₦airaland Forum

They are relationship bandits...

many ladies have missed alot of opportunities due to this beg beg mentality.

i attended a workshop in one of these big Hotels in Victoria Island with my boss, then i saw this beautiful looking lady that was one of the ladies serving the tables, their company was the one that was incharge of the venue & logistics.

after the 2nd day of the workshop, i approached her, we gisted, exchanged numbers.

then 2 days later, we got chatting, only for her to tell me that she doesnt have transport fare to go to work the next day, Una i just weak.

the next day, she said that if i can support her financially, that there is no food in her house including Gas..

Omoh, i just blocked her number and her poverlty ass.. Asap..

and fled for my life.

Alot, of poor girls from poor homes are destroying this dating and relationship market in Nigeria.

bentenny:
'Tomorrow is my birthday'
'my gas will soon finish'
'i haven't eaten since last month'

“I'm hungry,” this one dey sweet me pass ...... B4 God and man I keep replying them “wow! Nice name.”

folake4u:
The men are also looking for sex without commitment.

Nigerian women fit Nigerian men.

EOD.

The women also want sex.

But unlike men, they won't tell you

I appreciate.

israelmao:
I am with the few

At his big age he’s still worried about what girls are doing. Seems like there’s no growing up for him.

CodeTemplar:
Our tradition and societal norms in black Africa is 95% self-preservation inspired.

You nailed it. And strangely choices made outside this motive ends in difficulties. For example, marrying just because of love, na experience go teach you things. Or studying political science…where agberos de rule. That explains why we are still a third world country.

Ask Nigeria girls out . what you will hear is can you take care of me ? How much can you spend on me ?
Beggers in disguise

A girl died today. She's a student of Kwara Poly. She left Ilorin for Badagri, Lagos without telling her mother. She stayed with a guy for some weeks, a neighbor (male) who travelled to Badagri saw her with her boyfriend.

She returned home very sick, her mother thought she's in school all this while.

When the news of her death filtered in, the guy could not tell her mother that she's in Lagos all this while.

Nollywood has eaten deep into him; marriage has never been about love from the beginning; keep fooling urselfs

israelmao:
A woman who has high sense of worth and value will not go after man for a morsel of bread but for integrity,high moral standard and great potential.

A man who has a high sense of worth and value will not go after a woman for "secks" and just to get into her pants but for commitment, integrity and marriage consideration.

22tiger:
Ask Nigeria girls out . what you will hear is can you take care of me ? How much can you spend on me ?
Beggers in disguise

When a Nigerian guy asks a lady out, what you will hear is, I am single even when they are married. Or I am married but I no longer love my wife, she is a witch, she's not a wife material, she doesnt give me peace, she's now fat like pig she can't cook and she's not supportive .
I need a young lady that can give me peace and make me happy...do you live alone? When will you come and visit me? Are you good in bed? Can I see your sexy pics? Bunch of liars and sex starved men in disguise.

Fiscus105:
Most men want commitment but outrageous billings discouraging them. You cannot go out to visit your girl/woman for fun, talking and gisting, you must cough something over there.

Nothing kills sprit of commitment faster than over-billings. Even to chat hello, the next is " I'm broke", I'm hungry, I need money, send me card"![/b]

Sorry, but many men don't want commitment. They want to get the milk without buying the cow. As a man, I understand. I always argue that our women should charge for sex because even if/when they don't, they get labelled ashawo.

Lastly, Nigeria is a poor country; poor and prudish.

favinvest:
many ladies have missed alot of opportunities due to this beg beg mentality.
y life.

A lot, of poor girls from poor homes are destroying this dating and relationship market in Nigeria.

Nigeria is a country filled with poor people. Why do we have this belief that Nigerians are wealthy?

Kwinesther:
When a Nigerian guy asks a lady out, what you will hear is, I am single even when they are married. Or I am married but I no longer love my wife, she is a witch, she's not a wife material, she doesnt give me peace, she's now fat like pig she can't cook and she's not supportive .
I need a young lady that can give me peace and make me happy...do you live alone? When will you come and visit me? Are you good in bed? Can I see your sexy pics? Bunch of liars and sex starved men in disguise.

Don't blame them. Their wives deliberately deny them sex. What should they do, soapy?

Gerrard59:
Don't blame them. Their wives deliberately deny them sex. What should they do, soapy?

Keep deceiving yourselves. So all those men having side chicks, all their wives are denying them sexDoes that justify their acts of putting up all those lies against their wives just to get laid? Going by your words, married women that their husbands also deny sex, doesn't give them money for upkeep or refuses to be responsible, their wives should also go out to sleep with other men so as to get sex, money and attention??

Such noise

Kwinesther:
Keep deceiving yourselves. So all those men having side chicks, all their wives are denying them sexDoes that justify their acts of putting up all those lies against their wives just to get laid? Going by your words, married women that their husbands also deny sex, doesn't give them money for upkeep or refuses to be responsible, their wives should also go out to sleep with other men so as to get sex, money and attention??

Gerrard59:
Sorry, but many men don't want commitment. They want to get the milk without buying the cow. As a man, I understand. I always argue that our women should charge for sex because even if/when they don't, they get labelled ashawo.

Lastly, Nigeria is a poor country; poor and prudish.

I guess you are speaking from your family perspective! The mind of teenager is nurtured by experience of his upbringing. What man see his father and doing, he would think it's the best and what society must emulate.

Kwinesther:
Keep deceiving yourselves. So all those men having side chicks, all their wives are denying them sexDoes that justify their acts of putting up all those lies against their wives just to get laid? Going by your words, married women that their husbands also deny sex, doesn't give them money for upkeep or refuses to be responsible, their wives should also go out to sleep with other men so as to get sex, money and attention??

That actually happens in most cases. Why should a husband deliberately deny his wife sex?