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There should be public awareness and terms and conditions when anyone is living with you from outside your immediate family.

eepeepook:
I’m joking because your thread is pointless. Tradition dictates that men should be the head of the home. It is not so in many cases. There are some households where the abused child is the woman’s relative. Once the man tries to put things in order, a family meeting is called where her uncles and aunts will choose to berate his authority. We all know once bitten, twice shy. The man will look away and do his thing. Also, the husband wasn’t the one who did the abusing. What concerns him in the matter?

Omo people dey o!!!!
And people manage líked your dopemu comment

Wives should also be arrested in cases where husbands sleep with minors. Let the law be 50/50.

chidiokay:
You might be saying some reality somewhere But thst excuse no hold water, if she is mal treating her relatives under your toof, asa man even if she doesnt regard you, reach out to the child parent let them come nd see there child situation
if the parent are insane or unmoved, Tell them to take there child nd go, hold your ground

Even the weakiest man wil always have a choice, Most of these husbands that look away do it cos. thry share some element of evil in them tew
they look away for selfish reasons that doesnt even make sense, i don't want are to accuse me i love the child over her
if i talk naw, 2 month she miht not open her leg,

i support, the Man also should be arrested & punished

Wives should also be held complicit if their husbands sleep with minors. 50/50.

LollyP94:
Why are Nigerians so shallow-minded like this for God's sake.

Can you smell what you wrote up there, c'mon man, the OP is 10000000000000000% correct about this. I'm a Man too. But he is totally on point 💯

There is no way the accounts agreeing with this aren’t moderators’ alternates. Engagement in this forum means one has to disregard common sense.

Wives should be complicit when their husbands sleep outside with minors. Goose and gander.

Razorman:
what's this one saying? Can't you read and understand bed re commenting?

Yet we see many instances of domestic abuse on men.

“No man should…”

Saladdin:
I believe you're joking with the submission you made above? A man with his head intact should not allow any form of abuse. I fully support the OP, the man also ought to be arrested for aiding and abetting a crime.

As long as you live under the roof and authority of a responsible man, you have no right to abuse anybody relative or not. Discipline is different from abuse, the former is acceptable, but the latter must never be tolerated. Carry the child to your relative's house and abuse, not his.

Everybody has their individual way of thinking.

Parachoko:
As for me if the uncles and aunts choose to berate my authority, my wife and the kid will have to move out.

I can never allow such a thing happen in my family and home

I concur 100%

Likewise, wives of men who sleep with their househelps should also be held responsible

LeopardX:
I believe that husbands whose wives abuse domestic helps should also be arrested and investigated.
Too often, we hear terrible stories of children and domestic workers being tortured inside homes. Recently, reports emerged of a woman who allegedly poured hot water and candle wax on a young child in her care. Such cruelty and evil act does not usually happen in one minute or in complete secrecy. Someone in the house often sees the signs, hears the cries, or notices the injuries.

A husband should not be allowed to simply say, "I didn't know." If a child is being abused repeatedly in a home, every responsible adult in that home should answer questions from the police. If investigations show that the husband knew about the abuse, ignored it, encouraged it, or failed to report it, then he should face the law alongside his wife.

Children and domestic helps are human beings, for crying out loud. A home should be a place of safety, not a place of fear and torture. Holding all responsible adults accountable will help discourage abuse and protect vulnerable people.
Silence can sometimes be as dangerous as the abuse itself.

And since this issue is common place in our society today, there should be a law holding husbands of these women equally responsible for these crimes against children and domestic help.

What do you guys think?

