₦airaland Forum

Good evening everyone.

I'm looking for sincere advice because my younger sister is going through a very stressful situation.

She Refer This Called :https://source.steadyreview.blog/pong/

She is a university student, and one of her lecturers, who is married and much older than her, has been making repeated advances toward her. He keeps asking her to meet privately, sends messages frequently, and has hinted that being "friendly" with him could make things easier academically.

She has politely declined every invitation and has tried to avoid encouraging him in any way. However, she is now worried because he teaches one of her core courses and she fears that rejecting him could affect her grades.

Recently, the pressure has become so overwhelming that she broke down in tears. She doesn't want any relationship with him, but she's also afraid of possible retaliation if she reports him.

Has anyone experienced something similar? What would be the safest and most practical way for her to handle this without putting her education at risk?

Any respectful advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

petrsgrs:
Good evening everyone.

I'm looking for sincere advice because my younger sister is going through a very stressful situation.

She Refer This Called :https://source.steadyreview.blog/pong/

She is a university student, and one of her lecturers, who is married and much older than her, has been making repeated advances toward her. He keeps asking her to meet privately, sends messages frequently, and has hinted that being "friendly" with him could make things easier academically.

She has politely declined every invitation and has tried to avoid encouraging him in any way. However, she is now worried because he teaches one of her core courses and she fears that rejecting him could affect her grades.

Recently, the pressure has become so overwhelming that she broke down in tears. She doesn't want any relationship with him, but she's also afraid of possible retaliation if she reports him.

Has anyone experienced something similar? What would be the safest and most practical way for her to handle this without putting her education at risk?

Any respectful advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

It depends on what you want, if you want the lecturer to back down, she should just tell him politely that she is not interested jokingly, but if he should take it seriously, then threaten him to back down.

Better start gathering evidence of phone call recording, messages, etc. Student harassment is a serious case, just write a petition to ICPC, a petition to the school board, present your case before presenting evidence, don't warn him you are gathering evidence, don't threaten him if he doesn't threaten you.

Most importantly, face your study so you won't be at his Mercy

This story again?

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Let her suspend the studies and learn a trade,sleeping with atimes coñvalesçent old bogus man for àn empty meaningless coloured printed paper that may or may not add value is stupidity.70% of Nigerian lecturers are adding values in sex escapades,a pride of being an academic in a skill-lagged and skill-slacked economy with expatriates constructing roads and bridges.

It's just to to na

petrsgrs:
Good evening everyone.

I'm looking for sincere advice because my younger sister is going through a very stressful situation.

She Refer This Called :https://source.steadyreview.blog/pong/

She is a university student, and one of her lecturers, who is married and much older than her, has been making repeated advances toward her. He keeps asking her to meet privately, sends messages frequently, and has hinted that being "friendly" with him could make things easier academically.

She has politely declined every invitation and has tried to avoid encouraging him in any way. However, she is now worried because he teaches one of her core courses and she fears that rejecting him could affect her grades.

Recently, the pressure has become so overwhelming that she broke down in tears. She doesn't want any relationship with him, but she's also afraid of possible retaliation if she reports him.

Has anyone experienced something similar? What would be the safest and most practical way for her to handle this without putting her education at risk?

Any respectful advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Arrange a sting operation to catch him redhanded.

When caught, just assure him that all what you want is for him to back down. He must also not victimize you in terms of grades. His fellow colleagues must also not victimize you.

It's easy to get evidence with numerous gadgets available at your disposal, just do the needful to set him up and use the evidence against him by publishing it to the relevant authorities to handle the matter

She should get a prayer book and go to the page that says:

“PRAYER AGAINST TYRANTS and OPPRESSORS”

He will be running from her whenever he sees her!

It doesn’t matter what religion she follows. All religions have prayer book.

Lecturers won't change

They can go to any lent

Get DSS involved into the matter, let her record every conversation with him or if possible try to record a video of him trying to make any move on her.

Even though I don't support harassment. Is it not better that your sister date a lecturer who will assist in her career development than dating those yahhoo boys who will bleep her wetin no good and still dump her. If people particularly women tell you what they sacrificed to be where they are today, you will shout. The only thing that will save her is if she is intelligent. If she is a product of miracle center, she should be ready for more bleepings. People should allow lecturers breathe.. As if your sister is a virgin.

Does she have evidence of this harassments? If she does, she can report the randy lecturer to any godly lecturer in her department or the Dean of students. If not let her start keeping evidence as much as possible because such lecturers lie pass Lai Mohammed

eepeepook:
This story again?

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I had to check the date posted twice make I never go nornor.

At this point, the op no suppose let bygones be bygones, him for don light am one.

Just know that he's not an ordinary lecturer. He may belong to a cg, and if this isn't handled carefully, he could still harm your sister despite the evidence you have.
Only strong, credible evidence presented to the appropriate authorities can bring him to justice. For now, let her remain focused on her studies and avoid any unnecessary confrontation while the matter is being handled.
Also, don't rely solely on the police. Report the case to the appropriate authorities and relevant human rights agencies once you have strong, credible evidence. There is a good chance that your sister is not his first victim, I'm very sure.

Diamond098454:
Lecturers won't change

They can go to any lent