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His stinginess caused him this public disgrace and possible jail terms. Just settle the girl well, she would have still come to open her legs willingly for him.

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Omoawoke:
All shades of wrong


You all gone cracked in this country

Chai!!

Damn it motherrrfkerr

I’m so pissed off

How do I unsee this misery… sore to the eyes and irritating my thought process



Forcefully sir!

She said forcefully !!!

That’s rapppee

And I’d say again, taking advantage of a girls vulnerability even if force is not used, it’s still rape!

For instance , a girl is desperately in need of funds to sort out emergency situations like rent, medical bills, food, school fees and a man told her he would give her the money on condition of sex.. and the girl did it out of pressure, that’s still rape even if they both go to hotel to do it..

I think the law should be able to protect people who are exploited for sex even though no physical force was used

Pootle:
i tire for this country, why even follow a man into an enclosed place a hotel room for that matter. this generation get as e b

She don make people get different perspective about supporting her initial claims

Girl wey sell virginity and expected to get more Naim we dey waste our time they talk about, have you not seen out of her videos where she was auctioning herself

bluejay05:
A lot of people walking around in this country are just !diots and evil, no wonder we have terrible government because most of Nigerians are terrible people.

I saw where someone said " it a case of transaction gone wrong, and the guy should present this chat in the court, he has a case" . May God pun!sh that hand you used to type that rubbish!

All of you saying the girl went to his place for runs are clueless. Let's assume the girl went there for runs, but when they were about to start she said no, did the guy stop? The answer is NO, at least from the chat, the girl claimed he forcefully penetrated her and took her virginity and the guy did not deny any of that allegations from this chat.

Even in countries like the Netherlands where prostitution is legal, when you take a prostitute, pay her and she gets to where you are about to have sex with her, then she says no, you must stop. The highest you could do is to demand for a refund, if you force yourself on her , it will be considered RAPE, regardless of you both had an agreement or not.

Let's look at it from this angle, this girl is 20 years and the guy is 40 years or so. It means the guy is old enough to give birth to her, as a guy with OT , if things like this happens , you have to pamper the girl instead of threatening her. You should know that if this guy out, people will support her. You are way older than her and she's a girl, the odds are already against you.

I believe this wasn't the guy's first time, God just want to punish him for all his evils acts.

Don't mind the nonsense some people are saying. There was a time a prostitute sue a client for releasing inside her that it was not part of their agreement talk more of penetration without consent which is rape. Him go chill for prison small, funny enough he couldn't give the girl 50k but he's now ready to give everything to her her family for them to forgive him and drop charges 😂😂

Kobojunkie:
. Because she already had intentions to sell it to the highest bidder, is it OK that the man who did not want to pay forcefully took it from her?

Lolz @Kobojunkie, I am not in a way supporting what the man did. Infact the man is senseless and stingy. The girl was there for the taking if he had played his part by treating that girl very well.
What he did to the girl was wrong in all ramifications, but he had the second chance to have pay the girl well and even pampered her, and the girl would have been submitting her couchie on a platter.
He tried to play smart, but it has gotten him in a big shit

It's unfortunate she committed suicide, but should the Asaba guy really be held responsible?

Eleph:
This guy don buy market.
Definitely, he must have been doing it for a long time with other minors.

The girl was 21, she's not a minor

Omo eh, only God knows what this country is turning into ooh... So she don even ready to sell her virginity for money sef, na wa Ooh...🤦🏻‍♂️

Honestly there is no sign of rape here, this is a girl that was tallk into given out her virginity for a price that was not negotiated and she got disappointed because the amount she got was not what she expected.

MaziObinnaokija:
I watched the goat Crawling/begging . Wetin he supposed do b4 them escalate nit.U fork person,threatened her,give her 10k/tell her to go to HELL . This is pure WICKEDNESS .

Over to 9ja police/judge to do the needful

I swear to God, the guy fumble. See couchie wey him for still dey chop by now if to say him play him cards well.
The girl is already desperate for money, pamper her with it and watch her submit her couchie willingly anytime he wants it.

If this guy is a real odogwu this is a small case as there is transaction gone wrong rape is ruled out. The girl was expecting more money

All these things self they make person fear to born female Pikin. Haaa omo. Why is everyone crazy about sex Imagine the girl also saying if she had traveled to Abuja in this Bandit regime wey them fit kidnap you.

I blame everything on poverty, Virginity these days should even cost a fortune i swear takless of trading it for 50k.

This just got me really crazy and it real spoilt my mood this afternoon.

And that worthless Asaba abi wetin you call yourself, you chop person virginity even if na to sell one-off your properties to raise 50k you no fit and you are advising yourself as a successful content creator.

ASABA e no go better for you ooooooooooooo

Eleph:
This guy don buy market.
Definitely, he must have been doing it for a long time with other minors.

"Minors"?

20-year-old? You'll allow the painful lessons these young girls should learn from this sad incident to be lost.

kingthreat:
In other words, he made her feel like faeces.
How can you force sex on a girl and still not give a damn about her?
He must have been doing a lot of heartless things and got away with it. She was his waterloo.

Money negotiated before or after the sex/force sex happened? Please can explain when the negotiation happen will determine if its really rape or not.

Macphenson:
The girl committed suicide because she felt her long guarded virginity was lost for just #10k.

This guy messed up. He would have pampered this girl considering she was disvirgend by him. He was supposed to have spoilt that girl with gifts and funds. He is too stingy. After forcefully disvirgining a girl, you give her just 10k, haba, instead of telling her love stories you are threatening her. She was even regretting not going to aAbuja to give it to that man as he would have paid her nothing less than 50k.