Women you people just find ways to drag men into your problem. If the man brutalize the child, you won't hear them say the woman should be arrested.
Man cheat... he's a dog
Woman cheat ... My husband doesn't have my time
Man beat wife... Wicked man and arrested
Woman beat man... Weak man and everyone laughs
Poor woman ... Independent and hardworking woman
Poor man... Broke nigga and doesn't deserve a woman
Woman's money... Her money
Man's money... Wife, children, his, inlaws and whole family money
Woman divorce... Keeps the children and shares property with the man
Man divorce...lost the children, lost property and keep paying child support
The list goes on and on. Now a wife brutalize a child, the man too should pay. Many cases, the man isn't aware. Some men who work far and comes home like once a week, a month or even 3-6 months. Even the ones that comes home daily leaves in the morning and comes back at night. The child will be afraid to tell the man because the evil woman has threatened the child.
Please take your fall and stop dragging men always for your fall.
Although, If the man is aware of it and does nothing about it on record, then yes he should also serve punishment too.

eepeepook:
Wives should be complicit when their husbands sleep outside with minors. Goose and gander.

what you are writing is not related to the topic. Oga, read before commenting

eepeepook:
Wives should also be arrested in cases where husbands sleep with minors. Let the law be 50/50.

i don't know what you are on about, however Wife naa see her husband sleep with a minor/under age should be arrested, so far she is aware its going on

the question is how many husband will sleep with thrre house maid in front of the wife ... you see say somethings no make sense

We are talking talking domestic abuse, visible pain and eounds to the child body ...the husband can not say i did not see any wound/marks on the child body, infact wicked women don't care if the man is atound or not

so your gender war attempt make no relevance here

eepeepook:
Everybody has their individual way of thinking.

Yes sha

In Anambra, The man who didn't stop his wife from abusing the kid living with them, his now chopping watery beans at a Correctional Facility in Anambra state alongside his wife who commited the crime.

He will also spend time behind bars for not doing anything while his Wife was harming the kid

I'm not ready to go to jail because of someone's else mistake.

I cherish my Freedom and Peace Of Mind

Shift the goal post very well. Men who sleep with minors don’t necessarily target house helps, especially in cases where the help is an adult woman.

chidiokay:
i don't know what you are on about, however Wife naa see her husband sleep with a minor/under age should be arrested, so far she is aware its going on

the question is how many husband will sleep with thrre house maid in front of the wife ... you see say somethings no make sense

We are talking talking domestic abuse, visible pain and eounds to the child body ...the husband can not say i did not see any wound/marks on the child body, infact wicked women don't care if the man is atound or not

so your gender war attempt make no relevance here

Is not related, how? It’s a similar instance.

Razorman:
what you are writing is not related to the topic. Oga, read before commenting

eepeepook:
Shift the goal post very well. Men who sleep with minors don’t necessarily target house helps, especially in cases where the help is an adult woman.

you really ned to borrow head, i ask those men that sleep with minor do they do it with knowledge of there wife ... wil i be cheating with minor and my wife will be seeing us going out together, romancingg and she will look away or support

So your arguement here is very lame, ko make sense, how can a wife be accomplice to what was hidden from her. think b4 you talk

She will hear stories.

chidiokay:
you really ned to borrow head, i ask those men that sleep with minor do they do it with knowledge of there wife ... wil i be cheating with minor and my wife will be seeing us going out together, romancingg and she will look away or support

So your arguement here is very lame, ko make sense, how can a wife be accomplice to what was hidden from her. think b4 you talk

eepeepook:
She will hear stories.

now i can see you a skitmaker ... bye

Man don block all roads for excuses. The boy run. ROFLMAO.

chidiokay:
now i can see you a skitmaker ... bye

eepeepook:
Man don block all roads for excuses. The boy run. ROFLMAO.

persin wey see you wey no run, no get work nii

ROFLMAO.

chidiokay:
persin wey see you wey no run, no get work nii

Dshocker:
You open your mouth waaaaaaa, and talk for talking sake, if it were to be you, would you report your wife?

As a wise man, what you are expected to do is return the child back to their parents, because if you dare report your wife, it means you don't want peace for the rest of your life and she will see you as a threat and can poison you over little issue.

You talk as if marriage is a binding contract that is without the option of separation.

eepeepook:
Wives should also be held complicit if their husbands sleep with minors. 50/50.

100% supported as well.