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Tickles001:
Women will find a way to cry about everything. A woman's body is designed to do all that safely.
If you are finding it difficult then you are a weak woman or you have a health problem.

Women in the past have been doing it without all the assistance available today.
So, do it and shut up.

Na WA o....A man's body is designed/ fabricated for LABOR/ WORK, I wonder why they still want 50-50? Or, these men are weak ones?

Don't ignore the signs, if not you go see wonders, start saving for your twins.
Your gf get belle like 2 weeks old.
Congratulations

Negroid001:
Wahala ooo. I just dey see baby related ads and post everywhere. Even on nairaland😫😫

Ok

Tickles001:
Women will find a way to cry about everything. A woman's body is designed to do all that safely.
If you are finding it difficult then you are a weak woman or you have a health problem.

Women in the past have been doing it without all the assistance available today.
So, do it and shut up.

Bolded is correct. Red is wrong. Blue is possible. Some people react differently to what's "normal". Women are designed to handle childbirth without issues, and most do. Yet some die in it.

Do better. Show some understanding.

ukaface:
Shut up!!!
Are you okay?

Who raised you sef?

U shut up...he is absolutely right... u women cry over everything... even animals birth... but for una , una go de do like say na Jesus una de deliver

ukaface:
You are suffering because of woman?
Like you are not suffering because of yourself, you are not suffering for yourself to have a better life?
Don’t you think that’s foo. Lishness?
Them put gun for your head?
You don’t want good life too? Oh your good life is dependant on women? You are lost, then you don’t have purpose

Same thing can also be said about child birth ...did they force u to give birth?? Dem put gun for ur head ? U dont want child too??

JuanDeDios:
Bolded is correct. Red is wrong. Blue is possible. Some people react differently to what's "normal". Women are designed to handle childbirth without issues, and most do. Yet some die in it.

Do better. Show some understanding.

No. It's not wrong.
Weakness is finding it impossible or harder than usual to achieve what most people achieved, given the same circumstance.

If you have a strong pair of legs but can't walk a mile in a stretch, it's simple inadequacy. There's nothing to understand there.

Except there's a medical issue that stops you from doing so.

sharone21:
Na WA o....A man's body is designed/ fabricated for LABOR/ WORK, I wonder why they still want 50-50? Or, these men are weak ones?

Yes. No complete man would bitch his wife about 50-50. Where do you people even see that happening.
A woman that has 50 to give won't even dream of settling with a man that needs her 50.
Except you mean the drops of water in an ocean kind of support that women give their man.

But let's still not forget the situations are different. Men could be given birth better than women if we're naturally equipped for that.
I can't say the same for women in terms of LABOUR/WORK even when they are almost equally equipped.

When it comes to labour and provision, any man that is trying to balance his efforts with that of a woman is either inadequate or under the delusion of Western ideology.

CaptainJune:
The same way men are designed to put food on the table. Why then cry about hardship?

I don't see men complaining and seeking sympathy for being a provider. It's what we do on daily with pride.
That doesn't mean we shouldn't point out the ills in the system that is increasingly making it impossible to keep up.

Everything that can be done to make childbirth easier for women has been done and more are being developed. Provision has not received such attention to ease the burden on men.

But how are men particularly designed for it that women are not?

DeepSight:
Lousy.

Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

When you wake up is your morning. For the meantime, enjoy your slumber.

ukaface:
Shut up!!!
Are you okay?

Who raised you sef?

Keep emotions aside. Point out one lie in what I said.

Childbirth may not be the most pleasant experience, but women exaggerate the whole thing to score cheap points.

In the past, people literally gave birth in farms and walk home with the child in her hands. It's not that complicated, except the woman herself is inadequate.

EMMACHI1:
everyone forgets this one,
After baby is out, your uterus has to contract again to clamp down and deliver the placenta, and then keep contracting to stop bleeding. Those are called afterpains. They feel like strong period cramps, and they’re actually stronger with your 2nd, 3rd baby, because the uterus is a bit more stretchy.

Breastfeeding makes them spike, because suckling releases oxytocin, which is the same hormone that makes the uterus contract. So yes, that first breastfeed can hurt your belly. It’s a feature, not a bug — it’s shrinking your uterus back down.

Woman are special creature.. so they are just different being.

Tickles001:
No. It's not wrong.
Weakness is finding it impossible or harder than usual to achieve what most people achieved, given the same circumstance.

If you have a strong pair of legs but can't walk a mile in a stretch, it's simple inadequacy. There's nothing to understand there.

Except there's a medical issue that stops you from doing so.

Bolded is the koko. Circumstances are never the same. Even what you eat - now or when you were growing - can determine your ability to recover

Tickles001:
Women will find a way to cry about everything. A woman's body is designed to do all that safely.
If you are finding it difficult then you are a weak woman or you have a health problem.

Women in the past have been doing it without all the assistance available today.
So, do it and shut up.

If you are not a Woman, then you should be the first to practice what you preach by shutting up.

Tickles001:
When you wake up is your morning. For the meantime, enjoy your slumber.

Ol boy, your talk was lousy. It was gutter talk. No sane person should denigrate and laugh off the pains of pregnancy the way you did.
How old are you?

Tickles001:
I don't see men complaining and seeking sympathy for being a provider. It's what we do on daily with pride.