If she had valued her virginity, will she had given it out for money? How much is 10k or 50k. She seriously lacked proper home training.

Borrow2222:
If the chart is true, the guy should present it in court.

Looks to me like a deal gone wrong.

She is angry because he didn't pay her a reasonable amount.

Once money is involved, the issue of rape might be ruled out.

It's now a normal transaction with a runs girl.

Dont forger that according to this chat, he committed rape. According to Nigerian Criminal Code, rape attracts life sentence. That alone has finished him.

cr7lomo:
If he gets a good lawyer ...he will be acquitted... having forceful sex cant determine that rape occurred... she said with her mouth that he tried to enter her but it was difficult cos hes a virgin meaning she allowed him to try.... virgins are usually tight ... then he used force to enter....that dont mean rape

Unfortunately, you'll rather be bashed for this, even though this is closer to what likely transpired.

Emotions don't win cases, but facts.

Kajaard:
The guy should rot in jail.

I am just imagining this was my younger sister this happened to, I could actually kill the guy. I hate men like this.

You'd better keep talking sense into your younger sister's head, not to visit strange men in secluded places. Prevention is better than this yapping.

I no wan talk since make keyboard warriors no nail me to cross. What the guy did was not alright. But the girl herself This generation is gone, especially our so called gen z girls.

Borrow2222:
If the chart is true, the guy should present it in court.

Looks to me like a deal gone wrong.

She is angry because he didn't pay her a reasonable amount.

Once money is involved, the issue of rape might be ruled out.

It's now a normal transaction with a runs girl.

Alex80s:
Law doesn't work that way, what they will be looking for is consent. That guy is an idiot.

And what's the proof that there was no consent, when she allegedly was already telling him before the visit that she was a virgin? Isn't this a likely pointer to the fact that they might have agreed to copulation beforehand?

Macphenson:
The girl committed suicide because she felt her long guarded virginity was lost for just #10k.

This guy messed up. He would have pampered this girl considering she was disvirgend by him. He was supposed to have spoilt that girl with gifts and funds. He is too stingy. After forcefully disvirgining a girl, you give her just 10k, haba, instead of telling her love stories you are threatening her. She was even regretting not going to aAbuja to give it to that man as he would have paid her nothing less than 50k.

Do you really believed that?

This girl's story is one of the most heartbreaking stories I've read this year.
So naive.
So sad.
😢

Omoawoke:
The worst set of humans , in the same category with arm robbers are those ones who take advantage of a girl’s desperate moment to push her to sex for money…

For example, a girl who is almost homeless or whose sibling is sick at hospital and needs emergency fund to rescue the situation and a man knows this and tell her he would give her the money on condition of sex… such man is evil and a demon

How many girls in need have you shared your help to?

Abi your concubines you mentioned yourself didn't need help before you took advantage of their situation and made them concubines?

BadEnglish:
That chat is incriminating on its own, abi you know see where she stated that my virginity you forcefully took is 10k? And he didnt deny. So where is the consent in a forced sxxx

But in her words thru the video we watched. She said when the guy tries to enter her it wasn't possible and she reminded him she told him she was a virgin. Meaning she could have wanted him to enter willingly, but it came out he has to enter her forcefully but from her own consent. Just stating my opinion from what she said in her video

cr7lomo:
If he gets a good lawyer ...he will be acquitted... having forceful sex cant determine that rape occurred... she said with her mouth that he tried to enter her but it was difficult cos hes a virgin meaning she allowed him to try.... virgins are usually tight ... then he used force to enter....that dont mean rape

Your point is very valid.

Omoawoke:
I insist that such a man who takes advantage of a girls desperate moment is a rappist… a demon , low class, no honor…

Take it to the bank…

We keep justifying evil behaviors …

If a girl is in desperation… probably looking for emergency fund to pay hospital bill to save her love one, or about to become homeless and a man sleep with her to exchange money… then he’s the real demon from hell

Stop spamming the thread with this weak narrative. Would you approve of your wife or daughter going to seek help from some strange man in a secluded place?

amstamon:
With your response , it's obviously fabricated
Sha try dey control your emotions

Stop projecting yourself on others with your warped mentality. The leaked chats were posted by Israel Joe, who has been helping the family with the case. Ignorant people like you will just come online to embarrass yourselves.

Kalulu44:
She don make people get different perspective about supporting her initial claims

meaning after the guy chop hold her if to say he give her like 100k we for no hear this story and she go still dey alive

Bluearrow:
What about the forcefully took her virginity in the chat? Forcefully & consent don't work together.

Is there any virgin that you will enter peacefully if not forcefully.
In her video, she said when the guy tries to enter it wasn't possible. She then reminded him she's a virgin. Meaning she could have wanted it but just that it will have to be forcefully penetrated not as rape but as her consent.
I have encountered such myself

friday2011:
In the eyes of the law, you have a very solid point, with a good lawyer, he will walk free.

But bringing humanity and compassion to the matter, I feel the guy should have done better, pamper her, confess love to her, let her see that you love her, but stingyness wey dey in blood, no let am see road.

I swear that stinginess na im spoil everything. Girl wey be say if him pamper her well, him for still dey chop her couchie by now

Kobojunkie:
The transactionality of the exchange does not change the forceful aspect of what took place. She did not consent to what happened, and that is the utmost.

What if I told you she may have consented to it been done in a forceful way.
I once went thru such incident.
In my case, she wanted it but doesn't want to feel the pains as she has heard from her peers who have done it.
Guess what she told me to do.
That I should drug her with anything so she won't feel the pain.
I have shared the story here