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WatchYourSix:
If u are not very light skinned , I don’t see the point of having tattoos……

. It always looking weird …

Would they hear....they just want to have a tattoo that has no meaning to them....

Are there no yellow or white tattoo inks that black skin people can use?

At the root of this is inability to be accommodating and take responsibilities.In addition,fear acquired from many collapsed marriages.

The idea of having the option to live separately from your partner is great, but like most things in life it will have its challenges.
For instance, what happens when you start having kids ? How do you raise them ?

Won't waste my data to watch that rubbish.

So isn't that his business? Why should this concern anybody?

JASONjnr:
Nonsense thing.....


Me that's enjoying everything about my wife....... The last time my wife traveled I was happy but that happiness lasted for just minutes then I started missing her....I was tempted to travel to meet with her... Omo na my peace of mind be that oh....

Person when deh plan my daily clothings, feeding time table... Office taskbook?

Wetin una deh date when deh make una hate marriage?

Maybe she is very humble and does not argue with you when she is wrong. According to men, disrespect is one of the turnoff in women.

israelmao:
At the root of this is inability to be accommodating and take responsibilities.In addition,fear acquired from many collapsed marriages.

It's just the fear of losing the things you love, value and enjoy just because you want to settle down with someone, for the rest of your life.
I think we need to look at restructuring marriage in order to make it more enjoyable (to both partners). Perhaps the partners involved should carefully consider what works for them rather than blindly and invariably following marital norms and traditions

Ginomel:
Maybe she is very humble and does not argue with you when she is wrong. According to men, disrespect is one of the turnoff in women.

Yes she is and very loving......

JASONjnr:
Nonsense thing.....


Me that's enjoying everything about my wife....... The last time my wife traveled I was happy but that happiness lasted for just minutes then I started missing her....I was tempted to travel to meet with her... Omo na my peace of mind be that oh....

Person when deh plan my daily clothings, feeding time table... Office taskbook?

Wetin una deh date when deh make una hate marriage?

Hope u can survive it if something totally unexpected makes her unavailable for quite a long time?

He is definitely has a point.

Why was he naked to make the video? Stupid boy even though I don't like and can't spend 24/7 hours with any garden woman too.....can't just endure it....i love my space and time alone sometimes.....but this boy is a nonsense bingo shedding clothes to make an ordinary video......

WatchYourSix:
If u are not very light skinned , I don’t see the point of having tattoos……

. It always looking weird …

Mrexcell:
Hope u can survive it if something totally unexpected makes her unavailable for quite a long time?

Baba, except it's financially beneficial.... Anything else will not work.... We will go together biko.

Eba50:
the guy is still responsible. he just wants a kid to raise, not a wife. even most married men today actually dont want marriage. na pikin then want know this, u know peace

The responsibility for a normal nigerian marriage is quite very huge from catering for the home to taking care of ur wife plus taking care of ur wife immediate family members it's not an easy task for a broke guy.

JASONjnr:
Yes she is and very loving......

Please love and take care of her. She deserves it.

Sonnobax15:

Only an introvert like myself can understand this man.

Most times, I just love being alone and it has saved me from lots of troubles. Not that I'm a boring person but the idea of being with one person day-to-day isn't really my thing.

While to me if I am away for few hours I can't wait to get into the arms of my wife.

You haven't really meet someone you truly love and she truly loves you in return.

Ginomel:
Please love and take care of her. She deserves it.

👍👍

In anything youre doing don't date broke Nigeria girl's

JASONjnr:
Baba, except it's financially beneficial.... Anything else will not work.... We will go together biko.

That's mentally and spiritually very dangerous seen a couple of old men and women who couldn't even survive a month after the death of their partner.

As a serial womanizer

Sticking it down the same hole every gaddam time is not my portion


Variety is the spice of life

JASONjnr:
Nonsense thing.....


Me that's enjoying everything about my wife....... The last time my wife traveled I was happy but that happiness lasted for just minutes then I started missing her....I was tempted to travel to meet with her... Omo na my peace of mind be that oh....

Person when deh plan my daily clothings, feeding time table... Office taskbook?

Wetin una deh date when deh make una hate marriage?

@ bold:

Sonnobax15:

Only an introvert like myself can understand this man.

Most times, I just love being alone and it has saved me from lots of troubles. Not that I'm a boring person but the idea of being with one person day-to-day isn't really my thing.

There is still hope.....
No matter what narratives put out there, except the majority stop eating food and drinking water and with their mouths......
A husband before father, a wife before mother was how order was made for that most important unit called Family.
As long as there is freewill
We gonna be aiight

One of the major things that have to make you live with your partner under the same roof is raising the kids together.

Immaturity.... When you get older, you will learn. What old age brings most time is that we become addicted to repetition and change is difficult. So you become so used to one person that it becomes unimaginable and weird to have the company of another. We become used to the boring and it's enough.

Supported 💯

I wish everyday that I don't live in the same city with my wife.
Let's just meet once in a while.

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140011296]

"It’s get boring, it’s get tiring to be sharing the same space with your partner everyday" - Man shares one of the reasons he doesn't like the idea of marriage. pic.twitter.com/wMok1kvavJ

— YabaLeftOnline (@yabaleftonline) July 12, 2026

it comes to Marriage bro
It is your old age you should consider most cause when there is nobody around to do few things for you, that is when you will understand what you did to yourself . I like my space like mad but seeing my dad and mum at their advanced stage I understood why that union is essential. GOD alone knows why such was orchestrated from the very debut.

Sonnobax15:

Only an introvert like myself can understand this man.

Most times, I just love being alone and it has saved me from lots of troubles. Not that I'm a boring person but the idea of being with one person day-to-day isn't really my thing.

with the way you take dey yarn things for this forum eh, bros you no be any introvert at all

motymop:
Most men when young thought like this until they met the woman they wanna marry

Then they themselves became clingy

Why you wan burst their bubble nau? Leave them make dem continue dey whyne themselves.

Somebody up there said he can't spend more than 2 days with a lady. Maybe he thinks we're talking about those "smash & go kinda lady". E get the kind lady wey you go meet, you'll always want to be with her.

Me wey be sey my wife na my amebo partner, my adviser, my tormentor in chief, banker, chef and ......... *ehm*

Aside playing video games, nothing separates us. Even when I hang out with my guys, most times we still end up talking about our wives.

Okay, he is young; I see
When he is old, he will reconsider or regret his actions

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140011296]

"It’s get boring, it’s get tiring to be sharing the same space with your partner everyday" - Man shares one of the reasons he doesn't like the idea of marriage. pic.twitter.com/wMok1kvavJ

— YabaLeftOnline (@yabaleftonline) July 12, 2026

your lonliness

Some humans aint wired like that...Depression is one of the product of lonliness

You will understand what he is saying when you find yourself married to a nagging woman

Even the bible said it is better to live in the top of the roof alone than with a nagging wife

relationships are better when partners missed themselves once in a while

Na for hold age you go feel am, but if you get good wife, you go enjoy old age

ekukeku:
It's sweet when u have money & control over ur marriage

But just broke first

You are right, tough times reveal the true character of most women, majority of them are manipulators and users having a plan before saying yes to the man. Once sapa enter, the fake love will show

I'm a very busy man, always out there hustling, but I always look forward to being with my family after all the stress of the day. My wife has a way of making me feel good whenever I'm tired. I love coming home to her always.