I see ppl debut k the effect of preen in the young girl's brain and laugh.
The brain has been tamed from budding stage, what else do you expect?

You mean ibo town meeting? You are right anyway, we need am badly. The rate at which my people dey beat and hurt housemaids is wicked and sad. Also, the way wey dey maltreats some of our wives too.... Too bad.... We shouldn't wait for other tribes to start pointing fingers at us. This is what Igbo elders Consultative forum supposed dey do, even the Ohanaeze Ndigbo forum should be concerned.... I tire for this matter.... Spreading like wildfire among my people....

In this era, with the current technological advancement we have...


It's almost impossible to believe some are still this daft.

Talk about being in love with your chains,

That's Stockholm syndrome. She will certainly go back to the man. He has a psychological strangle hold on her. I know those kind of women. They love their men beating the shit out of them. They are damaged souls unless they want to be rescued.

Leepeak:
Saw it on TikTok today
Na she sabi
That's the effect of preeq on the human body

She must be the culprit

jmichael259:
You see female offspring? If them wan disgrace you, dem go carry the entire shame of the wall dump on any good name their family had remaining.

P.S Start training your female kids on skill, Street smart, self worth, justice and independence (no be feminism o) from age 9. They will not wait to grow up so don't wait either.

Male kids ruin the family by becoming murderers, rapists and deadly criminals. So, start by training your male kids to stay off crime so they won't end up ruining the peace in your home and making life unbearable for others including our female kids. 😏😏😏

Iamcute:
Her mum is late
She and her siblings were taken away from her dad when her mum died at the age of seven.. she started dating this dude from when she was 15. Her dad just got to know about her whereabouts yesterday because of this incident according to a phone in by a member of the dad's family to Harrison

Is the guy the person in dreads standing by her bedside?

See the old woman they're claiming is 18 years old just to nail the man! Agreed the man erred by beating up his wife but I suspect there's a serious conspiracy to promote an agenda here.

I can swear with anything I hold dear that that lady up there is far above 18! This penchant by some woke wannabes to give a dog a bad name just to hang it must stop! Sentiments and the quest to be seen as woke must not be utilised in handling domestic issues in this country. This is because when we allow such, some people are bound to capitalise on it in pursuing their selfish agenda.

The man should be punished for the offence of domestic violence and nothing more please!

meobizy:
Buy the Nigerian constitution and argue with it.

I thought you were ready to look beyond the constitution and apply logic for a second.

The Western world says 18 years and we went and did copy and paste.

We that have stunted growth and underdevelopment.

An 18 year old Nigerian girl is only as physically and mentally grown as a 14 year old European or American.

Jman06:
See the old woman they're claiming is 18 years old just to nail the man! Agreed the man erred by beating up his wife but I suspect there's a serious conspiracy to promote an agenda here.

I can swear with anything I hold dear that that lady up there is far above 18! This penchant by some woke wannabes to give a dog a bad name just to hang it must stop! Sentiments and the quest to be seen as woke must not be utilised in handling domestic issues in this country. This is because when we allow such, some people are bound to capitalise on it in pursuing their selfish agenda.

The man should be punished for the offence of domestic violence and nothing more please!

Don't worry, after a year with your potbelly your groomed wife will look 40

The mumu man is just beating a good woman who loves him and loyal to him . Don't she have brothers to mend him small let him taste beating.