Lies. "To be a man nawa o," "men have shorter lives than women because of work hazards," "men carry the weight of the family on their shoulders," "a lot of men commit suicide over their inability to provide for their families..." etcetera. Do these statements ring a bell?

That doesn't mean we shouldn't point out the ills in the system that is increasingly making it impossible to keep up.

Granted, however, that does not mean the ills in the system are the sole reason for the quotes above depicting the burden of men.

Everything that can be done to make childbirth easier for women has been done and more are being developed. Provision has not received such attention to ease the burden on men.

Does that make childbearing any less dangerous? Haven't you read or heard women dying during childbirth even in reputable hospitals surrounded by well-qualified doctors?

But how are men particularly designed for it that women are not?

Do women possess strong frame like the men? The natural strength of men helps them to undertake physically demanding work. This is why God made the man the head of the house. He is much stronger by nature.

DeepSight:
Ol boy, your talk was lousy. It was gutter talk. No sane person should denigrate and laugh off the pains of pregnancy the way you did.
How old are you?

You are simply naive, emotional and lacking the ability to differentiate between what is real and what is not.

Childbirth might not be that pleasant, but it's not as dire as it's been painted.
It's just like saying I should acknowledge the pains of trekking that someone with legs pass through everyday from using their legs.

Tickles001:
You are simply naive, emotional and lacking the ability to differentiate between what is real and what is not.

Childbirth might not be that pleasant, but it's not as dire as it's been painted.
It's just like saying I should acknowledge the pains of trekking that someone with legs pass through everyday from using their legs.

How old are you?

Lies. "To be a man nawa o," "men have shorter lives than women because of work hazards," "men carry the weight of the family on their shoulders," "a lot of men commit suicide over their inability to provide for their families..." etcetera. Do these statements ring a bell?

You still went ahead that men provide with pride and don't bitch about it. The reason some men commit suicide when they are unable to partake in that pride.
They didn't feel despair because they provide, they despaired because they could NOT provide.
It's hard to provide on a steady, but we still do it
It's hard to wake up early everyday and go out, but we still do it.
We don't write a long epistle about it.

Granted, however, that does not mean the ills in the system are the sole reason for the quotes above depicting the burden of men.

The ills and the restructuring of the society to become gynocentric is exactly why more men are finding hard to keep up. Think back 30yrs ago. A poor man can well provide for a family of 9, but today a middle class is struggling with a family of 4. What do you think changed.

Does that make childbearing any less dangerous? Haven't you read or heard women dying during childbirth even in reputable hospitals surrounded by well-qualified doctors?

Yes. That made childbirth a hundred times less dangerous, if we're to be truthful. Now we have proven solutions to most childbirth complications. Situations that either claimed lives in the past or scared the mother and child for life.

People still die from everything, that people die from something doesn't mean it's so dangerous. Those who died are either as a result of avoidable accident, or they were simply too weak to see it through.

Do women possess strong frame like the men? The natural strength of men helps them to undertake physically demanding work. This is why God made the man the head of the house. He is much stronger by nature.

The economy is not labour driven anymore. Women can do almost all the lucrative economic ventures of today.
Men are much stronger. Yes. But the economy has shifted from strength based.
So, it can be said that men have no special advantage in making money and providing more than women do. If anything, women are more favoured in the work market.

GloriousGbola:
childbirth is gay

didnt you get the memo?

Honestly, these people.

Tickles001:
Women will find a way to cry about everything. A woman's body is designed to do all that safely.
If you are finding it difficult then you are a weak woman or you have a health problem.

Women in the past have been doing it without all the assistance available today.
So, do it and shut up.

I really pity your wife

Wait till artificial wombs becomes a thing. Women will finally be free from these shackles and fully live.

femi4:
No one talks about the pain of trying to gain an erection but it just wont rise...men are trying

hmmmn Competition Competition Competition

Fortune118005:
Hmmm. Women are actually trying! May the Lord increase their strength!

Amen in Jesus mighty name 🙏

Holluwhakemmy:
I really pity your wife

The mistake women make is assuming someone is a bad person because they stated the logical and observable truth.
No woman in my life knows me as a bad person.

The only thing I'm guilty of is not being a woman wrapper. But I treat everyone as they should be treated. Regardless of gender

Tickles001:
The mistake women make is assuming someone is a bad person because they stated the logical and observable truth.
No woman in my life knows me as a bad person.

The only thing I'm guilty of is not being a woman wrapper. But I treat everyone as they should be treated. Regardless of gender

but from your previous comment you will be (Odaju)

Holluwhakemmy:
I really pity your wife

As in seriously

Holluwhakemmy:
but from your previous comment you will be (Odaju)

You are yet to point out the part of that comment that wasn't true. Does a bird get praised for flying, or a fish for swimming.

Women are designed to give birth flawlessly and recover within hours, any woman that can not is simply flawed.

femi4:
No one talks about the pain of trying to gain an erection but it just wont rise...men are trying

VERY TRUE. Men are underappreciated. Women make so much noise about very little things.

Tickles001:
Women will find a way to cry about everything. A woman's body is designed to do all that safely.
If you are finding it difficult then you are a weak woman or you have a health problem.

Women in the past have been doing it without all the assistance available today.
So, do it and shut up.

God bless you. We have had enough of this exaggerations about what women. The deception is just too much.