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Re: What Should I Do by Idowuuu(op): 8:48am On Jul 10
laivwire:
Good. Stay focused.

The sufferings of the present times cannot be compared to the glory that will be revealed in you.

You are also there to gain from her, the only thing you can give her back is joy from being happy having you around. Try your best to align with her expectations. If she trains you, excel. If she favours you, show gratitude, if she puts you in charge of her business, make sure it's generating income for her. She would be happy to repay the favour.

When you grow and become strong enough to be independent, you can leave and live your life as you please. It's others that would be trying to please you at that stage so you can be happy to help them.
Thank you very much sir
I really appreciate
Re: What Should I Do by chicfarmer: 10:31am On Jul 10
Idowuuu:
She came to pick me up at my friend's place yesterday and I was surprised because I didn't expect it
It's a good sign, but also make it clear to her that you won't accept poor treatment from her anymore. Also inform your family members of this development. Continue to show her respect and maintain your good behavior.

I wish you all the best wink
Re: What Should I Do by Dtruthspeaker: 12:18pm On Jul 10
Idowuuu:
Have always been good to her and am sure she knows and probably thats why she's want me back
Well she came to pick me up at my friend's place yesterday and I was surprised
I know. If you had not been good sje won't have looked for you.

So, you went back with her? Anyway i understand. But i hope you are God fearing as in over seriously God fearing (For that is the only good way up) for now it's going to get worser for you. For human beings especially women are very Wike...d and they love being Wike. ..d. So, she this period she would behave herself because God has dealt with her for your sake but in a few months time, shell start again and this time, if you do not have God, it would be very very bad for you and this time nothing will happen to her because she will wisely set you up big time and you will fall for it, if you do not have God. I know this because I was/is in it but I'm fine because God is with me and I hold on to Him with my whole life. And you are not the first that this is happening to and almost everybody has fallen.

I bet you are a virgin and you still do not carry no follow women, so bro, you are in trouble because you be dev enemy and he no go gree your case
Re: What Should I Do by Dtruthspeaker: 12:21pm On Jul 10
laivwire:
Good. Stay focused.

The sufferings of the present times cannot be compared to the glory that will be revealed in you.
Only if he takes the right steps, if not he is going to join the millions of agberos, thieves, thugs, murderers and ritualist out in the street and bush
Re: What Should I Do by Idowuuu(op): 1:46pm On Jul 10
Dtruthspeaker:
I know. If you had not been good sje won't have looked for you.

So, you went back with her? Anyway i understand. But i hope you are God fearing as in over seriously God fearing (For that is the only good way up) for now it's going to get worser for you. For human beings especially women are very Wike...d and they love being Wike. ..d. So, she this period she would behave herself because God has dealt with her for your sake but in a few months time, shell start again and this time, if you do not have God, it would be very very bad for you and this time nothing will happen to her because she will wisely set you up big time and you will fall for it, if you do not have God. I know this because I was/is in it but I'm fine because God is with me and I hold on to Him with my whole life. And you are not the first that this is happening to and almost everybody has fallen.

I bet you are a virgin and you still do not carry no follow women, so bro, you are in trouble because you be dev enemy and he no go gree your case
Haa well,I am a positive person and I believe no matter the circumstances I will survive.
You really need to see the way she changed since yesterday.She even transferred significant money to my account
I just want to finish my education and my training
Thanks for your concern sir
I really appreciate
Re: What Should I Do by Idowuuu(op): 1:52pm On Jul 10
chicfarmer:
It's a good sign, but also make it clear to her that you won't accept poor treatment from her anymore. Also inform your family members of this development. Continue to show her respect and maintain your good behavior.

I wish you all the best wink
Yes she knows the reason why I ran away in the first place and my family are aware of everything.
I wasn't even prepared to go back yet but she came unannounced with her friend.She even transferred money to my account and I was surprised actually
Thanks for your contribution sir
I appreciate
Re: What Should I Do by Abcruz(m): 2:01pm On Jul 10
You shouldn't have left. I had my own harsh treatment from an aunty while growing up but I endured until I was done with my secondary school. If she's taking care of your bills and housing you, just endure until you're done with with school and secure a good job.

It's not easy out there. Your friend housing you will get tired of you few months from now and ask you to leave. Will you go back to your parents house and start from square zero?
Re: What Should I Do by Dtruthspeaker: 5:18pm On Jul 10
Idowuuu:
Haa well,I am a positive person and I believe no matter the circumstances I will survive.
You really need to see the way she changed since yesterday.She even transferred significant money to my account
I just want to finish my education and my training
Thanks for your concern sir
I really appreciate
Yes, you will live but how would you live? It is you who decides it.

What did you expect her to do before?
All this is just the welcome back package. But good luck
Re: What Should I Do by Idowuuu(op): 7:35pm On Jul 10
Dtruthspeaker:
Yes, you will live but how would you live? It is you who decides it.

What did you expect her to do before?
All this is just the welcome back package. But good luck
Thanks you boss
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